Reasons Why Women Reject Men (“Why do girls reject me?” – Answered) Trying to figure out why a girl rejects you can be difficult. The reasons men get rejected aren’t always obvious until you know there secrets. Thankfully once you know why you get rejected you are on your way to knowing how to avoid rejection forever! Understanding the reasons girls reject guys are the key to overcoming rejection. If you’ve been asking “why do women reject me?” then this video is just for you. Ready? Let’s dive in to Reasons Why Women Reject Men (“Why do Girls Reject Me?” – ANSWERED)
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Reasons Why Women Reject Men
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about the reasons why women reject men. If you’ve been asking “why do girls reject me?” then the answers are in this article.
The first step to knowing how to avoid rejection forever is knowing why you’re being rejected in the first place. You can’t really fix a problem if you’re not sure what the problem is, right?
It’s kind of like when you have a leak in the tire. If you don’t know where the leak is coming from you can’t fix it. But as soon as you know where the leak is, where the problem is, then you can fix it.
So after this video, you will know why you get rejected by women so you know what to do about it so you can start fixing it. Sound exciting? Awesome.
Before we dive in if this is your first time here, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on dead-end relationships and learn the skills you need to get your ideal girl.
Let’s dive into the top three reasons why women reject men. Again, if you keep asking yourself “why do girls reject me?” then you’re about to have a lightbulb moment.
Reasons Why Women Reject Men #1: Learn Dating And Relationship Skills
Now our first reason why women reject men is best explained through a story. It’s a story about someone we will call Charlie for privacy reasons.
Now Charlie hadn’t been on a date in an incredibly long time. Several years in fact. But he had noticed this cute gal and she said she’d go out with him and he was so excited.
He was almost 40 and he was really just hoping that this time it would finally work. He dated here and there over the years but nothing had ever lasted long term.
Well, he got ready for this date, super excited, super hopeful this was going to be it, and it totally and completely tanked. And he was heartbroken.
He tried so hard, why did it never work? Why did women always turn him down or why did all of his relationships end in breakups?
And this is when he came to me and I could feel the pain as he was talking to me. He started explaining what happened and I quickly realized what the problem was.
There were some massive mistakes he was making that actually caused women to feel uncomfortable and not want to spend any more time with him.
Now the truth is Charlie is an amazing guy and he’s very competent in so many areas of his life.
He’s good at his job, he’s good with his family, but when it comes to dating and relationships he thought he had really solid dating and relationship skills but the truth is he just didn’t.
And because of these mistakes, he didn’t understand how to talk to her in such a way that would make her feel comfortable and attracted to him and really help her feel good when she was around him.
Charlie didn’t understand how to ask her out, he didn’t know how to interact with her on the date, what to do on the date, how to follow up, all of these things.
He just frankly did not have the dating and relationship skills he needed. And that is why he was almost 40 and kept being turned down, kept being rejected, kept being embarrassed, and kept spending his days alone.
Now the good news is as I mentioned I knew instantly the mistakes he was making but I actually also knew what he needed to do.
All he needed to do was learn those super effective dating and relationship skills and then he wasn’t going to have to worry about being rejected all the time.
Because when you have dating and relationship skills you get the girl. That’s just how it works.
So the first reason why women reject men is if they just frankly don’t have dating and relationship skills.
It’s not because she’s trying to be mean it’s because she feels uncomfortable, the attraction isn’t there, and she’s just going to move on and she’s going to find somebody else who does have those skills.
Now if you would like to learn more about how you can learn those crazy effective dating and relationship skills make sure you watch my free masterclass.
You’re going to learn the three biggest mistakes that keep you single and you’re going to learn why you are not getting your ideal girlfriend and what to do instead to get her.
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So make sure you click this link to sign up for that and watch it. Again, totally free, it’s gonna help you so much. No more rejection guys, no more rejection.
Reasons Why Women Reject Men #2: You’re Attracting Toxic Women
Now our second reason why women reject men, if you find yourself asking a lot “why do girls reject me?“, there’s a really really good chance that you are attracting toxic women.
Toxic women are going to mistreat you all day long. All they really care about is what you can do for them.
And all they really care about is using you to boost their ego, to buy them stuff, to make them look good, whatever it is, all they really care about is using you.
So yes, toxic women will reject you and they will break your heart every time.
I have another quick story for you. A client of mine, he had no problem getting a girlfriend.
He frequently had women think he was incredibly attractive and he would get girlfriends. But just when he started thinking “yes! This is the one, this time it’ll work” and he’d start looking for rings, they’d break his heart.
For seemingly no reason they would completely and totally break his heart. And he couldn’t understand why.
This is when he found me and he enrolled in my paid program How To Get a Girlfriend and he told me he was shocked to learn that he was attracting toxic women.
And all this time he thought it was him. All this time he thought “am I just a loser? What’s wrong with me?“
When in reality he was attracting toxic women. They don’t really care about you they just care about what you can do for them. So yeah, they’ll break your heart at the drop of a hat.
Now thankfully because of my program, he was able to learn the skills he needed to stop attracting those toxic women.
But just realize that if you’re getting rejected a lot there’s a really good chance that you are attracting those toxic women.
Make sure you watch this video (Toxic Girlfriend Signs) and this video (Toxic Women: Why Even Christians Aren’t Safe) if you have not yet.
They will help you so much to be able to identify if you are attracting those toxic women in your life.
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Reasons Why Women Reject Men #3: You’re Not Compatible
Now our next reason why women reject men is actually because you’re just frankly not compatible.
Now I’m a little nervous to say what I’m about to say because it is true but some people take it way too far and way out of context.
To a certain extent, dating is really just a numbers game. It just is.
You have to start going out with someone getting to know them better before you know if you’re compatible.
With that said, some people rely exclusively on the fact that it’s a numbers game and they don’t learn those skills they need.
And at that point, it’s not a numbers game it’s a losing game. There is no way to win if you don’t have those relationship skills that I’ve mentioned.
So you don’t want to take it too far. But with that being said you just have to get to know several people. Very few people end up with the first person they become interested in.
And so to a large extent it’s kind of normal to get to know someone and realize maybe this isn’t going to work. That is normal.
Now with that being said, there are things you can do to reduce that and make that happen nowhere near as much.
For instance, this is why if you’ve watched my masterclass you know this, one of the first things I teach my paid clients is you’ve got to create clarity.
You need to really know what it is you want. And when you do that you save yourself so much time.
You save this time because you are better able to identify if you’re compatible before you even get to know her. It’s going to save you a lot of heartbreak, right?
This is the power of creating that clarity. So if you haven’t yet watched my masterclass make sure you click here to sign up.
Seriously this is the fastest and easiest way to get your dream girl so make sure you give it a watch.
The bottom line with this is that sometimes you’re just not compatible and that’s normal.
And it’s key to not take that personally but also learn the dating and relationship skills you need and create that clarity so that you don’t run into this problem anywhere near as often. Make sense?
So now you know that the main reasons why women reject men are:
- You don’t have the dating and relationship skills you need. Seriously as a coach this is something I see so frequently. If you find yourself rejected this is something you need to address.
- You’re attracting toxic women. They are going to use you, they’re going to abuse you, and you’re going to feel terrible. You will find yourself rejected frequently.
- You are just not compatible. This does happen but there are things you can do to reduce that if not remove that from even happening.
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