Attractive Things Guys Do (Little Known And Surprising!) Looking for things guys can do to be more attractive? Prepare to be shocked by these attractive things guys do without knowing it! Yes, you could totally be doing these things without knowing it!
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Attractive Things Guys Do (Little Known And Surprising!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on attractive things guys do (little known and surprising!) Seriously, prepare to be very surprised.
These are secret little things girls notice that guys have no idea girls are noticing. This is what makes you a 10 out of 10 in her eyes.
So if you want to get that high-quality woman, if you want to get that 10 out of 10 instead of a toxic relationship or a bad dead-end relationship, make sure you pay close attention and read to the end.
Before we dive into these attractive things that guys do, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to attract your dream girl and get your dream relationship.
I’m a certified coach, which means I base my material on science. I will never teach you any mind games.
Now as I mentioned, we’re going to be going over some little things that women pick up on that guys have no idea women are noticing.
She’s probably never going to talk to you about these things, she’s never going to mention these things, but when you do it right, it means the world to her.
As I said, this is how you become a 10 out of 10 in her eyes. This is what makes her see you as a high-quality man. Now, if you’re trying to attract a high-quality woman, that’s pretty important, isn’t it?
If you aren’t doing these things, she’s done and is not interested. But when you are, that’s what makes her fall in love with you and want to spend her life with you.
Now there are a lot of important things to learn, but we’re going to focus on five of the most important today.
#1: You Drive Responsibly And Carefully
So the first attractive thing guys do is when he drives responsibly and drives carefully.
Nothing, nothing, is less attractive than a man who’s willing to risk your safety. Think about it for a second. That right there is going to repel her.
So someone who drives recklessly, someone who is an aggressive driver and an angry driver and speeds, that is going to push her away.
It’s actually a toxic trait, and high-quality women avoid that because it scares them. They don’t want to be a part of that, and so they will walk away.
On the flip side, when a man is mature enough to drive responsibly, to drive carefully, wow, that speaks volumes. It makes her feel safe, and it makes her feel like she can trust you.
A lot of people in society say, “you gotta be reckless. It means you’re a man.” No, that’s what immature boys do. Immature boys are reckless.
Men are mature. Men watch out for the safety of others, including the cute girl on the seat next to him, the cute gal driving with him.
And so if she knows she can trust you that way, whoa, that speaks volumes. That right there is masculine because it shows you are looking out for other people and that you’re mature.
#2: You Have Good Manners
Okay, next up on our list of attractive things guys do is when you have good manners. This is a skill that a lot of society just kind of overlooks and thinks isn’t critical, but it really is.
The key to attracting a woman who’s a 10 out of 10 is to have good dating and relationship skills. Period, skills are always what’s going to get you the girl.
And one of the most important skills is having good manners. That’s what makes you attractive, that’s what makes you confident, that’s what makes you masculine, and helps her feel comfortable when she’s with you.
Imagine somebody approaches you and they want to go into business with you. They want to start a new business with you, but they have no idea what they’re doing. They’re just winging it.
You wouldn’t want to go into business with them, would you? Well, relationships are the same way.
“Hey, do you want to be in a relationship with me? I don’t know what I’m doing.” Nobody’s going to do that, right?
That’s why I cannot stress it enough: If you want to get your dream girl, you must have dating and relationship skills.
I put together a whole masterclass on this because it is so important. You will learn about the skills you need, and you will learn about the game plan you need to actually use those skills.
If you want to get that 10 out of 10, and if you want to get your dream girl, make sure you watch my masterclass right away.
Bottom line, one of the most attractive things a guy can ever do is when he has dating and relationship skills and good manners.
That’s what makes her feel like she would never be uncomfortable with him, and she would never be embarrassed to be with him. Those things are key.
#3: You Keep Your Social Media Clean
Now next on our list of attractive things that guys do, honestly guys, this is probably going to surprise you a little bit. And that is a guy who keeps his social posts his social media posts very appropriate.
In this video (How To Be A Man), I mentioned that one of the most attractive things a man can do and one of the things that show her you are a man and makes her see you as a real man is being morally clean.
I’m going to be completely honest with you guys, I’m sharing all kinds of girl secrets with you today. If she’s interested in you, she’s going to look you up on Facebook, even if she doesn’t send you a friend request.
She’s also going to look you up on Instagram. Because she wants to get to know a little bit more about you. And she wants to see the quality of the things you post.
Many women, myself included, have met a really attractive and really cute guy. She goes, she looks at his social media, and she gets really disappointed.
She doesn’t want to go out with him anymore because of the type of things he’s posting.
They’re not very appropriate, maybe there’s some suggestive material, maybe there’s some language, maybe the types of things he likes and he’s interested in aren’t very appropriate.
That tells her what’s going on in his mind. And what goes on in your mind is what’s in your heart. If she sees that it’s not appropriate, she’s not interested. He’s not attractive anymore, and she’s moving on.
Instead, when she goes to his social media and it’s appropriate and fun and interesting and nothing there makes her feel uncomfortable, oh my goodness, she gets excited and a million times more attracted to you.
Because again this shows what’s going on in your mind, which shows what’s going on in your heart. And that is what she’s interested in. That’s what makes her completely and totally smitten with you.
She’s attracted to you and feels like she can trust you. Trust me, it’s amazing.
Now just to be clear, this doesn’t mean you can only post scriptures all day. There’s nothing wrong with posting scriptures. If you follow me on social media, you know that’s something I do.
But if all you ever do is post scriptures all day, that’s kind of bland, and it can come across as stuffy. So just let her see who you are and just make sure you’re keeping it clean.
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#4: You Listen To Good Music
Okay, next up on our list of attractive things guys do is listening to good music.
Quick story for you. A gal was on a date with a guy. It was their first date, and as she gets in the car and they start chatting, there was a little bit of a lull in the conversation.
And he had some music going, which is actually a good strategy, especially on a first date. But the music that was being played made her feel really uncomfortable.
It was suggestive and just not something appropriate. And so she politely just asked if they could change the channel. He said no. And as you can imagine, he did not get to know her any better.
Like I said before, guys, she’s interested in who you are. She wants to know that you’re a trustworthy person and someone she would want to spend her life with.
So the thoughts that are going on in your mind matter to her. And your music is a reflection of that. So make sure that your music is clean, make sure that it’s appropriate.
Have fun with your music. Pick music that fits your personality. It’s not like you can only listen to one particular genre of music.
Pick something that you enjoy. Just make sure that the words in the music are clean and appropriate. She notices those things even if she doesn’t say anything.
In the story I mentioned, she did say something. She had the guts to say something. Most women will not say anything, but it tells her a lot about who you are. So keep your music clean.
When you do that, she feels relaxed with you, comfortable with you, she feels like she can trust you. She’s excited because she finally found a guy who has appropriate music. And sometimes that’s really hard to find.
So doing that, making sure you have that appropriate music, making sure you’re keeping your thoughts clean, that attracts her. That is how you get a 10 out of 10.
That is how you eliminate the competition, as you learned in this video (13 Tips On How To Get A Girlfriend). If you haven’t seen one yet, give it a watch.
#5: You Don’t Take Things Too Seriously
Okay, next up is making sure that you don’t take things too seriously. I have another quick story to illustrate this.
There was a gal on a date with a guy and they were trying to get somewhere so he had the location on his GPS on his phone. And he just asked her to hold his phone, so she did.
They went over a little bit of a bump or something, and the phone slipped out of her hand. That happens, right? Dropping something, especially when you’re nervous, is an easy mistake.
It landed in the car, it wasn’t hurt or anything, but he got really upset with her and short-tempered and irritated at her for this. Do you think she wanted to spend any more time with him? No, she didn’t.
If she doesn’t feel comfortable with you, she doesn’t want to spend any more time with you. Also, if she’s nervous or afraid of you, she doesn’t want to spend any more time with you.
But if instead, you are someone who doesn’t overreact about things, someone who doesn’t get uptight about things, wow, that’s attractive.
That is hard to find, and that’s the type of person she wants to spend her life with. Because we all make mistakes, don’t we? We all sometimes drop the phone or whatever it is.
And so if you’re someone who doesn’t stress out about that, it’s attractive to her.
Now, yes, you need to make sure she is always respecting your things, obviously. But letting her be human and letting it be okay, that right there is what she is looking for in a lifelong partner.
Attractive Things Guys Do (Little Known And Surprising!) – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you have learned so far about attractive things guys do.
- Driving responsibly and carefully. Some people say that “recklessness makes you a man.” No, that makes you immature. Being mature and concerned about other’s safety is what makes you a man and masculine, and that’s attractive to her.
- Having good manners and solid dating and relationship skills. As a 10 out of 10, she is trying to have those skills as well. She is working to make sure she has good manners. So you must do as well.
- Posting appropriate social media posts and following appropriate accounts. That’s more attractive than I’ll ever be able to explain. Because she feels she can trust you, your eyes aren’t going to wander, she’s going to be safe with you.
- Listening to good and appropriate music. That’s super attractive and helps her feel comfortable with you. It can also be a great conversation starter.
- Making sure that you don’t take things too seriously, you don’t stress out, it’s okay for her to be human around you, and that you let her know that’s okay. That is really attractive.
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