How To Get A Girl To Chase You? (Attract Women To You Like A Magnet!) Wondering how to make a girl chase you? I totally get it. Knowing how to attract women, how to get a girl to like you and understanding the psychology of attraction can be overwhelming. This makes knowing how to make her chase you sound really appealing. I’ve got a bit of a spoiler though… Getting a girl to chase you isn’t effective at all! So how do you get a girl to like you and how do you get a girlfriend? I explain all of that in this video. You’ll know why you don’t need to get girls to chase you AND the crazy effective way to get a girl to like you. Actually… This is what makes a woman fall in love with you! Sound exciting? Let’s dive in to How to Get a Girl to Chase You? (Attract Women to you Like a Magnet!)
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How To Get A Girl To Chase You? (Attract Women To You Like A Magnet!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video is on how to get a girl to chase you? Attract women to you like a magnet.
What you are going to learn in this video is how to be absolutely irresistible to women and in particular the type of woman you’ve always dreamed of having.
In this video, you are going to learn how to be irresistible to the kind of woman you want. So if you’ve been wondering how to get a girlfriend this video is for you.
But I’m not talking about just any girlfriend I am literally talking about your dream girlfriend.
So if you’re sick of being single and you’re sick of settling, if you’re sick of feeling like relationships take a ton of work, then you are going to absolutely love what is in this video.
Because as I mentioned you will know how to be a magnet to the type of woman you want.
Now if you’ve been following my channel for a while you may have seen this video (Once You Stop Caring… She Starts Chasing?) and you’re thinking “wait, Melannie, I thought that you said…”
And you’re right and this is all going to make sense in just a second. So just stay with me and go with me on this for a moment.
I want you to think for a second, why would you google “how to get a girl to chase you”?
For the most part, when a man googles this it’s frankly because you’re sick of relationships where you put in all the effort and you just get heartbroken and rejected and turned down.
Where you give everything and she’s just this little prima donna and it’s exhausting, am I right?
If you’re watching this right now I’m going to safely assume you are looking for a relationship where it’s give-and-take.
And the reason you thought “hey this would be amazing if she would chase me” is because you’re sick of putting in all of the work and getting nothing in return. Does that sound accurate?
But if you did see the video I mentioned above you will remember that I kind of showed you an illustration with my fingers.
A healthy relationship is two people who are close to each other and they want to be close to each other. But if one person is chasing the other then they’re always distant from each other, they aren’t close.
And what most people really want is a close relationship. Two people who love each other, two people who want to contribute to the relationship and who want to be there for each other.
Most people actually rather have this close relationship rather than this chasing game that frankly is unfulfilling, it’s lonely, and it’s exhausting.
So as I mentioned I am going to teach you how to be irresistible to women. And the truth is you’re not going to get it from this chasing thing.
You want a relationship that’s actually real and actually sincere. And that is what I’m going to be covering in this article. It’s not about getting her to chase you or you chasing her.
What I’m going to be teaching you is insanely powerful and this is what actually works to get the type of relationship you’re looking for. Sound good?
If you are looking for that long-term, close, crazy in love relationship make sure you read to the very end because this is going to be a huge eye-opener for you.
How To Get A Girl To Chase You? Be Attractive By Default
Now before we dive in, if this is your first time here, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and your energy on those dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to get your ideal girl.
We’ve already covered why getting her to chase you or you chasing her isn’t effective at all. It’s not going to get you the kind of relationship that you want.
So what do you need to do instead? What do you need to do that is actually going to work? What you need instead is you need to know how to be attractive by default.
Now, this is my proprietary framework, I created this. It comes from my insights as a woman as well as my extensive research and training as a certified coach and just like everything I teach, Christian based, science-backed.
This is the same framework I teach my paid clients that gets them such amazing results.
In short, it just works and you’re going to be shocked at how much better it is than this unfulfilling chasing her, her chasing you.
Reason Being Attractive By Default Works #1
So first let me give you a kind of a rundown of what it means to be attractive by default. As humans, there are just things we’re attracted to. That makes sense, right? That’s the way God created us.
Being attractive by default is kind of the science behind it. There are things that as humans we’re just drawn to and attracted to.
And when someone has those traits they’re absolutely irresistible, they are a magnet. When we see the traits in someone that we admire and that we are also trying to have we want to be with them more.
This is why I teach these specific attractive by default traits to my paid clients. I teach them how to turn these things into habits.
And, this is the crazy cool part, when you turn it into a habit it’s very natural, it’s very automatic, and that’s why you’re attracted by default. Your default setting is to be totally irresistible.
So honestly you don’t have to worry about her chasing you because she’s just going to be drawn to you like crazy.
And the reason it works is you took those traits, those attractive by default traits, and they became a part of you because you turned them into habits. So your default setting is now super attractive.
Reason Being Attractive By Default Works #2
The second reason this is so crazy effective is that you get to stay you.
I have men reach out to me sometimes and say “everybody keeps telling me I need to improve or I need to learn things but isn’t it just okay for me to be me?“
Absolutely! 100%. As a matter of fact, you should be you. The point here is to just be the best you that you can be.
That’s why turning these traits into habits makes you really be able to shine and be the best version of you possible, but you’re totally you.
And I see where these concerns come from because there’s a lot of advice on the internet right now that’s like “say this specific line“, “treat her exactly this way” and it’s not who you are.
This is why I will never give you a script of certain things to say because the truth is, one, it’s not effective, and two, it’s not you When you are attractive by default you are you and attractive by default as you.
It’s really about freeing yourself from the insecurities and limitations that you feel and becoming the best you and the most real you. The person God sent you here to be.
And the truth is it’s an incredibly freeing feeling. This is again why you want to be attractive by default instead of getting women to chase you and having that relationship that’s just not close.
Is this making sense so far? Now I want to mention that if you would like to learn more about my attractive by default framework I have a totally free masterclass for you that’s going to give you that overview.
Just click here to give it a watch today.
Quick question for you before we get to number three: would you like more videos on how to get women to like you and how to be attractive to women and how to get a girlfriend?
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Reason Being Attractive By Default Works #3
The third reason this is so much more effective than getting a woman to chase you is that these traits that make you attractive by default are what make a woman fall in love with you.
We’re not talking about just crushing on you, we’re talking fall crazy in love with you. And she will stay in love with you.
As I mentioned after you have taken these traits and you have turned these traits into habits she’s just going to stay in love with you as long as you keep these things habitual.
So if you have struggled to keep relationships once you get them this is definitely going to be a powerful tool for you.
She’s going to fall in love with you, she’s going to stay in love with you, and she’s going to fall deeper and deeper in love with you. And that’s a powerful and comforting thing.
I know a lot of men are afraid of her cheating on them or leaving them. And as long as you have these traits and you’re attracting the right types of women you’re not going to have to worry about that.
Where if instead you’re playing games with her, making her chase you, you chasing her, all that stuff, it’s all based on games and that loyalty and honesty are not there in the relationship.
Reason Being Attractive By Default Works #4
The fourth reason this is so crazy effective and such a good direction to go in is that it really frees you and allows you to feel amazing about yourself.
Because in reality, all the traits that make someone attractive by default are positive.
They boost your self-image, boost your self-confidence, and they boost your self-esteem.
And pretty soon you feel like the amazing man you were sent here to be and that you deserve to feel like.
Because the truth is you are that amazing.
Reason Being Attractive By Default Works #5
And the fifth reason this is so much more effective than trying to make a girl chase you is that some of the traits that are attracted by default are dating and relationship skills.
Not only do you have these traits that are insanely attractive and make you irresistible but you’re really good at dating and really good at relationships.
This is part of why you’re not going to have a problem attracting your dream girl.
You’re not gonna have to waste all this time on mind games getting her to chase you because you’re going to be a magnet for her.
So now you’re irresistible to her, you feel absolutely amazing, you get to be true to who you are, and you are a boss at dating and relationships.
Honestly, you’re the full package at this point. This is what makes you that human magnet. This is what makes your default setting attractive.
So now you can get your ideal girlfriend and you can keep her. You can have that happy lifelong relationship and you don’t have to worry about playing games and making her chase you.
You also don’t have to worry about these dead-end relationships where you feel used, you feel abused, and you feel like “why do I have to put in all of the effort?“
So bottom line, as glamorous as it can sound to have her chase you the reality is it’s a very empty relationship and it’s unfulfilling. Again you’re never close to each other as long as one person is chasing the other.
What you really want is that closeness. You want love, you want someone you can trust. You’re never going to have that if you’re chasing each other back and forth.
Why even have a relationship if there’s no closeness? This is why it is so much better to be attractive by default. That is what is actually going to get you what you are wanting.
Now I know we’re out of time in this article so I’m not going to be able to share with you the steps of how to become attractive by default.
But I actually have another video for you on this. It’s my free masterclass that is going to teach you the three biggest mistakes that will keep you single forever.
You are going to learn why you do not have your ideal girlfriend, and what to do instead. And you are going to learn the same attractive by default framework I teach my paid clients that get them such amazing results.
Check out this link to get that overview of the five-step process of becoming attractive by default. Pretty exciting, right? So check out that link and give that free masterclass a watch today.
Thank you so much for reading my amazing friend and congratulations on reading to the end!
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