How To Find A Girlfriend (Get Results Fast!) A large part of knowing how to get a girlfriend is knowing how to FIND a girlfriend, right?
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How To Find A Girlfriend (Get Results Fast!)
Hello, my amazing friend! In today’s video and article, we’re going to be talking about how to find a girlfriend (get results fast!)
I have so many of you reaching out to me and asking, “okay, where do I meet good women? Where do I find good women?” And I’m writing this in 2020, so let’s be honest, it’s a little bit of a challenge right now.
But in reality, this is a question no matter what is going on in the world. How do you find a girlfriend? In this video and article, you’re going to learn how to find a girlfriend quickly and easily.
And the best part is there are no mind games. So if you’re looking for a happy and healthy relationship, a lifelong relationship, make sure you read to the end because each of these things is so important.
It’s time to say goodbye to wasted time and energy on awkwardness, rejection, and loneliness.
Now before we dive in, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you the skills you need to get your dream girl so you can stop wasting time and stop being lonely and rejected.
The best part is I’m a certified coach and what I teach comes from science, which is the best way to learn how to have your dream relationship.
Okay, how do you find a girlfriend? But you don’t want just any girlfriend, right?
You want a girlfriend who’s going to treat you right, a woman who’s ultimately going to want to spend her entire life with you, right?
As I mentioned, I am filming this in 2020, and there are some real challenges right now.
However, this is a question that people had before covid and that they will have after. The answers are always the same, and they are even more critical during covid.
First, I’ll share with you the big mistake that keeps so many men from finding a girlfriend. And then I’ll share with you what to do instead so that you know how you can move forward and find that adorable dream girl.
Does that sound good? The reason I’m starting with the mistake first is if you don’t know what the mistake is and if you keep making this mistake nothing else I teach you in this article is going to matter.
You have to know what the mistake is, and you have to stop making it if you’re going to find your ideal girlfriend. So we’re going to start with that and move on to what to do instead. Sound good? Let’s dive in.
The Biggest Mistake Men Make When Finding A Girlfriend
Okay, when it comes to how to find a girlfriend, the biggest mistake men make is they are not prepared.
Have you ever been in that situation where maybe you’re in a grocery store, or you’re at the dentist, or you’re at work, or you’re walking down the street, and you see this really gorgeous gal?
She gives you butterflies in your stomach, and your eyes meet, and you think, “wow, that’s the kind of gal I really want to get to know. That’s the kind of girl I would want to spend my life with.“
But you don’t know what to do, or you’ve been rejected in the past, and so you just kind of keep walking because you don’t really know what else to do.
It’s not a fun situation to find yourself in, is it? Here’s the important part about finding a girlfriend, so please pay attention to this:
You can literally meet her at any moment, but if you’re not prepared, it’s not going to matter, is it?
Maybe you’ll meet her at the grocery store, someone new could start working where you work, or even a new client.
You could meet a friend of a friend, someone new could move in next door, or someone who’s already in your neighborhood that you just haven’t had the opportunity to meet yet.
There are so many possibilities. But if you’re not prepared, it’s not going to matter, is it?
Think of it this way: Each week, you probably pass by a hundred, maybe a couple hundred women, right? At the grocery store, on your way to work, etc.
But only a few of those women actually catch your attention, right? Only a very select few of those women turn your head and make you think, “wow, she is so attractive.“
So, what’s the difference? What’s the difference between women who catch your attention and women who you kind of don’t even notice?
Here’s the difference: The women you notice are a 10 out of 10. Those women have learned the right skills. And because they have the right skills, they turn heads everywhere. They are what every man wants.
The other women haven’t learned those skills, and so sadly, they do not get noticed. The same is true for men.
Learning The Skills First Is How To Find A Girlfriend
Men who have dating and relationship skills turn everyone’s head. The men who do not learn those skills do not turn heads, just like the women who don’t learn those skills don’t turn heads either.
The secret is to learn the skills first and then finding a girlfriend is really simple and really easy.
A lot of people try to put the cart before the horse, so to speak. They think, “well, if I just find her, then I’ll learn the skills.“
It’s kind of like trying to get your own cooking show when you only know one recipe and thinking, “well, if I just had the cooking show, then I’d learn the recipes.” That doesn’t make any sense, does it?
So if instead, you learn the skills first, then your dating pool literally becomes unlimited. Now finding that dream girl is really simple, and it can happen so fast.
Is this making sense so far? Do you see how learning the skills first is so important and really so helpful?
If this is making sense and if you would like more videos on how to find a girlfriend, be sure to comment “BOSS!” to let me know. And as always, if you have any suggestions for future videos, leave those in the comments.
I love hearing from you guys. It helps me so much, so keep those comments full.
So now that you understand the big mistake, which is not having the right skills, not being prepared, and you know what to do instead, learn those skills, let’s talk about some of the most critical skills now.
I have to be honest, I love teaching these skills to my clients in my program because they are so powerful, they are so effective, and this is how you see results and see them fast.
We’re going to be going over four of the skills you need now. I also want to mention if you really want to learn about the skills you need and if you want to get results quickly, be sure to watch my free masterclass.
I’ve put together a free masterclass for you that’s going to teach you more about this so that you can avoid disaster and get those results quickly.
If you are committed to getting your ideal gal and getting that dream girl without mind games and being super overwhelmed and confused, do make sure you watch my free masterclass.
Skill #1: Do You Have Real Confidence?
Okay, the first skill we’re going to talk about about how to find a girlfriend is to have confidence.
If you want to make sure you find her and that it’s simple and fun and that you attract her easily, confidence is something you really need to know how to have.
Now the best part about confidence is confidence is based around habits, okay? Science tells us specific things we can do to become confident.
And the best part is they’re actually pretty simple. So please don’t feel like, “well, I just wasn’t born confident, so I’m never going to be confident.“
It’s totally normal to feel that way. It really is. But in reality, confidence is something we learn. And as long as we keep up with confident habits, we become confident people. Isn’t that exciting?
If you want a healthy relationship, if you want to attract her and keep her attracted to you, you need to be confident. That’s what helps you create a healthy relationship, and it’s what keeps you from being needy.
Do you ever struggle with being needy? If you do, confidence is something you must work on.
One of the reasons confidence is so important is when you do bump into her in the grocery store, or when your eyes meet when you’re at the dentist’s office, you will have the confidence to make a move.
In short, having confidence is going to attract her, and it’s going to help you talk to her and actually get her number.
Skill #2: Do You Know How To Properly Interact With Women?
All right, the second skill you need to know if you’re gonna find your dream girl is you need to know how to interact with women.
What do I mean by this? I mean you need to know how to talk to her, how to approach her, how to get her number, how to flirt with her, etc.
Men and women think differently, right? That just makes sense. But even though we know that sometimes we expect each other to think the same way we do.
I’m going to let you in on some of the secrets of the girl-world. Women see the world differently than you do. Women have to kind of protect ourselves, especially when we are talking to a man.
Frankly, we know you’re stronger than we are, and we’re afraid of being hurt. We’re afraid of being taken advantage of.
For that reason, there are things that to you would not bother you at all, and they wouldn’t matter to your guy friends either.
And there’s nothing wrong with that, but when you’re talking to a woman, that matters to her. It freaks her out, makes her scared, and she thinks, “this is creepy. I feel awkward, I’m afraid, I’m getting out of this situation.”
So often, when you’re interacting with women, she’s not trying to be mean. She’s not trying to be a jerk. Most women are not jerks. Yes, there are toxic women out there, there are, but most women are not jerks.
This is the way God made us. And so I’m going to be perfectly honest here, this is one of the benefits of having a female coach. This is one of the reasons why it is so important to have a woman’s perspective.
Because something that means absolutely nothing to you and would mean absolutely nothing to any guy you could talk to, it does mean something to a woman.
So you must know how to interact with her and understand how to interact with her the right way.
It’s the difference between talking to her and her thinking you’re creepy, needy, or awkward, or instead sweeping her off her feet and her thinking you are the coolest guy on the planet and having her be attracted to you.
So as long as you know how to interact with women the right way, you can easily attract them. And that’s how you make sure finding her is really easy.
Because if you do approach, and if you do flirt, and if you do try to contact her online, but you don’t know how to interact with her the right way, it’s going to fail every single time.
But if you know how to approach, flirt, date, etc., the right way, that’s how you get the girl.
How To Interact With Women Online
Now speaking of online dating, a lot of people turn to online dating to find a girlfriend. And the truth is there’s nothing wrong with that. A lot of people meet online.
You don’t have to date online if you don’t want to. But do make sure you watch this video (Online Dating Tips For Men: How To Stop Being Ghosted) to learn more about how to be successful in online dating.
Just like in-person, you’ve got to know how to date online the right way if you’re going to be successful, and that video is going to help you a lot.
And also, whether you’re looking for online dating or in-person dating, my free masterclass is going to help you tons as well. So do make sure you check that out.
Skill #3: Do You Know How To Have Healthy Relationships?
Okay, when it comes to how to find a girlfriend, the third skill you need to know is you need to understand healthy relationships. If you’re going to have a healthy relationship, you gotta know what it even means, right?
If the girl you want is a 10 out of 10, if she has those dating and relationship skills, you must have those relationship skills too, or you won’t turn her head.
But if you do have those skills, she’s gonna think you’re super hot because you’ll be the type of man she’s looking for.
Basically, you need to know the dating basics that set your relationship up for success. Like how long to date, how to pursue her, when you should hold her hand, when you should kiss her, and how to act on a date.
All of these things, these dating basics, are critical to finding your ideal girlfriend. If she has those skills, then the only kind of guy who will turn her head is the kind of guy who has those skills as well.
This also helps you know how to interact with her, because you do have those skills, so interacting with her is very simple and natural.
Skill #4: Do You Know How To Really Be Attractive?
Next up, you need to know the basics of attraction. And I’m going to let you in on a secret: There’s more to being attractive than how you look.
Yes, how you look is critical, and it’s something to be proactively working on. But other things are way more important to women than how you look.
And science actually tells us this. Women care far less about physical appearance than most men think.
I tell my clients this all the time: The secret to getting your dream girl is to be her dream guy. It’s as simple as that.
So when you understand the basics of attraction, when you know what women want and turn those things into habits, that’s how you become absolutely irresistible to her.
That makes finding your dream girl easy because you’re a magnet for her. You are irresistible to her. And that’s how you find a girlfriend, find her fast, and find her easy. That makes sense, doesn’t it?
How To Find A Girlfriend (Get Results Fast!) – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you have learned so far about how to find a girlfriend and get results fast!
First, the biggest mistake you can make is not being prepared, not learning the skills you need. If you have those skills, you can find her at any moment. If you do not have those skills, it’s not going to matter.
So if the secret then is to learn the right skills, what skills do you need? Well, first, we talked about confidence. If you’re not confident, how are you ever going to meet that girl?
Also, confidence is one of the most attractive things you can have. So make sure you have confidence.
Next up, be sure you know how to interact with her, how to talk to her, how to approach her, how to flirt with her, etc.
Women think differently than men, so if you expect them to think the same way you do, you’re going to be very frustrated, and you’re not going to have success.
Remember that it’s critical to have that female perspective, and that’s what makes interacting with her very simple.
Next up, understand the basics of a healthy relationship. Know how to move with the right pacing, how to pursue, how to talk, how to flirt, etc.
All of those basics are what helps you be irresistible to her because she’s looking for someone who has the right dating and relationship skills. A mature woman is looking for a mature relationship.
Also, make sure you understand the basics of attraction. The key to getting your dream girl is to make sure you are her dream guy.
When you have the traits she is looking for, then it’s a no-brainer, she’s going to be attracted to you, want to be your girlfriend, and she’s going to want to love you forever.
Do make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more about these skills, how to get these skills fast, so you can start seeing results fast.
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