What Women Want In A Man (7 Things Women Love!) What do women find attractive in men? You are about to find out and… it’s not what you probably think. Knowing what women want in men is the first step towards getting the girl of your dreams. 💡
What women really want is usually far different and less intimidating than most men think. There are proven traits women love in a man that are simple yet powerful.
When you know what girls find attractive and you have the proven traits all women love in men… YOU can have your dream girl!
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What Women Want In A Man (7 Things All Classy Women Love!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about what women want in a man (7 things all classy women love!)
Are you tired of attracting the wrong types of women? The kinds of women you don’t want to spend your life with? 🤔
Instead, are you looking for that happy lifelong relationship with the love of your life? The kind of person who will just love you for you like crazy and who you can love like crazy?
If that’s you right now, you need to know what’s in this article. It’s so powerful it’s going to absolutely change the way you look at dating and relationships.
Pay close attention and make sure you watch to the end because each of these tips is so powerful I would hate for you to miss out on any of them.
Before we get started, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! 👋 My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships. That sounds amazing, right? By learning the skills that instead get you your dream relationship and your dream girl.
The best part is as a certified coach, I will never teach you mind games or tricks, okay? What I teach you is backed by science. And with that, let’s dive in. Let’s get this party started!
You’ve Not Been Taught How To Get A Classy Woman
Okay, can I be super honest with you for a second? Some serious lies are going around about what women want in a man.
Those lies cost so many men their dream girl because they don’t realize they’re lies. And how would they know that because they’re just doing what they’ve been taught, right?
But by following those bad ways of doing things, those bad strategies, it pushes their dream girl away. And that’s why they’re struggling to get their dream relationship. 💡
The truth is you don’t deserve that, right? You don’t deserve to be taught lies.
Some of the most common lies you’re being told are that women only want bad boys, or she only cares how good you are in the bedroom or that you have to look like a fitness model.
You’re taught that you always have to prove your worth to her over and over and over again, and it becomes a dominance battle.
That’s a bunch of nonsense! Please understand that those are the traits toxic women are looking for. ❌
All a toxic woman cares about is one night fling, how good you make her look. The only thing toxic women care about is what you can do for them.
But a classy woman, a high-quality woman, she cares about you. She wants to love and be loved. That’s what she is looking for.
You must understand what classy women want instead of what toxic women want. Because if you only understand what a toxic woman wants, that’s all you’re going to attract, right? That makes total sense.
But if instead, you understand what a classy woman wants and you have those traits, that is how you get your dream relationship. Make sense? Are you getting this so far?
With all this in mind, I am here to tell you the truth. Let’s get started with what women want in a man (7 things all classy women love!) 💪
What Women Want In A Man (7 Things All Classy Women Love!) #1 – Loyalty
First up is a faithful man. One of the most common lies you are being told is that she only cares how good you are in the bedroom, so you better get lots of practice, or she won’t love you.
That is a big fat lie. Like that is a massive lie. This is only true when it comes to toxic women.
If she is a classy woman, she wants to know that you’re going to be true to her.
She wants to know that you’re faithful because she is giving her heart to you, and wants to make sure that she has yours as well and that you would only ever give that part of you to her. 👈
If something is special, you don’t give it to everyone, right? You save it because it is so special. So she doesn’t want a guy who’s had a lot of practice.
I mean, really, realistically, who wants to spend their life with someone who gets lots of practice? That’s not how it works.
Now you may be thinking, “okay, Melannie, but what if I’ve fallen into that trap, and what if I’ve been doing that?” Start today, okay?
Let today be the time when you decided that was only something you will give to the absolute love of your life, the woman you spend your life with, the woman you marry. ✅
Let today be a defining moment for you. You can’t change the past, but you can change the future, okay? It’s not too late but start now. Do not put it off any longer.
Again if something is special you treasure it, right? She wants someone who’s going to be faithful to her.
If you haven’t yet seen this video (What Makes A Man Irresistible), make sure you watch it. I go into more detail on this and really what it means to be a man from a woman’s perspective and how attractive that is to her.
#2 – Dependability
The next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is that she wants a dependable man. 👈
Do you want her to trust you? Do you want her to be attracted to you? Do you want her to want to spend her life with you? She needs to know you are dependable, that you are trustworthy, and that she can count on you.
This is why classy women look for a mature man. She’s looking for a lifelong partner. That’s what you’re looking for, right?
She wants to know you’re someone she can count on. This is what makes a woman look up to you and trust you.
#3 – Respect
The next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is that she is looking for someone she can respect.
Fun fact for you, you cannot love someone that you do not respect. You cannot be in love with someone that you don’t have any respect for. It will not happen.
💡 So how do you get respect? Some of my favorite things that I teach in my program are your body language, setting appropriate boundaries, increasing your confidence, etc.
These small things have a huge impact. They show that you respect yourself, and that causes other people to respect you too.
You’ve heard me say this a million times, and you will hear me say it a million more times. This is why dating and relationship skills are so important.
Do you want to stand out from the crowd? Do you want to turn her head and be the only one she notices? Do you want her to respect you?
You need to have those dating and relationship skills. That right there is the game-changer. ✅
That’s what makes her heart light on fire and gives her butterflies in her stomach, and makes her go, “whoa, that’s the kind of guy I want to marry.“
Now at this point, you’re probably thinking, “wow, this is great. But how do I find a classy woman? How do I find a woman like that? And when I do find her, how do I attract her?“
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#4 – Intelligence
Okay, the next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is she’s looking for a smart man.
Intelligent people are interesting, they’re dependable, they’re more reliable. 👉 And if she’s going to spend her life with someone, she wants to make sure that he’s enjoyable to be with.
Now I want to be clear about this. This doesn’t mean you have to have a master’s degree, okay?
Some people have a lot of education, but they aren’t super intelligent. Maybe you’ve known some of those people? I think everybody knows some of those people.
So it’s not necessarily about schooling. It’s about being a smart and intelligent person.
A lot of people think being stupid is funny. It’s not. Especially if she’s a classy woman, she is not looking for someone immature and overly silly and stupid.
So make sure you’re always adding to who you are. Make sure you’re always learning and growing and progressing. 💡 That is insanely attractive to a woman, and that’s what she’s looking for in a man.
#5 – A Good Sense Of Humor
Next up, she wants a man with a good sense of humor. Women are naturally attracted to men who make them laugh.
Now with this being said, that does not mean you have to be an especially funny person.
I have a lot of people say, “okay, Melannie, but I’m not funny.” Focus more on helping her enjoy the moment. Focus on laughing at the little things and lightening up. And frankly, just being clever and child-like.
Having a good sense of humor does not mean putting yourself down, okay? Please understand that right now.
A lot of people think making fun of themselves is humor. 👉 It’s not. Sometimes people will laugh because they feel awkward and don’t know what else to do, but it makes them feel uncomfortable.
So humor is not putting yourself down. It also is not crude jokes, okay? Don’t make inappropriate jokes or use inappropriate language. It’s not funny.
Again some people will laugh because they’re just trying to get out of this situation. But it does not make them respect you, which we’ve already established is important, right?
So what a good sense of humor is, is just being enjoyable, lightening up the mood, laughing at those little things, and really just letting yourself lighten up. 🎉
Is this making sense so far, and are you enjoying this? Do you see how some of the lies that maybe you’ve been told really don’t apply to classy women?
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#6 – Patience
Okay, the next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is she’s looking for a patient man.
Again, you want a lifelong relationship, right? That’s what she wants too. And it’s going to require patience for both you and for her. Being around someone who’s not patient stresses us out, right?
👉 But when we’re with someone patient, oh my goodness, we can relax with them, we feel safe with them, we feel like we can trust them. She definitely wants a patient man.
#7 – Proactive About Being Attractive
The next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is she wants someone proactive about looking nice and attractive.
Now please pay close attention. I said proactive. I did not say that she wants a man who looks like a supermodel, okay?
As a matter of fact, research shows that women actually care less about a man’s physical appearance than most men think. 💡 In reality, some traits are far more attractive to women than just physical appearance.
With that being said, she wants someone proactive about trying to be an attractive person.
What that does is that says you’ve got confidence. It also says you have self-respect. And frankly, she does want to see you attractive.
So it’s not about exercising 15 hours in a gym, it’s not about dieting 24/7, and it’s not about being 6’2″ and super ripped. Instead, it’s about being proactive.
If you’re someone who says, “okay, what can I do to be attractive?” that right there is hot. ✅ That shows your inner strength, integrity, and your self-respect. And that is attractive to classy women.
As a classy woman, she’s proactively working on being attractive. She just is. And when she sees you’re doing the same thing, that’s what she’s looking for in a man.
What Women Want In A Man (7 Things All Classy Women Love!) – Recap
Okay, are you ready to recap what you’ve learned so far? What women want in a man (7 things all classy women love!)
First up, we have a faithful man. She wants to know that her heart is safe with you. She wants to know that you care about her and that she can trust you.
Next up is a man she can count on. She wants someone dependable. That’s pretty important in a long-term relationship, right? You need someone dependable.
👉 Next up is a man she can respect. She cannot fall in love with a man that she has no respect for, so you need to make sure she can respect you.
The next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is a smart man and an intelligent man. That’s an interesting person, that’s an attractive person.
And then we have a man with a good sense of humor. Again this does not mean you necessarily have to be a funny person. It just means you appreciate humor, and you let yourself enjoy it.
Next up is a patient man. Long-term relationships definitely require patience on both sides.
She is also looking for a man who is proactive about looking nice. The fact that he’s proactive about it speaks volumes to her and tells her something huge about his character. 🔥 Plus, she likes to see you looking good.
What Women Want In A Man (7 Things All Classy Women Love!) – What’s Next?
Thank you so much for reading, my wonderful friend!
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