How To Make Her Miss You! Have you heard that you need to know how to make her miss you badly? There’s a lot on the internet about this strategy right now but… there’s an untold side of this story that you need to know.
If you don’t, the “how to make her miss you after a breakup” strategy will make you lose your dream girl. If you want long term results you need to know worrying about how to make her miss you like crazy and learn what actually works instead.
The happiness and length of your relationship literally hangs on how well you handle this situation. Ready to know what actually works to get her to fall in love with you? Let’s get started then with How to Make Her Miss You…
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How To Make Her Miss You
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy and why you need to stop using it right now.
If you are looking for a lifelong happy relationship, this will mess up your relationship long term. You need to know why you should not do this and what to do instead.
So if you want that happy lifelong relationship, make sure you pay close attention and read to the end because each of these things is very important to know.
If this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships and strategies that don’t work by learning the skills you need to get the relationship and girl of your dreams.
I’m a certified coach, so nothing I teach is based on mind games. What I teach you comes from science and psychology.
Okay, let’s talk about how to make her miss you. This is a popular strategy right now, and a lot of people are teaching it.
I have so many of you reaching out to me with questions about this and how it’s not working. And you don’t know what to do about it and how you should handle this.
So I couldn’t put it off any longer, I had to make an article on this so you could know the truth and so that you can see the full picture.
Because, as I said, if you use this strategy, if you try to make her miss you, you will not get your dream girl. And if you have your dream girl, you will lose her.
So let’s dive into why that happens and what to do instead. Sound good?
Making Her Miss You Doesn’t Work On High-Quality Women
The first reason the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy does not work is that it is a short term strategy. The problem with mind games, and yes, this is a mind game, is that they don’t work long term.
A few things are going to happen if you use this strategy. If she’s toxic, she’s gonna be like, “game on.” Toxic women love drama. They don’t love you. Instead, they love drama.
So yes, it may get her attention short term because she wants that drama fix. Drama is actually as addictive as some of the most addictive drugs. Which is terrifying if you think about it.
Here’s something you need to know about a toxic woman: From her perspective, it’s “no, no, no, no. You don’t get to break up with me.” Because she can’t have that on her track record, right?
She needs to be the one to break up with you. So yeah, it might get her attention short term so that she can just break up with you down the road.
And realistically, what you need to ask yourself is, do you really want to be in a relationship with a toxic woman? That’s exhausting, right?
There’s no way you would want a relationship with someone like that. So why use this tactic if it’s only effective on toxic women?
Or, if she is a high-quality woman, if she is the type of woman who’s your dream girl, it may short term get her attention. It may.
But here’s the deal: As a mature woman, as a woman with real dating and relationship skills, initially it’ll get her attention because she’ll think, “what’s wrong? Is he okay? What’s going on here?“
But then she’ll say, “Wow, this guy is needy. This guy is mopey, this guy is pouty, this guy is playing games with me.” And if you’re trying to use this strategy, she would be right, so she would move on.
Mind games are not what high-quality women are looking for. So if you use the ‘how to make or miss you’ strategy, you push away high-quality women and attract toxic women. That’s not what you want, is it?
Stop Using This Strategy If You Want A Happy Relationship
The next thing you need to know about the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy is that it will not give you a happy relationship.
If you did the Google search “how to make her miss you,” it’s because you want a real relationship, right?
You want her to care about you, have feelings for you, spend her time with you, be your girlfriend, and want to be your wife, right?
Here’s the deal: That strategy will not get you that result. When it comes to dating and relationships, there are always two questions you need to ask yourself.
The first is, what quality of woman do you want to attract? The second is, what quality of relationship do you want to create?
You wouldn’t want a relationship that relied on mind games, would you? It doesn’t make any sense, right?
Can you imagine being married to someone and three years into the marriage, “oh, she’s getting too bored, so I better pull away, so she misses me.“?
Or “I better ignore her, so she pays attention to me.” What kind of relationship is that? That’s exhausting.
If you have to play those mind games with her, she’s not worth having, is she? That is why this strategy and why mind games will never get you the type of relationship you want.
Now before you panic, you do not have to rely on mind games. There are things you can do that actually work to make getting your dream girl simple, automatic, and fun.
Do you know the kind of relationship that you want so badly it kind of hurts inside? You can have that type of relationship.
Mind games won’t get you that type of relationship, but other things will. And they will actually get you that type of relationship very easily instead of these mind games and pretending to be someone you aren’t.
I have a free masterclass for you that’s going to teach you this. If you are tired of being alone and trying all these things and they’re just not working, be sure to watch that masterclass.
You’ll learn why this happens and what to do instead to get your dream girl easily, stay true to who you are, and have that happy real relationship instead of a fake relationship based on mind games.
If you’re ready to finally know the strategies that do work, be sure to watch my masterclass to learn more.
Making Her Miss You Does Not Give You Confidence
Okay, the next thing you need to know about the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy is that it forces you to become a victim instead of confident and empowered.
When you are confident, you don’t play games. You don’t have to play games when you’re confident because you actually know what you are doing.
This is why I teach my clients in my program about the skills that work and how to become confident. When you are confident have those skills, you don’t have to rely on mind games.
But if instead, you have no idea what you’re doing, you kind of feel desperate, right? And because you feel desperate you just try anything to get her attention.
Desperation forces you to take on that victim mentality instead of coming from a place of empowerment, which is where you deserve to come from.
And here’s the honest truth: It forces you to become passive-aggressive, which is actually a toxic trait. You don’t want that, do you? It forces you to become manipulative.
That’s what mind games are. They are manipulation. You will never attract a high-quality woman, and you will never attract your dream girl if you’re playing these mind games.
The truth is mind games and manipulation are wrong. You cannot create a happy relationship using those tactics.
So what’s the solution? Take your power back. Remember that attraction is actually skill-based. Yes, you heard that right. Being attractive is skill-based.
Make sure you watch this video (What Makes A Man Attractive: Female Psychology Attraction) to learn more about that.
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You Need To Gain Her Respect Instead
The next thing you need to know about the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy and why it is so flawed is that it will cause you to lose her respect.
No one respects someone manipulative. No one respects someone who’s needy or who is passive-aggressive. You will lose a woman’s respect if you play mind games.
If you really want her respect, you need to earn it. You need to show her that you are a man, and you need to show her that you have the skills she is looking for.
Respect is what makes a woman become attracted to you, and that’s what makes a woman fall in love with you. That’s what’s really going to get you the closeness you are longing for.
The whole goal here is for her to fall in love with you, right? You will never do that with mind games. Instead, the solution is to get those skills that actually work.
The best part of those skills is that you can be you. It’s never about being someone you’re not, and it’s never about “now I gotta ignore her again.” Respect allows you to actually have real closeness in a relationship.
I teach you more about this in that masterclass I mentioned as well. Are you tired of wasting time? And are you tired of trying everything and it not working?
If you’re tired of being alone, and you just want that real closeness, that real relationship, do make sure you watch my masterclass.
How To Make Her Miss You – Recap
All right, let’s sum up what you have learned so far about the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy and why it doesn’t work.
The first thing is that it’s a short term strategy, right? It does not work long term. For many women, if she’s a high-quality woman, it won’t even work short-term.
But even if it does work short-term, it will not work long-term. So if you want a long-term relationship, you need to learn the long-term skills, right?
The next thing you need to know is that it will not give you a happy relationship.
There’s nothing more exhausting than playing games with someone, right? When you just want to be close to someone but instead, “oh, you gotta ignore her again,” or whatever it is.
So that strategy, because it’s a mind game, will not give you a happy relationship.
But thankfully, there are things you can do instead that make attracting her easy, simple, automatic, and help you create that happy relationship.
The next reason the ‘how to make her miss you’ strategy does not work is that it forces you to become a victim instead of confident and empowered.
You don’t want to feel like a victim, right? Instead, you deserve to feel confident and empowered. Mind games will never make you anything other than a victim. If you want real confidence, you gotta have real skills.
The next thing about ‘how to make her miss you’ and why this strategy doesn’t work is that you will lose her respect. You don’t want that, right?
Respect is something you have to earn. It’s not something you can get through a quick trick or a manipulation tactic.
The real way to make her fall crazy in love with you is by learning real skills instead of relying on manipulation and being passive-aggressive. That makes sense, doesn’t it?
I’m gonna mention it just one more time. Make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more about this.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend! I really want to hear from you in the comments.
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