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How To Approach Girls (Works Every Time!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about how to approach girls. This works every time. Seriously I’m going to be sharing some crazy effective secrets that stop rejection.
Do you have the fear of approaching a beautiful gal because you’re afraid you’re gonna be rejected or get turned down? Or have you been rejected a lot and turned down a lot in the past?
If either of these situations sounds like you then this article was made for you.
You’re going to learn what to stop doing and you’re going to learn what to start doing so that you stop being rejected and instead you get the girl.
So make sure you read to the end because each of these tips is very important. I have five specific tips for you today but before we dive in if this is your first time watching, welcome!
My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time and your money on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to get the girl of your dreams.
Let’s talk about how to approach girls. These tips I am sharing with you apply if there’s someone you kind of know and you’re just trying to figure out how to approach her, maybe you have mutual friends or something like that.
It also works if you’re in one of those situations where you’re like “I’m probably never going to see her again. Should I try and approach, try and get her number? Because if I don’t I’ll never see her again.“
So these tips apply for both scenarios. If you kind of know her a little bit or even if this is like a completely cold approach.
How To Approach Girls Tip #1: Learn To Read Body Language
Tip number one for how to approach girls is you need to be able to read her body language.
One of the biggest mistakes, please pay close attention guys, one of the biggest mistakes that cause so many awesome guys to be rejected is they approach without seeing the signs that she was interested.
You may have seen this video (How To Tell If A Girl Likes You But Is Trying To Hide It) or even this video (How To Know If A Girl Likes You) and know a little bit about how to know if a girl’s interested.
This is how you know if she wants you to approach her. If she is sending those signs that she’s interested then it’s pretty safe to approach, right?
Because you know that she’s asking you to approach by how she’s looking at you and how she’s interacting with you.
If you approach when that’s not happening there’s a much much higher likelihood that she’s going to reject you.
That tip right there is very helpful, however, that’s not the only thing you need. You can still mess it up at this point. Which leads us to tip number two.
Tip #2: A Game Plan That Works
To approach girls successfully you have got to have a game plan that works, okay?
Another one of the biggest mistakes that cause so many good guys to be rejected is they don’t really know what they’re doing. They just kind of guess what will work hoping and praying that it will turn out well.
But if you’re just guessing that’s what’s going to make you come across as awkward or creepy or needy.
And when you do that she’s done. She’s not trying to be rude, she’s not rejecting you because she’s trying to be rude, she feels awkward or she feels a little creeped out and that’s what causes her to reject you.
When instead you have a game plan, when instead you know step by step what to do, that’s how you make your approach incredibly successful.
These tips I’m sharing with you are some of those steps and they’re very helpful, I do want to mention though because I want to set you up for success that this is something I go in much greater detail in my program.
Not only will you know step by step in detail how to approach girls but you will also know how to get the absolute love of your life.
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The bottom line, our second tip on how to approach girls guys is that you have to have a game plan.
You can’t just “okay, I’m gonna man up, I’m just gonna alpha up, I’m just gonna make this happen.” That’s how you appear aggressive and needy and creepy.
You need a game plan. So stop winging it, stop just guessing what will work. That is honestly one of the best ways to get rejected over and over again.
Tip #3: Know What To Say To Her
Now our next tip on how to approach girls is to make sure you know what to say.
A lot of men put so much effort into that first line, that pick up line, what to say to get her attention, and then they have no idea what to say next.
And when this happens she doesn’t know what to say next either, her mind is racing, and it ends up becoming a very very awkward, awkward situation. Have you been there? It’s awkward.
Again this is why that game plan is so important and why it’s something I do teach in my program. Plan it out, have a game plan, know what to say after you approach her.
This is going to make you feel comfortable, this is going to help you feel confident, and it’s going to make her feel comfortable and make her feel more attracted to you.
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Tip #4: Don’t Take It Personally
Okay, our next tip is very critical. One of the biggest things you need to know when learning how to approach girls is to not take it personally.
Now I know this sounds so much easier to say than it is to do, but with the right mindset, this actually becomes much more simple.
Know that approaching is a risk and don’t take the risk personally.
At some point you have to take a risk, okay? It does not matter how many signs you see that she likes you, at some point you’ve just gotta risk it and find out.
And I know that that’s scary and it’s totally normal to be afraid of rejection.
I’m gonna let you in on a little bit of a secret: Girls are afraid of rejection too, okay? And even though it maybe doesn’t look like she is putting herself out there or like she’s afraid of rejection she is.
And so if she’s sending you those signs that she’s interested in you she is risking rejection just by doing that. Women get rejected all the time guys, seriously.
This is something that every woman has to go through. It obviously looks different for women than men, but she is risking, she is putting herself out there and she is getting rejected as well.
Realize that rejection has zero reflection on your worth. Society tries to make it look like “if you’re a man then you can get women no problem.“
They make it appear as though all of your worth is centered on being able to approach flawlessly and have women like kissing your feet.
The truth is has nothing to do with your worth. Just like it’s not a reflection on her worth if she flirts with someone and he rejects her, it has nothing to do with your worth if she turns you down.
So prepare yourself mentally. Realize it is not the end of the world if this doesn’t go well. And the best-case scenario, this is going to go well. But if you psych yourself out and your brain it’s not gonna go well.
Just realize, “yes, this is a risk. I am taking a risk and it’s okay.“
Tip #5: Don’t Appear Threatening
Now our next tip on how to approach girls is you need to make sure you are not threatening and that you are not coming across as threatening.
One thing you need to know about women is we kind of have this internal alarm system.
We are completely aware of the fact that you are stronger than us. And when she knows and trusts you that’s really attractive to her. But when she doesn’t know and trust you that can make you a threat.
Again this is why having that game plan is so important. Because if you just guess and wing it you come across as creepy or needy or aggressive. Her internal alarm system flips out and she’s done because she’s scared.
So part of your game plan must include how to not be threatening. This comes down to how you talk to her, this comes down to your body language, this comes down to how you interact with her.
If you do come across as threatening she’s done. But if you come across as warm and friendly and fun that is going to make your approach successful instead of tanking.
So just know that as a guy certain things don’t seem threatening to you at all because it wouldn’t be threatening to you. But as a girl, yeah, it’s threatening to her.
Again awkward is threatening, needy is threatening, creepy is very threatening. So having that game plan is very important.
How To Approach Girls Recap
All right now you know that if you want a successful approach and if you want women to stop rejecting you and instead get the girl, it’s important to make sure you’re reading the signs that she’s interested in you.
It’s very important that you have a game plan, that you have already decided what your steps will be instead of just guessing.
You need to make sure you know what to say instead of just standing there awkwardly like “Now what?“
It’s also important that you accept that you’re taking a risk and that it’s just okay and that you don’t take that personally.
You also need to make sure you are not threatening. If you are coming across as threatening it’s not gonna go well.
As long as you follow these tips and continue to learn, you’ll go from being rejected or being afraid of rejection, and instead have an awesome approach and ultimately be get that dream girl.
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