7 Best Conversation Starters (What To Say To Women!) Okay, you see a gorgeous gal and you want to attract her… but what do you say? If you are going to impress, charm, and attract her, you need to know what to say to a girl. 💡
Having a list of best conversation starters with girls is a life saver! If you are looking for best conversation starters with your crush, best conversation starters with girls over text, or even best conversation starters for online dating or dating apps, you are in the right place.
You are going to learn what to say to a girl you like so you can attract her easily. ✅ Want to know what to say to a girl when you approach her? These best conversation starters work for that too. Now you’ll know what to say to a girl to get her attention.
Can you imagine what a relief that will be?! 👉 Let’s get started then with 7 Best Conversation Starters (What to Say to a Girl to Attract Her)!
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7 Best Conversation Starters (What To Say To Women!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 7 best conversation starters (what to say to women!)
Have you ever been with someone cute, and you have no idea what to say? 🤔
This happens in person, this happens online or dating apps, or when you’re texting her, and you just freeze up, and you have no idea what to say. It’s painful, right?
Instead, you want to know how to attract her and charm her. This is where having a very effective conversation starter is so powerful and helpful.
Today I will be sharing with you some of the best conversation starters. And the one I’m sharing with you at the very end is one of the very most powerful so make sure you pay close attention to that one.
👉 And again, these work in person, when you’re texting, or when you’re doing online dating/dating apps. Now you will be able to relax, attract her, charm her, and have a lot of fun.
Before we dive in if this your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams. As a certified coach, I never teach you relationship mind games, only science-based facts.
Okay, you are chatting with this really gorgeous girl, but you need to know what to say. Because you don’t want it to be awkward, you don’t want it to be creepy.
Instead, you want talking with her to be fun and relaxing, and you want to really attract her, right? ✅
What most people don’t know is what you do beforehand to make sure you’re in the right mindset is just as important as what to say.
So before I share these conversation starters, let’s talk about getting you in the right mindset so you can be successful when you use these conversation starters.
Sound good? There is a saying, “If you are prepared, you will not fear.” And that’s what this is all about. You want to make sure you’re in the right mindset.
Mindset Tip #1 – Keep The Dating Process In Perspective
Something I teach my clients in my program is being afraid of rejection is normal, okay? It just is. You would not be human if you were not afraid of rejection at some point in your life. 👈
However, you must approach relationships with the right mindset so that you come across confident, relaxed, and so that she can be relaxed, and this can be really fun.
Make sure that long before you’re in this situation, you know how to handle that fear of rejection, and instead handle this like a boss.
Mindset Tip #2 – A Confident Mindset Is Attractive
Another thing you want is to make sure your mindset is confident.
If you feel super nervous or super needy or a little bit awkward, that’s going to come through to her. She’s going to feel that way too, and it’s not going to go well. That’s not going to attract her.
So instead, you want to come from that confident mindset. Now one way I teach my clients to do this is to dress to empower. ✅
You’ve probably heard, “Dress to impress” or “Dress for success.” My favorite thing is, “Dress to empower.“
When you know you look hot, you feel hot, and you know that she knows it as well.
This is even true if you’re just texting her or chatting online. Even though she can’t necessarily see you at the moment, it’s going to affect how you feel about yourself, and that’s going to affect how you chat with her. 💡
So it’s critical to make sure you’re keeping up those habits that make you feel confident.
For some other simple ways to be attractive and confident, make sure you watch this video (How To Attract Women), and this video (7 Behaviors That Make You Attractive To Women).
Mindset Tip #3 – Confident Body Language Is Key
And the last tip I’m going to mention to help you with that mindset is to make sure your body language is confident. 💪
If you’re trying to talk to her and your body language is really nervous, it’s going to make her feel nervous, and it’s going to make you feel nervous, and you don’t deserve that.
Instead, if your body language is confident and masculine, you are going to feel that way, she is going to see you that way, and that is going to increase her attraction for you.
So does this make sense? If you’re in the right mindset and have a game plan before you even start talking to her, that sets you up for success so that when you use these conversation starters, it goes very well.
Now that you understand the right mindset and kind of have a game plan for how to do that, I have a surprise for you. 👇
In my program, my clients get access to a resource, 54 Best Conversation Starters. But as a special surprise for you today, I’m going to share 7 of them with you.
That’s pretty exciting, right? Let’s dive in with the first one!
Conversation Starter #1
The first is you can just ask her, “What gets you really excited and happy?“
This is a fabulous conversation starter because if you’re talking about things that make her excited and happy, she’s going to feel excited and happy. 😀
Something I teach my clients, something I say here on YouTube all the time, is that people like people who make them feel good.
And so if she feels happy and excited when she’s talking to you that is definitely going to attract her to you.
Conversation Starter #2
Another one of the best conversation starters is, “What do you do when you have downtime?“
This is really going to give you an insight into who she is as a person. And if you’re thinking about maybe asking her out, it’s helpful to know who she is and what she enjoys doing.
And again, because this is something that she enjoys, she’s going to enjoy talking to you about it. She’s going to be more attracted to you and feel more relaxed.
Conversation Starter #3
Another one of the best conversation starters is, “Do you have pets?” If you are a pet owner, you understand this. 🐕
🐈 Every pet owner likes to talk about their pets so this is definitely going to be something she’s going to enjoy talking about.
Are you seeing how these conversation starters are simple and easy, but also help her feel connected to you and relaxed? They’re fun and enjoyable.
The Right Game Plan Makes All The Difference
Now, something else you need to remember is just like we talked about a game plan to get you in the right mindset so that these conversation starters work, you need a game plan for what you’re going to do next. 💡
How are you going to move forward? What is your goal? Do you want to ask her out? And do you want to chat with her more? What is it that you’re trying to accomplish?
Something I teach my clients in my program is to master small talk. That way, you can literally come up with something to say no matter where you are or what you are doing and keep the conversation going very naturally.
That’s an important part of your game plan. Some other things I teach them is how to get her number and how to ask her out.
These things need to make up your game plan so that you don’t just have a really nice conversation, you instead attract her and can ask her out and pursue her in the right way. 👉 That is the kind of game plan you need.
To learn more about my program so that you can get access to all of this information I share, make sure to watch my free masterclass.
You’re going to learn about the same strategies I teach my paid clients in my program. So if you want to attract her easily and have access to incredible resources, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
Conversation Starter #4
Okay, another one of the best conversation starters is, “Are you currently working on any fun projects?” The word fun is critical in this sentence because it leaves it on a positive note.
Sometimes when we say, “Are you working on any projects,” it can be, “Oh yeah, I have this project at work, and it’s exhausting.” You don’t want that.
Instead, you want to keep the conversation really light and fun, so asking her if she’s working on any fun projects puts it off on a good note. ✅
This is another question that really helps you know who she is and what she enjoys doing.
Because she may tell you about a project at work, or she may tell you about a hobby or something else she’s doing, which again helps you know, “This is the type of person she is. Would we be compatible?“
Conversation Starter #5
Another one of the best conversation starters is, “What do you wish you have more time for?“
This one is kind of a bonus because if you’re thinking you want to ask her out and she tells you something she enjoys doing, now you have a good idea of what you can do on a date. 👈
So make sure you pay close attention to her response to this.
These are fun questions, right? They’re the types of questions anyone would like to answer and would really enjoy talking to people about.
Speaking of which, I’m curious. I want to hear your answers. What do you wish you had more time to do? Tell me about it in the comments. I would love to hear. 💬
Also, while you’re in the comments, I’m thinking about doing a video on what to say to women with some specific examples of what women love to hear.
If you are interested in a video like that, let me know in the comments. Just comment “talking,” and I’ll be sure to make that for you.
Conversation Starter #6
Okay, another one of the best conversation starters is, “What would you like to be famous for?“
💡 This one is going to give you some real insight into who she is as a person.
Plus, it’s really just kind of a fun thing to think about, right? “If I was famous, what would I want to be famous for?“
Conversation Starter #7
Okay, I’m about to share with you one of the most powerful conversation starters. And it is, “What’s your story?“
Something I teach my clients in my program, is that if you want to be an enjoyable person to talk to, talk in stories.
As humans, we are drawn to stories. Stories are so fascinating to us. And so if you can talk to people in stories, they’re going to enjoy spending time with you. ✅
The same is true with asking them about their story. It makes them feel like you actually care about them, and it makes them feel connected to you.
If you watched this video (Sign She Likes You), you learned that women pursue men. It looks different than how men pursue women, but they do pursue men.
And if she’s interested in you, one of the ways she will do that is by keeping the conversation going, right?
👉 This means she’s going to love telling you her story and answering these questions for you if she’s interested in you because she wants to spend more time with you.
Just asking her, “What’s your story?” opens up a whole world of possible things you can talk about and extends the conversation a long time.
Plus, it really impresses her because not very many people say that. So it sounds confident, it sounds classy, and it’s very attractive to her. 🔥
7 Best Conversation Starters (What To Say To Women!) – What’s Next?
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