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How To Attract Women (7 Behaviors That Make You Irresistible To Women)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video is on how to attract women (7 behaviors that are irresistible to women).
If you are looking for a happy, lifelong relationship, the kind of relationship where you’re married to your best friend and you’re in love forever, then these are the traits you need to make sure you have.
If you’ve been following my channel for a while, you know something you can expect from me is real skills that actually work. I’m talking about science-based skills.
So if you are looking for that lifelong relationship, if you’re looking for the absolute love of your life, make sure you watch to the end.
Before we dive in if you haven’t seen any of my videos before, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time, your energy, and your money on bad and dead-end relationships by instead learning the skills you need to get your dream girl. Sounds amazing, right?
Now, as I mentioned, everything I teach on my channel is about how to have that happy lifelong relationship. So some of these things I’m about to share with you may honestly surprise you.
And that’s because most people don’t talk about these traits. After all, many people are teaching you how to only have an overnight fling, right?
They’re not teaching you how to have a healthy, happy, crazy-in-love relationship.
So honestly, I think these traits are going to surprise and comfort you a lot. With that, let’s dive in with our first tip on how to attract women.
How To Attract Women Behavior #1: A Real Man
She wants a real man. Now what I mean by this is she wants a man who’s real, who’s human.
Society tries to tell both men and women that we should almost be plastic and fake. But at the end of the day, none of us are actually like that or want it.
So at the end of the day, a real woman, a woman who’s not toxic, is very aware of her imperfections. And so what she wants is someone who’s not perfect either.
She wants somebody who can laugh at himself and who she can laugh at herself with and someone real.
Yes, she wants you to always be improving. She wants you to have a growth mindset, she wants you to be trying to be the best person you can be, but ultimately she’s just looking for someone very human.
Behavior #2: Be Assertive
Now my second tip on how to attract women is to realize that she wants someone assertive.
Now here’s why: When you are assertive, you know how to set appropriate and respectful boundaries.
This lets people know that you have respect for yourself, and frankly, it makes people feel safer when they are around you.
A lot of people feel like setting boundaries is unkind in some way. But in reality, when you do it the right way, it makes people feel safe with you.
When we aren’t assertive and don’t set appropriate boundaries, we tend to let the tension and the frustration build up. And then it’s a lot easier to just snap at someone and be a little bit unkind.
Where if instead you just set boundaries, you don’t have to worry about that.
Also, if you’re not setting boundaries, if you’re not being assertive, it’s hard for her to respect you. It’s hard to respect someone who doesn’t respect themselves enough to set boundaries.
If you’re reading this right now and feel like one of the nice guys who never get the girl, “well, nice guys don’t get the girl,” or “good guys don’t get the girl,” actually, guys who are not assertive don’t get the girl.
Being assertive and knowing how to set appropriate boundaries is a game-changer. Make sure you watch this video (How To Stop Being “The Nice Guy”) to learn more about that.
Behavior #3: Maturity
The third thing you need to know about how to attract women is that women want a mature man.
Pay very close attention to what I am about to tell you. This one mistake keeps so many amazing men single. This may be the biggest thing that keeps really good guys single.
Here it is: What worked in high school to get the girl is not going to work as an adult.
So many amazing guys, they learned how to text girls and talk to girls and ask girls out and act on dates and all these things from high school. Either by doing it in high school or by watching their peers in high school.
That will not work if you are trying to attract a mature woman. It just won’t work.
She has grown up and she is looking for a man. She does not want to see you like a schoolboy. She doesn’t want to feel like she felt when she was hanging out with the boys in high school.
She wants to see you as a man. So if you want her to see you as a potential husband and as a man, you must learn the right dating and relationship skills.
That right there is the game-changer. That is how you make sure you get the kind of woman you really want instead of a toxic woman or a needy woman or a drama queen.
How To Attract Women: Learn The Right Skills
Now I have had a lot of you asking me lately, “okay, Melannie, you keep telling us we need dating and relationship skills. How do we get those skills?“
This is what I created my program, How to Get a Girlfriend, to teach you. I walk you step by step through all the dating and relationship skills you need to start attracting the type of women you’re wanting.
So if you have ever watched any of my videos and wondered, “okay, how do I do that?” know that I try to pack as much information as I can in my YouTube videos.
I go to great lengths to make sure I am over-delivering for you but there’s no way I can add it all in a YouTube video or even several YouTube videos. There’s no humanly possible way.
And that’s why I created my program, so you could have that place to go and get those skills. It really is like sitting down for one-on-one coaching with me.
Everything I teach on my channel I dive deep and walk you step by step through specific action steps so you know how to have those dating and relationship skills so you can get them easily and you can get them fast.
I have literally made it as easy as possible for you. So to learn more about that program and my framework and why it works, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
If you want to know how to attract women, one of the biggest mistakes you need to avoid is using the same things you learned in high school or taking advice from people who learned these things in high school.
That’s why I became a certified coach, so I could serve you guys at the highest level. So again, if you haven’t, be sure to check out my masterclass.
Behavior #4: Be Compassionate And Gentle
Now my next tip on how to attract women may surprise you. That is that women really want someone compassionate and someone gentle.
I know this is not what society’s telling you, and I have so many men reach out to me and say, “okay, but she’s going to see me as weak.“
Well, if she’s a toxic woman, then yes, she might see you as weak. Make sure you watch this video (Toxic Girlfriend Signs: It’s Not You, It’s Her) to learn a little bit more about that and how to avoid it.
But honestly, real women, the kind of woman you want to spend your life with, being compassionate and gentle is one of the most attractive and masculine things you can do.
A real man, a masculine man, protects those weaker than himself, right? Ultimately what women really want still is she wants that knight in shining armor.
This is why the superhero industry is booming, guys. This is why it is so popular.
Because at the end of the day, a superhero is compassionate. He’s gentle, good, kind, and he’s never been more masculine in a woman’s eyes than when he is doing those things.
So it doesn’t matter what society tries to make you think, that is what women want.
She’s imperfect, she knows she’s imperfect, and she wants someone who’s going to be compassionate with her about that. Someone she can trust and who’s going to be very gentle with her.
If you have those traits, then you are someone she can see as a potential partner.
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Behavior #5: Don’t Be A Snob
My next tip on how to attract women is to make sure that you are not a religious snob. As I mentioned, I am a Christian. And the truth is Christian women are looking for Christian men. They just are.
They want someone who’s on the same page, who has the same priorities, who feels the same way about God that they do.
One of the main things I see keeps so many Christians single, both men and women, are that they kind of use religion as a way to be or feel better than other people.
Religion is not about what you look like to other people or being better than other people. Religion is about your relationship with God. Period. That’s it.
And a lot of people, without even realizing it, they come across as judgy or snotty or arrogant all based around religion.
So make sure you’re being an awesome guy. If you have a close relationship with God, nothing you do will be more attractive to her, okay? I’m being completely honest with you here.
A man who loves God with his whole heart and soul is more attractive than I even have words to express to you. However, if you turn that into arrogance, she’s done.
She doesn’t have time for someone who thinks he’s really awesome because he can quote scriptures all day long.
She cares about a man who knows Jesus and loves Him. Be sure to also watch this video (What Women Want In A Man). I talk about this a little bit there as well.
Behavior #7: Physically Attractive
Our next tip is she wants someone physically attractive. Now, before you start leaving me hate comments and before you start freaking out, hear me out.
Do you want a physically attractive woman? Of course you do, right? That’s a silly question.
And that’s a good thing, there’s nothing wrong with that, and that’s how God made us. He created us that way on purpose.
And frankly, anybody who tells you that physical attraction is not important, that’s actually a red flag of a toxic person, so be very careful about that.
God created us to be attractive to each other and to be attracted to each other. With that being said though, she doesn’t want someone perfect.
Again, society tries to make us feel plastic and fake and like unless you have abs and are 6’7″ and super buff and have tons of hair that she’s not gonna like you.
None of that is true. There’s nothing wrong with a six-pack, there’s nothing wrong with being tall, but at the end of the day, she’s not perfect, and she doesn’t want you to be perfect.
So here are the basics of physical attraction. Pay close attention. This is how God created it.
Physical attraction comes down to what you eat, what you wear, and how you hold yourself. It’s as simple as that.
Honestly, that’s it. If you want to be incredibly physically attractive, those are the three areas of focus that you need to have.
If you would like to skyrocket your physical attraction, these are the principles I teach you in my program, How to Get a Girlfriend.
Not only are you going to learn the dating and relationship skills you need, but you’re also going to learn how to skyrocket your physical attraction. And I make it so easy for you.
So again, if you haven’t yet watched my free masterclass, make sure you do. It’s going to help you so much.
The bottom line, physical attraction is very important, but it does not mean perfection. So many married men have wives who are insanely in love with them, and they do not have six-packs, okay?
She doesn’t want you to be perfect because it actually intimidates her. Even if to you she looks perfect, she does not look perfect to herself. So she’s not judging you that way.
Instead, she wants someone who is actively trying to be attractive and someone who knows how to put in the right type of effort.
Behavior #7: Be Supportive
Now our next tip on how to be attractive to women is to be supportive. Again, if you’re looking for that lifelong relationship, that means she is too.
That means she’s asking herself, “would I enjoy spending the rest of my life with this man?” And if you’re supportive, wow, that’s a good feeling, right?
She wants someone who supports her dreams, who helps her dream, who helps her feel like she can do anything.
Supporting her is going to make her see you as a superhero. It’s a trait that definitely attracts women.
How To Attract Women Recap
All right, let’s recap real fast, shall we?
If you’re trying to figure out how to be attractive to women, you must be a real man. Meaning that you’re human, you’re real, and you’re authentic.
You also need to make sure you are assertive and know how to set appropriate boundaries.
Next, it’s very important that you are mature, that you have dating and relationship skills that are mature instead of doing what worked in high school because it’s not going to work anymore.
To learn those solid dating and relationship skills, that’s what I created my program to teach you. So make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more.
Next, she is looking for a man who is compassionate and gentle. That’s what makes you a superhero in her eyes.
And make sure that you are not a religious snob. Religion is about your relationship with God. It’s not about feeling better than other people and judging them.
Next, remember that physical attraction is important. It does not mean perfection, but it is something she’s looking for. It’s about effort, not perfection.
And make sure that you are supportive. When a man supports her, she totally sees him as a superhero and as that knight in shining armor.
Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments. Did you enjoy this video? Do you want more videos on how to attract girls?
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