Body Language Women Use To Flirt With Guys! Sometimes figuring out how to tell if a girl likes you can feel like trying to solve the problems of the universe, right?
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Body Language Women Use To Flirt With Guys!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about body language women use to flirt with guys. We’re talking female body language signs that she’s flirting with you! 😏
Flirting is really fun, right? It’s exciting, and it’s a great way to see how she feels about you, that she’s interested in you, that she likes you.
But how do you know if she’s flirting with you? Because the last thing you want to do is embarrass yourself because you think she’s flirting when she’s not.
Or you don’t want to miss out reading the signs that she’s flirting and potentially have her think you’re not interested. That’s a situation you want to avoid.
➡️ Body language is your friend. And in this article, you’ll discover some of the female body language signs that she’s flirting with you!
Maybe the most obvious sign is the last one, so make sure you stay with me until the end.
The truth is, every woman is a little bit different, so the more body language signs you’re aware of the more easily you’ll be able to see if she is flirting with you. So stay with me until the end.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I am your go-to resource to learn how to attract the love of your life and have a happy lifelong relationship with the girl of your dreams.
Okay, as we dive into talking about the body language women use to flirt with guys, I’ll mention two more videos that will also help you so much.
Let’s quickly talk a little bit about what body language is just in case you’re new to body language.
Our bodies don’t lie. Whatever we’re thinking is reflected in our bodies. If somebody’s nervous, happy, upset, even hungry, we can see it in our bodies. That’s just how it works.
This is also true when someone is attracted, flirting, or showing interest. 💡
Bottom line, if she’s flirting, you’ll be able to see it in her body language. You just need to know how to read those signs. And that’s exactly what this is all about.
Body Language Women Use To Flirt With Guys #1 – She Teases You
So let’s get started with body language women use to flirt with guys. Number one is that she teases you. Teasing is one of the very best ways to flirt. It’s fun, it’s playful, it’s exciting.
And it’s a way to get someone’s attention, to not be too aggressive or too bold, but let somebody know, “Hey, I think you’re cute, and you should think I’m cute too.”
In a lot of ways, teasing can be the foundation for flirting. So what does this look like in terms of body language?
Well, when she’s teasing and flirting with you, she may give you a little playful push, she might brush up against you or brush past you when she’s teasing you, and she may even give you a little mischievous smile.
Basically, if she’s teasing you, that’s a great indicator that she’s flirting with you. ✅
Now, we need to address something very important. A lot of people mistake toxic banter for teasing. And the truth is, there is a big difference.
Teasing, when done right, always uplifts both people. When you’re flirting with someone, you want them to know you think they’re cute, and you want them to notice how cute you are.
So it should always be an encouraging, uplifting experience. That is flirting done right.
Unfortunately, many people completely misunderstand. They think that belittling banter, putting someone down, or playing hard-to-get banter is teasing. In reality, that’s manipulation. ❌
Far too many men find themselves in terrible relationships because of this misunderstanding. You must understand how to identify toxic behaviors and instead attract high-quality women.
This is why in my academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy, I teach you exactly how to identify toxic women and start attracting high-quality women.
Knowing how to attract high-quality women makes you repel toxic women, which is what you want, right?
So please do not ever confuse toxic banter for teasing. There’s a big difference.
#2 – She Leans In
Okay, our second female body language sign she’s flirting with you is that she leans in when she’s around you or talking to you.
As humans, when someone has our interest, or we’re attracted to them, we kind of tend to lean in. It’s a visual way of showing interest.
Now, most people don’t know they’re doing this, which helps make it a good clue to look for because she’s not doing it on purpose.
So if you notice that she leans in when she’s around you and talking to you, it’s a great sign that you have her interest. 🔥
Are you starting to see how simple these signs can be? Body language is not complicated at all. Once you practice a little bit reading those signs, pretty soon, you’re a pro.
The Biggest Mistake Men Make When Seeing These Signs
Now before we get to the next sign, I need to give you a warning. And so many men ignore this warning, and then they come to me heartbroken, so I need you to focus.
👉 Do not stop at just reading her body language.
Far too many men see the signs and think that’s all they need. They don’t learn what to do next, and then they come to me completely heartbroken because it went terribly wrong.
They never think it will, but if you don’t actually know what to do next, it will go terribly wrong.
Here’s the deal: It is impossible to be attracted to someone who makes us feel uncomfortable.
And far too many men just guess what to do, how to talk to her, what their body language should be, how to approach her, how to pursue correctly.
They just guess that. Or they take advice from someone who’s only teaching you how to have a one-night fling instead of a lifelong relationship.
And because they’re taking that bad advice they make a high-quality woman, the kind of woman who wants to spend her life with you, they make her feel uncomfortable. 😬
And even if she was attracted to you initially, that attraction is gone. Because you cannot be attracted to someone who makes you feel uncomfortable.
Learn What To Do Next
Women think differently than men, and so it won’t make you feel uncomfortable, you won’t even see why it would make her feel uncomfortable, but it will make her feel uncomfortable.
As a matter of fact, if you get ghosted a lot or if you can’t get past the first date a lot or if your relationships are short-lived or you get put in the friend zone, this is your problem.
I’m going to say that again: This is your problem. You need to understand what to do instead.
For instance, I teach my clients how to pursue correctly, how to increase her attraction for you like crazy by how you talk to her, what your body language is, how you interact with her, how you ask her out, how you approach her.
All of these seemingly simple things. And the truth is, they are very simple when you understand the correct way to do them. 💡
Those are the things that make her feel safe with you. And when she feels safe with you, wow, that attraction skyrockets.
But when you don’t know these things, it’s down the drain.
And by the way, when I say pursuing her correctly, I do not mean telling her you have feelings for her before you’re in a serious relationship.
I don’t mean giving her gifts, and I don’t mean just waiting around for her to make a move.
Bottom line, don’t assume that you know what to do. Make sure you know what to do.
Because the truth is, you deserve to have a loving relationship. And you can do it the hard way by trying to figure it out on your own, or you could instead just learn what works.
As a coach, this is exactly what I’m here to help you with. And this is what allows my clients to send me emails, “Hey, I’m getting married!” “Hey, Melannie, I found the girl of my dreams!” ❤️
And if you want to be one of those guys, you need to learn these secrets too.
I’ve put together some free training for you on 3 secrets to getting a lifetime of kisses from a woman who adores you.
I share with you more about my academy there as well when you decide you would like to take this seriously, take the fast track, and get the love of your life.
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➡️ Save yourself from heartache by making sure you know what to do instead of just assuming and then having it all fall apart.
#3 – She Flirts Over Her Shoulder
With that, let’s get to the third female body language sign she’s flirting with you.
And this one kind of cracks me up because this is one that I caught myself doing. It’s funny when you start studying body language. I thought, “Oh, yeah, I totally do that. I had no idea I did that.“
So number three is that she flirts/talks/smiles at you over her shoulder.
You’ve seen it in the movies: They’re walking away, and she gives them a flirtatious glance. Or she’ll say something flirty over her shoulder.
That is totally body language of interest from a woman. And it’s certainly a way she’ll be a little bit playful and a little bit flirty with you. 😏
Again, make sure she’s never saying anything belittling because that’s always inappropriate.
But if she’s being a little bit teasy or flirty, yeah, that is flirtatious body language 101. She’ll talk to you and/or look at you over her shoulder.
#4 – She Frames Her Face
Okay, our next body language sign she’s flirting with you kind of cracks me up a little bit. But women totally do this. I’ve caught myself doing this.
This sign is that she will frame her face.
Now, what do I mean by that? She’ll use her hands to draw attention to her face.
For instance, she might rest her head on her hands, maybe even cockeye her head a little bit.
And women, usually, we don’t notice. It’s not like we think, “Oh, I’m going to frame my face now,” 🤭 but it’s something women do when they’re like, “Oh, hey, you’re cute, you should notice me.“
#5 – She Touches You
Okay, our next female body language sign that she’s flirting with you is that she touches you.
As I said, this is kind of the most obvious. But it can be easy for a lot of guys to completely look past.
When we’re attracted to someone, we like to touch them, right? That’s just kind of how it works. And it’s certainly a great way to flirt.
So like I mentioned earlier, she might give you a little bit of a playful push or bump up against you playfully a little bit.
Or she may give you a hug every time she sees you. Something like that is actually very flirtatious.
Maybe if you pass her something or she passes you something, she lets her fingers linger, so she touches your hand a little bit.
Or maybe it’s as simple as sitting close to you when you’re sitting next to each other.
✅ Simple, subtle things like that are huge ways that women will flirt with you.
Body Language Women Use To Flirt With Guys – Final Thoughts
Okay, let me ask you a question. What do you do next? What comes next?
Awesome, you see the signs she’s flirting with you, the signs she’s interested! What do you do now?
If you don’t have a game plan and know exactly step by step what to do, this is where most men run into trouble.
This is where it goes terribly wrong. And then they send me a comment or a DM, “Melannie, I saw the signs, and now she doesn’t like me anymore.“
Yes, it’s because you made her feel uncomfortable. ❌
Obviously, it was unintentional. Obviously, you didn’t mean to do that. But if this keeps happening to you, that is your problem. I cannot tell you how many times I see this daily.
But at the same time, if you don’t make a move, she’ll think you’re not interested, and she will move on.
This means you’ve got to make sure you understand what to do next so that you can increase that attraction, make her really like you, and then see if you can have a relationship with this gal.
➡️ I teach you step-by-step exactly how to do this in my program, Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
Are you serious about having a happy, lifelong relationship? That’s where you need to go to have all the answers up front. I have put in all the work and research so that you don’t have to.
To learn more about that, watch my free masterclass now. You’ll learn 3 secrets about getting a lifetime of kisses from the girl of your dreams.
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