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11 Subtle Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think

Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 11 subtle signs you’re more attractive than you think.

I have men ask me every single day, “is there any hope for me? Should I just give up on ever having my dream relationship? Is it just too late?” The answer is there’s so much hope for you.

I help men with this every single day. Never feel like there’s no hope. If you’re asking, “is there any hope for me?” this article is for you.

We are going to be going over some of the traits that matter most to women, make a woman fall in love with you, and stay in love with you. So if you have these traits, you are far more attractive than you realize.

Many of you saw this video (17 Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think). If you did, you remember one thing that makes my methods different is I always teach you how to have a happy, lifelong relationship.

I am never going to teach you tactics and tricks that will only get you a one night stand. That’s not what I’m about.

So if you are here because you really just want to find that special someone to have and to hold and to love like crazy for your entire life, then these are the types of things she is looking for.

One thing that causes a lot of confusion for a lot of men is they’re told that women want things that frankly only one-night stand women want.

If she’s looking for a lifelong relationship, she’s looking for completely different traits.

The truth is if she’s the kind of woman who’s only interested in a one-night fling or only interested in using you, she doesn’t really care about who you are as a person.

But if she’s a woman who wants that happy, crazy-in-love relationship, these are the traits that mean the most to her.

Before we dive in, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie.

I’m a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time, energy, and money on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to get the girl and relationship of your dreams.

11 Subtle Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think Sign #1: Loyalty

So our first subtle sign you are more attractive than you think is that you are loyal.

As I mentioned, we’re talking about women who are looking for a lifelong relationship, a happy relationship. And loyalty is one of the most important things you can have in a partner.

If you’re a guy who doesn’t look around at other women and who wants to be completely committed and completely loyal to one woman, oh my goodness, that right there is insanely attractive.

It helps her feel safe with you, helps her feel like she can count on you, and yes, makes her fall in love with you.

Sign #2: Sincerity

Now our second sign that you’re more attractive than you think is that you are a sincere person.

At the end of the day, we all want to matter, right? We all want to feel like we’re important to somebody else. This is especially true if you’re going to be in a relationship with them.

So if you sincerely care about other people, make her feel important to you, and like you care about her as a person, that’ll give her butterflies, make her think about you all day, and make her fall in love with you.

So if you are present, someone who makes her feel connected to you, someone who makes her feel important, then you are far more attractive than you realize.

In a society where we’re always scrolling on our phone and kind of not really paying attention to people, this is a trait that really sets you apart.

Sign #3: You Maintain Healthy Relationships

Our third sign is that you are proactive about maintaining a healthy relationship. Of all the traits you could have, this one is probably the most undervalued trait.

A good way to think of it is let’s pretend somebody wanted to go into business with you, they wanted to be your business partner.

But let’s pretend that they weren’t really committed to the business. They didn’t really know what they were doing, and they just kind of expected you to put in a lot more effort than they did.

Would you go into business with this person? No. That would be a bad idea, right? Relationships are the same way.

The woman you are looking to attract wants a happy, healthy, long-term relationship. She is getting the dating and relationship skills she needs because she knows that’s how you create a healthy relationship.

And if you have those traits too, oh my goodness, you’re like a rock star in her eyes. You’re like a superhero. You are so attractive because that’s a hard trait to find.

But if you do not have those skills, then she knows it’s not going to work. It’s like going into business with someone who’s not committed to the business. Does that make sense?

If you want a good relationship, you have to have the right skills. Otherwise, you’re going to stay single forever, or you are going to have to settle for a toxic relationship.

She knows that, so she’s trying to have those skills, and if she sees that you have those skills too, whoa, you are amazing.

You know those guys who seem really good at getting girls to notice them? This is why. They have learned those skills, applied them, practiced them, and now getting girls is really easy for them.

If you want the girl of your dreams, dating and relationship skills are the way to do it.

How To Get Dating And Relationship Skills

This leads me to a question that I know you guys are going to ask. “Melannie, if I’m so attractive, why am I alone? Why am I single? Why do I struggle to get girls to want to date me?”

The answer is that attraction is not everything. It’s an important piece of the puzzle, but it’s not the whole puzzle. There are plenty of attractive people all over the planet who are single. I mean, Hollywood, let’s be real.

Pat yourself on the back for being an attractive person. That’s incredible. Now all you need in addition to the attraction are those dating and relationship skills.

This is something as a coach I see day in and day out. When you have solid dating and relationship skills, you get the girl. When you do not have solid dating and relationship skills, you don’t.

So how do you learn those skills, and how do you create a game plan? Guys, as a coach, this is what I do every day, and I have made it insanely simple for you.

This is why I created my program for you, so it could be easy, fast, and really fun.

If you have not yet seen my free masterclass, be sure to check it out. In that masterclass, you’ll learn about getting the skills, you’ll learn about the game plan, and you’ll get a sneak peek of my program.

So make sure you check that out if you’re just sick of your wasting time and energy and you’re ready to fast track it to getting the girl you want.

Sign #4: Kindness And Generosity

Now our next subtle sign you are more attractive than you think is that you are a kind and a generous person.

If you saw this video (How To Attract Women), then you are going to remember this.

One of the traits that makes you the most masculine is when you are a protector of those who are weaker than you are. This is what makes you a knight in shining armor, a superhero, and what makes you attractive.

So if you are someone who is compassionate and who is kind, wow, that is insanely attractive.

Again, she’s looking for a lifelong partner, so she wants to make sure you’re someone who’s going to be kind. And that right there, that gives girls butterflies, no lie.

Sign #5: Honesty

Our next sign that you’re more attractive than you think is that you are honest and you are upfront.

This is why mind games don’t work. This is why acting aloof and the whole “stop caring, she starts chasing” thing, and all the other mind games, don’t work.

A mature woman, a real woman, a woman who wants to love you for the rest of her life, does not have time for mind games. She just doesn’t.

So if you are honest, someone who’s upfront, someone who will discuss things with her and be transparent, that is insanely attractive. That’s what she’s looking for in a man.

Sign #6: Good With Animals And Kids

Our next sign you’re more attractive than you think is that you are good with animals and you’re good with kids.

This also kind of comes back to being kind and compassionate to those who are weaker than you.

The way you treat animals and the way you treat children speaks volumes to her. It says a lot about your maturity, it says a lot about your priorities, and really helps her feel that she can trust you.

This is one of the reasons why men who have dogs are often seen as more attractive. Women love it when you are good with kids and when you’re good with animals.

Quick question before we keep going: Are you guys enjoying this article? Would you like more videos on signs you’re more attractive than you think you are?

If you would, comment “YES!” and let me know about it. And if you have any other questions or suggestions for future videos, tell me about it in the comments.

Sign #7: You Don’t Talk Bad About Others

On to our next subtle sign you’re more attractive than you think. And that is that you don’t talk bad about other people.

Have you ever been around someone who’s just super negative and is really draining?

No one wants to be around someone who’s draining, but also, if you’re talking bad about other people, she has to wonder if you’re doing that about her too behind her back. It also doesn’t leave a good impression.

Where on the other side, if you’re someone who encourages people and builds people up, then she feels amazing when she’s around you. She feels encouraged and optimistic.

That’s the kind of person she wants to spend her life with. This also goes back to being a kind and compassionate person. That’s the kind of person that makes a woman fall in love and stay in love.

Sign #8: You’re Not Aggressive Or Needy

Our next sign you’re more attractive than you think is that you are not aggressive, and you’re not needy.

Being aggressive and/or being needy, man that pushes girls away so quickly. It creeps her out, it makes her feel like she can’t trust you, it drains her energy, it’s not what she wants.

If you saw this video (The Difference Between Chasing And Pursuing Women), then you’ve heard me talk about this a little bit.

What she wants instead is a man who is very confident and again, a man who has those dating and relationship skills.

Because when you have the right dating and relationship skills, you’re not needy, and you’re not aggressive. Instead, you just make a really really good partner.

This is why learning those skills is important. Check out my masterclass to learn more about how you can get those dating and relationship skills, so you don’t have to be needy or aggressive.

Sign #9: You Avoid Toxic People And Traits

Our next sign you’re more attractive than you think is that you are aware of toxic people, you’re aware of toxic traits, and you avoid them. You avoid them in the people around you, and you avoid them in yourself.

A woman who is proactive about being the best version of herself she can be, she can see a toxic person a mile away, and she does not want to get involved.

Healthy people avoid toxic people like crazy. So if you have some toxic traits, which is normal, we all have to assess that from time to time and see if there are things we need to improve on.

But if you have toxic traits in yourself and aren’t improving, she’s done. Or if you associate with a lot of toxic people, she’s done. She doesn’t want anything to do with that.

So if you are proactive about knowing what toxic people are and avoiding them and making sure you have healthy habits, those healthy skills instead, that’s insanely attractive.

Sign #10: You Communicate Well

Our next sign is that you are a good communicator. Of all things women like, this is one of the biggest things. If you can be a good communicator, oh my goodness, she’s going to love you forever.

Now communication can be on different levels. It can be something as simple as texting, “Hey, just wanted to make sure we’re still on tonight.” Or it can be “hey, can we talk about something? We need to work through this.

Women need communication. So if you’re someone who’s proactively trying to communicate well, you’re very attractive to her.

There are few things less attractive than a guy who won’t communicate. Even if he’s an awesome guy but can’t communicate well with her, that’s a really hard person to be in a relationship with, and so she’ll move on.

Sign #11: You Encourage And Compliment Her

And her next sign that you’re more attractive than you think is that you encourage and compliment her.

People like people who make them feel good. So if you’re someone who encourages her, someone who compliments her, and makes her feel like a really great person, wow, that is so attractive.

When you know how to compliment and flirt the right way, your attraction skyrockets, and that’s what makes her fall in love and stay in love.

So many people are afraid that they won’t be able to keep the flame alive once it happens.

Guys, all you have to do is learn the right skills and keep doing them, and then it’s easy to get her to fall in love with you and get her to stay in love with you.

Just like you like people who make you feel good, she likes people who make her feel good. So if you’re very encouraging and complimentary, that is a very attractive trait.

11 Subtle Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think Recap

All right, so let’s sum up what you’ve learned so far. The subtle signs you are more attractive than you think are: 

  1. You are loyal.
  2. You are sincere. You can really make her feel connected to you and important.
  3. You are proactive about maintaining a healthy relationship. You’re proactive about getting the dating and relationship skills you need and actually applying them.
  4. You are a kind and generous person, especially to those who are weaker than you.
  5. You are honest and upfront with her. No mind games.
  6. You are good with animals and kids.
  7. You also don’t talk bad about people.
  8. You are not aggressive or needy. Those are definitely things you want to avoid.
  9. You are aware of toxic people and toxic traits. You avoid them in others and in yourself.
  10. You are a good communicator. This one right here is a game-changer. No lie.
  11. You compliment and encourage her. People like people who make them feel good.

And there you have it, my friend. 11 subtle signs you are more attractive than you think you are. If you notice any of these signs or several of these signs, pat yourself on the back, that’s incredible.

And if you’re asking, “Then why don’t I have a girl?” learning the dating and relationship skills you need is the key, so make sure you watch my masterclass.

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