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How To Attract A Woman Deeply (Top 7 Tips!)
Hello, my wonderful friends! Let’s talk about how to attract a woman deeply. The top 7 tips to make a woman fall in love with you.
Can you imagine looking into the eyes of a beautiful woman and knowing that she loves you? She knows everything about you, loves the real you, and she always will. β€οΈ
Is that the kind of lasting love you’re looking for? That’s the dream, right? That’s the ultimate relationship goal, isn’t it?
Well, if this is your goal, I have some good news for you. In this article, I’m teaching you how to attract a woman deeply and make her fall in love with you.
I’m actually taking a different approach with today’s article. I get thousands of emails and comments and messages every single week. And there’s a pattern; I get many of the exact same questions.
And so I wanted to make this to help you understand the answers to those questions so that you can attract the love of your life and get her to fall helplessly, hopelessly, wonderfully in love with you.
So consider this your troubleshooting guide when it comes to love, relationships, and your most popular, most asked questions.
Now make sure you stay with me to the end of this article because the last tip is probably the most shocking. β‘
In addition to that, you need your questions answered, right? And it would be terrible if not knowing the answer to one of these things kept you from the love you deserve. So read with me until the end of the article.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melanie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to place to learn how to find, attract, and keep the love of your life without mind games, faulty tricks, or relationship drama.
If you’re looking for a loving, lasting relationship, then you’re in the right place.
As we dive into how to attract a woman deeply and make her fall in love with you, two other videos will also help you with this. β¬οΈ
The first video is onΒ the one thing that will make you irresistible to women. The other isΒ 11 ways to melt a woman’s heart. Pretty good stuff, right? Be sure to check them out.
Are you ready to learn how to attract a woman deeply and make her fall in love with you? Let’s get started with tip number one!
How To Attract A Woman Deeply Tip #1 – When Approaching Goes Wrong
Tip number one is that seeing the signs she likes you is only the first step.
One of the questions I get most often is, “Melannie, I saw the signs that she liked me, and I approached her. And then all of a sudden, it went really, really wrong.“
Have you ever been in that situation?
First off, if you’re seeing the signs she’s interested, pat yourself on the back. That’s a great first step, and you should be proud of that!
And if you’re new here and don’t know what we’re talking about, make sure you watchΒ this video on the body language signs a woman’s attracted to you. It’s good stuff, so you want to make sure you see it.
Back to the question though, it’s good that you’re seeing the signs she’s interested in you. But I want you to remember this: That’s only the first step. π‘ That’s only step number one.
It’s great that you know how to read those signs, but if you don’t know what to do next, you’ll struggle. You’ll really struggle to attract women.
As a matter of fact, when I teach you in my academy how to approach and attract women, there are 4 to 5 steps.
So it’s great that you know the first one and that you’ve become good at that. But until you learn the other steps, you’re going to struggle.
This is why when I teach you those body language signs, I always remind you that you can’t rely just on that.
Even if you see those signs, if something happens to make her feel uncomfortable when you approach her, take her out, or when you’re on a date, it won’t matter. The attraction will go away.
π So, instead of looking at the small picture of “I saw the signs she was interested,” you need to look at the big picture.
You need to look at dating and relationships as a whole instead of just, “Does she like me?“
And again, that is something I teach you more about in my academy. That’s your ultimate resource and go-to guide. And you can learn more about my academy byΒ watching my free masterclass.
Tip #2 – When Do I Tell A Woman I Have Feelings For Her?
Okay, tip number two for how to attract a woman deeply and make her fall in love with you is to never tell her that you have feelings for her unless you’ve dated at least one month. Preferably closer to two months.
One of the biggest questions I get is, “Hey, Melannie, I told her I had feelings for her, and now she’s ghosting me. Why did that happen?“
Here’s what you need to know: This legitimately scares women. It creeps them out. π¬
If she doesn’t really know a guy and he’s expressing feelings for her, that puts a whole lot of pressure on her.
She thinks, “I don’t even know you, and you’re telling me you have feelings for me.” And that creeps women out.
This also makes you appear needy. And that’s not the impression you want to give her.
The reason this freaks her out is because you’re showing an emotional closeness that doesn’t exist yet.
If you haven’t been going out with her consistently for a while, there’s no emotional closeness.
Many people misunderstand this and think it’ll be cute because it was cute back in school. Well, you’re adults now, and it’s not. β
It puts too much pressure on her and ruins what could’ve been a great relationship.
So you do not ever want to tell her that you have feelings for her unless you’ve been going out for 1-2 months.
One of the biggest keys to attracting a woman in a way that makes her want a relationship with you is to make her feel safe when she’s with you. She always needs to feel safe in the relationship, just like you do.
As a matter of fact, this one thing is so important that I have an entire module dedicated to this in my academy. It’s that important to make her feel safe when she’s with you.
Moving with the right pacing and doing things at the right time in the relationship is one of the best ways to make her feel safe and even more attracted to you. β
So don’t tell her that you have feelings for her unless you’ve been going out for at least a month, ideally two.
Tip #3 – The Right Tools Make Relationships Easy
Okay, my next tip for how to attract a woman deeply might be what you’ve been missing.
The next thing you need to know is that relationships and attracting women are only difficult when you don’t have the right tools.
A question I get asked a lot is, “Melannie, why do relationships have to be so difficult and complicated?“
β‘οΈ Have you ever felt that way? If you have, you’re not alone.
Here’s how I want you to think about it: Let’s pretend I was trying to chop down a tree, and I was trying to do it with a plastic fork.
I’d go at that tree with my plastic fork, and I’d be exhausted, right? And I wouldn’t make any progress. I might get some bark off, but that’s about as far as I would get.
I would not be able to accomplish my goal of cutting down this tree, right? And it would be incredibly frustrating.
Well if instead, I had a chainsaw, I’d have that tree down in just a few minutes, right?
Yes, it would take some effort. It really would. But it would be nowhere near the effort of trying to chop down a tree with a plastic fork.
The same is true with relationships.
If you feel like relationships are difficult, exhausting, and unfulfilling, it’s because you don’t have the right tools. You don’t know the right way to handle a relationship or attract women.
But when you do have the right tools, that’s more like your chain chainsaw. You can accomplish your goal and have a whole lot more fun doing it.
Dating and relationships don’t have to be difficult. As a matter of fact, this should be the most exciting, fulfilling area of your life. π‘
This is why I became a coach and created my academy. So that you can have the right tools. So instead of dating feeling like trying to chop down a tree with a plastic fork, it now feels exciting and thrilling.
And yes, there’s a little bit of effort, but it’s nowhere near as much as trying to chop down a tree with a plastic fork.
Do you see the difference? When you have the right tools, you can finally have the success in love you want and deserve.
The best thing you can do for your love life and your ultimate overall happiness is learning how to do this the right way.
Click here now and watch my short free masterclass. That’s where I share with you 3 of the most important secrets to finding, attracting, and keeping the love of your life.
That’s where I share more about my academy with you so that you can have a proven roadmap to get the love of your life. β€οΈ
Why in the world would you put it off when you could just have the answers upfront? So watch my free masterclass and give yourself this gift.
Tip #4 – She Might Think A Relationship Won’t Work
My next tip for how to attract a woman deeply and make her fall in love with you is when your relationships don’t last it’s because she doesn’t think a relationship will work. Let me explain.
I get so many comments and emails and questions from men saying, “Melannie, the relationship goes really well for a while, and then it just stops. And I don’t know why!“
Have you ever been in a situation where you’ve been going out for a while, or maybe you just met her, and you’ve been texting, and things have been going great, or even you think the first date went amazing…
…And then, all of a sudden, she tells you, “Well, I’m just not ready for a relationship,” or, “Maybe we should just be friends.” π¬
Or maybe she just ghosts you. Maybe she even tells you, “You have so much I’m looking for in a husband, but this just isn’t a good time for me.“
Usually, when women do this, it’s because they’re trying to save face. The last thing they want to do is hurt you because they know you’re an amazing man. They just don’t see a relationship with you working.
Now that doesn’t mean a relationship wouldn’t work. But if they can’t see it working, it doesn’t matter.
She doesn’t want to hurt you any more than she has to, and she doesn’t want to waste any more of your time. So this is what will cause her to pull away.
So what’s the solution? Because you don’t want that to happen anymore, right? It becomes a vicious cycle, it’s painful, and it’s heartbreaking.
The solution is to learn how to attract a woman in a way that makes herΒ wantΒ a lifelong relationship with you. β
It’s one thing to be attractive to a woman. It’s another thing to be attractive in a way that makes her say, “I want to spend my life with him. I want to give my heart to him forever.“
And unless you know how to do that, you won’t have any long-term relationships.
I call this “attracting her on the deepest level.” Because she’s so deeply attracted to you, she wants to spend her life by your side, making memories, showering you with kisses.
And again, this is exactly what I teach you how to do in my academy. AndΒ my short free masterclassΒ will teach you all about that.
Tip #5 – Do Not Marry Her Emotionally Too Soon
Okay, this tip will surprise a lot of people as well. Do not marry her in your mind before you actually marry her.
If you’ve been through my academy, you’ve heard me say this a million times, right? Do not marry her before you marry her.
Now, what does that mean? π€
Have you ever met somebody cute and you get excited and start thinking about the possibilities and how she probably loves everything you love and wouldn’t life together be so amazing?
Have you ever done that? Pretty much everyone has done that. And it’s not a bad thing. It’s a very normal thing.
However, what most people don’t know is there’s a big difference between infatuation and being in love.
Infatuation is the first stage. It’s the chemical high that makes us go, “I’m in love! Oh my goodness, I love this person so much!” When in reality, it’s literally just brain chemicals. That’s what’s going on.
β‘οΈ And once the infatuation wears off, that’s where the real, deep love comes in.
The bottom line is most people start daydreaming about a life and love with this person. And emotionally, they become married to them.
Have you ever known someone looking for a house saying, “Oh my goodness, I can see myself living there already“? That’s because emotionally they’ve already moved into that house.
People do that with relationships too. They emotionally marry someone.
Now, the problem is when you emotionally marry someone before you’re actually married to them, you set yourself up for failure. β
You become needy, overly jealous, and clingy in the relationship. It puts way too much pressure on her because you’re acting like she’s your wife and she’s not.
And it puts too much pressure on you because you think, “I can’t lose her, she’s my wife!” So it makes the relationship uncomfortable and unbalanced.
One of the best ways to avoid marrying her before you marry her is to take things slow and actually get to know her before you decide she’s the one for you.
Infatuation makes everyone think that this cute person they just met is the one for them. But until you get to know her, you can’t actually be in love with her.
You cannot be in love with someone you don’t truly know.
So rather than assuming she’s the love of your life, which will push her away, get to know her first. π‘
Tip #6 – There Are Two Parts To Finding Your Dream Girl
Okay, our next tip for how to attract her deeply and make her fall in love with you is that finding the love of your life comes in two parts.
Most people, when they’re trying to find the love of their life, they only focus on finding and meeting her.
And that’s obviously really important, right? That’s one of the two things. But they forget to focus on the other thing.
And the other thing is that you have to actually know how to make her want a relationship with you when you do meet her.
π You can meet the love of your life all day long, but if you don’t know what to do next, and you don’t know how to nurture that relationship, and you don’t know what you’re doing, it won’t matter.
This is one of the biggest mistakes I see men make.
Remember when we talked earlier about, “Melannie, I saw the signs she was attracted to me, and now she wants nothing to do with me. My approach didn’t work.”?
Well, it’s because you only focused on one thing. Finding her is incredibly important, but you also must know what to do next.
That is how you set yourself up for success. That’s how you take the pressure off yourself and stop feeling so nervous and uptight.
And instead, you can attract her and enjoy the process of falling in love. β€οΈ
So you must know what to do first, or you will push her away. You don’t want to figure that out after you’ve met her. You want to figure it outΒ right now.
Now there’s one other thing I need to mention about finding her. And some people might not be happy with this, and that’s okay. I totally understand because I’ve been there.
Sometimes we use this as a crutch. Sometimes we say, “Well, I just haven’t found the right one yet.“
And we use it as an excuse to not find the right one, to not work on ourselves, to not put ourselves out there and push the limits of our comfort zone.
What many people don’t know is that the only way to expand your comfort zone is to do something that makes you uncomfortable.
And it’s going to be uncomfortable, and that’s okay. However, when you learn what to do, your comfort zone expands.
There’s a quote I absolutely love. “Control helps to build confidence.” π
Now, what does that mean? That means when we can control something, it builds our confidence in it.
If you know how to present yourself, what to say, how to dress, what to do, you can control that.
That’s confidence. You start feeling comfortable in it because you’re in control of it.
Now, I obviously don’t mean to control her. That’s toxic relationship 101.
But control what you can control. Learn what to say, how to say it, how to ask her out, how to make her feel safe with you, how to increase her attraction, how to make her want a relationship with you.
That’s how you build your confidence and feel comfortable. And then you don’t have to use, “Well, I’m still trying to find the right one,” as an excuse anymore.
Tip #7 – You Might Be Unintentionally Rejecting Her
Okay, this tip will shock a lot of people. So pay close attention. This tip is that she’ll pull away from you if you reject her without knowing it.
Have you ever been in a situation where you start to feel her pull away, and you don’t know why?
Like I mentioned earlier, it could be that she just doesn’t see a relationship with you working. We already talked about the solution for that.
However, sometimes it’s that without knowing, you’ve slapped her in the face, she feels rejected, and she’s pulling away. β
Often it’s not that she wasn’t interested in you. It’s that something happened without you knowing it that embarrassed her and hurt her, and so she’s pulling away.
Now, there are a couple of ways you can reject a woman without even realizing it.
Some of the ways are, let’s say she’s flirting with you or being cute with you. And you don’t know what to do, so you freeze up or act really cold.
Or let’s say she’s sending the signs that she’s interested in you, trying to get your attention, trying to be cute with you, and you don’t make a move.
Those things are rejection to a woman. Very similar to if you were to say, “Hey, do you want to go out with me?” and she was to say, “No, of course not.“
That’s what it feels like to her. π¬ It’s a slap to the face. It embarrasses her, and she’s hurt. She’s done.
Just like it takes a lot of courage for you to flirt with a woman and for you to interact with someone you think is cute, it takes a ton of courage for her too.
And if she gets her hopes up, and then you act cold or distant, or you freeze up or don’t make a move, she goes, “Oh, he doesn’t like me. Whoa, I feel stupid.“
I’ll be perfectly honest with you. Sometimes you can save the situation, sometimes you can’t. Sometimes it’s too late.
This is why it’s so important to learn what to do and increase your confidence before you meet her instead of when you’re in the heat of the situation. The last thing you want is to unknowingly reject her.
π‘ Remember, women pursue men, just like men pursue women. But she’s a woman. It’ll be in a feminine way instead of a masculine way.
And if it doesn’t go well, it’s rejection, she’s hurt, she’s done. So it’s best to prepare yourself.
One of my favorite quotes ever is, “When you’re prepared, you don’t need to fear.” So prepare yourself now.
How To Attract A Woman Deeply (Top 7 Tips!) – Final Thoughts
Okay, so I need to talk about the elephant in the room for just a moment.
I know that there will be a lot of trolls who will comment and say, “All she ever does is talk about her academy.“
Do you know why I talk about it a lot? I talk about it a lot because I have seen what it does. I have seen it transform men’s lives.
β‘οΈ I have seen men who have felt discouraged and heartbroken and like maybe they would never have a relationship. I have seen them flip it around and flip it around fast.
I have had men write to me, “Melannie, I don’t think there’s any hope for me,” take my academy, apply what they learn, and then they’re sending me, “Hey, Melannie! I have the love of my life!“
If you had seen the power of something that you knew could change people’s lives, wouldn’t you want to share that with everyone?
That’s why I do what I do. That’s why I love being a coach. I love helping you have the love that I know you deserve.
There’s a woman out there praying to meet you. And as a woman, I feel her pain. I want her to have the man of her dreams just as much as I want you to have the woman of your dreams.
That’s why I’m a coach, why I created my academy, and why I want everyone to know about it.
So are you wondering how in the world you can have a woman who respects you, who loves you, who you feel emotionally safe with, and who you want to wake up next to for the rest of your life? β€οΈ
If that’s you right now, you need toΒ watch my short free masterclassΒ and learn more about my academy.
The masterclass is completely free, and you will get an introduction there about my academy, why it’s so crazy effective, and how it can help you as well.
So don’t waste any more time. I know I have many people who say, “Oh yeah, I’m going to watch that someday.” Don’t wait! No more excuses, just start now.
Thank you so much for joining me, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments. Should I make another video like this one? If I should, comment “question” to let me know.
And as always, if you have any other questions or comments, leave those in the comments as well. π¬
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