Why Am I Still Single Answered (How To Be Successful In Love!) Have you ever laid awake at night asking yourself “why am I single?” 🤔
It’s discouraging when you are aching for love, you know you’ll treat a woman right but you’re still alone and feeling empty.
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Why Am I Still Single Answered (How To Be Successful In Love!)
“Why am I still single?“
Do you ever lay in bed at night, asking yourself this over and over again?
You’re an incredible man. And you know you’ll treat the love of your life amazing.
So why are you still single? 🤔
Maybe you’ve never been in a relationship. No matter how much you try, you can’t seem to get or keep a relationship.
Or maybe you’re in and out of relationships, and you’re tired of just another one. You’re looking for your forever relationship.
Either way, you know you want to look deeply into her loving eyes and know she’s your special someone.
Is that you right now?
It’s been kind of a long pandemic, hasn’t it?
This has made dating, relationships, meeting new people, and finding the one for you a real challenge.
➡️ Many people feel overwhelmed by relationships and a little hopeless and discouraged. They’re wondering if it’ll ever happen for them.
Maybe you’re there too?
This is especially true if you were discouraged before the pandemic ever happened.
If any of this rings true to you, then I have a special article for you today.
I’ll be completely honest with you. This is not the article I was planning on writing for you this week.
However, it’s something I want to share with you to lift your spirit and give you some hope. 🚀
We’re talking about the infamous question, “Why am I still single?” And I’ll be telling you what you can do about it.
Because the truth is you deserve to be with someone amazing, and I’m here to help you do that.
You Can Create The Relationship You Want
I want you to pretend for the rest of this article that this is just me and you talking, okay?
Just pretend that you and I are sitting down talking to each other.
This isn’t me and all my followers. This is you and me.
Sound good? Can we do that? ✅
I don’t talk much about my backstory, my origin story, how I got to be doing this.
And the truth is it surprises many people.
Because even though right now I’m a successful dating and relationship coach and have helped thousands of men across the globe…
…That’s not where I started at all.
I certainly was not known for being good at relationships.
Many people don’t know this, but I was raised with an incredibly abusive father.
And as they say, you attract what you know. And that’s exactly what I did. 😬
As soon as I got old enough to start dating, I started attracting toxic, narcissistic, manipulative, abusive men.
Now naturally, I’m a pretty confident person. I’m a pretty optimistic person.
However, being around these horrible, toxic men crushed my confidence.
Do you know that feeling where you look in the mirror and think, “What’s wrong with me? Why isn’t this working? Is what I want even real? Is it possible?“
I know what it feels like to ask those questions too, and to wonder, “Should I give up? I’ve tried everything!“
There’s nothing worse than aching to be loved and wanting to give your love to someone and having no clue how to get that.
➡️ This is when I took my very first relationship class.
And you want to know something funny? I did not want to go. I did not want to go at all.
I’d just been through another breakup, he’d moved on fast and found somebody new, and I was still hurting.
I was like, “I don’t want to talk about relationships right now.“
My sister, however, really wanted to go to the class. And she didn’t want to go alone.
And I love my sister, so I went.
And it was one of the most life-changing things I’ve ever done. 💡 Period.
I realized through this class that there’s a way to create happy relationships.
There’s a way to create the love we want.
I realized that if you do certain things, you can get the relationship you want.
And if you don’t do those things, you don’t get the relationship you want.
This was mind-boggling to me! 💥 I had no idea.
I thought you just waited for the right one to show up in your life.
So I waited and waited, but they weren’t coming.
Make The Decision Today To Get The Relationship You Want
At this point, I had a very important decision to make.
Nearly every man I knew had been a toxic one. ❌ And I could feel myself getting a little bitter and starting to think that maybe all men were jerks.
I also started to think that maybe I should give up on love.
But I realized that I didn’t like that feeling.
And deep down, I didn’t believe it was true.
So I said, “You know what? I need to do something about this. Cause I’m not okay with it.“
👉 So I decided, and it must be a decision, that I’d purposefully look for and find examples of good men and happy relationships.
And I had to really search. Because again, I knew so many toxic people at that point in my life.
And then I found one couple. And they were crazy in love.
I focused on that couple, and they were so good to each other and so kind and loving.
And then you know what happened?
I found another, and then another, and another, and another.
Because this is what happens, it’s how our brains work. ✅
I taught my brain to start looking for the good instead of the bad.
And next thing I knew, I saw happy, crazy-in-love relationships everywhere.
The kind of relationship where they look into each other’s eyes and know that’s their safe place. That’s their special someone.
Now as I started connecting the dots, I realized other people didn’t know all of these secrets. Just like I hadn’t known them.
Because of the pain I had been through…
Because I know what it feels like to think, “maybe I’m not lovable“…
I wanted everyone to know that you are lovable, ❤️
That you do have what it takes, 💪
That you can find and create your ideal relationship! 🔥
That’s when I became a certified Coach and created my Academy.
And since then, I’ve been helping thousands of men find the love of their life, make her fall in love with them, and wake up next to her for the rest of their lives.
If I hadn’t decided to focus on the good men in this world, you wouldn’t be learning from me today.
What’s Keeping You From Your Dream Girl?
I can honestly tell you, as someone who works with men every day, there are so many amazing men in this world.
If you’re reading this article, you’re one of those amazing men. And the world needs your goodness so much. 💡
So let me ask you a question.
Are you feeling discouraged about relationships?
Are you thinking and feeling that maybe a relationship won’t ever happen for you?
Are you wondering if the kind of love you want is even possible?
I’ll let you in on a secret.
➡️ Many people feel discouraged and overwhelmed about love because they watch so many YouTube videos about relationships and don’t seem to get anywhere.
Now, before you freak out, YouTube is a good place, obviously.
It’s a good thing to watch videos to try and find the answer. That’s why I make a new video every week.
However, let’s think about it for a second. What is YouTube?
YouTube is a place for quick tips.
And there’s nothing wrong with quick tips. We all need those sometimes, right?
YouTube is flashy, fast, quick, and easy.
However, it doesn’t give you the full strategy.
It can’t. 👈
Where Do You Get The Full Strategy For Relationships?
YouTube isn’t made to give you the full strategy. It’s made to give you a quick and easy tip.
This means that sometimes you can watch 50+ videos, trying to get the answers you want, and be more confused than ever before.
The reason you can feel discouraged even when you watch a ton of YouTube videos is because you still don’t have the full strategy.
You still don’t have the foundation, the roadmap, the game plan. 💡
Instead, you only have a whole bunch of quick tips. Which are useful, but they’re not the big picture.
This is why many, if not most of my clients who go through my Academy still watch my YouTube videos.
And they get even more value from them because they understand the full strategy. And then those quick tips work even better.
So maybe you’re thinking, 🤔 “How do I find the love of my life? Where is she? How do I create a relationship where I can look into her eyes and feel more and more alive?”
If that’s you right now, this is a sign that it’s time for you to get off YouTube.
Not permanently, but it’s time to get the strategy you can’t get on YouTube.
Attracting Lasting Love Academy Was Created For You
This is exactly what I created Attracting Lasting Love Academy to do for you.
✅ I walk you step-by-step through how to find her, make her fall crazy in love with you, and want to spend her life by your side.
Are you ready to wake up with her by your side every morning?
To make memories with her every day?
To cuddle while you watch Netflix or play a video game?
To know that you get to come home to her every night?
If you’re ready for that happy family that’s your safe place, that’s yours…
Then it’s time for you to take your next step, to learn the strategy that enables you to have that.
To get started today, click here and watch my free masterclass.
❤️ That’s where I reveal to you how to find the love of your life, make her fall crazy in love with you, and have the kind of relationship that many people dream about.
So if you’re ready to transform your dreams into your reality, click that link and watch my masterclass now.
I’ve helped so many men in your situation. And I’m 100% confident that it can completely transform your love life as you apply what you learn in my Academy.
Just like I didn’t know these things until somebody taught me, you can’t know them unless you learn them too.
I’ve gone through all the work for you so that it’s easy and fast.
That’s how you can get the relationship of your dreams quickly, instead of staying on the hamster wheel of discouragement, hopelessness, and failure.
➡️ If you’re ready to be successful in love, watch that free masterclass now.
Why Am I Still Single Answered – Final Thoughts
So to sum this up, the answer to “Why am I still single?” is because you haven’t learned the strategy to not be single anymore.
If you’re feeling discouraged, hopeless, and overwhelmed, it’s time for you to learn that strategy.
The truth is dream relationships happen every day.
They happen everywhere, and you deserve to have one too. 🔥
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