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How To Pursue Women The Right Way
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article on things that guys do that girls love. Specifically, how to pursue women the right way.
I’m gonna let you in on a secret: Knowing how to pursue women the right way is one of the very most attractive things you can do.
As long as we’re talking about high-quality women. Sometimes it makes toxic women mad, but you really don’t want to be attracting them anyway, right?
Are you ever in the friend zone, or do your relationships just not really seem to go anywhere? Or do you ever find that the gal you’re interested in finds someone else?
If any of that sounds like you, then pursuing is something you need to learn how to do, like right now.
In this article, you’re going to learn some of the biggest mistakes men make when they pursue that end up getting them rejected.
You’ll also learn what to do instead, and some good examples of what it actually looks like to pursue a woman the right way. Does that sound good? Be sure you read to the end.
Now before we dive in, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you the skills you need to attract the girl of your dreams and the relationship of your dreams instead of those bad dead-end relationships.
Not only do you get a woman’s perspective, but I’m also a certified coach, which means what I teach you is based on science and research, not mind games.
Why Pursuing A Woman Is Critical
Now you may have seen this video (The Difference Between Chasing And Pursuing Women), or maybe even this video (This Makes A Woman Think About You Non-Stop), on pursuing.
And if you have, by now, you already know that pursuing is really attractive to women. Like really attractive.
Pursuing is one of the things that make her see you as a man. It makes her see you as confident, she feels safe when she’s with you, and she thinks you’re super hot. Pursuing really just lights her heart on fire.
Now I’m gonna mention this one more time just because I know I’m going to get comments on this. If you’re not seeing this in women, it’s probably because they’re toxic.
You have to ask yourself what the type of woman you’re trying to attract is and use the skills that will get that type of woman.
High-quality women, real women, the kind of woman who wants to spend her entire life loving you, yeah, she wants to be pursued.
Now you might be thinking, “okay, Melannie, but I’ve pursued in the past, and it did not go well.” Is that what you’re thinking right now? That’s why I wanted to talk about the biggest mistakes when you pursue a woman.
Because if you know the mistakes you’re making, if you know what you’re doing wrong, that’s how you know what to do right so you can avoid that rejection.
Because the truth is it’s painful when you finally work up the courage to pursue her, and it goes badly, right? That’s not what you want, that’s not what I want for you, so pay very close attention.
How Do You Pursue The Right Way?
When you pursue a woman, you need to look at the big picture. It’s so much more than just asking her out or just getting her number.
It really comes down to what your body language is and what you say when you get her number so that conversation is easy and fun and light and does not make her feel awkward.
How do you flirt with her? Do you know how to flirt with her in a way that makes her feel comfortable and attracted to you? It’s so much more than just asking for her number.
Does that make sense? It’s a big picture instead of the little picture. Those dating basics are key, like your body language and what you say to her.
When you have those dating basics, when you know them, that’s what makes pursuing fun. That’s what makes it so that you don’t have to worry about being rejected.
Instead, you attract her and impress her easily. That’s how you get the girl fast and easy without all that ghosting and rejection.
This is why I tell you all the time you have to have the right skills, and you have to have the right game plan, right? That’s why I love teaching this in my program, is because it’s so effective.
Are You Pursuing The Wrong Way?
Let’s say you don’t look at the big picture and your body language is awkward, or you don’t know what to say to her, or flirting doesn’t go the way you wanted it to because you don’t know how to flirt the right way.
That’s what makes you needy, aggressive, awkward, and uncomfortable. And that is what gets you rejected.
So what’s the solution? How do you make sure you don’t make that mistake? How do you make sure you don’t keep getting rejected?
You look at the big picture, you learn those dating basics, those dating and relationship skills, and you apply them with your game plan.
I’m about to give you some examples of how to pursue women the right way, and you must have a game plan so that you know what you’re doing. Otherwise, it’s going to end in total disaster.
If you would like my help with that game plan, I have it all made up for you. Be sure to watch my free masterclass. You’re going to learn more about these skills and game plan in that masterclass.
Maybe you are in the friend zone a lot, or you get rejected a lot, or your relationships just don’t go anywhere no matter how hard you try.
In my free masterclass, you’re going to learn why that happens and what to do instead. So do make sure you give it a watch.
How To Pursue A Woman – Example #1: Ask For Her Number
Now that you know what causes you to be rejected when you pursue and to instead learn those dating basics and that game plan let’s move on to some examples of what it looks like to pursue.
I’m just gonna say this one more time: When it comes to things you do that girls love, yeah, pursuing is at the top of the list. It’s so attractive.
Now one example of pursuing her is to ask for her number. Guys, promise me now, write it in the comments, never give her your number. Always ask her for hers.
And again, if you’re not entirely sure how to say that to her, that’s where learning dating basics come in.
Just know that if you give her your number, she feels awkward. And frankly, she sees you as weak and not confident. She feels dumb, and she certainly doesn’t feel attracted to you.
She certainly doesn’t feel pursued and doesn’t feel that fire light up when there’s a confident, attractive man. So giving her your number is a definite no. Always make sure you ask her for hers. And then you follow up.
I’m serious guys, please, in the comments, promise me you will never give a girl your number, okay? Please. Comment, “I promise!” down below.
And while you’re there, have you ever tried to pursue a woman, and it hasn’t gone well, or do you have any questions about pursuing? Please tell me in the comments. I love to hear from you!
How To Pursue A Woman – Example #2: Flirting The Right Way
All right, let’s get back to talking about things guys do the girls love. Another fabulous example of pursuing her the right way is flirting with her. Flirting is super cute. Not to mention super fun.
If she does not know that you are interested in her, she will move on. She just will. A woman has no other option. If she thinks you’re not interested, she’s going to find someone who is.
When done right, flirting shows her you are interested in her, you are attracted to her, and you want to get to know her better, but not in a “just friends” way, in like a date kind of way.
Flirting is one of my favorite things to teach because it is so powerful. You need to let her know that you think she’s cute and you would like to get to know her better.
Do not hide the fact that you are interested unless you want to end up in the friend zone. Not a fun place to be, is it?
Do make sure you also watch this video (How To Not Get Friendzoned) if you are struggling with the friend zone. Not a fun place to be, and flirting and pursuing, in general, is a great way to avoid that.
How To Pursue A Woman – Example #3: Lead The Relationship
My next example on how to pursue and things guys do the girls love is to make sure you lead out in the relationship.
Do you want her to see you as a man and as confident and like you have a lot of self-respect? Then you need to make sure you are taking the initiative to lead out.
That includes things like paying for the date, asking her out. Also, letting her know you have feelings for her at the appropriate time. You obviously don’t want to tell her too soon, or you’re going to freak her out.
But when you lead out in a relationship like that, that shows that you have a lot of self-respect, you have a lot of confidence in yourself. And that’s what makes her see you as masculine.
Pursuing and leading the relationship is what helps her see, “wow, this man would be a good partner.” That’s what makes her attracted to you because she sees you as a confident, attractive man.
How To Pursue Women The Right Way – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you have learned so far. The reason so many awesome guys get rejected when they pursue a woman is that, frankly, they don’t know what they’re doing. They don’t have those dating basics.
You have to look at pursuing as a big picture. It’s so much more than just a cheesy pickup line. So the solution is to get those dating basics and to have a game plan of how you are going to use those skills.
If you would like my help with that, do make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more about how you can learn those skills and that game plan.
Next, we talked about some examples of pursuing her and what that even looks like.
The first example is to ask for her number. Never, ever, ever, give her your number.
Also, you want to make sure you flirt with her. Do not hide that you are interested in her unless you want to end up in the friend zone.
As long as you have those dating basics flirting with her is very easy, very natural, and does not creep her out.
And make sure that you lead out in the relationship, that you show initiative in the relationship. You ask her out, and you let her know you have feelings for her.
That is how you show her that you are a man, you are a leader, you are confident, and you are attractive.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments.
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