7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags! 💚 (Marry This Woman NOW) Knowing the red flags in woman is important.
However, if you don’t know the green flags, how will you know if she’s the one? It’s time to reveal the green flags she’s a keeper! You’re about to discover some girls to avoid and some girls you should definitely date!
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7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags! 💚 (Transcript)
7 things women do that are green flags. Like, marry this woman now. Have you ever wondered if she’s the one? Maybe there’s a girl you are crazy about and you’re wondering if she’s the one. Or maybe you haven’t necessarily met someone like that yet, but you’re nervous because you don’t wanna mess it up.
How exactly do you know if this is a good idea? It’s a big decision, right? You do not want to settle on the wrong girl. You deserve crazy, exciting love.
You’re about to discover some of the biggest green flags that she’s a keeper. And I may or may not have a bonus tip at the end that’s one of my favorites, so make sure you stay with me until the end.
Let’s get started with the first thing girls do that is a total green flag.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #1
Number one is that you have fun together. The way you feel around her should tell you so much of what you need to know. The way you feel when you’re around her is everything because it shows you what a relationship is going to be like. A long term forever kind of relationship would be like.
Far too many people think it’s normal for her to be catty, to feel like you’re walking on eggshells, to only have fun and only have it be enjoyable some of the time. That’s not normal. Just so you know, that’s not normal at all, nor is it acceptable.
If you have not yet seen this video on toxic women and explaining what they are and some of the signs, save yourself some heartache and watch it today. I will put a link in the description below.
Someone who is catty, who’s hot and cold, who, belittles you and makes you feel like you’re walking on eggshells, those are key signs of a toxic woman, and you deserve so much better than that.
You should always feel like you’re on fire when you’re around her. She should make you feel excited and energized and uplifted. You should always feel safe and comfortable with her, like you can’t wait to see her again and like it’s never quite long enough when you are together, like you just dreading not being able to spend time with her.
A fabulous real life example would be Chip and Joanna Gaines. I have been fans of Chip and Joanna’s shows forever. I love watching Joanna’s cooking show. One of the reasons why being, I love it when Chip surprises her, when he walks in the room and she doesn’t know he’s going to be there and how her face just lights up.
That, my friend, is what love feels like. When you feel that around someone, that’s a key sign that yes, she’s a keeper.
Now, before we get to the next tip, I just wanna make sure that you feel welcome. My name is Melanie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
If you are sick of mind games, if you are sick of loneliness and emptiness and having no idea why you can’t have the love that you truly deserve, I’m your go-to source.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #2
This leads us to the second thing girls do that is a total green flag. This is that she’s kind to you and she’s kind to others. She’s respectful to you, she’s understanding and compassionate and sincere.
Can you imagine how devastating it would be to be in a relationship where she doesn’t respect you, where she’s not kind to you, where she doesn’t treat you right? Far too many people settle for these kinds of relationships. You don’t have to. As a matter of fact, you should not.
When you see that the way she talks to you and about you, the way she flirts with you, the way she teases with you, when you see that she always does that with kindness, that’s a massive green flag.
Sometimes society and the media tend to glorify what they call “strong women,” and they are women who are “fiercely independent” and who are catty and disrespectful and rude, and they portray rude and inappropriate as strong. It’s not. You don’t have to tolerate that. This is a sign of a toxic woman, which again, you’ll learn more about in that video I mentioned earlier.
So make sure she treats you with kindness, but also make sure she treats others with kindness. If someone’s only kind to someone they’re interested in, they’re not a very cool person, are they? However, if it extends outward, if she’s kind to your family and your friends and if you have children, your children, then you know any future children, she’ll be kind to.
You’ll also know that it’s who she really is. This is who she is on the inside. You know that that will be maintained and that she’ll fit better into your life. There’s nothing worse than somebody coming into your life and being mean to everybody you know. That is just horrible. But when she adds to your life in this way and adds to the life of your family and your friends, that is a huge, huge flag that, yes, she’s a keeper.
Does she gossip, or is she compassionate? Does she tell everybody off, or is she supportive? Start noticing these things.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #3
Okay, this next one is one of my favorites, and this is that she builds you up and supports you. Marriage is a very, very close relationship. A lifelong relationship is a very intimate relationship, and she should be your biggest cheerleader.
You should be able to look into her eyes and know that she is always there for you. She’s always got your back. She always believes in you, even if nobody else does. She’s there for you.
Again, I know I keep mentioning this, but so many people misunderstand. Too many people are settling for relationships that are empty and unfulfilling, thinking that that’s as good as it gets. That is not remotely true. Don’t accept that because it’s not true.
It breaks my heart when I see a man who’s in a marriage where she tears him down, and she belittles him, and she mocks him, and makes fun of him. You deserve so much better than that. You should never, ever, ever, have to tolerate that. If she makes you feel small, she’s small, and you should have nothing to do with her.
Instead, she should help you chase your dreams. She should believe in you, even if nobody else does, and help you see yourself as the truly amazing man that you are. When you find a woman like this, never let her go.
How To Find Your Ideal Woman And Attract Her
Speaking of that, at this point, you probably have one of two questions. One, “okay, how in the world do I find a woman like that?”
And two, “how do I make sure that even if I find her, that that attraction, that spark, that love stays alive instead of just crumbles?” Because it’s incredibly disheartening and heartbreaking when you do find someone like that, but it just doesn’t work out, not long term. How do you make her want to spend forever with you?
This can feel like a massive question, but the answer is truly simple. I say this as a coach who has been doing this a long, long time. So take a deep breath. I’ve got you.
Once you know how to show your dream girl that you are her dream man, without pretending to be somebody you’re not, this is about being authentically you.
Once you understand how to show her, how to properly portray and let her see that you are her dream man, she basically has to fall in love with you. That’s just how it works.
This is why I help you master this quickly in my Academy. You’ll discover everything from where to find her and how to captivate her, to how to pursue, and how to achieve the relationship goals you are aching for, even if you’re not quite sure that those dreams are possible.
To learn more about these powerful and crazy effective strategies, watch the free training I’ve put together for you. Just go to CoachMelannie.com/masterclass.
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7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #4
Let’s keep going with the next green flag that she’s a total keeper. This one is that she takes care of herself. You deserve a girl who still gets dressed up cute for you, who still does her hair cute, who still wants to be attractive to you no matter how long the relationship has been.
Something I teach my clients in my Academy as I’m teaching you how to turbocharge your physical attraction, is that the way we take care of ourselves, the way we present ourselves, shows how much respect we have for ourselves and how much respect we have for someone else.
If we don’t take care of ourselves, it’s a way of saying, “well, I don’t really care what you think,” and you just don’t want a relationship like that. That’s a terrible, terrible foundation for a relationship. So just like you should always be working to be incredibly attractive for her, she should always be striving to be incredibly attractive to you.
Obviously, we’re all gonna have good days and bad days. That’s part of being human. However, if she just doesn’t bother to wash her hair much, and she doesn’t really get dressed up cute for you, and she just kind of looks sloppy and dirty and gross and doesn’t really make an effort, okay, that’s a red flag, and I just honestly would not go there.
But if you see that as time goes on, she still tries to look nice for you, to look cute, to do her hair good, to make sure she’s attractive to you. If this keeps going on, that’s a huge green flag that that’s something that’s going to happen throughout the entire relationship, and that’s a big deal. It says a lot about her confidence, how she feels about herself, but also how she feels about you and that she wants the relationship to go nowhere but up.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #5
Okay, my next thing girls do that’s a total green flag is that she makes you happier and makes you want to be better when you’re around her.
Have you ever been around someone who’s just, like, a little dark rain cloud and they, like, pull you down and you feel super drained and exhausted after you interact with them in any way? That’s not fun, right? That’s not the kind of relationship you want.
However, have you ever been around someone who just lifts you up, you feel energized when you’re done being around them, and you feel motivated and inspired, and like you wanna be the best person you can be? This is exactly the kind of woman you should be with forever.
When you see that she makes you happier and helps you see life better and be more positive, that’s a huge, huge green flag.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #6
Okay, okay. This next screen flag is going to surprise some people. This green flag is that she is easy to be around.
Did you know that a girl can be both exciting and flirty and fun and comfortable and easy to be around? She can be all that at once. As a matter of fact, I highly recommend it.
You should never feel like you have to be perfect or like you have to pretend to be someone you’re not or like you’re walking on eggshells when you’re around her.
Instead, she should help put you at ease. She should help you feel safe, emotionally and physically, every kind, and she should help you feel like you’re important and like your needs matter. She should always make you feel like you belong and that you are important. If you see these traits, if you feel this way when you’re around her, it’s a massive green flag.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags #7
Okay, the importance of this next green flag probably is not going to surprise you. This green flag is that she has a close relationship with God.
When someone has any kind of a moral code and they stay true to it, you can trust that person. When a woman is focused on following God and absorbing his love and showing that love to other people, your relationship can’t be anything but happy because it’s all based around love and goodness and joy.
Something I teach my clients in my Academy is to draw closer to God. This makes you absolutely irresistible. Irresistible to a good, loyal, loving woman who’s looking for that lifelong relationship.
It’s important though that not just one of you is doing this in the relationship. If just one of you is doing this in the relationship, there’s going to be problems.
If you have both of you doing this, holy cow, get ready for a ridiculous amount of love. Whatever God touches becomes beautiful and holy and sacred and fulfilling. If she has the inner strength to draw close to God and stay close to God, then you can count on her being true to you forever. And that’s pretty critical in a relationship, right? You need that trust.
So this one what may sound like a simple thing is one of the biggest green flags you can ever see.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags Bonus!
Okay, are you ready for my bonus tip? I know I said that there are 7 things girls do, but I actually came up with 8, and I really wanted to add the last one, so it’s a bonus tip because, you know, why not? Bonuses are great. The bonus tip is that she continues to flirt with you. That it’s not just something she does just to get you to get her number or just on the first few dates, but that she actually keeps flirting with you.
As a matter of fact, as the relationship continues, she should flirt more and more and more.
Far too many people lose the spark in their relationship because they stop doing what made them fall in love in the first place. And you deserve a gal who keeps those butterflies, who keeps that spark alive.
7 Things Women Do That Are Green Flags – What’s Next?
Now, I know with this and everything else we’ve talked about, we’re talking about an exceptional woman.
That’s okay. There are exceptional women everywhere. Absolutely everywhere. The key is to understand how to find her and how to make her fall in love with you forever. So would you like my help with this? I help hundreds of men with this every single day. That’s what my Academy is all about. To learn more about my Academy and get a sneak peek at all the incredible things you will discover there, go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass.
If you are ready to just get to the love of your life, if you’re tired of coming home to an empty house, if you’re tired of being the only one single at parties, and you’re ready to come home to love and kisses and cuddling and so much more, it’s time for you to know these secrets too. That’s why I put this together for you. So go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass.
Okay, should we recap the green flags you just learned? Let’s do it. Number one is that you have fun together. The way you feel around her is everything, so pay attention to what you’re actually feeling.
Two, she’s kind to you and to others. This says so much about her character and how much you’ll be able to trust her and feel safe with her.
Number three, she builds you up and supports you. She should be your biggest cheerleader.
Next up, she takes care of herself. And I mean long-term, not just for the few first few dates. She wants to still look attractive for you.
And next, she makes you happier and makes you want to be a better person. She should uplift you and make you feel so good when you’re around her, and even afterwards.
Next up, she’s easy to be around. You don’t feel like you have to pretend or be perfect when you’re around her. You feel comfortable while still excited and like you’re having an amazing time with her.
And next, she has a close relationship with God. Everything God touches becomes fulfilling and joyful and happy. And if she’s got the inner strength to draw close to God and stay close to God, you can count on her always being true to you.
And lastly, make sure that she keeps flirting with you, that it’s not just kind of a beginning of the relationship thing, but she continues to help you keep that spark and those butterflies very much alive.
Thank you so much for joining me, my amazing friend. I wanna hear from you in the comments, like, really bad. Should I make more videos like this one? If I should, comment “green flags” to let me know. And if you have any questions or comments, leave those there as well.
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