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7 Untold Secrets Every Man Needs to Know About Women
Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you just cannot figure out what it is women want? Like there’s some kind of secret code you’re missing? It’s frustrating, right? You put in all this effort to be the best kind of man you can be, but it feels like you’re always one step behind. It leaves you confused and a little bit discouraged.
The truth is, most of the advice out there is full of mind games and vague ideas that do not lead to the deep, lasting connection you’re looking for. But here’s the good news: today, I’m sharing seven powerful insights that will make it crystal clear what it is women actually want and need. These are the real secrets that help you create that deep connection and build the relationship you’ve always wanted.
And the best part? As a Christian dating coach, nothing I teach you includes mind games or tricks. We’re talking about authentic strategies that lead to authentic love. So, are you ready for this? Let’s dive in.
1. Women Appreciate Effort
Women notice when a man puts in effort. So often, we feel like we have to be perfect. Are you ever guilty of that? I am definitely guilty of that. Everyone feels that way sometimes. But in reality, what mature partners actually want is effort. When she sees that effort, she notices, and it matters to her a lot.
Just like you want a woman who will continually put effort into herself, into the relationship, and into life, she wants a man who does the same. A man who is not willing to put in any effort is instantly unattractive. That’s just how it works. If people aren’t willing to put in effort, we don’t want anything to do with them. But if someone puts in effort through thoughtful gestures, consistent communication, and trying to be the most attractive version of themselves, she notices those things, and that’s what she’s looking for in a lifelong partner.
2. Women Desire a Genuine Connection
There’s plenty said out there about how women only care about marrying for status or money. If she’s toxic, yes—but why are you dating people like that? That’s the question you should be asking yourself. If we’re talking about a high-value, quality woman, she craves that deep connection just like you do.
This means that by doing things like being vulnerable, being authentic, and being present in the relationship, you can help create that deep connection. The truth is, women need men. Women want men. She wants a man who is willing to be real with her.
Yes, women absolutely need that deep connection, so it’s important to make sure you’re being authentic, that you’re willing to be vulnerable with her as appropriate, and that you are creating that connection. And here’s a little spoiler: all those people who say she only cares about how you perform in bed? They’re wrong. A quality woman cares more about that deep connection because that deep connection is what makes the passion come alive.
3. Women Need to Feel Safe
This next point is incredibly important and often overlooked. Women need to feel safe in a relationship. And this makes sense—you want to feel safe in the relationship as well. Women, especially knowing that you’re bigger and stronger than her, need to feel safe physically. She also needs to feel safe emotionally.
There needs to be trust built in the relationship, good communication, and emotional support. She needs to know that you are sensitive and that you are someone she can trust in order for her to want to spend her life with you. That emotional safety is critical for a happy, lifelong relationship. It’s a little shocking how many people miss this, but it is essential.
4. Women Value Both Physical and Emotional Attraction
If I had a nickel for every time someone tried to make it sound like women only care about physical attraction, I’d be rich! The truth is, physical attraction is definitely important—obviously. Just like you want to see her looking cute, she wants to see you looking super hot. However, as important as physical attraction is, emotional attraction is even more important.
The beautiful thing is that when emotional attraction is high, physical attraction naturally increases. This is why in my Academy, I don’t just teach you how to be physically attractive and emotionally attractive; I teach both and a whole lot more. I give you all the steps to understand how to become absolutely irresistible to the very woman you desire.
And speaking of my Academy, this is your step-by-step blueprint to creating a love that’s eternal, to finding the high-value, quality woman who truly desires, respects, and adores you. I make it ridiculously simple for you, step-by-step, and you’re going to learn the exact same proven blueprint that has helped so many other men who thought they would never succeed in love finally marry the love of their life.
5. Communication is Crucial
Communication is a big, big deal to women. It’s obviously important to be honest, but it’s also important to just have clear communication with her. This means communicating your feelings, being open—not just your feelings for her, but your opinions and thoughts as well.
For example, if you’re going to be late and you said you’d pick her up, you should text her to let her know. This also includes being vulnerable and opening up and communicating your thoughts and your needs with her. Interestingly, the way you communicate with a woman directly affects how she responds to you. This is true throughout the relationship, but it’s even true when you’re just trying to initiate that attraction.
Far too many people think they’re just unattractive when, in reality, they have very poor communication skills and don’t understand how to create that connection with her through the way they communicate. Don’t worry—this is something I explain in detail in the Academy, and it’s very simple once you know the methods.
6. Women Are Very Observant
Women pick up on the little things very quickly. Research shows us that women are generally much better at reading body language than men. Women notice the little things—both good and bad. This is one reason why a woman might say, “This relationship isn’t going to work,” and a guy has no idea why.
On the flip side, if there are a lot of positive things going on, she’s saying, “Wow, I am crazy about this guy.” She notices the little things, which is why it’s so important to be mindful of your actions, words, and body language.
Again, I make these things very simple for you in my Academy. Everything’s laid out in a step-by-step format of how to be the dream man of your dream girl. It doesn’t have to be overwhelming—I’m here for you.
7. Confidence is Key
Just like most men are drawn to confident women, women are drawn to confident men. Confidence makes you appear masculine, protective, and strong. It’s important to recognize the difference between true confidence and arrogance. Many people think they’re confident when they’re actually arrogant jerks, and yes, women pick up on that.
The toxic drama queens might love arrogance, but high-value women will run. Arrogance is actually the opposite of confidence. It’s people trying to pretend they’re confident when they’re actually not. If you’re confident, you don’t need constant attention.
Being a truly confident man is irresistibly attractive. That’s why confidence is one of my favorite things to teach you and help you master in my Academy. As a matter of fact, it’s one of the fastest results you can start seeing within a week in the academy.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend. A huge thank you to everyone who’s so amazing with the super thanks—it truly warms my heart. And don’t forget to share this post with a friend. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day!
The 7 Untold Secrets Every Man Needs to Know About Women (Video Transcript)
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 Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you just cannot figure out what it is women want? Like there’s some kind of secret code you’re missing. It’s frustrating, right? You put in all this effort to be the best kind of man you can be, but it feels like you’re always one step behind. It leaves you confused and a little bit discouraged.
The truth is most of the advice out there is full of mind games and vague ideas that do not lead. to the deep, lasting connection you’re looking for. But here’s the good news. Today, I’m sharing seven powerful insights that will make it crystal clear what it is women actually want and need. These are the real secrets that help you create that deep connection and build the relationship you’ve always wanted.
And the best part is as a Christian dating coach, nothing I teach you includes mind games or tricks. We’re talking about authentic strategies that lead to authentic love. So you ready for this? Let’s dive in. So the first thing every man needs to know about women is that women appreciate effort. Women notice when a man puts in effort.
So often we feel like we have to be perfect. Are you ever guilty of that? I am definitely guilty of that. Everyone feels that way sometimes, but in reality, what mature partners actually want is effort. And when she sees that effort, she sees you showing effort. She notices, and it matters to her a lot, just like you want a woman who will continually put effort into herself, into the relationship, into lifestyle, into life.
Just like you want a woman like that. She wants a man like that. A man who does not show effort, who is not willing to put in any effort is instantly unattractive. That’s just how it works with partners. If people aren’t willing to put in effort, we don’t want anything to do with them. But if someone puts in effort through thoughtful gestures and consistent communication, um, trying to be the most attractive version of yourself, she notices those things and that’s what she’s looking for in a lifelong partner.
The second thing every man needs to know about women is that women desire a genuine connection. There’s plenty said out there about how women only care about marrying for status or marrying for money. Yeah, if she’s toxic, maybe, but why are you dating people like that? That’s the question you should be asking yourself.
If we’re talking about a high value, quality woman, she craves that deep connection, just like you do. This means by doing things like, uh, being vulnerable, being authentic and being present in the relationship, you can help create that deep connection. The truth is women need men. Women want men. She wants.
So, yes, women absolutely need that deep connection. So it’s important to make sure you’re being authentic, that you’re willing to be vulnerable with her as appropriate, and that you are creating that connection. A little bit of a spoiler here. You know, all those people who are saying all she cares about is how you perform in bed?
Yeah, they’re wrong. Okay. The toxic women are the girls who just care about flings. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They might be thinking that. But a quality woman, yeah, she wants the bedroom to be fun too, once she’s married to you, but she cares more about that deep connection because that deep connection is what makes the passion just come alive.
Okay. This next thing is incredibly important. And so many people don’t really think about this. The next thing every man needs to know about women is that women, And this makes sense, you want to feel safe in the relationship as well. Women, especially knowing that you’re bigger and stronger than her, she really needs to feel safe physically.
She also needs to feel safe emotionally. There needs to be trust built in the relationship, good communication and emotional support. She needs to know that you are sensitive and that you are someone she can trust in order for her to want to spend her life with you. That emotional safety has to be there.
It’s a little shocking how many people miss this, but it’s critical for a happy lifelong relationship. Okay. Now this next one is one of my favorites that most people skip over as well. Women value both. Physical and emotional attraction. If I had a nickel for every time somebody tried to make it sound like women only care about physical attraction, that would be a very nice thing.
The truth is physical attraction is definitely important. Duh, obviously. Just like you want to see her looking cute, she wants to see you looking super hot. However, As important as that physical attraction is, emotional attraction is even more important. Now, the beautiful thing is when that emotional attraction is high, the physical attraction naturally just goes up and up and up and up until you are the hottest thing in her world.
This is why in my academy, I don’t just teach you how to be physically attractive and I don’t just teach you how to be emotionally attractive. I teach both and a whole lot more. I give you All the package, all the steps, so that you understand how to become absolutely irresistible to the very woman you desire.
I’ve got it all covered for you there. That’s why I get so excited every time I get to talk to you about my academy. And It’s coming. You ready for it? That was a little trumpet announcing the announcement. Attracting Lasting Love Academy is open for enrollment, but only for a few more hours. We are not scheduled to open enrollment again until next year, so you’ve got to get in now.
This is your step by step blueprint to creating a love that’s eternal, to finding the high value, quality woman who truly desires, respects, and admires. adores you. I make it ridiculously simple for you, step by step, and you’re going to learn the exact same proven blueprint that has helped so many other men who thought they would never succeed in love marry the love of their life.
Now, here’s the really cool part. The first 100 men to join get in for 50 percent off. Yeah, you got to act now. Now, at the time of filming this, I don’t know how many men have bought yet because we haven’t actually launched it at the time of filming this. So you’re going to have to act now. Chances are we’re, we’re close to reaching that or have already reached it.
So you’ve got to act now. I’m going to put a link in the description below or just go to coachmelannie. com slash flash dash sale and get in before enrollment closes. Honestly, missing out on this and the secrets I have for you, there is Probably the biggest mistake you can make in your love life. You need this life changing information, and I’m so excited to be able to offer it to you now.
The next thing every man needs to know about women is that communication is crucial. This is a big, big deal. big deal to women. It’s obviously important to be honest, but it’s also important to just have clear communication with her. Um, this can mean obviously communicating your feelings and, and being open, not that, and, and even past just your feelings for her, but just your opinions and your thoughts.
And interestingly enough, the first one is the best way to start the conversation. if you’re going to be late and you said you’d pick her up, you should text her. Let her know that. This also includes being vulnerable and opening up and communicating your thoughts and your needs with her. And interestingly enough, The way you communicate with a woman directly affects how she responds to you.
This is true throughout the relationship, but it’s even true when you’re just trying to initiate that attraction. Far too many people are thinking that they’re just unattractive when in reality they have very poor communication skills and they don’t understand how to create that connection with her through the way they communicate.
And don’t worry, that’s okay. That’s something I’m going to explain how to do, and it’s very simple, in the academy. So again, you’ve got to be one of the first 100 men to join, so click that link. Often this simple barrier of lack of good communication is a large part of what’s holding you back. It’s truly a barrier.
Exciting how simple it can be. The next thing every man needs to know about women is that women are very observant and women pick up on little things. For instance, research shows us that women, generally speaking, there are always exceptions, but generally speaking, women are much better at reading body language than men.
So women pick up on the little things very quickly. It’s honestly, I believe God made us that way because it’s what makes us good mothers when we’re in that.
And so that’s both for good and for bad, this is one of the reasons why a woman may say, eh, this relationship is not going to work, and a guy has no idea why. Or if there are a lot of positive things going on, she’s saying, holy cow, I am crazy about this guy. She notices the little things, okay? This is why it is so important to to be mindful of your actions and your words and your body language.
And don’t worry, again, I make these things very simple for you in my academy. Everything’s laid out in step by step format of how to be the dream man of your dream girl. So it doesn’t have to be overwhelming, okay? I’m here for you. I’ve made it very easy. Next up in what men need to know about women is that confidence.
Confidence is key. Just like most men are drawn to confident women, women are drawn to confident men. It makes you masculine and protective and strong. It’s important to recognize the difference between true confidence and arrogance. Arrogant, many, many people are like, I’m so confident, and they’re actually arrogant jerks.
And yes, women pick up on that. The toxic drama queens will love it, but the high value women will run. Arrogance is actually the opposite of confidence. It’s people trying to pretend they’re confident when they’re actually not. If you’re confident, you don’t need that much attention. A really good example of this, if you have been following me for a while here, you might know a little mild obsession with Breath of the Wild, Zelda Breath of the Wild.
And perfect example of this would be Revali. I think I said that right this time. I usually call him Ravioli because I don’t like him. I’m sorry. Hopefully I’m not nobody don’t leave me mean comments, okay? You can like who you like. However, Revali versus Saiden. Saiden has true confidence. He doesn’t need the attention.
However, he gets it automatically because he’s just that cool because he’s not desperate for the attention. Revali, on the other hand, is desperate for attention. He needs everybody to notice just how cool he is. And that’s exactly what makes him cool. So to bring this all back, understanding how to be a truly confident man is irresistibly attractive.
That is one of the traits I like to call attractive by default, because if you are a confident person, you are automatically attractive. And confidence is one of my very favorite things to teach you and help you master in my academy. As a matter of fact, one of the fastest results, like you can start seeing within a week in the academy, is One last reminder, Attracting Lasting Love Academy closes for enrollment at midnight tonight.
You cannot wait because it’s not scheduled to open again until next year. The first 100 men to join get it for 50 percent off. Hopefully some of those are still available for you if they are. Check the link to find out. Just go to coachmelannie. com slash flash dash sale. I am truly delighted at the prospect of being able to guide you to the love you deserve, whether you already are interested in someone, are possibly already in a relationship, or have truly never Known what it feels like to have someone you’re attracted to be attracted to you as well.
No matter what phase you’re in, when it comes to love, the things you learn there, because it’s based on the science of attraction, will transform your life as you apply them. I’ve helped so many men who are frustrated and confused and just wanted someone to make it simple, and that’s exactly what I’m here to do for you.
So go to coachmelannie. com slash flash dash sale, or click the link in the description below, and I’ll put a link in the pinned comment as well. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend. Make sure you check out that link. A huge thank you to everyone who’s so amazing with the super thanks. It truly warms my heart.
Share with a friend, make sure your friend knows to check out the academy before it’s gone as well. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend. Have an amazing day, and I will see you in the academy.
