Why You Intimidate Women And How To Captivate Them Instead 😍 (Life-Changing Secrets!)
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Why You Intimidate Women And How To Captivate Them Instead!
Hello, my wonderful friend!
➡️ Let’s talk about why you intimidate women and how to captivate them instead.
Has someone ever told you that you’re intimidating to women, and that’s why it’s hard to have a lasting relationship and get the first date with women?
Or maybe nobody has told you that you’re intimidating. But you’re starting to wonder if that’s why relationships are so difficult for you.
Is that you right now?
The truth is you may be intimidating to women.
And when that happens, it keeps you from a real relationship, from that tender, loving woman who feels safe with you and wants to spend her life by your side.
So you must learn what’s making you intimidating and how to captivate her instead. 💡
I’ll share some of those life-changing secrets with you in this article. So if you want to learn more about that, make sure you keep reading.
The secret I share with you at the end is maybe the mistake most people make. So make sure you stay with me until the end.
Before we dive in, welcome!
My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and the creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to source to learn how to find the woman of your dreams and make her fall madly in love with you, so you can come home to her soft, gentle touch every night. ❤️
Okay, are you ready to learn why you intimidate women and how to captivate them instead?
Let’s get started with the first reason!
Why You Intimidate Women #1 – Body Language
The first reason a man can be intimidating to a woman is simply your body language.
About 86% of communication is non-verbal. This means how you hold and present yourself really does matter.
Just how you position your body can make a woman think, “Wow, he’s super hot, and I feel safe with him. And I just, oh my goodness, this guy!“
Or it makes her think, “Oh, never mind.” ❌
This means you want your body language to be sending signals to her that you’re super attractive and enjoyable to be around, and you’re the kind of man she wants to spend her life with.
Because they’re trying to be cool, many men, unfortunately, come across as arrogant or aggressive.
And that will scare a woman away permanently.
So it’s something you definitely need to make sure you’re watching out for.
This is why how to have confident, masculine, friendly body language is something I teach you how to do in my Academy.
👉 It sounds like it’s a little thing, but it’s insanely powerful, and it matters so much more to women than most men know.
#2 – Your Style
Now let’s move to the second reason you might be intimidating women.
The second reason is how you dress.
Many people say “dress to impress” or “dress for success.” And there’s truth to both of those things.
I personally prefer “dress to empower!” 💪
The way you dress truly can turbocharge your confidence and how attractive you are to women.
Now, as a man, you’re obviously stronger. And when she knows you’re trustworthy, that’s super hot, and it’s something she really wants.
However, until she knows she can trust you, she needs to make sure she can feel safe around you.
And the way you dress either shows her that you’re sharp, classy, masculine, strong, and totally safe to be around.
Or it freaks her out. 😬
You must be careful that your style choices show that you’re a classy man and not a scary man.
Again, many men (completely innocently) are just trying to look tough, strong, and masculine.
But what they don’t realize is they’re actually coming across as aggressive.
So it’s critical to be careful with your personal style. Make sure that you’re showing her that you’re a sexy, confident, masculine man who’s also safe to be around.
How To Captivate Her Instead
Now, we’re obviously talking about what’s intimidating to a woman.
But you don’t want to intimidate her, right?
Instead, you want that special relationship where she knows the real you and totally adores you. 🔥
You want to find your stunning woman and have her fall crazy in love with you, right?
As a coach, this is exactly what I’m here to guide you through.
I know that relationships and finding the love of your life can feel terribly overwhelming.
And the last thing you want to do is gamble with your heart.
So let me make it incredibly easy for you. ✅ That’s exactly what my Academy is all about.
I guide you one step at a time to find the love of your life, make her fall deeply in love with you, so you can come home to her gentle kisses every night and wake up to her warm embrace.
If you want to make sure you’re never intimidating to women again, and can instead melt the heart of the woman you desire most, then you need to watch my free masterclass.
When you watch my free masterclass, you’ll discover more about the life-changing secrets I share with my clients in my Academy.
And let me just say, they’re going to shock you! ⚡
Are you serious about finding the special woman just for you and making her fall deeply in love with you? It’s something you need to watch today.
#3 – Being Needy
Okay, let’s talk about the third reason you could be intimidating to women.
This reason is if you’re being needy.
Now, many people are confused about what being needy even is.
And the truth is I could make a whole video on the signs that you’re being needy. But let’s start with a few examples.
Some examples of being needy are if you constantly need her undivided attention or act like you’re in a serious relationship when you’re not.
❌ If you’re jealous of her time, always need her validation, or act like there’s an emotional closeness that doesn’t exist yet. Those are all ways you could be needy.
Some other examples of being needy are trying to force the relationship and force her to spend time with you and notice you.
Yes, as humans, we have needs. And a relationship and validation and things like that are good needs.
But there’s a big difference between being a confident person who has needs and a needy person.
Now, you may be thinking, “Okay, so why does being needy intimidate a woman?“
And the honest truth is sometimes people will use the word “intimidate” because it’s nicer than saying “scare women to death.“
The truth is, when you’re needy with a woman, it scares her. 😬 She thinks, “What does this person want from me? What’s he going to do to me?“
It totally freaks her out.
And so sometimes “intimidate” is a nice way to say “you’re scaring her.“
I can’t tell you how many people I talk to and this is the problem. They’re acting too needy.
This is why it’s critical to create confidence and confident habits. And that, of course, is something I teach you how to do step-by-step in my Academy as well.
So if you’re struggling with being needy, you don’t have to anymore. 💡 Everyone has needy habits, but you deserve to move past them and have that loving relationship.
#4 – Clumsy Communication
Okay, my next reason why you might be intimidating to a woman is simply how you communicate and interact with her.
It doesn’t matter how physically attractive you are, you could be the sexiest man on the planet, but if you’re not making her feel safe when she’s with you, it doesn’t matter.
A woman must feel safe with a man for attraction to grow into love.
➡️ So, if you’re struggling to maintain a relationship and find that beautiful woman who wants to spend her life with you, this is your problem.
You must understand how to talk to her, flirt with her, and pursue her.
Pursuing a woman correctly makes her feel so safe. Like, it makes her walk on cloud nine. She sees you as the hottest man alive.
And again, pursuing is totally different than being needy. So make sure you don’t confuse the two.
Often, if you’re intimidating to a woman, the way you’re talking to her doesn’t feel warm. It doesn’t make her feel like you’re open and friendly.
It makes her feel like you’re pushing her away or a little aggressive, cold, or standoffish.
Instead, you want her to feel warm when she’s around you. You want her to get butterflies, her heart to melt, and her to feel giddy inside. ❤️ That’s your ultimate goal.
And again, if that’s overwhelming to you, that’s totally okay. It’s overwhelming to most people.
I’ll guide you step by step in great detail in my Academy, so you don’t even have to think twice about it. Again, watch my free masterclass today to learn more.
#5 – The Biggest Mistake
Okay, are you ready for maybe the biggest reason why you might be intimidating a woman?
This reason is telling her you have feelings for her before you’ve been dating for at least two months.
👉 And I mean that you’re ready to be serious and exclusive.
This is one of the biggest mistakes I see; men telling women they have feelings for them, been crushing on them, etc., when they’ve barely gone out or not gone out at all.
Do not do that! That will creep her out, okay? I cannot stress this enough.
This scares her because you’re acting like there’s an emotional closeness that doesn’t exist yet.
We have to earn emotional closeness with each other.
Women have to do it for men, and men have to do it for women. You need to earn that trust.
And so when you send her flowers or a gift or whatever, expressing your feelings for her when you’re not ready to move into a serious relationship, that’ll freak her out. ❌
If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve heard me say that what you learned in high school doesn’t work as an adult in dating and relationships.
And this is a perfect example of that.
So many people in school were taught, “You’ve got to tell her you like her.“
Don’t tell adult women you like them unless you’re both ready to be in a serious relationship.
And you have to earn that by dating your way to that point.
Do you want to avoid scaring women away permanently? You’ve got to stop making this mistake and instead learn the correct way to pursue her.
💥 The most important thing you can learn for success in love is you must discover how to make a woman fall deeply in love with the real you.
And that’s something I’m here to guide you through. I’ve put in all the work, so it’s not difficult for you.
I walk you through how to become a boss at everything we just talked about. And honestly, so much more.
So are you sitting there worried that you’re intimidating to women?
And are you ready to skip past heartache and get to the part where you hold the beautiful love of your life forever?
That’s what I’m here to help you discover in my Academy.
Just click here and watch my free masterclass today to get started. ✅
Why You Intimidate Women – Recap
Before we wrap up, let’s do a quick recap of the 5 reasons why you might be intimidating to women. 👇
Number one is your body language. It’s critical that your body language is open, friendly, and confident.
Number two is the way you dress. If the way you dress is a little edgy or aggressive, that’ll intimidate and scare women very quickly.
Number three is being needy. Being needy scares women away so fast. Instead, you must be confident while pursuing, flirting, and showing her how amazing you are. Because the truth is you’re amazing, and she deserves to see that.
Number four is how you communicate with and talk to her. Again, you need to make sure that you’re engaging, warm, and safe to her instead of aggressive or cold or withdrawn.
And lastly, don’t tell her you have feelings for her before it’s an appropriate time to do so. That freaks women out and scares them away so fast.
➡️ A relationship must be treated with respect. And you must do those things in the correct order.
Thank you so much for joining me, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments.
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