Christian Dating Coach Reveals Top Love Secrets You Must Know Today! ❤️
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Christian Dating Coach Reveals Top Love Secrets!
Hello, my wonderful friend, and welcome to a special article!
As a Christian dating coach, I’m about to reveal some of the top love secrets you must know today if you want a long-lasting, loving, tender, Godly relationship.
👉 So get ready for some of the best and most effective Christian dating tips ever.
Dating and relationships can feel a little overwhelming sometimes, right?
For instance, how do you set physical boundaries, and what are the appropriate physical boundaries?
How do you find the right one for you? Like, how do you even begin to do that?
And how do you trust God to help you and see God’s hand in your relationship without feeling like a victim to his timing?
Have you ever wondered about these things? 🤔 These are powerful questions.
Get ready to have your mind blown as we talk about some of the most misunderstood yet powerful secrets about love.
Honestly, by the end, you’ll have some real clarity.
And I think you’ll both be surprised and happy by what you discover. So make sure you stay with me until the end of this article.
Before we dive in, welcome! 🎉
My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and the creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to source to learn how to find the love of your life and make her fall deeply in love with you so you can come home to her soft touch every night.
And to further set you up for success, I have two other videos that touch on some of the topics we’ll be talking about in this video.
Make sure you watch this video on 13 places women want to be touched. These are very appropriate physical boundaries, so give it a watch.
And make sure you watch this video on things you didn’t know about kissing. It’ll surprise you as well.
So are you ready to dive into some of the most unknown Christian dating and relationship tips and secrets? ✅ Let’s do this!
Christian Dating Coach Reveals Top Love Secrets #1 – God Wants Us To Be Intimate
The first Christian dating and love secret you need to know is that intimacy is good. Like, really good.
As Christians, we tend to hit one extreme or the other.
One extreme is that intimacy is evil and that you shouldn’t have those desires or feelings, it’s something you should suppress, and it shouldn’t be there.
And then we sometimes hit the other extreme and think, “Of course it’s good. And there really aren’t any boundaries or appropriate limits with sex. So you don’t have to wait till marriage.” ❌
The truth is much more in the middle rather than at these extremes.
In reality, intimacy is beautiful. It’s a wonderful gift from God. Those desires were designed by Him.
Intimacy brings us closer together as a couple. Those desires help the attraction process start and make us want to get married and commit our lives to someone.
This helps us create families, and God loves families. God knows that families are the foundation of society and our world.
And so when you have good, loving, strong families, you have a good, loving, strong world. These are good things that God wants for us.
The key is that sex should only be experienced within the bonds of marriage. ❤️
And there are many reasons for this. And some of it is honestly for your protection.
Sex is obviously the most intimate experience we can have as humans. It’s a very special and even sacred experience.
It’s not something you should give or share with someone who’s not 100% committed to you.
And I mean committed to you on the deepest level. Meaning she wants to spend her life with you, she’s married to you.
➡️ She has to earn the right to be intimate with you. Just like you need to earn the right to share that with her.
So never ever share that with someone who’s not your wife.
And to be clear, this should never be about shaming someone who’s made a mistake and shared that with someone they’re not married to, whether it’s you or someone else.
The beautiful thing about our Savior Jesus Christ is that He always stands there with open arms, waiting to heal, cleanse, forgive, and make us whole and well.
So this should never ever be about shaming. However, you need to start today and not continue to experience that with someone who’s not your wife.
So always remember that those feelings and passions and desires are good. 🔥 They’re incredibly good!
It’s never something that you should suppress. It’s just something that you should set boundaries with.
And that boundary always needs to be that she must be your wife first. She needs to earn that right.
#2 – Marrying Someone You’re Not Attracted To Is Unfair
Attraction is important.
I’ll go past attraction just being good. It’s critical.
This is one of the reasons why when you join me in my Academy, I teach you how to turbocharge your attraction so you can attract the kind of woman you’re attracted to.
It really is an important part of dating and relationships. 💡
Now because these are things I teach in detail in my Academy, I’ve had several men reach out, one in particular who said, “Melannie, thank you so much for explaining that this is normal and good.“
He always thought that the desire to be attracted to his wife was wrong, and there was something wrong with him, and that was something he should suppress.
Have you ever been told that too? That’s an incredibly common misunderstanding.
You should want to be attracted to the woman you marry.
Some people are afraid that’s focusing on the carnal man or the natural man.
Here, let me clear it up for you. ⬇️
The natural man or the carnal man is when you give in to those feelings and desires and temptations before you’re married to her.
If you wait until it’s appropriate, which is marriage, then it’s not carnal at all.
As a matter of fact, as I said earlier, it’s a very sacred thing and a very sacred gift that God has given us.
So it’s not that the feelings and desires are carnal. It’s doing it at inappropriate times.
Here’s a good way to look at attraction.
Let’s say you decided to settle and marry someone you’re not attracted to.
That’s not fair, okay?
👉 That’s not fair to you, and it’s not fair to her.
She deserves someone physically attracted to her. Just like you deserve someone who’s physically attracted to you.
And when that physical attraction isn’t there, um, there are problems in the relationship. Intimacy and closeness don’t work right because you’re not attracted to each other.
So rather than settling and having her struggle and you struggle and your children struggle, don’t do that.
Instead, skip all that heartache by finding and committing to a woman who’s very physically attractive to you and attracted to you.
Attraction brings us closer together as a couple. So it’s something that must be there. ✅
Obviously, physical attraction is not the only important thing, but it’s critical.
How Do You Become Attractive To The Woman Of Your Dreams?
So this brings up a really important question that you might already be thinking about.
That’s great that physical attraction is good.
But how do you find the kind of woman you are attracted to?
And how do you become so attractive to her that she wants to spend her life with you and fall deeply in love with you?
Why can it feel so difficult to find her, get her attention, and make her fall in love with you? 🤔
These are the life-changing secrets I help you master in my Academy.
If you’re serious about finding the sweet, gentle love of your life, making her fall deeply in love with you, so you get to wake up to her gentle touch every morning, then those secrets are the key you’re missing.
To discover more about what these secrets are and how you can start mastering them today, watch my new free masterclass.
All you have to do is click here now and start watching.
What you learn there will shock you and change your love life forever. ❤️
#3 – No, God Doesn’t Want You Alone
Are you ready for our Christian dating secret number three?
This secret is that God wants you to have a loving, tender relationship.
God wants you to be married. God wants you to be happily and completely in love.
Let’s be real. Sometimes it takes longer to find the love of our life than we want it to.
This can cause us to feel like a failure. It can cause us to feel like it’ll never happen.
And sometimes even feel like maybe God doesn’t want it to happen.
Have you been there? 😬
As a Christian coach, this is one of the things I hear the most frequently. “Well, maybe God just wants me to be single forever.“
Something you must know and never forget is that God is your loving father. He wants you happy.
He wants you happy on the highest level, crazy in love, and He wants someone to have you as well.
As I’ve said several times already, He gave you those desires for a reason.
God wants his children happily married. 💡
A loving, tender, loyal marriage is the sweetest experience we can have on earth. And, of course, God wants that for us.
Sometimes some people, for specific reasons, are indeed supposed to be single. However, that’s very few people, okay? So the truth is it’s not worth considering or thinking about.
Instead of giving up and using that as an excuse, yes, I know a little bit of tough love, but I love you enough to be the one to say it.
➡️ Instead of giving up and using that as an excuse, focus on how you can prepare for the extraordinary amount of love God wants to give you.
Rather than giving up, focus on preparing.
#4 – Sometimes God Is Waiting On Us
Okay, this Christian dating and relationship secret might be the most powerful.
This secret is that you don’t have to be a victim of God’s timing.
If you were being super honest with me, would you say that sometimes you feel like a victim of God’s timing?
Perhaps you think, “Why can’t I have my happy relationship already? Why is it taking so long?“
Have you been there?
If you have, you’re pretty normal. 👍
So many people say, “Just wait on God, and it’ll happen.” And there is some truth to that. You obviously have to involve God in your love story. That’s how it becomes the most beautiful love story ever.
Here’s a good way to think about it.
Let’s pretend you’re in the car and you’re driving down the highway.
And all of a sudden, you get a flat tire.
So you pull over, and you’ve got to fix this flat tire. So you say a prayer. “God, I need a new tire. Will you please replace my flat tire?“
And you sit there.
And you sit there.
And you sit there… ❌
Is your tire going to be changed? Well, not very likely.
Could God do it? Absolutely. He’s God, so of course, He could do it.
However, it’s much more likely that you’ll get your flat tire changed if you show your faith in God by getting out of your car and changing the flat tire.
Yes, God helps us in every phase and stage of our life. But it’s really disrespectful to God to say, “Hey, I’m just going to sit here. You take care of it.“
Instead, we show our faith by putting in some effort. All the while relying on Him because He can make more of our efforts than we ever can.
👉 In all honesty, one of the biggest reasons people say, “Well, just wait on God, and it’ll happen,” is because they don’t know what else to say.
So often, when we reach out to friends or family members, and they tell us this, it’s because they honestly don’t know what else to say.
That is why a Christian dating coach is so effective and helps you turbocharge your love life so quickly.
Isn’t that exciting? You don’t have to be a victim of God’s timing. God doesn’t want you to feel that way.
So often, it’s not that God doesn’t want you to have love. It’s that he knows you’re not ready for it yet.
God won’t give us a gift before we’re ready for it.
So if you don’t have that gift yet, well, you need to do what you need to do to get ready; to prepare. 💪
And if you have no idea how to do this or what that even looks like, don’t worry. I’ve made it incredibly simple for you.
This is what I do all day, every day. I’m here to help you master these secrets incredibly quickly.
The truth is nothing makes me happier than hearing from a man who’s been in my Academy and having him say, “I’m getting married!“
And I’d love to share these secrets with you too, so you can hold your sweet, feminine, beautiful woman close every night.
To learn how I can help you do this and what those strategies are, just click here now and get started today. ✅
Christian Dating Coach Reveals Top Love Secrets – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up these incredibly powerful Christian dating and relationship secrets.
Secret number one is that intimacy is good. Those desires are normal and natural and beautiful.
Number two, physical attraction is very important. It’s not just good or okay; it’s critical. It’s something you need in the relationship.
Number three, God wants you happily married. He wants you to have a relationship. Too often we think, “Maybe I’m just supposed to stay single.” Don’t use that as an excuse. Instead, focus on preparing. It’s a gift He’s always willing to give.
Secret number four is that you don’t have to be a victim of God’s timing. Rather than feeling like a victim, focus on preparing. God will only give you the gift if you’re ready for it, so get ready so he can give it to you.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend! 🎉
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