Hot Girls Wish You Knew THIS~ 😉 Get ready for some juicy secrets about women!
If you’ve been wondering what women really want in a man, get ready because I’m sharing some of the deepest female secrets that every man should know.
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Hot Girls Wish You Knew This~ 😉 (Transcript)
Get ready for some juicy secrets that girls desperately wish they could share with you. Have you ever been in that situation where there’s some things you just really wish you could tell girls in general, you just wish they knew?
Maybe it was something about the way you feel, or maybe it was just something that you wish they would just understand about you.
Whatever it is, if you have ever been there, holy cow, girls get it too. They’re things that they wanna share with you. And let me just say, some of these I’m going to be sharing cuz I’m the coach, so it’s my job to bridge the gap. And some of these things I’m going to be sharing with you, I’m a little nervous to share with you and it’s certainly a vulnerable thing, but I believe you completely deserve to know these things.
So would you like to know these secrets? Okay, make sure you stay until the end of this video. And as we’re diving into this, I just wanna say, I’m not talking about toxic women, okay? If you’ve been following my channel for a while, you know that I will never teach you how to attract a toxic woman.
Someone who loves mind games, someone who’s cold and catty and immature. I will never teach you how to attract those kinds of women. Instead, I am talking about the sincere, feminine, loving women. The kind of woman who just wants to adore you and just wants you to adore her. She wants to shower you with soft, sweet kisses every day.
So if that’s the kind of woman you are interested in, then this video is definitely for you. So let’s dive in with the first juicy secret girls just wish they could tell you.
Hot Girls Wish You Knew This Secret #1
Number one is that we’re sick of the toxic girls too, okay? There’s so much in culture right now that is promoting toxicity, perhaps especially in women. And I get that you’re sick of it. I get comments all the time that you’re sick of it and you should be sick of it.
And please just know the girls are totally sick of it too. It’s giving us a bad name. It’s making men bitter against all women when not all women are that way. It’s just, we’re completely and totally sick of it too.
As a matter of fact, that’s one of the reasons why I became a coach and why I am so passionate about coaching, is I feel like people deserve to just know the truth and to avoid situations like that.
So if you’re like, “Holy cow, I am sick of toxic women,” know that she’s going, “Amen. Me too.”
Okay, the next juicy secret is that girls are scared that they’re not going to be good enough for you. If you saw this video, you know that one of the questions I answered was from a man who was just nervous that he’s not good enough and that he’ll never be good. Maybe you’ve felt that way too.
It’s important to understand that girls feel the exact same way. She’s scared that she’s not going to be good enough for you.
In society right now there are, there are a lot of industries that are pushing a lot of things and putting a lot of pressure on people. And so she’s told she has to be caked in makeup, and get this work done and that work done, and show this amount of skin. All this pressure. And if she does all of that, then maybe she’ll be good enough.
And it creates a lot of feelings of inadequacy. So if you have those feelings of inadequacy, know that she does too.
And what makes a relationship magical and beautiful and so fulfilling is when you have two people who, yes, are working on their own self-love and their own confidence, but they also love and adore each other for who they are, and they can nurture that love and that trust and help get rid of some of those feelings of inadequacy. That is a beautiful relationship that’s ridiculously possible. It happens all the time.
And before we get to the next juicy secret, my name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. And if you are looking for that kind of woman who is not toxic, she’s not into the mind game, she’s not a drama queen, she’s not cold and catty, but instead she’s feminine, she’s sincere, she’s genuine, she wants to shower you with those sweet kisses. If that’s what you are looking for, then you’re in the right place.
Okay, the next juicy secret is one I’m a little afraid to say. I’m afraid to say this, so can we just decide, just hear me out before you stone me, okay? Just hear me out. Can we agree to that? Okay, sounds good.
Okay, this secret is that girls are just as sick of watching good guys fall for toxic women as guys are watching girls fall for bad boys. Yes, I just said that. But hear me out. Let me explain.
I totally get it. I get comments all the time, “I’m so sick of the bad boys. Why do girls always fall for the bad boys?” and all of that.
And the truth is, you’re totally entitled to be frustrated about that, okay? Completely entitled.
Realize though that at the end of the day, all a bad boy is, is a toxic guy. That that’s all he is. He’s someone who has learned how to manipulate her feelings. Someone who has learned how to make it look like he has more to offer than he actually does. Someone who really just gives her butterflies, makes her head spin, and it’s all for insincere reasons. That’s all a bad boy is.
And on the flip side, as girls, they are so sick of watching guys, really good guys, fall for toxic women. Women, who, just like the bad boy, they know how to manipulate your feelings. They know how to make you see them in a certain way. They know how to show just enough skin. They know what things to say in order to get the attention that they want.
You’re totally entitled to be sick of watching girls fall for the bad boy. But just know that girls are really sick of watching guys fall for toxic women.
And sometimes she lays in bed at night, staring at the ceiling, maybe even crying herself to sleep and saying, “what is wrong? Why can I try so hard and she’s getting the attention and I’m not?” So you’re not alone in feeling upset about things like that.
That’s again why I’m a coach, is because everybody deserves to know how to spot and identify a toxic person so that they don’t have anything to do with them anymore.
Okay, the next juicy secret is one that is ridiculously important for you to know. Pay close attention to this one.
Okay, this is one that should not be a secret, but society is kind of turning it into a secret, and that’s why I’m here to reveal the truth. Girls need you, okay? As women, we just, we need you. We need your strength. We need your protection. We need your confidence. We need men.
God made it us it that way on purpose. Just like women fulfill certain needs for you, you fulfill certain needs for her. And I have tried, I have tried so hard to put into words how a man makes a woman feel. And the truth is, I can’t figure out how to put it into words. I just fail miserably, okay?
The truth is, there is something ridiculously magical about being around you. You make women feel safe just by being you, just by being there, especially when you’re a man who’s working on being confident. It absolutely matters.
So I understand, and it’s wrong, and it’s stupid, and it makes me mad, but that’s a vent for another day that society is trying to downplay the importance of men and manhood. And it’s stupid.
Please know, though, that those are the loud ones, okay? There are so many people, so many women who truly appreciate you, and we need you. So please never feel like you’re not needed because to the right kind of woman, the woman who’s not toxic, who’s not the drama queen, the kind of woman who’s sincere and genuine and loving, she needs you and she knows that. And it’s more than that. She wants you to.
And if at this point you’re thinking, “okay, then how in the world do I find that girl?” Is that what you’re thinking?
Especially if you’re sick of those toxic women, if you’re sick of trying to attract someone and it’s just not working, or getting to know someone and finding out that she’s just really not that sincere or just not the one for you, if you’re sick of that, where do you go from here? What do you do?
This is exactly what I teach my clients how to master, so you can get past that frustration, that vicious hamster wheel of loneliness and aching, and instead just hold her close knowing she’s yours forever.
If that’s something you’re interested in, watch my free masterclass. Go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. I pack that with a whole bunch of stuff that I can’t put into YouTube videos.
You will also learn more about my Academy there, how it works, why it works, all the good stuff. So if you would like to take this to mastery level so you don’t have to be frustrated and aching in alone anymore, then that’s where you need to go, so make sure you check it out asap.
The next juicy secret is that girls don’t want you to be perfect, okay? I know there’s a lot of pressure and it can feel like you have to absolutely be perfect. And the truth is she knows exactly how you feel.
Like I mentioned, the makeup and the wear certain types of clothing and all of those things. She feels that pressure as well. And for you it might look a little different. It might not be makeup, but it’s something like, “oh, you gotta have a six pack,” or, “oh, never show her your feelings. Never show her your weakness,” or whatever it is, making you feel like you have to kind of be like a robot, maybe have a certain amount of muscles, whatever it is.
Recognize though that she doesn’t want you to be perfect. If she’s toxic, she does, cuz you’re a trophy. All she cares about is what you look like because that affects how people see her. If she’s toxic, that’s all she cares about.
But someone who’s looking for a lifelong love, again, she has those feelings of inadequacy. So if you’re perfect, she’s intimidated and she feels like she can’t live up to it, and so she’s done. She’s not going to go there.
Maybe her teeth are a little crooked. Maybe she’s not the height she wants to have. Maybe her hair is frizzy. Maybe her skin breaks out. Maybe she thinks her laugh is funny. Maybe there’s something she’s done, well, pretty much everyone has something they’ve done that they’re embarrassed about. Whatever it is.
And so she feels inadequate just like you. And so all these people telling you, “oh, you have to be perfect or you don’t even stand a chance with women,” those people are arrogant. They like to pretend and lie to themselves that they are perfect and tell everybody else they need to be perfect as well.
In reality, nobody’s perfect, and we all just want someone who will accept and love us for who we are. So if someone makes you feel like you have to be perfect, be done with them.
Instead, there is someone loving who is going to adore you for your imperfections. Cuz the truth is imperfections can be really, really cute. You might even say that they make you perfect.
Okay, the next couple of secrets are some of the juiciest and some that I’m the most excited to share with you. The next juicy secret about women things that girls want you to know is that nothing feels as good as being close to you.
It’s a magical feeling when a man wraps his arms around you and she can just feel close to you.
A lot of people just kind of know and acknowledge that it’s normal for a man to want to be close to a girl and to touch her and to kiss her and to hold her, and all those things. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
What a lot of people don’t recognize is it’s really normal for her to enjoy that too, okay? She wants to kiss your face off, boy. She wants to be close to you. She wants to feel you next to her.
So yes, some people try to make it sound like all girls care about is what they can get from you, or that girls are cold, or whatever it is. But in reality, there are so many who are so loving and who are so kind, and who are so tender, and frankly, she loves being close to you as well.
That’s one of the things that makes marriage so fun, is the fact that you get to just be so close to each other. So please know that nothing feels quite as good to her as just being close to you.
Okay, and the next juicy secret is that she has so much love to give and she wants to share it with you.
Sometimes, again, I know I keep saying it, but it’s the truth. We live in a world that’s trying to paint things as very cold, and that cold is normal.
But most people, who aren’t drama queens, most people just want closeness. We just want love. She just wants to wake up by your side forever. She wants to save her kisses for you. She wants to love and adore you, and she wants you to adore her. She is overflowing with love. She is looking for love. She is looking for someone that she can share that with.
A relationship should be warm and make you feel alive, make you feel on fire, make you feel close, make you feel safe. And those are the things that she deeply wants to share with you.
And again, if you’re struggling to know how to find that, you don’t have to struggle with that. If you don’t know how to do it, that’s okay. I do. That’s why I put this together for you. This is my job. So just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass.
You’ll learn more about what you’ve been missing, the secrets that have been keeping you from the love you want. And you’ll learn more about my Academy, which is where you can get that special coaching from me. That’s the only place I do any coachings.
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