7 Signs She Wants You To Talk To Her (How to avoid rejection and ghosting!) A big part of knowing how to talk to girls and how to flirt with girls is knowing if they want you to talk to them! If you know the body language signs she likes you then you are way ahead of the game. As a bonus, these are also the signs a girl wants you to approach her! So if you’ve been wondering when to approach girls, how to talk to women or how to talk to your crush then you will love these 7 signs she wants you to talk to her!
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7 Signs She Wants You To Talk To Her
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 7 signs she wants you to talk to her and how to avoid rejection and ghosting.
When you see a cute gal, wouldn’t it just be so much easier if you knew whether she wanted you to talk to her or not? It would be a million times easier, right?
So if you want to avoid rejection and being ghosted, make sure you read to the end because each of these signs is very powerful.
Before we dive into the signs, if this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting time and energy on bad relationships by learning the skills you need to instead get your dream girl.
Okay, have you ever been in that situation where you see a gorgeous gal, and you really want to talk to her, and it goes terribly wrong?
It’s awful, right? You don’t want to be embarrassed, you don’t want to be rejected, you don’t want to be ghosted.
I’m going to let you in on a secret. Body language is going to be the game-changer for you. If you can read a woman’s body language, it changes everything.
When you notice through her body language and how she interacts with you that she wants you to talk to her, that is a huge difference from approaching her and trying to talk to her when she’s not interested.
That’s going to cause you to be rejected and ghosted. But if instead, you see that she does want you to talk to her, that’s huge, right? That, my friend, is when you should approach.
And the truth is if she’s not sending you the signs she wants to talk to you, it’s not always because she’s rude. Maybe she’s in a relationship or something like that.
Regardless, if you approach at that time, it’s not gonna go well. So knowing these signs that she wants you to talk to her is very important. So are you ready to learn those signs? Let’s dive in.
Sign #1: She Is Short Of Breath
Our first sign she wants you to talk to her is if she seems kind of short of breath when she is around you. Or like it’s a little harder to breathe.
You know how when you get a little nervous it’s harder to breathe, right? If you notice that in her, it can be a good sign that she’s nervous when she’s around you because she likes you.
It’s that nervousness causes her to breathe a little quicker and for it to be harder for her to breathe.
You may even notice that her nostrils will flair a little bit. I know that’s not the most romantic thing, but it can totally happen if she’s struggling to breathe because she’s attracted to you and wants you to talk to her.
Sign #2: She Tries To Get Closer To You
And my second sign she wants you to talk to her is if she tries to get closer to you.
When she wants to talk to you, it’s common for her to try to, I don’t want to say follow you around, but it kind of is like that in a non-creepy way.
If she kind of happens to go where you go and kind of try to be where you are, it’s often because she’s trying to just make it as convenient as possible for you to talk to her.
And so if she in a way follows you around it’s because she’s just trying to be there so that you notice her and so that you will talk to her.
This means you could move around a little bit and see if she kind of follows and goes in the same direction and area you’re going in.
Or even if you just notice that she always tries to be close to where you are and is always inching her way closer to you. Those are great signs.
Sign #3: She Blushes
Now my next sign she wants you to talk to her is that she blushes when your eyes meet. And she may even look away or look down or smile like a fool.
But if you notice that she blushes when your eyes meet or when you smile at her, that’s a good sign. As humans, we blush for a reason, right? It’s not something you do just randomly. It’s always for a reason.
And if she thinks you’re cute and she wants to talk to you, it’s common for her to blush. She’s feeling nervous, she’s feeling excited, she’s feeling those butterflies, and she wants you to talk to her.
Now speaking of avoiding rejection and avoiding being ghosted, I want to bring up a significant thing. Are you paying attention? This is critical, guys.
So we’re going over the signs she wants you to talk to her. But what’s next? What are you going to say to her? How are you going to approach her?
Knowing that she wants you to talk to her is step one, and it’s a great step. But if you don’t know what to say, don’t know how to approach, etc., and it comes across as awkward, well, now she feels awkward.
And if she feels awkward, she’s done. She’s moving on. She’s going to go somewhere else because it’s awkward. That makes sense, doesn’t it?
So one of the main things you need to take into consideration is what are you going to do next? What is your game plan?
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So make sure you give it a watch. Seriously, it’s going to help you so much and is going to help you know how to have a good game plan.
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Sign #4: She Keeps The Conversation Going
Now or next sign that she wants you to talk to her is when you do talk to her, either in an online chat or texting or even in person, you notice that she tries to keep the conversation going.
A lot of women will not initiate the conversation. Some obviously will. But if she wants to talk to you she’s going to try to keep the conversation going.
She’ll keep asking questions and show interest in what’s going on in your life. The truth is if she’s bored or disinterested, she’s not gonna try very hard to keep the conversation going. She’s just not.
But if she wants to talk to you, then she’s going to do her part to keep it interesting and to keep it going and fun and relaxed.
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Sign #5: She Follows You On Social Media
Okay, our next sign might surprise some people. And it is that she follows you on all of your social media, and she’s really active with you on social media.
This is especially common for a girl who is shyer or doesn’t know you very well. She’s trying to find any excuse for you to talk to her. And if she follows you on multiple platforms, if you have them, that’s a great sign.
And then if she likes and comments and likes a lot of what you do, yeah, it’s because she’s like, “oh my goodness, I really want this guy to like me, and I really want him to notice me.“
And the added bonus is she gets to look at your pictures, and you get to look at her’s.
Now, of course, with this sign and all the signs, there can always be exceptions. You have to take certain things into consideration, like her personality.
So make sure you watch this video (How To Know If A Girl Likes You). It will help you avoid common mistakes that lead to disaster when reading the signs and trying to gauge if a woman is interested or not in you.
Sign #6: Her Body Is Pointed Towards You
Okay, our next sign she wants you to talk to her is really subtle, and it can be hard to pick up on until you are aware of it, and then it’s super helpful. And that is that her body is pointed towards you.
This is especially true of her feet. If you saw this video, my first one on signs a girl wants you to talk to her than this one will seem a little familiar.
When we as humans are thinking about someone or focused on someone, without even realizing it, we tend to kind of face them.
So let’s pretend she’s talking to her friend, but her body and her feet are pointed towards you somewhere else.
That’s because she’s not thinking about this person she’s talking to. She’s thinking about you and wanting to talk to you.
So if you happen to notice from across the room that she’s kind of facing you, even if she’s not looking at you, that’s a great sign that you’re the one she’s thinking about because she wants to talk to you.
Sign #7: She Copies Or Mirrors You
Now our next sign is that she kind of copies you or mirrors you. This is a body language sign that women do all the time without even realizing it.
When a woman is interested in you or attracted to you or thinking about you, it’s common for her to just kind of copy something you do.
For instance, you shift your weight a little bit or reposition yourself, and you notice she does the same. That’s her mirroring you or copying you.
If you wonder if someone is interested in you, you could shift your weight, change stance, or something and wait and see if she does the same thing in just a few seconds. That is her mirroring you. That is her copying you.
Women do this to build rapport. She does this because she’s thinking about you. She doesn’t even realize she’s doing it, but it’s because she’s interested.
And that means she wants to talk to you. So pay attention from across the room if you see her doing some of these things.
7 Signs She Wants You To Talk To Her Recap
All right, let’s sum up what you’ve learned about the signs she wants you to talk to her.
- Notice if her breath is quicker or if it’s harder for her to breathe. That’s a common sign that she is nervous.
- Watch if she tries to get closer to you and be a part of what you’re doing. Or maybe even casually follows you around to conveniently be where you are in hopes you’ll talk to her.
- Look to see if she blushes. Blushing is always a good sign to look for.
- When you do talk to her, whether online, texting, in person, etc., she tries to keep the conversation going. She doesn’t want this to end, and she’s really enjoying talking to you.
- Pay attention to how active she is engaging with you on social media. That’s a common thing girls will do to get you to notice them and get you to talk to them.
- Notice if her body, especially her feet, is pointed towards you. Even if she’s involved in something else, if she’s facing and pointed towards you, it means she wants to talk to you.
- See if she copies or mirrors you. If you make a movement and she does the same thing shortly after, it’s a great sign that you are on her mind, and she wants to talk to you.
Remember, if you want to avoid the friend zone and being rejected and embarrassed and ghosted, do make sure you watch my free masterclass. It’s going to help you so much.
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