How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You (Subconscious Signals!) Do you know the signs she’s flirting with you? If you don’t, it’s time to learn! The secret of how to know if a girl likes you has a LOT to do with women’s body language. Whether you are wondering how to tell if a girl is flirting with you at work or if you really need to know how to tell if a girl is flirting with you OR just being nice, these tips are sure to help. Ready? Let’s get started with How to Tell if a Girl is Flirting With YOU (Subconscious Signals)!

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How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You (Subconscious Signals!)

Hello, my wonderful friend! Today we are going to be talking about how to tell if a girl is flirting with you. Specifically, some subconscious signals that are easy to miss but very effective when you know how to spot them.

Have you ever been in that situation where you can’t tell if she’s flirting with you? The last thing you want is to make a move when she’s not flirting. It’s awkward and embarrassing, right? Not to mention, just painful.

Or on the flip side, you don’t want to assume she’s not flirting with you when she totally is and miss out on the opportunity to get to know her better, am I right?

It can be very confusing, not to mention kind of painful. In this article you will learn some of the common subtle signs a girl is flirting with you so that it does not have to be confusing anymore.

I’m also going to share with you one of the biggest mistakes men make that mess it up when they see these signs. So make sure you pay close attention and make sure you watch to the end.

Before we dive into how to tell if a girl is flirting with you, if this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.

I teach you how to stop wasting your time and money on bad relationships and dead-end relationships by just learning the skills you need to get the girl of your dreams.

Now you may have recently seen this video on how you can be good at flirting. But how do you know if she’s flirting with you?

The truth is there are very subtle things women do to flirt. Much of it comes down to body language signals. And here’s kind of the tricky part: Women think they’re being super obvious.

Women are very good at reading body language. As she’s flirting with you and she’s doing these subtle things, she thinks it’s super obvious.

And if you don’t pick up on it and if you don’t make a move, whoa, that is rejection, and it’s incredibly hurtful to her, and so she moves on.

Therefore it’s critical that you do learn these signs and that you start practicing looking for them. With that, let’s get started with our first sign she’s flirting with you.

Sign #1: She Glances At You Frequently

Sign number one is that she glances at you and then glances at you again and again and again. Basically, within a short time, just a few minutes, you catch her glancing at you a lot.

If she glances at you, does her thing, glances at you, does her thing, yeah, that is a great sign.

She’s looking at you because one, she thinks you’re cute. Two, she’s flirting, trying to get you to approach her, notice her, and talk to her.

If you notice that your eyes meet with a gal frequently, it’s for a reason. So if you notice that within a few minutes you catch her glancing at you a lot, yeah, it’s because she’s flirting and thinks you’re cute.

Sign #2: She Tilts Her Head When Interacting With You

Now my next sign she’s flirting with you is if she tilts her head when she talks to you. Or even when she’s just looking at you, especially if she’s doing something with her hair or something.

If you notice that she tilts her head a lot, that is a common body language signal that she thinks you are cute and wants you to notice her.

There are many reasons women do this. Sometimes it’s so that she can fix her hair or her jewelry to point it out. Also, it’s to partially show her neck.

The bottom line is if you notice that she tilts her head when she talks to you a lot, it’s a great sign that she is interested in you.

Now, as always, you do need to make sure you keep everything in context because everyone’s body language is a little bit different.

So do make sure you also watch this video (How To Know If A Girl Likes You: These Tips Avoid Disaster). It will teach you a lot about how to not read the signs wrong because it’s easy to mess that up.

What Do You Do When A Girl Is Flirting With You?

Now speaking of messing up, before we get to the rest of the signs, I want to mention the big mistake guys make with these signs that totally messes it up.

Let’s pretend you see a gorgeous gal and you’re seeing the signs that she’s flirting with you, that she’s interested in you. What now? What are you going to do?

Are you just going to say, “yes! I saw the signs she likes me” and go home? Well, no. The whole point here is to get to know her better, right? But how do you do that?

How do you attract and impress her more instead of having this end in rejection? Your answer is to have a solid game plan.

If you want to make sure that you’re not terrified, you need to know step by step what you’re going to do. How you’re going to approach, ask her out, get her number, and flirt with her.

That right there is your lifesaver because then it’s automatic, it’s natural, it’s easy, and it’s a whole lot more fun.

I teach you more about having a solid game plan, what it looks like, and how to get one in my free masterclass.

If you want to make sure you’re prepared and don’t get rejected and that it’s not awkward, you need to make sure you have that game plan. So be sure to check out that link.

Sign #3: She Moves Into Your Personal Space

And let’s move on to our next sign she’s flirting with you. And that is when she comes into your personal space.

As humans, we all have different levels of personal space, right? Or a personal bubble as many people call it. And when we’re interested in someone, we naturally want to be close to them.

This is a common thing girls do if they don’t know you very well or are shy. Some women are comfortable touching you. Some women are not, so what she’ll do instead is move into your personal space then back out.

And often, she doesn’t even realize she’s doing that, but she’s kind of seeing how you would react to that. Are you okay with her that close? Do you react well? Do you react negatively and back away?

Sometimes if you notice she sits closer to you or she stands closer to you than she does other people, that’s a great sign.

Some women will even just move in and out as she’s talking to you. She’ll move into your personal space and laugh and tease and maybe push you a little bit, and then she’ll back out again.

And this is just her way of seeing how you react, and it’s quite flirtatious. If you were to observe girls flirting, this is a common thing that they do.

They move into your space and out, into your space and out. It looks very natural and very subtle until you know to look for it, and then it’s pretty easy to spot.

Is this making sense so far? I’m super curious. I want to hear from you guys in the comments. Which of these signs she’s flirting with you surprises you the most? Tell me about it.

And would you like more videos on flirting? If you would be sure to comment ‘flirt’ so I know to make more for you. 

Sign #4: She Frames Her Face Through Her Body Language

Okay, are you ready for our next sign? Our next sign is that she frames her face. What in the world do I mean by that?

This sign is easiest to spot when you are sitting down. If a girl is interested, she will often frame and try to draw attention to her face with her hands. Maybe she’ll do two hands too.

She can do this in many different ways. For example, she may play with her earrings or her hair. Also, she may rest her head in her hand or both hands. Just make sure she’s not doing that out of boredom.

This being a sign she is flirting with you is especially true if her wrist is pointed towards you. That is a great sign.

She does this because she wants you to notice her face and to think she’s pretty. Again women often don’t even know we’re doing this. But when she’s flirting, she’s probably gonna pull this one out.

Sign #5: She Wants To Spend Time With You

Now my next tip on how to tell if a girl is flirting with you is if she wants to spend time with you.

Perhaps you suggest doing something, and she says, “yeah! Let’s do this.” or maybe she frequently volunteers her time doing the same things as you.

Maybe she even says something like, “oh my goodness, I would love to do that sometime. We should totally do that.” That is about as obvious as a girl can get.

She thinks she’s being insanely obvious, and if you don’t pick up on that one, yeah, that’s rejection. To her, that is outright rejection.

So if you notice that she suggests doing things together, that’s fabulous. Or even if she’s just super willing to be with you all the time, that’s huge.

Now again, I just want to emphasize something real fast because I have so many men coming to me heartbroken. They say, “did she play me? I saw the signs, but nothing happened.

No, she didn’t play you. You didn’t have a game plan. So make sure you have a game plan, and you know what to do. That’s what makes this process go from super awkward and painful to really fun and automatic.

To learn about the right game plan, make sure you watch my free masterclass.

How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You (Subconscious Signals!) Recap

Let’s sum up what you’ve learned so far:

  1. You catch her glancing at you frequently. Especially if it happens in just a short time. If she’s glancing at you a lot, yes, she is flirting.
  2. She tilts her head when she talks to you or even when just looking at you. If there’s some head tilting going on, that is a great sign.
  3. She moves into your personal space. She may come into your personal space and stay there, stand really close to you, or sit really close to you, or she may move in and out during the conversation.
  4. She frames her face with one or both of her hands, trying to get you to notice her and think she’s pretty.
  5. She wants to spend time with you and really seems to enjoy spending time with you. She may even tell you, “oh my goodness, I love spending time with you.” That is her flirting really aggressively.

And there you have it, my friends. Some great signs to tell if she’s flirting with you.

Again, I want to hear which of these surprised you the most, which one you found the most unusual. Be sure to comment and tell me about it and comment ‘flirt’ if you would like to see more videos on flirting.

Do you have a friend who’s struggling to know if someone cute is flirting with him? Please share this with him. Seriously it’s a lifesaver. You don’t want it to end awkwardly for him either, right?

If we’re not yet friends on social media, there are links in the description below. I would love to connect with you there. Thank you so much again for watching my amazing friend and have an amazing day!

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