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How To Be A Man (What Makes A Man Irresistible!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on how to be a man (what makes a man irresistible to his dream girl fast!)
Can I be honest with you? You have been told a ton of lies about what it means to be a man, how to be a man, and what it is women actually want.
As a certified coach, today I’m going to be sharing what it really means to be a man and give you a woman’s perspective on how insanely attractive it really is.
And the best part is it’s going to comfort you a lot because it’s not what you think it is. So do you want to learn what it means to be a man and how to get a high-quality woman? Make sure you read to the end.
Before we dive in, if this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to attract your dream girl and get that high-quality woman.
As a certified coach, everything I teach is based on science and psychology instead of mind games.
Many men come to me nervous and afraid. They’ve been told lies about what it means to be a man, and it’s paralyzing. They feel nobody’s ever going to love them unless they’re fake and pretend to be something they aren’t.
They’ve been told they have to be dominant, and all a woman cares about is how pleasing you are in the bedroom.
Also, they’ve been told they have to be aggressive, or it’s all based on how powerful they are or how much money they make.
And frankly, that’s pretty exhausting, don’t you think? What I tell them and what I would like to share with you today is it depends on the type of woman you are looking to attract.
I will only teach you how to attract real high-quality women. The kind of woman you can spend your life with. The kind of woman who will always be there for you. She’ll be your biggest cheerleader and in love with you.
You know those cute couples who are insanely in love in their 90s? Yeah, that’s the type of relationship you are looking for, and that’s why you need a high-quality woman.
She’s the kind of gal who will laugh with you and cry with you and make wonderful, beautiful memories with you your whole life.
To attract that high-quality woman, you need to know what makes a man irresistible to a high-quality woman. And those are the things I’ll be sharing with you today.
Now the best part is, pay close attention to this, as a high-quality woman, she is working on these areas as well, obviously, in a feminine way. But she is working on being as high quality as possible.
This means you don’t have to worry about her using you and abusing you. Using you is what toxic women do. That is not what high-quality women do.
Bottom line, the most attractive thing you can ever be is this type of man. This is what makes her fall in love with you, this is what makes her stay in love with you, and what makes her want to spend her life with you.
Tip #1: Be Unselfish
The first thing you need to know about how to be a man is that part of what makes a man a man is being unselfish.
That is not what the world is telling you. It’s all about being powerful and taking what you want. And the truth is anyone can be selfish, anyone can be self-absorbed, but it takes real strength to be unselfish and selfless.
A real man protects the weak and looks out for others. That right there, that’s what makes you feel like a man, and that’s what makes her see you as a man and makes her insanely attracted to you.
Okay, fun fact: I am a massive fan of the Lord of the Rings movies and books. Are you too? If you’re a fan, comment and let me know. I would love to know that.
But I adore these shows partially because the men are so masculine. Aragorn in particular may be one of the most masculine characters.
And part of what makes him so masculine is not that he has an amazing sword, although he does have an amazing sword, it’s what he does with that sword and who he is as a person.
Aragorn goes out of his way to protect the weak, to protect the innocent, to help those that he can help. That’s what women are really looking for.
Someone who goes out of his way to make the world a better place. and someone she can count on.
Now yes, Aragorn is an orc slayer, and we don’t really have those in our world. But with that being said, there are plenty of ways to look out for the weak and to be unselfish in today’s society and in today’s world.
If you want to know how to be a man, make sure that you focus on being unselfish.
Tip #2: Respect
The next thing you need to know about how to be a man is that a real man has respect. He has respect for himself, and he has respect for others, including her.
A real man would never take advantage of her or force her to do something she’s uncomfortable with. Because a high-quality woman would never take advantage of you either.
Again a lot of men are being told, “you have to be super aggressive.” That is going to repel high-quality women and actually attract toxic women.
If you saw this video (How To Get A Woman To Think About You Non-Stop), you know that one of the things that makes a woman think about you non-stop is having a good motive. It’s about where your heart is.
A real man is confident enough to lead out in a relationship. He’s competent enough to ask her out, to get her number, to pay for the date, to hold the door open for her.
Not because she’s not capable of doing these things, but because he’s confident enough to do them for her.
He treats her like a lady, which makes her feel safe with him and makes her trust him, and makes her fall in love with him.
She sees that he views himself as a confident, powerful, masculine man, and that’s how she sees him too. He knows he can handle it, and that means the world to her.
Now you might be asking, “okay, how do I gain that confidence? How do I make sure I’m good at these things?” Because you want to make sure you go about that the correct way, right?
Otherwise, you mess it up, and that’s not what you’re looking for, is it? It just comes down to having the right dating and relationship skills and the right game plan. When you have that, everything else is very natural.
I have a free masterclass where I go into much more detail. If you’re looking for step-by-step how to get a high-quality woman, you’re going to want to make sure you watch my masterclass.
Tip #3: Be Trustworthy
Okay, are you ready for my next tip on how to be a man? This tip is to be trustworthy.
I’m going to say something that I know the haters are really going to hate, and it’s okay. If you guys know me, you know I shoot you straight, and I give you the facts, and I tell you the truth.
One of the very best, if not the most important, way to be trustworthy and to attract that high-quality woman is to be morally clean.
In my industry, I see people all the time telling you that frankly, what she cares about most is how fun you are in the bedroom. That is a big fat lie.
If you are talking about high-quality women, that is not what is most important to her.
Instead, if you’re talking about a toxic woman, a woman who just is looking for a one-night fling, then yes, that is the most important thing to her. Toxic women don’t care about you.
But being a real man doesn’t mean you will attract a toxic woman. As a matter of fact, when you are a real man, you will repel toxic women.
A real high-quality woman, she cares about you. She wants to fall in love with you. And I’m gonna say it even though it’s not popular: Guys, do you want to know what makes sex amazing? Love.
When you are with the love of your life, when she knows she can trust you, when she knows who you are, and she’s crazy in love with you, yes, she’s going to enjoy the bedroom.
But more importantly, she’s in love with you. She wants to spend her whole life with you. That is how God made this.
And I’ll be perfectly honest with you guys, the last thing she wants is a guy who’s getting lots of practice. Really? That’s not what she’s looking for.
She wants to know you are trustworthy, wants to know you will be true to her and only her, just like she wants to be true to you and only you.
Also, she wants to know that your eyes will never wander. As I said, she wants to know you are trustworthy. So keep yourself clean.
Make sure you are watching clean things, that you never look at inappropriate things, keep your language clean.
A lot of people say, “real men say four-letter words.” Not true. High-quality women are not interested in that. Because it tells her what’s going on in your head.
If you’re saying those types of things, that’s where your mind is too. So just make sure you’re keeping yourself clean and appropriate. That right there, that’s what matters to real women.
Now before you panic, if this has not been something you’ve been doing up to this point, start today, alright?
Don’t panic. Just start today and show her that that’s who you are from this day forward. Being trustworthy is essential to being a real man.
Tip #4: Take Action
My next tip for how to be a man is to realize taking action is what makes you a leader. It’s not about control, and it’s not about dominance. This is about taking action. Seeing a problem and doing something about it.
Again Aragorn is a fabulous example of this. Now, a really interesting thing about Aragorn, is he perfect?
No, he’s not perfect, and he messes things up, and he does not always have everything figured out and doesn’t always have everything under control.
But he takes action anyway. That’s why Aragorn is a leader and why Aragorn is a good leader. And that’s why Aragorn is so attractive. It’s what makes him masculine.
It does not always have to be a big huge dramatic thing. The little things are ultimately what matters the most.
Seeing someone needs help with their yard, helping carry something heavy, opening the door, or helping a widow. Something small is actually big. This isn’t about perfection, this is just about actively trying.
Tip #5: Be A Gentleman
My next tip for how to be a man and what makes a man irresistible to his dream girl is being a gentleman. I’ve said it before, and I will say it again.
If you saw this video (How To Attract Girls Without Saying Anything), you know that being a gentleman is one of the best ways to attract a woman silently. This right here means so much to her.
When you hold the door open for her, you carry a box when it’s heavy, you ask for her number instead of giving her yours, you ask her on a date, and when you are a gentleman, that melts her heart.
Do you want a lady? Do you want a high-quality woman? Then you must be a gentleman.
Now another way to look at being a gentleman is being a gentle man.
Again society tries to say, “you have to be dominant and aggressive to be a man.” The truth is you are never more of a man in her eyes than when you are being gentle and kind and sensitive.
You can be very masculine, very strong, very assertive while still being gentle. The best men who have ever lived have been gentle while still being masculine.
As a matter of fact, anyone can be aggressive, anyone can be arrogant, but it takes real strength to be gentle.
When you are gentle with her and gentle with others, especially children and animals and those weaker than yourself, wow, that’s what makes her fall in love with you. That’s what makes you a real man in her eyes.
How To Be A Man (What Makes A Man Irresistible!) – Recap
All right, let’s sum up what you’ve learned so far about how to be a man and what makes a man irresistible to his dream girl.
- Be unselfish. Remember, we talked about protecting those who are weaker than yourself. That right there makes you a real man.
- Respect for yourself and for her and everybody else. Leading out in the relationship, being confident enough to pursue and to ask her out, and to be the man.
- Be trustworthy. This is a deal-breaker. If a man is not trustworthy he’s not getting a high-quality woman. Make sure that you are morally clean and let her know she never has to worry about you having eyes for someone else. Let her know that your thoughts are clean and appropriate.
- Take action. Be someone who sees something and does something about it. That’s how you become a leader.
- Be a gentleman. Do you want to attract a lady? Then you have to be a gentleman. Also, make sure that you are a gentle man.
Again if you want step-by-step on how to attract a high-quality woman, do make sure you watch my free masterclass.
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