How To Re-Attract Her When She Loses Interest! What do you do if she lost interest? How do you re-attract her? Can you? All good questions and in this video, I answer them. Now you can know how to get her back, how to win her back and how to make her interested again.
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How To Re-Attract Her When She Loses Interest
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are about how to re-attract her when she loses interest.
Have you ever been in a situation where you thought things were going really well with a gal, but then she randomly rejects you, and you have no idea why?
Maybe she won’t talk to you anymore, or she even blocks you, or she says, “well, we should just be friends.” Why does that happen, and what do you do about it?
If that’s what you’re wondering, then make sure you pay close attention and read to the end because that’s what I’m going to be sharing with you in this article. 💡
It’s time to say goodbye to random rejection, don’t you think? Well, before we dive in if this is your first time watching one of my videos, my name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting time and energy on bad and dead-end relationships by learning the skills to get your dream girl and dream relationship.
The best part is I’m a certified coach, so what I teach you is science-based. There are zero mind games. So if you’re sick of playing mind games, this is the place for you.
I have men reach out to me all the time saying, “Hey, I thought things were going really well, and now all of a sudden, she won’t talk to me, or she just blocked me, or she says we should just be friends.“
It hurts, right? That is never a fun place to be in. Here’s what you need to know: There is one solution and it is always the same solution.
No matter your dating or relationship question or challenge, the answer, and the solution, is always the same thing. Whatever the challenge, the answer is always that you need the right dating and relationship skills.
Now we’re going to be going over some of the most critical skills that will help you re-attract her in just a minute. First, I want to make sure that I’m clear on this point.
👉 The solution is always that you need the right skills. Science tells us that attraction is skill-based. So if you have any hope of re-attracting her, you need to do it by learning the right skills.
If you don’t learn those skills, you’ll lose her permanently, and this cycle will just keep happening. Instead, when you learn the right skills, you are irresistible to your dream girl automatically and naturally.
You won’t have to rely on mind games and tricks that are actually short-term strategies that do not work. Instead, you will just be a magnet for your dream girl. That sounds way better, right?
So now that you understand that let’s dive into some of the most critical skills. This is how to re-attract her when she loses interest.
#1: You Must Know How To Pursue Her Correctly
First up, you need to know how to pursue her the right way. There is a big difference between pursuing her the wrong way and pursuing her the right way.
Here’s the honest truth: Women are attracted to masculine men. Obviously, that’s how God created women.
And one of the most masculine things a guy can do is pursue her, as long as he does so the right way. ✅
This makes her feel safe with him and makes her see him as confident and attractive. So one of the most important things you can learn how to do is pursue her.
Make sure you also watch this video (Things Guys Do That Girls Love: What It Really Means To Pursue Women), where I teach you a little bit more about what it means to pursue and pursue the right way.
Another reason why pursuing is so important if she lost interest and why you need to learn how to pursue to re-attract her is women are really good at picking up cues and body language.
And because women, this is how God made us, because she’s so good at picking up those things she thinks you picked up on it too.
So when she sends the signs that she’s interested in you, that she thinks you’re cute, that she wants you to ask her out, if you don’t pick up on that, and if you don’t pursue her, that’s rejection.
She’s crushed, she’s hurt, embarrassed, and she’s moving on. And so one of the main reasons women lose interest is you didn’t pursue her, which to her is rejection.
I have so many men come to me heartbroken, and I feel terrible. They’re like, “what happened?” What happened is that she sent the signs, you didn’t act, you didn’t pursue, she lost interest.
But here’s the good news: 👉 If you learn the right way to pursue along with the other skills I’m going to share with you, you can very often re-attract her if you act fast.
You don’t want to waste time doing this because if she’s moving on, she’s moving on. So you want to make sure you take this very seriously.
#2: Understand How To Create A Healthy Relationship
The next thing you need if you want to know how to re-attract her when she loses interest is you need to understand what a healthy relationship is and how to create one.
This comes down to understanding the basics of a healthy relationship, which most people are not remotely taught about.
It’s not something we learn about on TV, or in music, or in the media. So most people are entirely clueless when it comes to the basics of a healthy relationship.
But if she’s a 10 out of 10, she understands the basics of a healthy relationship. She knows that is how you create a happy lifelong relationship, and so she’s looking for a man who also has those skills.
💡 Not having the right dating and relationship skills is often why a woman will be attracted to a man initially and then lose interest.
He’s fun, looks interesting, and attractive. But as she gets to know him, she realizes, “this guy is clueless when it comes to dating and relationship basics. He has no idea how to create a healthy relationship.“
Do you know what that sounds like? That sounds like a bad bet, right? Why in the world would you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t understand how to create a good one?
This is why initially she’s attracted, she’s interested, but then she sees, “oh, he doesn’t understand healthy relationship basics.” She loses interest because she needs to find someone who does understand that.
This is probably the number one reason I see women losing interest. It is not because they’re jerks, it’s not because they hate you, it’s because they’re looking for a safe bet.
Because frankly, they can find it. And so if you’re going to re-attract her and if you’re going to make sure women stop losing interest in you, you must learn these skills.
You must make sure that you understand this if you’re going to stop women from losing interest in you and re-attract this gal that you’re interested in.
I have a free masterclass for you that’s going to create tons of clarity. I know it can feel a little overwhelming at first, right? It can feel like a foreign language.
First off, don’t panic. It’s simple once you dive in and start learning these things. This is why I created my masterclass for you.
👉 So if you don’t want her to lose interest and you want to know how to re-attract her make sure you watch my masterclass.
#3: Learn How To Not Be Needy Or Aggressive
If you want to know how to re-attract her when she loses interest, the next thing you need to understand is what it means to be needy and aggressive.
Many people think being needy and being aggressive are two different and opposite things. But in reality, they’re the same thing, especially to women.
When a man is needy, he feels a little bit desperate, and he becomes very aggressive. One of the main reasons this happens is if a man gives his heart away too soon.
He sees this girl, he thinks she’s insanely attractive and adorable, and emotionally he becomes married to her.
This is a real thing. We can become emotionally married to someone that we’re not married to. I tell my clients in my program all the time, do not marry her before you are married to her.
You give your heart too soon and become too invested in the relationship before it’s appropriate to even do that. It’s common, easy to do, but it messes up your relationship and scares her away.
If you give your heart to her too soon, if you put too much pressure on the relationship because you think she’s the one, it freaks her out. It scares her away because you start acting like she’s your wife.
She’s not your wife. And so she is scared away, she’s done, she loses interest. Even if she was thinking, “wow, this is a really cool guy,” she’s done now because she’s scared.
Women have an internal built-in safety alarm. And if anything triggers that alarm, she’s done. Not because she’s a jerk but because she’s scared.
So if you want to know how to re-attract her when she loses interest, you need to understand how to protect yourself emotionally. 👈
You need to understand what makes someone needy and how to not be needy. And you need to understand how to move with the right pacing. And the truth is that’s a very freeing thing to know.
So many people, because they give their heart too soon, go from heartbreak to heartbreak to heartbreak to heartbreak, and it’s terrible.
This is why I teach my clients to move at that right pace so that you don’t marry her before you marry her, and instead, relationships can be fun.
Then, when the relationship is at a point where you are ready to marry her, it’s a beautiful thing, and everything has happened at the appropriate time. Instead of one heartbreak after another, it’s a healthy relationship.
Is this making sense so far? Do you see why learning these skills is how to re-attract her when she loses interest?
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#4: You Can Know If You’re Compatible Sooner Than You Think
If you want to learn how to re-attract her when she loses interest, the next thing you need to know is to a certain extent, this is normal.
One of the reasons we date is because we’re not compatible with everyone. And so often it’s really not personal it’s just that you’re not compatible.
However, what you need to know how to do is learn if you’re compatible quicker. This is one of my favorite things to teach my clients.
When you create real clarity, you’re able to know faster if you are compatible or not.
So while there will always be a little bit of risk as you get to know someone new, it is dramatically less risky and nowhere near as emotional. ✅ The fear of rejection, embarrassment, and awkwardness goes down.
So one skill you need to learn is how to tell if you are compatible sooner and quicker. That’s going to save you a ton of heartache.
The biggest thing to remember is when you have the right skills, this is all automatic. It’s natural. You kind of don’t even have to think about it because it’s just a part of who you are. There are zero mind games.
And then you can get 10 out of 10 women because you have become a 10 out of 10. That’s really cool, isn’t it? This is why I love teaching these skills so much.
So would you like my help with this? It can feel a little overwhelming, right? Make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more.
It’s going to create so much clarity for you and help you go from being lonely and frustrated and stressed out about relationships to really enjoying them. 🚀 So make sure you watch my free masterclass.
How To Re-Attract Her When She Loses Interest – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you have learned. This is how to re-attract her when she loses interest.
The first thing is to make sure you know how to pursue her the right way. Women will most definitely lose interest if you do not pursue them.
But if instead, you learn how to pursue her the right way, wow, that is insanely attractive to her. That is what she is looking for.
Next up, make sure you understand the basics of a healthy relationship and how to create that type of relationship. 👈
If she’s a 10 out of 10, she already has those skills. So she’s looking for a man who also has those skills.
If you do not have those skills, she loses interest because it’s only fair that she needs to find someone who has the same dating and relationship skills.
But if instead, you have those skills, whoa, you are a heartthrob. You are like melting her heart, and that’s what makes her fall in love with you. 💡
Also, make sure you understand the difference between being needy and aggressive and just make sure you know how to move with the right pacing.
One thing that scares women and scares women so fast is when you’re kind of emotionally married to her. Do not marry her emotionally before you marry her.
Make sure you know how to move at the right pace so that you’re not needy and so that you’re not aggressive.
And next up, if you want to know how to re-attract her when she loses interest, you know how to tell if you’re compatible sooner.
There are simple skills you can learn that help you identify if you’re compatible quicker. So rather than getting hurt, you’re able to just know, move on, and you don’t take it so personally when it doesn’t work.
Because in all honesty, to a large extent, that’s what dating is about is being able to identify if you’re compatible or not and meeting new people and seeing if it will work.
But you can dramatically reduce the amount of time it takes and how painful it is by understanding how to tell if you’re compatible or not. That just makes sense, doesn’t it?
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