How To Get A Girl To Like You Over Text! Ever wonder what to text a girl or even how to text a girl you like? Texting can be a great tool to get a girl to like you OR it can leave you ghosted, rejected and lonely.
These tips are going to teach some of the basics on how to flirt with a girl over text, and the basics of how to text girls and actually have them be attracted to you. One of the big answers to how to be attractive to girls comes down to these basic skills.
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How To Get A Girl To Like You Over Text
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on how to get a girl to like you over text.
Have you ever been texting a girl, and she just stops responding, or she ghosts you or rejects you, and you have no idea why? It’s not very fun, is it?
In this article, you’re going to learn why that happens and what to do to attract her instead of repeatedly being rejected and ghosted. So if you want to learn that, make sure you read until the end of this article.
Before we dive in, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, my name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to instead get your dream girl and your dream relationship.
Okay, how to get a girl to like you over text. Why do women sometimes just stop talking or reject you or ghost you over text?
I’m going to let you in on a secret that’s probably really going to surprise you: Most women don’t do this to be mean. They would never ever intend to be mean.
Now, this is not true of toxic women. If you haven’t yet seen this video (Toxic Girlfriend Signs: It’s Not You, It’s Her), do make sure you watch it.
I’m not talking about toxic women because I would never teach you to attract a toxic woman.
But most women, if a conversation is awkward or uncomfortable or you’re not compatible, that will cause her to not respond and ghost you because she doesn’t know what to do or say, so she says nothing.
Now is that how she should handle it? Probably not, but she freaks out, and that’s what she does. So how do you change this? How do you turn this around?
No matter what the problem is when it comes to dating and relationships, the answer is always to get the right skills.
The right skills are how you show her that you have the qualities she’s looking for in her ideal partner. It’s how you stand out from the crowd. And it’s also how you get your dream girl.
It’s always the right skills. I know I’ve said this a million times, and it’s because it’s so effective. That’s why I became a coach, that’s why I created my program.
At the end of the day, skills are always what gets the girl. So the way to stop being ghosted, the way to stop being rejected, is to have good skills.
We’re going over some of those skills that you can use right now to start attracting her instead of pushing her away. This, my friend, is how to get a girl to like you over text.
Tip #1: Pursue Her
My first tip for how to get a girl to like you over text is to pursue her. If you’ve seen this video (This Makes A Woman Think About You Non-Stop), you know that pursuing is one of the most attractive things you can do.
One of the biggest mistakes I see men making when they text women is that they text her like a buddy, like a friend. If you want to be her texting BFF, then act like her texting BFF.
But if you want her to see you as an attractive man that she wants to go out with, you need to approach it from that direction instead. You need to be upfront with her about the reason you are texting her.
For instance, a big mistake that men make is they start texting her and chatting, and they never ask her out, they never express interest, they never pursue her.
What that does is initially she’s like, “oh my goodness, this cute guy is texting me. It’s so cool!” And then she’s like, “wait, I think he just kind of wants to be friends.“
That’s one of the best ways to end up in the friend zone, guys. That’s why you need to be direct, open, and honest.
Speaking of dating and relationship skills, pursuing is one of the very best skills you can learn how to do. You must do it the right way, or it can come across as needy or aggressive, which you don’t want.
I’m thinking about putting together a video on some examples of what pursuing looks like. Would you like a video on that? If you would, please comment ‘pursue!’ so I know to make a video on that for you.
Tip #2: Have A Game Plan
All right, tip number two for how to get a girl to like you over text is to make sure you have a game plan. This really backs up pursuing.
If you’re going to pursue her, you need to kind of have an idea of where you see this conversation going or this potential relationship going.
When you don’t have a game plan, that’s how you end up just kind of texting her as a friend instead of “hey, I want to get to know you better. I want to go out with you.“
Your game plan helps you know how to get to the goal, helps you know how to get to the desired end result, which is not being stuck in the friend zone but instead her being really attracted to you.
Now not only do you need a game plan on how you’re going to text her, how you’re going to pursue her, you also need a game plan for what to do outside of texting her.
You can be the best at texting and attract her there but once you meet in person, if it feels awkward or uncomfortable, if you have no idea what you’re doing or no idea what to say, it’s not really going to matter, is it?
This is why you need a game plan. A lot of people think that knowing how to text a girl is kind of a fix-all. You just know the right line to text her, and poof, suddenly she’s in love with you.
And the truth is, that’s not realistic. It will often get her attention, especially a toxic girl. But if you want a high-quality woman, you’ve gotta have a game plan.
A real high-quality woman is looking to see if you have skills, the type of skills she’s looking for in a partner and if you have that game plan.
This is one of the biggest mistakes I see, so please take this seriously. I see so many men who think, “oh, I just need to know how to text her, and then poof, it’ll all be wonderful.“
But the problem is they just get so far into the relationship, and then it tanks. And then they just get so far again, and then it tanks. Over and over and over again, and they never know why.
The problem is they have no game plan or skills. That’s why I became a coach, that’s why I created my program.
So if you are sick of tanking, if you’re sick of getting so far in a relationship and then all of a sudden she doesn’t want to talk to you anymore, this is your problem.
I put together a free masterclass for you that will teach you more about this, what to do to avoid this, and how you can move forward and start having success instead of rejection.
If you’re tired of tanking and you’re ready to just get your dream girl make sure you watch my masterclass.
Tip #3: Be Interesting
My next tip for how to get a girl to like you over text is to have interesting things to talk about.
If you saw this video (How To Attract Girls Without Saying Anything), you know one of the most attractive things you can be is an interesting person.
When a guy texts her “sup?” and that’s it, or if it’s like “how’s your day been? Cool,” if it’s not an interesting conversation, she gets bored, and she moves on. She finds something else to do.
But if instead, you’re an interesting person to talk to, and you are doing interesting things, and you’re fun to talk to, wow, that’s really attractive.
That makes her feel closer to you, makes her more attracted to you, and makes her like you. So as you are texting women, make sure that your texts are interesting instead of bland.
Tip #4: Be Positive And Fun
Now my next tip for how to get a girl to like you over text is to keep things positive and to keep things fun.
If you make her feel good, she’s going to enjoy texting you, and she’s going to look forward to your texts. That’s how you get her to like you and want to get to know you better.
It’s easy, especially when you’re nervous, to focus a little bit on some negative things like, “oh my goodness, I’m stuck in traffic. I hate it,” or “I feel like the workday is dragging on forever.“
And the truth is it’s okay to mention things like that occasionally, especially if you can turn it into something positive with a joke.
But make sure you’re mostly keeping the conversation light and fun and very positive. People enjoy being around positive people. It’s much more fun to be with them.
So again, if you make her feel good when she texts you, she’s going to want to text you all the time.
Every time her phone chimes, she’s going to hope it’s you. That’s what you want if you want to get a girl to like you over text.
How To Get A Girl To Like You Over Text – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you’ve learned so far about how to get a girl to like you over text.
- Pursue her. If you act like her friend and her texting buddy, that’s how she’s going to see you. If instead, you pursue her, you let her know you’re interested in her, you let her know you want to see if this is going anywhere, that attracts her so much. Women love to be pursued, and it leaves no room for confusion.
- Make sure you have a game plan. This goes along with pursuing her. Make sure you have an idea of where you want this to go, and you have a plan for how to get there. This also applies outside of texting. If you text great, but in person, you’re awkward and uncomfortable, it’s not going to matter.
- Have interesting things to say. If you don’t really put a lot of thought a lot of effort into what you say, it’s boring. But if instead you’re doing interesting things and you have interesting things to say, she’s interested. She thinks it’s fun, and it’s enjoyable for her to text you.
- Be positive and fun. Don’t focus too much on the negative things. Keep things on a happy, uplifting note, and she will look forward to your texts and really enjoy texting you and getting to know you better. Always remember that the whole goal here is for her to feel happy when she hears from you.
Remember that texting is not a fix-all. I can’t say that enough because so many men fall flat on their faces because they rely too much on texting.
Do make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more about how you can avoid dating disasters and instead have skills and a game plan.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments.
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