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Online Dating Tips For Men (How To Stop Being Ghosted!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are titled online dating tips for men (how to stop being ghosted!)
Wouldn’t you love to be able to meet an amazing woman online? No one wants to be lonely, right? And the current challenges can make it a little stressful to try and meet new good women.
But have you ever been in this situation where you tried to message her, and they never get back to you, or they reject you?
Being ghosted and being rejected isn’t fun, is it? Well, when it comes to online dating, there are some things you have to know if you are going to be successful.
We’re going over some of those tips in this article, so make sure you read to the end if you want to avoid being rejected and instead be successful when dating online.
Before we dive into those tips, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to get your dream girl and your dream relationship.
Okay, let’s talk about online dating. If you have not been successful in online dating, just know that that is normal. That does happen, and you are not broken.
A lot of people think that online dating doesn’t work, is full of scams, and is just a joke. The truth is tons of people meet online, and so many people have their dream relationships because they met someone online.
The trick is if online dating isn’t working, it’s because you don’t know how to do it right. It’s not that it doesn’t work or is full of scammers. It’s that you have to know the right things so you don’t attract those scammers.
When you know the right skills, you instead attract the type of woman you’re really wanting to meet. That makes sense, right?
With that, let’s dive into these online dating tips so you can stop being rejected, stop being ghosted, and instead meet a really amazing woman.
Tip #1: Your Profile Picture Isn’t Everything, But Is Important
So my first online dating tip is that your profile picture is not everything, but it is critical. And not in the way that you think.
First impressions are everything. Realize when it comes to online dating, she is just as afraid, if not more afraid, than you are of being scammed or being hurt or someone not being honest, not being real.
If there is anything that makes her feel uncomfortable or nervous in any way, she’s going to keep scrolling. There are so many other opportunities to meet people online, so she will move on.
Therefore if there’s anything that makes her nervous in any way, she’s going to keep scrolling. And so you really want your profile picture to make a great first impression.
This obviously means that you want to be well-groomed and have a nice smile on your face and really put your best foot forward.
If your profile picture looks cluttered or cheesy or if there’s a ton of people in the picture, or if you’re pretty small in the picture, she’s going to keep scrolling.
Online dating is one of the things I cover in my program. And something I enjoy teaching in my program is how to take a really nice picture.
Many people don’t know this about me, but I have a background in photography. So many people think that they’re just not photogenic. That’s a totally normal thing to think.
But the truth is it’s not that they’re not photogenic. They just don’t know how to take a good picture.
If you take a picture at a bad angle or in bad lighting or if it’s a cluttered picture, that can make you appear like you’re not photogenic. Really it’s just how the picture was taken.
Just know that selfies are fine. You just need to make sure that you do get a great angle, you get good lighting, and that your background isn’t cluttered.
So don’t just assume, “I have to look like a supermodel for this picture to be nice.” That’s not the case at all.
She’s just looking to connect with a really awesome guy. So make sure the way you compose your picture shows her that you’re not scammy, cheesy, or weird. You’re just an awesome guy who would be fun to meet.
Tip #2: Carefully Craft Your Online Dating Bio
Let’s move on to my next online dating tip. After she notices your picture, she’s going to look at your bio.
And again, you want to give her no reason to keep scrolling, no reason to feel uncomfortable or nervous, or like this isn’t a good idea.
The way you craft your bio is critical. If it is boring or if it’s overly preachy or really needy and sappy and cheesy and trying too hard, she’s done.
Some of the biggest mistakes I see are being really needy, like saying how many kids you want to have or how desperately you want a wife.
Another big mistake is trying too hard to be romantic or attractive or super hot. “I like long walks on the beach.” You know, things like that. That makes her think you just want something from her.
Also, if your bio is full of scriptures and how much you want a Godly relationship and all of that, that’s too personal for someone she doesn’t know. It pushes her away and causes her to keep scrolling.
And another big mistake is just being boring or not letting her know anything about you.
She is looking to see if she would enjoy getting to know you better. If there’s nothing that lets her know that you guys would have anything in common, she’s gonna keep scrolling.
It’s kind of like meeting someone in person. You would never walk up to someone and say, “Hi. My name is John. I want a dog and three kids.” That would freak her out, right?
Instead, you’d say, “Hey, I’m John. Nice to meet you. How’s your day been so far?“
So you want to make sure that you’re not too personal. What that does is that creeps her out and freaks her out, and causes her to keep scrolling. You don’t want to overwhelm her.
It doesn’t matter how awesome you are. If you make these easy mistakes to make, that’s what’s going to cause you to be rejected and ghosted and feel like online dating doesn’t work at all.
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Tip #3: Have A Game Plan When Messaging Girls
Okay, back to our online dating tips. Our next online dating tip is to make sure that you have a game plan for how to message girls.
It doesn’t matter how awesome your profile picture is or how great your bio is. If, when you message or chat with her you’re awkward or make her uncomfortable in any way, even unintentionally, she’s done.
Some of the mistakes I mentioned in writing your bio are easy to make when chatting with her. For instance, being needy or too personal like “I want a dog and three kids” or “how many kids would you like to have?“
Another important thing I love to teach in my program when it comes to online dating is to realize that right now, she doesn’t want to be your wife. She doesn’t know you yet.
And so, yeah, knowing that you want a Godly relationship and that you want a dog and three kids, that’s really cute, if she’s been dating you for a while or if she is your girlfriend.
Those are all cute things, but if she doesn’t know you yet, that’s creepy, that freaks her out, that’s pushing an emotional barrier.
You guys have no emotional closeness yet because you don’t know each other. So talking about those things too soon is going to freak her out.
Instead, as I mentioned earlier, you need to treat online dating like meeting someone in person and chatting with someone in person.
You want to be friendly with her, you want to get to know her better, and you want her to have an opportunity to get to know you better. It’s just two people seeing if they have anything in common.
Having a game plan and knowing what to say is going to help you so much. Because messaging and chatting in the wrong way, that can destroy the attraction very quickly.
You must have a game plan. To learn a little bit more about how to talk to girls, do make sure you watch this video (How To Talk To Girls: Keep A Conversation Going).
Are you enjoying these online dating tips, and is it making sense so far? I would love to hear which of these tips you find the most helpful, which one you will focus on first. Please tell me about it in the comments below.
And if you would like more online dating tips and more advice in the future, please be sure to comment ‘online dating’ so I know to make those for you.
Tip #4: Meet Offline As Soon As You Can
Our next online dating tip is to take it offline as soon as you can. A great way to end up with a toxic woman or to end up being scammed or to just end up in the friend zone is to keep it online.
Obviously, it’s a good idea to chat and message online for a while, get to know each other, see how you get along. And then you want to start talking on the phone or, better yet, video chatting.
This will help you make sure it’s a real person and help you read her tone of voice and body language. You’ll see if you have chemistry and if you’d like to pursue this relationship at all.
Then after you’ve been doing that for a while, you do want to meet in person. You don’t want to put too much pressure on yourselves and meet too soon, but you do want to meet in person.
Just make sure you meet in a public place the first several times while you get to know each other.
Tip #5: Know How To Charm Her Offline As Well
And this leads me to my next online dating tip, which is to make sure you know how to charm her offline as well as online. This is a big thing that a lot of guys forget to think about.
You need to make sure that you know how to flirt with her, how to talk to her, how to interact with her in person, and you want to make sure you have solid dating and relationship skills.
If you can’t attract her offline, it doesn’t matter how awesome you were chatting online because it’s going to fall apart offline. This happens for so many people. That sounds heartbreaking, right?
The bottom line is, men with solid dating and relationship skills get their dream girl. Men who don’t have those skills don’t. Make it a priority to learn those solid dating and relationship skills.
This is something else I cover in my free masterclass. If you want to make sure you set yourself up for success instead of another failed relationship, do make sure you watch my free masterclass now.
Online Dating Tips For Men (How To Stop Being Ghosted!) Recap
Let’s sum up what you have learned so far.
- Your profile picture is not everything, but it is important. Have a big smile, make sure the picture isn’t too far away, there aren’t too many people in it, and that it isn’t cluttered. Your profile picture is what gets her to stop scrolling, so make sure it’s a good one.
- Make sure your bio is carefully crafted. You don’t want to be needy or look like you’re trying too hard to be romantic or that you’re just plain boring or even preachy. You want to instead be interesting and someone she could see herself getting to know better.
- Have a game plan for how to message and talk to her. It doesn’t matter how awesome your profile picture and your bio are. If she’s uncomfortable, bored, or just doesn’t feel good when chatting and messaging, she’s done.
- Take things offline as soon as you can. Make sure you start talking on the phone and video chatting, and when it’s time, make sure you do meet in person in a public place. You want to see how you interact together.
- Know how to charm her offline too. Chatting and messaging online is one thing, but knowing how to flirt and talk to her, how to act on a date, and everything else is another thing entirely.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, how you interact in person is far more important than how you interact online. So do make sure you have those solid dating and relationship skills.
As I mentioned, you’re going to learn more about those skills in my free masterclass, so make sure you give it a watch today.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments. Would you like more articles about online dating tips?
If you would be sure to comment ‘online dating’ so that I know. And I want to hear which one of these tips surprised you the most and which one you found the most helpful.
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