5 Crucial Qualities You MUST Consider When Choosing A Woman~ 😏 Did you know relationship goals are actually critical if you want happiness in love?
Most people never stop to consider what they truly want and that’s a large part of why they’re not happy with what they get. In this video you’ll discover some of the most critical things to look for in a woman so you can have exciting, magical love your entire life~
Ready to know what they are? Let’s get started with these 5 crucial qualities you must consider when choosing a woman!
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5 Qualities You Must Consider When Choosing A Woman! (Transcript)
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Do you know the five crucial qualities you must consider when you’re choosing a woman? If you don’t, you’re basically setting yourself up for a heartache, and that’s the last thing you want, right? In this video, I’m going to be sharing with you some of the most important traits to look for in a woman, and just knowing them is going to help set you up for success and love.
Sound good. Make sure you stay with me until the end of this video cuz you need to know what they are. Maybe the most important one is actually the last one I’ll be sharing with you, so make sure you stay tuned. Now, as a coach in my academy, the very first thing I walk my clients through as I’m helping you master love and getting the love of your life is to set your relationship goals.
Now, why in the world would we do that? Well, it’s because if you don’t have a goal, Then how are you supposed to achieve it? How are you supposed to reach it? You kind of can’t, right? So it’s critical that you know what you want and what’s important to you. So I purposefully wanted to choose some things that many, if not most people don’t actually stop to think about, but it greatly affects your love and happiness.
5 Qualities You Must Consider When Choosing A Woman #1
Let’s get started with the first thing. Number one is a woman you are attracted to. I know that might sound like a no-brainer, but you would be surprised how many people think that maybe that’s shallow, or maybe that’s. Unimportant. It is very important that she’s attractive to you and that she’s the kind of woman who’s always working to stay attractive.
Some people, especially toxic people, they only try to be attractive just long enough to get the guy and then they. Stop working on being attractive. They stop washing their hair, they stop getting dressed up. Nice. You know, who would wanna be in a relationship with someone like that? That would be awful.
So make sure as you’re getting to know women, that she is attractive to you and that she’s willing to put in that effort. Because as humans, it kind of takes a little bit of effort to stay looking our best. Right? Exercise, health, nutrition, taking a shower, all of those things. So, It’s important that she is attractive to you, and we’re gonna add to that someone who is attracted to you.
Attraction is a beautiful thing. Intimacy is a beautiful thing. It’s a gift from God. It’s something that should definitely be enjoyed in marriage. And what makes it so magical is when you have two people who are very attracted to each other. So make sure that is definitely on. Your list of relationship goals.
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The second thing that’s critical, if you want to have a happy, loving forever relationship is a woman who is confident in herself. Yes, we all have feelings of inadequacy. We all have times in our lives where we need a little bit of a pick me up.
We all have things that we need to work through that’s part of being human. None of us is angelic or anything like that. We are actually human. However, being in a relationship with someone who lacks confidence, and who’s needy and kind of sucks the life out of you constantly needing the validation and support is ridiculously exhausting, and you do not deserve to be in a relationship with someone like that.
Confidence is one of the single most attractive things. Anyone can have. That’s why as a coach, I teach you how to turbocharge your confidence. People who are confident are alluring, they are irresistible, they are intriguing, and they’re comfortable to be around while still being exciting and interesting.
So having a woman in your life who is confident in herself, who does not need a man in order to be confident, yes. In a way she needs a man cuz we all need each other, but she is confident in who she is. That right there is a beautiful recipe for a happy, exciting relationship. And I’m going to answer this because I know I’m going to get this question.
Where in the world do you find women like that? Women who are confident, or women who have all the things that we’re talking about? Sometimes it can feel like there are a lot of fish in the sea and most of ’em, Aren’t what you’re looking for. Do you ever feel like that? If that’s you right now, don’t worry.
I’ve got you covered. I shared these secrets with you in my academy. For those who would like to learn how to find the adorable love of your life, how to master captivating her heart so that you can keep her close to you forever. Watch my free masterclass. I’m going to be sharing some life changing secrets with you there, and if you would like to learn more about my academy, you’ll learn more about that.
As well. So just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. I’ll put a link in the description and a link in the pinned comment. The truth is those women are out there, they’re everywhere. You just need to understand the science based ways to find the relationship you’re raking for. That’s how people succeed in love all the time.
It’s by using these strategies, and I’m here to share ’em with you, so make sure you check that out.
Okay, the next thing. To look for in a woman. A another relationship goal, if you will, is someone who has a positive outlook on life and who’s encouraging and building to you. It’s not at all. Fun or intriguing in any way To be in a relationship with someone who’s gloomy all the time, or someone who’s full of drama all the time, or someone who’s super needy.
Being with someone who has a positive outlook, who looks for the sunshine instead of the clouds. Someone who builds you up and makes you feel capable and empowered. Being with someone like that is ridiculously magical. So as you’re getting to know women, as you’re dating her or getting to know her, pay attention, is she someone who sees the glasses, you know, half full or as half empty?
Does she make you feel like you’re more than good enough? Like you can take on the world like you are an exceptional person if you see that in her? It’s a great green flag.
Okay. The next quality to look for when you’re getting to know someone is it’s important that she has standards. Now, obviously I’m a Christian coach and many, if not most of you here are Christian as well, but even if you’re not, That’s okay.
It doesn’t like offend me if you’re not Christian. Just so you know, what I teach is based on science, so it just, it works okay. However, having someone in your life who has standards in one form or another is crucial because if we have no standard, if we stand for nothing, then we’ll fall for anything.
That’s just how it works. You can’t count on someone who does not have. Some kind of standard. However, a woman who has high values and high standards about how she acts about what she will and will not do about the kinds of people she will let in her life, the kinds of activities she will or will not be involved in.
Someone who has a set of values as. Set of standards is always, always going to be better to be in a relationship with than someone who has no standards and no values. They will settle for anything where someone who has those standards, you can count on them. Not to mention the fact that they’re just going to be a more classy person.
So whether you are Christian or not, consider what your personal values are, what your personal standards are, and if you’re Christian, I would. Obviously recommend what God’s standards are and then also make sure that you’re looking for someone who shares those same standards with you. Okay. Quick question for you before we get to the next thing to look for in a woman.
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Okay. This next thing is so ridiculously important, but most people don’t even stop to think about it. You wanna know what it is? This thing to look for in a woman is that she wants to be on your side instead of against you. There’s this thing in society and it’s stupid, but a lot of people are still running around pretending we’re still playing guys against girls and it doesn’t serve anyone well.
Sometimes we treat each other like the enemy, like someone we have to subdue and, and, and. Force into submission and manipulate and control, and those are all toxic views. They don’t actually make you happy. They might give you an ego rush, but they’re not going to make you happy. And so far too many couples.
Are forgetting to act like they’re on the same side. Like you’re rooting for each other. Like you want to be their go-to person, their special, someone who they can count on no matter what. That is what makes a magical relationship. That’s what makes romance truly exciting, is when you have two people who are on the same side, who will always be there for each other.
Your special Sidekick, if you will. So rather than falling for that toxic ideal of, oh, it’s normal for girls to be catty, oh, it’s, it’s normal to fight all the time. It’s normal for hot and cold and hot and cold. No, no, no, no, no, no. Don’t fall for that garbage because you’re worth so much more than that.
Instead, you deserve a woman who is truly on your. Side, who wants to be by your side and who you support just as much. And again, if you don’t know how to find that kind of relationship, how to create that kind of attraction. How to create that closeness and that relationship. I do. That’s what I’m here for, and that’s what I am passionate about helping you master.
That’s why I created my academy. To learn more about some of the secrets that help you do that and how you can join me in my academy, just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. There’s a link in the description below and a link in the pin comment.
5 Qualities You Must Consider When Choosing A Woman – Recap
Okay, let’s recap. The qualities you just learned are critical to look for in a girl. You ready? Number one is someone you are attracted to who puts in that effort to make sure she stays attractive and will even add to that someone who is attracted to you as well. You gotta have that physical attraction there is very important. Number two is a woman who is confident in herself. No neediness here, someone who has high confidence and high self-love.
Number three, she has a positive outlook on life. She’s encouraging and building to you. Number four, a woman who actually has standards and values. And number five, someone who wants to be by your side instead of against you. A relationship is a team effort. You only win as a team or you both lose. Thank you so much for watching My Amazing Friend.
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