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The One Thing That Will Make Girls Find You Irresistible!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on the one thing that will make girls find you irresistible. And let me just say, this will shock you. It’s not what you think it is. 😏
We’re talking about the most important thing you can do to be irresistible to women and ultimately make them want a lifelong relationship with you.
If you could only focus on just one thing, this is the thing I would tell you to focus on.
The best part is, this has nothing to do with mind games or pretending to be someone you’re not. Because mind games don’t work. They’re a terrible strategy.
I teach you real skills that help you reach your relationship goals and have the love of your life forever.
➡️ So, if you are looking for a happy, loving relationship with a beautiful woman, make sure you stay with me until the end of this article.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to find, attract, and keep the love of your life.
If you want to know how to turn her head, melt her heart, and make her desire a lifelong relationship with you, you’re in the right place.
As we get started, I’m going to mention two other videos that will also help you so much with this.
Seriously, those videos will help you breathe a sigh of relief and make you feel amazing.
What Makes Women Irresistible To You?
Okay, let’s talk about the one thing that will make girls find you irresistible. Let’s start with a scenario. There are two women, and you get to decide which one you want to go out with. 👇
Gal number one is cute, but she doesn’t know how to show it. She doesn’t really know how to take care of herself.
She doesn’t know how to do her hair or how to dress. So she kind of hides how cute she is, and it makes you feel a little bit awkward. Her appearance comes across as a little less than cute, a little bit awkward.
She doesn’t have a lot of confidence, which makes her come across as needy and stressful to be around. She drains the energy out of you a little bit.
She’s a good person, but she doesn’t have a lot of ambition, she’s not very interesting to be around, and you don’t feel uplifted or excited when you’re around her.
She hasn’t learned how to be attractive, so she thinks, “this just must be as good as it gets.” And she’s kind of settled on herself. 😬
She’s not proactive about her life, and you don’t feel particularly attracted to her or excited or encouraged when you’re around her. That’s gal number one.
Now let’s talk about gal number two. Gal number two is cute too. However, she’s learned how to use her strengths to be as attractive as she can.
She’s learned how to do her hair, how to dress, how to hold herself so that she’s an incredibly attractive person.
She’s human, just like everyone else, so she has her ups and downs. But she tries really hard to be a positive person, to make the most out of every situation, and to build other people up and help other people feel amazing when they’re around her. 😀
She’s a good person too. And every time you see her, you can’t help but smile. She doesn’t have life figured out either, but she’s very proactive about learning, growing, improving, and making herself and the world a better place.
When you’re around her, you feel attracted to her. You feel encouraged, built up, and inspired. She makes you feel amazing.
Men And Women Find The Same Thing Irresistible
Okay, that’s gal number one and gal number two. So now let me ask you something. Which would you rather ask out? Gal number one or gal number two?
Which would you rather date? Gal number one or gal number two? Which would you rather marry? Which would you rather spend your life with? Gal number one or gal number two?
Both women are good people, but only one of them will add to your life, right? 💡 Gal number two, she’ll add to who you are. She’ll make your life amazing.
Where gal number one is kind of gonna force you to settle, right? Life won’t be anywhere near as fulfilling with gal number one as it will with gal number two.
Well, here’s the big secret because this trait I’m about to share with you, the one thing that will make you irresistible to women, this is a common trait that applies to both men and women.
Just like you want this trait in your dream girl, she wants it in her dream man. This is one of those traits that I call Attractive By Default. If you have this trait, you’re by default an incredibly attractive person.
So it applies to both men and women. She wants this in you. Can you guess what it is yet?
The one thing that will make you irresistible to women is to have a growth mindset. ✅ To believe that you can learn and grow and improve. And to have the willingness to do those things.
If you have this one trait, everything else will fall into place. Far too many people focus on other random areas that are good, but they’re not the whole picture.
For instance, many people focus only on physical attraction and become insanely physically attractive. But they don’t have anything else to offer because they haven’t focused on it. And so their relationships fall apart.
Other people focus on just being a really good person. Remember, gal number one was a good person. She really was. But if you don’t focus on other traits, including physical attraction, well, it won’t work because nobody will be attracted to you.
This is why you have to have a growth mindset. You have to have the ability to say, “You know what? I can learn. What I don’t know how to do I can learn, I can improve, I can grow.“
And that’s an exciting thought, right? You don’t have to stay stuck where you are. You don’t have to be like gal number one who thinks, “Well, I don’t know what I’m doing, so I’m just going to stay here.“
Instead, you can be like gal number two and learn, improve, and grow, and you can rock it as you’ve never rocked it before. 🔥
There are three things you need to know about a growth mindset so that you can have it and be irresistible. And I’m sharing those three things with you right now.
Why Do Women Find A Growth Mindset So Irresistible?
The first thing you need to know is why a growth mindset is so insanely attractive.
Just like you’re attracted to gal number two, who has learned how to do her hair and dress right, be charismatic, make people feel good when they’re around her, she’s attracted to a man who’s learned how to do the same.
And just like you wouldn’t be attracted to a woman who thinks, “Well, this is as good as it gets,” and she settles on herself, a woman is not looking for a man who settles on himself, who says, “Well, this is as good as it gets.“
➡️ Instead, she wants someone who says, “You know what? I’m willing to learn. It’s okay if I don’t know how to do it yet. I’m going to learn. I’m going to grow. I’m going to improve.“
A relationship with someone like that is exciting and fun! There are no limits, you can both grow, you can both improve. Can you imagine chasing your dreams with someone your entire life?
Someone with a growth mindset is also always becoming more and more attractive because they are learning how to become more and more attractive.
So a relationship with two people who have a growth mindset is magical. Seriously, can you imagine what it would feel like to spend your life with someone who believes that anything is possible?
That’s the dream, right? That’s what you want. Someone who does not place limits on themselves or your relationship together.
So it’s important to have that mindset shift. And let me just tell you, everybody has had embarrassing, awkward things happen in the past, okay? 💡
Everyone has had to learn these things, so it’s completely normal. But no matter what has happened in your past, you can shift that. You can instead have the success you want and deserve.
The Power Of A Growth Mindset
At this point, I’ve been a coach for years and helped thousands of men across the globe.
And I’ve had men come to me who have felt hopeless, and like maybe a relationship will never happen for them because they have tried and failed and tried and failed. They have gotten their hopes up only to have them crushed over and over again.
However, as they go through my academy and apply what they’re learning, this flips around for them.
That’s when I start getting emails, “Hey, Melannie, I met the girl of my dreams!” ❤️ “Oh my goodness, Melannie, I’m marrying the love of my life!“
It doesn’t matter where they started or what happened in their past, if you’re willing to learn and apply what you learned, everything changes.
By the way, I know I have many new people who have been following me lately. A huge, huge, welcome!
I know many of you have probably never heard about my academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
When you join me in my academy, that’s where you’ll discover the 5 secrets to finding, attracting, and keeping the love of your life forever.
If you’re ready to turn her head, melt her heart, and make her want to love you forever, then the secrets I teach there are exactly what you need to know.
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In this free training, you’ll discover your next steps and how you can quickly skyrocket your love life and finally have the love that you deserve.
So again, do yourself a favor, stop guessing, and just find out what will work. I’m here to share it with you, so watch that masterclass right now.
What Keeps You From Having A Growth Mindset
Okay, next up on our growth mindset, which again is the big thing that will make girls find you irresistible, is the lies that keep people from a growth mindset.
If you’ve struggled to feel like you can learn and improve, that’s normal, okay? So don’t beat yourself up about it. This happens to so many people, especially in our society today.
A lot of people have what is known as a fixed mindset. Rather than a growth mindset, they have a fixed mindset.
That’s like gal number one we talked about at the beginning. It’s fixed, “This is as good as it’s ever going to get,” and you stay stuck, which feels really limiting, right? That’s not freeing at all. ❌
Usually, when you have a fixed mindset, it’s because you’ve been told by others that you can’t, that it’ll never be different for you, that, “Well, that doesn’t happen to people like you,” or, “You’re just not attractive enough. You’re not smart enough.“
Whatever it is, those hurtful things you’ve heard from others, that’s usually what makes us retreat into a fixed mindset. Because we’re hurt, we’re embarrassed, and we don’t want to experience any more of that.
This can come from family members or parents, especially when we’re younger. This can come from bullies at school or coworkers or friends. It can even come from our society in general.
It can come from a lot of different places. But the reality is you don’t have to say trapped by those voices because those voices are a lie. 💡
Effort Makes You Attractive
Often society values talent over hard work and skill. And this can make many people say, “Well, I’m just not gifted in that area,” and they give up.
However, I want you to remember this, okay? Pay close attention. High-value, successful people will always value hard work and skill over talent.
Why? Well, because talent will only get you so far, and you didn’t really put in any effort. And it’s kind of hard to respect someone who doesn’t put in any effort.
➡️ However, someone who’s willing to work for it, wow, that person has integrity. That person has drive and ambition. So never be ashamed if you work for your blessings. That says a lot about who you are.
One other reason why many people feel like they have to stay in a fixed mindset is, for years, we thought our brains could only grow to a certain level, and then we couldn’t produce any more brain cells or learn or grow.
Science has proven that to be false. We’ve learned and observed that the brain is like a muscle. If you work your muscles, they will grow and get heavier. The same is true for our brains.
So you can learn, grow, and expand at any age. Have you ever heard the saying, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks“? That has been proven false by science.
You don’t have to be held back by that false belief anymore. You can break free of it and reach the success that you deserve. 🚀
That’s really exciting, right? That just lights a fire within me. None of us have to stay stuck. We can grow. We can expand. We can improve.
Now, let me just say it’s okay if that’s a little bit scary at first. If you’ve been in a fixed mindset for a while, it’ll feel scary to step outside of that.
That’s normal. I’ve been there, and everybody else has been there. Sometimes you have to just feel the fear and do it anyway.
This is why in my academy, I work you through this and help you understand how to not hold yourself back anymore. And I make it simple and easy for you as I walk you step-by-step through the process.
So it’s okay if it’s scary, but it doesn’t have to be. Instead, it becomes exciting and empowering.
How To Have A Growth Mindset
Okay, the next thing you need to know about a growth mindset, which is the one thing that will make girls find you irresistible, is how to start having a growth mindset.
We’ve already talked about why you must have one and some of the lies that will keep you from a growth mindset. So now let’s talk about how you have one. 🔥
You start by learning. You just take the plunge, and you start learning. Instead of staying fixed, you learn how to improve, grow, and expand. And like I said, it’s normal if it feels a little weird or scary at first.
Here’s something you need to know: As you learn something, you become better at it, right? That makes sense. You become competent, and competence creates confidence.
When we become good at something, we become confident because now we’re good at it. Now it doesn’t have to be scary anymore.
Something is only scary when we have no idea what we’re doing and feel awkward. But when you’re good at it, it’s cool, you’ve got this.
This competence and confidence will help you begin to see, “Woah, I can learn. I can improve. I can become better!” 💪
And as you have those wins, that will make your fixed mindset just melt away as you show yourself that you can improve, you are capable of this, and you can achieve your goals.
The One Thing That Will Make Girls Find You Irresistible – Final Thoughts
Now, remember you can’t just learn these things. You must also apply them.
You can learn the right skills all day long, but if you never apply them, they won’t do much good, right?
You’ll know how to do it, but you won’t know how you can do it, and it won’t serve you.
➡️ This is why confidence is one of the fastest results men see when they apply what they learn in my academy.
Their confidence soars because they see that they can do this. They’re learning the way to be successful instead of just guessing.
These things stop being scary, and instead, they feel confident, masculine, capable, and insanely attractive. Which everyone wants, right?
This is especially true when you’re finally able to find, attract, and keep the love of your life and make her want a loving, lasting relationship with you.
Talk about a confidence boost, right? Going from struggling and failing to finally have the success you want and deserve.
So if you’re ready to learn and apply what actually works to get the love of your life, make sure you watch my free masterclass now. 💡
I honestly believe that every amazing man deserves to be with an amazing woman.
And that’s why I created my academy and free training so you know how you can get that. So you can finally see a clear path forward to the success I know you can have and that you deserve.
Thank you so much for joining me, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments.
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