9 Quickest Hacks to Make Women Notice You!

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9 quickest hacks to make women notice you. This is how to instantly be more attractive to women. And why wouldn’t you want that, right? Let me ask you this. Have you ever felt like attraction is far too complicated? You want to stand out, you want to make her notice you, but far too many people make it feel like this massive game or this uphill battle that you can never win.

Many people make it feel like attraction has to take a very long time to conquer. This makes it really discouraging and it tempts you to just give up and settle. Have you ever felt this way? Maybe you’re feeling this way now. I’ve got good news for you because if someone makes attraction complicated, they really don’t know what they’re talking about.

At its core, attraction is actually incredibly simple. So today I’m sharing nine fast and easy ways you can make women notice you. These are nine of the quickest hacks to make women notice you to instantly be more attractive. Now before we dive in, just in case this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome.

My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and your go to source to learn how to have authentic, deep, lifelong love, a genuine connection with a high value woman who absolutely adores you. The best part is you will never hear mind games or tricks here, so make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell.

So there’s a saying out there, maybe you’ve heard it, that the little things are actually the big things. We’ve all heard it a million times, right? But it’s very true, especially when it comes to love, relationships, and attraction. It’s kind of like, have you ever played that blocks game where you line up the blocks and you take away one at a time and you see how far you can get before it all tumbles down?

It’s kind of like that. Each individual block in and of itself isn’t really that big, but all those little blocks together make the foundation strong. So all those little things really matter. You take those away and it gets a little shaky, gets a little messy. So we’re going to be going over some of those fast little things when it comes to attraction right now.

So first up on our quickest hacks to make women notice you is to pay attention. to your shoes. What I mean by this is so many people will try to elevate their style or have nice clothes, but then they wear dorky looking tennis shoes and your shoes will make or break your outfit. They just will. All stylish people know this.

Your shoes are a key element to your outfit. Now many people just assume, oh, just throw something on your feet. and go, you don’t want to do that. You want to make sure that your shoes are very nice. You also want to make sure that they are clean. Make sure that they’re well taken care of. If they’re all scuffed up, yes, it’s normal.

It happens in life. But just take a quick minute to clean them off, to brighten them up a little bit. This is something we cover in my academy. So those of you who’ve been through it are like, oh yeah, I remember this. You want to make sure that you don’t just walk around in dorky looking tennis shoes.

Invest in some nice dress shoes. And you can get nice dress shoes for really inexpensive at the right stores. Doesn’t have to break the bank. You can also have some shoes that are more comfortable, but don’t have dorky looking tennis shoes unless you’re going to the gym. And I’m probably going to get questions about this.

So I’m going to mention this. Yes, this applies to all ages. Many men, when we start talking about fashion, they’re like, Oh, that doesn’t apply after a certain age. Uh, it completely applies after a certain age. And then they say, well, Melanie, I look around at the other men, my age, and they’re not doing this.

Exactly. Do you want her to look at you and say, Oh, he looks like an old man. Or do you want her to look at you and say, whoa, he is hot. Just like you want a woman in that age range who takes her style and her personal appearance seriously, she wants a man who does too. So yes, this absolutely applies 40, plus as well.

Just like everything I teach. Okay, you ready for the next hack to make women notice you to instantly be more attractive? Hack number two. is to take care of your skin. Our skin reveals our health. And as human beings, this is the way God made us, we are programmed to notice how healthy a person is. And we pick up on all these little subconscious things.

And if somebody is healthy, we are naturally so much more attractive. To them. Health is always sexy and it always will be. And our skin is kind of a dead giveaway to how healthy we are. And this applies to all ages. Men who are worried about looking too old, take care of your skin. Men who want to make sure that they never have to worry about looking old, take care of your skin.

You want to start now. Now, if you have been watching my channel for a while, you know that I never do sponsored posts. I get. Dozens and dozens of offers to do sponsored posts. And I don’t, it’s not that I necessarily have a problem with sponsored posts. It’s that I’m not going to suggest something to you guys if it’s not something that I believe in.

So I want to share a non sponsored, uh, post. product with you that is amazing for helping you with skin. Again, this is not sponsored. I just discovered this brand and I love it and I wanted to share it with you. So we’re talking about the Just Ingredients brand. This is their face serum for men. I do not use this one.

Obviously, I use their Jasmine Bloom, and it’s amazing. But this one smells pretty fantastic. And what I love about the Just Ingredients brand is that they are clean ingredients. What a lot of people don’t realize is they try to take care of their skin, but the brands they’re using don’t have clean ingredients.

And so even if it may have some some impact on your skin. It’s going inside you and not doing good things. So you’ve got to make sure that you are used. So again, not sponsored. I will, however, put a link to this face serum in the description below. Check it out. I feel like it’s very affordable. It smells divine.

They also have an Age Defender serum. I think it’s a serum. I don’t know what this is called. But an Age Defender thing. And they have a men’s deodorant line. It’s all fantastic. It doesn’t take hardly any time to take care of your skin, but that little bit of extra effort is ridiculously sexy. So if you want to stay looking nice.

Start now and make sure you check that out. Again, I’ll put the link in the description below. Before I put it down, I just want to smell it again because it smells really good. It smells really good. And just for reference, now I’m blushing. I gotta stop blushing. But just for reference, this one is Cedarwood Spice.

So if you want this one, I highly recommend it. It’s good. Bottom line, if you want to always look your best, if you want to be a man who sees Stands out. Make sure you take good care of your skin. Okay, hack number three for how to stand out to women and instantly be more attractive is to find your superpower and rock it.

Now, what do I mean by that? Find your superpower? I mean, maybe you’re Spider Man and I just don’t know it. That would be really cool if you are. But most of us are not. As humans, we tend to focus on what we feel. Self conscious about the things that, that, that we’re uncomfortable with about ourselves, that we’re nervous about.

However, we all have gifts and talents and abilities and things we’re exceptional at. That’s how God made us. This is another thing I teach my clients in my academy. Rock what you’ve got. Notice and find the things about yourself that are awesome, that other people, uh, that, that resonate with other people that you appreciate about yourself.

Purposefully find them. If you’re not used to looking for them, you might have to do a little digging, but I promise you they’re there. Find those things. And then like rock them. For instance, I discovered years ago that my smile tends to make people feel really good. One of my superpowers is being able to connect with people.

Not all people. Some people frankly hate me and that’s okay. That’s what happens in life. But generally speaking, I’m pretty good at connecting with people and encouraging and uplifting people. And so that’s a superpower I try to use because I love making people feel amazing about themselves. So when I get in my head and I start feeling self conscious, because yes, it happens to me too.

It happens to everyone. That’s human nature. I try to instead focus on some of those things that I am good at. That’s why knowing what your superpower is and rocking it is so powerful. It will change you and it will affect how other people perceive you. People who love themselves are magnetic. So for you, maybe you’re a funny person or maybe you’re a really good listener.

Maybe you’re one of those people who notices the little things. Maybe you’re a really inspiring person or an encouraging person. Whatever it is, find it. And just rock it. When you really let that part of you shine, it is so incredibly attractive. Tip number four is to switch to a healthier protein powder.

And if you’re not taking a protein powder, you may want to consider starting one. A good protein powder can have a host of benefits. It can support weight management and help with, uh, muscle growth and repair. It can help fill in gaps in your diet and support, uh, healthy hormone levels. A good protein powder can also help support immune function and performance and endurance.

So there are plenty of reasons why a protein powder can be very effective. However, what many people don’t realize, they think they’re taking something really healthy, but what they don’t understand is, yeah, there may be protein in that powder, but it’s also packed with artificial ingredients that aren’t doing anything.

any good. So that protein powder that’s supposed to be really healthy may actually be doing more harm than it is good, and there’s no point in that. This is one reason why I love Just Ingredients protein powder. I just discovered it recently, and and I am totally in love. Again, this is not sponsored. It’s just so amazing I wanted to share it with you.

So hopefully you can see this in frame. This is one of my favorite flavors. This one is strawberries and cream. Again, it’s just just ingredients. It’s super awesome. And what I love about it is they have clean ingredients instead of that artificial synthetic stuff. They have a million flavors. You can use them All kinds of different ways.

I love this one and the tropical one is really good. But I also really just like plain because then I can put it in my own smoothies and other things like that. What I love about Just Ingredients is they have no artificial additives and high quality sourcing, as well as minimal ingredients. You’re not getting a ton of chemicals in your protein powder.

This is perfect for a cleaner diet. And if you want good health and good skin, a cleaner diet is a game changer. Simple changes like this. to your diets, like switching to a cleaner protein powder has a massive effect on your health and attraction long term. A little bit at a time has huge impact. As I mentioned earlier, we can see when people are healthy and when they are, we are ridiculously attracted to them.

That’s how God made us. Health equals attraction. So sometimes it can feel super overwhelming to like, oh, I just have to poof, be healthy. Make you a little. changes. Those little changes add up over time, your momentum builds, you start feeling and seeing the impact. So again, the brand is Just Ingredients. I will put a link to the protein powders as well down below.

Not sponsored, just something that I personally use. And love. So I wanted to share it with you. Are you ready for tip number five? How to instantly be more attractive to women? Here, coming in fast. Here we go. Tip number five is to practice keeping your shoulders back. The way we hold ourselves affects how we see ourselves and how other people see us.

It can be really easy to be like, oh, I’m not confident. And I don’t feel good about myself. And you know, how can you feel good about yourself when you’re always doing this? It’s pretty, pretty impossible. But if instead you present yourself as a confident, attractive man, you are going to feel that way. And that’s how people are going to see you.

Nobody says, oh, he’s so hot. He stands like this all the time. Now again, it’s okay if it takes some practice. That’s why I said to practice it. Especially if those, those muscles are weak and strained. Maybe figure out some good stretches and exercises to strengthen your posture. In society today, we tend to sit a lot.

We’re at desks a lot. And so it is very helpful to set consistent reminders to help you remember to have good posture. Maybe set a reminder in your phone every so often. Oh, yep. Sit up straight, relax my shoulders, and you’re good to go. Research shows us. I totally nerd out about this. I think this is so cool.

The way we hold ourselves not only sends a signal to other people, but it also does something to us. When we’re in certain positions, we feel certain ways. So if you’re, you know, like this, And you’re going to feel like this. But if instead you stand empowered and confident, you’re going to feel empowered and confident.

So one, you’re going to look a lot hotter. And two, you’re going to feel confident and be confident, which makes you instantly more attractive. Confidence is something people can’t resist. We love confidence. Confidence. So are you seeing how fast and simple these tips can be so far? They’re pretty simple changes, right?

It doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle to become irresistible to the woman you long to hold. As a matter of fact, the more you learn about the science of attraction, the easier it becomes. This is exactly why I am passionate about sharing it with you. So make sure you grab your free copy of my guide, 11 Things Men Do That Make Women.

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You just click the link, enter your first name and email, and I will email this guide to you totally free. for free. Again, there’s a link in the description below and I will put a link in the pinned comment. All right, are you ready for our next hack that makes women notice you? It’s coming in hot. Here we go.

Number six is to drink more water than you drink. and less soda. And I know some of you inside just went, No! It’s okay. Deep breath. Stay with me for just a second. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, you are what you eat, and our skin reflects what we put inside our bodies. Everyone knows that soda is not good for us, but it can be really hard to stop.

So rather than focusing on giving up soda forever, instead, just focus on adding in more water, drinking more water throughout your day. Make that a normal part of your life. It can be helpful to remind yourself that water is crucial for nearly every bodily function. It hydrates you, it improves digestion and detoxification.

It’s gives you better skin, which we’ve already talked about the importance of that. It supports weight management and helps reduce the risk of chronic disease. Water is kind of a big deal. So start drinking more water today and you will thank yourself in a year. Again, I can’t stress this enough. If you focus on taking things away, it becomes really overwhelming.

But if you focus instead on adding good in, then it helps you just kind of start to slowly stop having as much soda because now your body is getting the good stuff that it needs. So simply start by choosing today that you’re going to drink more water. All right, our next hack to instantly be more attractive is one of my favorites.

This is to practice smiling more. Did you know? That smiling can actually make you look younger? No joke. It actually, research has shown us this. Also, smiling makes us more attractive, partially because when you smile, your face becomes more symmetrical. A genuine smile can soften your features and highlight your body.

best qualities. One of the reasons why smiling is so attractive is when somebody else smiles, we kind of naturally, it’s just built into who we are, we tend to smile back to smile as well. And smiling releases positive chemicals into our brains. That positive energy is magnetic. And when she feels it from you She’s definitely going to want more.

A genuine smile also makes you appear more trustworthy and approachable and warm. As humans, we love warm people. Now many people will focus on intimidation and they try to teach that intimidation is a form of attraction, which when you say it like that, it makes you go, duh. However, many people will teach it.

intimidation to attract instead of warmth. Here’s what you need to know. Intimidation is going to attract toxic women like flies. However, warmth and being genuine is going to be irresistible to high value women. So if you want good women, if you want loyal women, practice smiling rather than intimidating.

A man who smiles shows that he is Confident. It shows that he is emotionally intelligent. This certainly appeals to high value women. And just because I get questions about this sometimes, when I say high value, I mean women who are worth marrying. The next tip is another one of my absolute favorites. You will be surprised at the power of this hack.

You ready? The next tip to instantly be more attractive and to make women notice you fast is to spend time. in the scriptures every day. I’m not kidding. Have you ever been around someone who makes you feel both energized yet calm and peaceful all at the same time? You feel peace when you’re around them and you just want to be around them more and more.

And I’m not just talking about strictly romantic relationships, I just mean people in general. Have you ever been around someone like that? There’s this feeling around people who put God first, and this feeling is irresistible. It’s a feeling of peace and calm and contentment and real joy. As humans, we can sense goodness.

It helps us trust and feel uplifted and connected, and we crave that feeling. Spend consistent time with God. His love will flow through you to others, and they will feel it too. Not to mention, you have the benefit of feeling close to your God, to your Creator. He created you. And once you begin to feel how important you are to Him, your life will never be the same.

But just like any relationship, if you spend no time in that relationship, It’s going to become weaker and weaker. So you need to make sure you’re building your relationship with God. One of the best ways is to study scripture regularly. And I would add to that, to pray to him. All right, we are to our next hack to instantly be more attractive.

This tip is to compliment and encourage. Most people, when we start talking about attraction, tend to focus on creating feelings of lust, turning on the animal brain. Well, if you turn on, if your tactics are to turn on the animal brain and then you attract a crazed wild animal, you kind of have to like say, duh.

I see this all the time. Why did I attract such a loser? Well, your tactics were meant to attract a loser. Okay. I’m sorry. I got off on a little tangent there. I’m going to back it up. Here’s what most people don’t recognize. You can have high levels of lust, yet zero love. Many people think that if they can create lust, they will automatically get love.

That is not how it works. However, when you have true love for someone, the sexiness automatically follows. So this is why it’s important to focus on not just your physical appearance, but also that emotional connection. The emotional connection is what makes us want to spend our lives with someone. You want to be loved for who you are.

Right? This is why emotional connection is so important. Now, people, we love being around someone who encourages us, who lifts us up, who makes us feel better. And if you’re doing that, she will crave being around you. Do you want to be with a woman who keeps you guessing, who makes you feel nervous? Or do you want to be with a woman who feels like she’s, she’s always got your back?

She’s your personal cheerleader. She encourages you. She believes in you. She’s there to support you. And when you’re with her, you feel like you can do anything. That’s the kind of woman you want to be around, right? Well, women want that kind of support and encouragement as well. You want someone who, who compliments you.

you, who makes you feel attractive and desirable, and she wants a man who makes her feel the same way. When you’re the man who does this, you’ll be surprised at the reaction you get. As humans, we’re truly very simple. We’re all looking to feel loved and appreciated. And when we receive that from someone, they instantly become someone more We desire to be with, we start to crave having them in our lives.

Alright, let’s do a quick recap of everything you just learned. But before we do, I do wanna remind you to make sure you download that guide for additional easy, simple ways to charm the girl of your dreams. Uh, again, it’s totally for free. I hope there’s a link in the description below and a link in the pinned con.

pinned comment. Hack number one is to pay attention to your shoes. Make sure they’re not killing your outfit, but instead they’re really helping you stand out in a good way. Number two is to take care of your skin. And one great way to do that is with the face serum I mentioned. There is a link in the description below to check that out as well.

Number three is to find your superpower and rock it. Find what you’re good at and really focus on that and let that shine. Number four is to switch to a healthier protein powder. You don’t want to be putting a lot of artificial garbage in your body. You want healthy, clean ingredients because health makes us attractive.

So again, if you would like to check out Just Ingredients, there is a link in the description below. Number five is to practice keeping your shoulders back. Have a good, strong, confident posture. You’ll feel better, You’ll look better and she’s definitely going to notice. Number six is to drink more water and less soda.

Start by adding more water in. Number seven is to practice smiling more. Smiling connects us and it shows off our best features and instantly helps people feel connected to us. Number eight is to spend time in the scriptures every day. When people can feel God’s love through you, they are going to want to be around you all the time.

And number nine is to compliment and encourage. Just like you want a woman who compliments you, who encourages you, who makes you feel amazing, she wants a man like that as well. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend. A huge shout out and thank you to everyone who’s so generous with the Super Thanks.

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