What Makes A Man Attractive (Female Psychology) Want to know how to attract women? First, you need to know what makes a man attractive according to science… I think it’s really going to surprise you!
Women think differently than men do (obviously) so understanding female psychology and female psychology attraction is a must. Once you know what makes a man attractive physically and what makes a man attractive to a lady you’ll be well on your way to turning heads and melting hearts.
Ready to know how to attract girls according to science? Let’s get started then with What Makes A Man Attractive (Female Psychology)
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What Makes A Man Attractive (Female Psychology)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on what makes a man attractive (female psychology).
If you want to know how to attract girls and what makes a man attractive according to science, then you are in the right spot. And, a little bit of a spoiler, it is not what you think it is.
And here’s the important part: If you think it’s something that it’s not, which most people do, and you put all your energy into that, you’re going to be really frustrated, and you’re going to get rejected a lot.
It’s critical that you understand female psychology and what is most attractive to her. So make sure you pay close attention and read to the end.
My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to get your dream girl.
The best part is I’m a certified coach, and I teach you science. I do not teach you mind games. With that, let’s dive in!
How Do Women Think?
The first thing you need to know is that women think very differently from men. Now, you’re probably thinking, “duh. That’s super obvious,” right?
Here’s the deal though: Most people know men and women think differently, but we may not consciously realize it.
If you approach attracting women assuming that she thinks the same way you think and that she’s attracted the same way you are attracted, you’re going to be frustrated and get rejected a lot.
This is why today we’ll be covering the science of attraction and female psychology. This is what women really want.
I did also want to mention real fast if you have not yet seen this video (How To Be A Man: What Makes A Man Attractive), do make sure you also watch that one.
It’s going to give you a woman’s perspective on what it means to be a man and what is attractive to her. Make sure you give that video a watch. It’s going to blow your mind.
Women Are More Cautious Than Men
Okay, the first thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive (female psychology) is that women are more cautious than men, generally speaking.
If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I am very open and honest with you and very transparent. I talk about toxic women and how you should never, ever, ever date toxic women.
So going forward, let’s just establish that I’m not talking about toxic women here, okay? Instead, I’m talking about real women. The kind of woman you would want to spend the rest of your life with.
When it comes to those types of women, those high-quality women, she does not want to hurt you, ever. She would never want to do that. And she’s not trying to be a jerk.
In general, though, women are more cautious with relationships than men. And it’s because women are more vulnerable than men. She kind of has more to lose.
Every woman lives in fear of falling in love with a man, marrying a man, having children, and having him leave her. Also, women are much more vulnerable physically. You obviously are much stronger than she is.
If there’s anything that makes her feel uncomfortable, makes her feel awkward, makes her scared, or makes her feel like this is a bad bet, she’s done.
She’s not going there because she’s very cautious, and she’s trying to protect herself and protect future children. So just understand that she is not trying to be a jerk.
This is how God made us, and this is female psychology. Women are very cautious when approaching a potential relationship.
So how do you work around this? How do you still make sure you get your dream girl and help her realize that she is safe with you?
As a coach, this is why I teach dating and relationship skills. This is why I teach it in my program, this is why I teach it to my clients, this is why it is so effective.
When you have the right dating and relationship skills, you can show her that she’s safe with you, that she can trust you.
The fact that women are cautious is not something that’s going to stop you from getting your ideal relationship. Just realize that’s where she’s coming from mentally.
She’s cautious, and she wants to make sure a relationship with you is okay. Make sense?
Women Want A Socially Competent Man
Okay, the next thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive to a woman is social competence.
I’m gonna be completely transparent here. We all know this. No one really wants to be in a relationship with someone or be around someone awkward socially, right? Nobody wants to feel embarrassed or awkward.
On the flip side, though, when someone is very skilled socially and when they know what they’re doing, and very competent in that area, they’re attractive, right? You want to be around them more.
This is 100% true when it comes to women. She is attracted to a man who is very competent socially. This is why I teach that attraction is skill-based.
Anyone can learn dating and relationship skills, right? The men who do learn those skills and who apply those skills are attractive to her. The men who do not learn those skills, well, they aren’t.
It’s sad because society does not teach these skills. And that leaves a lot of people struggling in relationships.
They have to just rely on what they hear in popular songs, or what they see on TV, or what they learned in high school. And those things don’t work in the real world.
This causes so many people to be frustrated and feel like maybe they’re broken when in reality, it’s just that they don’t have the skills that they need.
Do you get rejected or ghosted a lot? Are you in the friend zone a lot? Maybe your relationships go well for a while, and then it just ends up in another breakup? Do you struggle to attract the types of women you want?
Those are all signs that you don’t have the skills you need, and you need to learn the right skills.
I have a free masterclass where I teach you more about why you end up in the friend zone, why your relationships don’t go well, and what to do instead so that you can get your dream relationship.
Do make sure you watch my free masterclass. If you want to just get to the part where you get the girl, and you want to fast track it to success, you need to make sure you watch my masterclass right now.
Women Are Attracted To Compatible Men
Okay, the next thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive and female psychology is we are attracted to people who are like us.
That just makes sense, right? We feel like they understand us, we feel like we can trust them, we are attracted to people who are like we are.
You certainly feel much more connected to someone who understands and who gets you, right? That just makes sense.
This is why, when she has a lot to offer, she is attracted to a man who has a lot to offer.
If she has dating and relationship skills, if she’s very competent and very skilled socially, she is attracted to a man who is as well.
The same is true of kindness, of your level of intelligence, of the things you enjoy doing. We are attracted to people who are like us.
This is why if you want a 10 out of 10, you need to make sure you have the skills to attract a 10 out of 10.
Okay, I want to hear from you in the comments. Is this making sense so far? And are you enjoying learning what it is that makes a man attractive and understanding female psychology?
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Being Attractive Is More Than Looks
The next thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive is probably going to surprise you. So hold on to your seat. Physical attraction is critical, but it is not as important to her as other traits.
Women want someone physically attractive, okay? As a matter of fact, if she didn’t, she’d be kind of weird. Everybody wants someone that they are physically attracted to. That’s how God made us.
However, women actually have other things that are more important to them than physical attraction.
One mistake that a lot of men make, one of the most common mistakes, is they think, “well, physical attraction is so important. I’m gonna spend all my time making sure I’m super ripped and look amazing.“
Yeah, she wants someone attractive, so that gets her attention initially. But then she gets to know him better, and he’s put all his focus on looking attractive and no focus on learning dating and relationship skills.
This makes her feel awkward when she’s around him because he’s needy or he’s too aggressive, whatever it is. And so she loses interest very quickly, and the relationship dies.
So if you are attractive and everybody tells you you’re attractive, and you have no problem getting a girl’s number or getting the first date, but then the relationship fails, this is your problem.
That free masterclass I told you about earlier is going to help you so much. Give it a watch if you’re sick of your relationships going nowhere.
So the big thing to remember with this tip is to make sure you are physically attractive. And that really just comes down to taking care of yourself. That’s what makes you physically attractive.
However, do not neglect the other more important things to a woman, like the right dating and relationship skills.
What Makes A Man Attractive (Female Psychology) – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you have learned so far about what makes a man attractive (female psychology).
The first thing you need to know is that women are more cautious than men. She’s not trying to be a jerk. She’s very vulnerable as a woman and thinks differently as a woman.
This means she is going to be more cautious, which is why you just need to make sure that you do have those dating and relationship skills. Do make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more about this.
The second thing you need to know is that having social competence is critical to attracting women.
As humans, we are attracted to socially competent people, people who have dating and relationship skills. If you want to completely wow her and melt her heart, make sure that you have those skills.
Next up, we are attracted to people who are like us. Have you heard the saying, “water meets its own level“? If she’s a 10 out of 10, she is looking for someone who is a 10 out of 10 with his competence, intelligence, etc.
Make sure you are rising to the same level of what it is you want. If you want a 10 out of 10, make sure you have the skills to be a 10 out of 10. When you have those skills, she is attracted to you.
Next, remember that physical attraction is critical to her, but it is not as important to her as other traits. So be very careful that you do not solely focus on being physically attractive.
You have to make sure that you also have the other traits women are looking for in a man.
Thank you so much for reading, my wonderful friend! I want to hear from you in the comments. Which one of these things surprised you the most? Which did you not see coming? Tell me in the comments.
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