Signs She Likes You (This Is How Women Pursue Men!) Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you? I’m about to let you in on a HUGE secret… pay close attention.
Women pursue men just like men pursue women. It just looks different! 👉 This is why you need to know the signs she likes you more than a friend, signs she likes you romantically and signs she likes you but is hiding it.
These signs she likes you (body language is a huge help) are how to know if a girl likes or not. If she’s pursuing you but you don’t know it… she’ll take it as rejection. So you need to make sure you know how to tell!
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Signs She Likes You (This Is How Women Pursue Men!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article on signs she likes you (This is how women pursue men!)
Have you ever felt like you have to do all the pursuing? That it’s always the man’s job to pursue women? 🤔
What most men don’t realize is women totally pursue them. It just looks different from what most men think it should look like.
And the guys who can tell that women are pursuing them are the guys who get their dream girl, instead of struggling and being really confused.
You want to be one of the guys who understands what it looks like when a woman pursues, right? Make sure you read to the end because each of these things is super important, so pay close attention.
Before we dive into the signs she likes you and how to know if she’s pursuing you, if this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships by learning the skills that get you your dream girl and your dream relationship. ✅
The best part is as a certified coach, I do not teach you mind games. I teach you science-based facts. With that, let’s get started with signs she likes you (this is how women pursue men!)
The Science Of How Women Pursue Men
The very first thing you need to understand, and we all kind of understand it but we don’t realize it, is that women are feminine and men are masculine.
Makes sense, right? That contrast is why we are attracted to each other. 💡
So what this means is if you try to take away her femininity or try to give away your masculinity, that’s going to ruin the attraction. That’s going to cause an unbalanced relationship.
You instead want a happy relationship, a healthy relationship, right? You certainly want her to stay feminine, and you want to keep your masculinity, right?
This is why women are going to pursue you differently than how you pursue her. You need to pursue her in a very masculine way because that’s what women need, okay?
That’s how God created women. Women need to be pursued by a man. That’s what makes us attracted to you, that’s what makes her feel safe, that’s what makes her see you as a man. 👈 She needs that.
But if you expect her to pursue you the same way you would pursue her, you’re going to be frustrated because she’s not going to do it.
As a matter of fact, research shows that if a woman pursues a man in the same way you pursue her, she has to sacrifice her femininity to do that. So she doesn’t feel safe, and she doesn’t feel feminine.
She takes on masculine traits to try and feel safe, and pretty soon, it’s just it’s not a good situation. And that makes her not attracted to you anymore.
This is why the way a woman pursues you is going to be different. Making sense so far?
Some of the things we talk about may sound a little funny to you at first, and it’s simply because this is how in a feminine way she pursues you. 🔥 If she’s doing these things, these are signs that she likes you.
Sign #1 – Body Language
So let’s get started with the first sign that she likes you, the first way she pursues, and that is through her body language.
If you’ve been following me for a while now, you know I teach you about body language all the time. And the reason why is it is exceptionally powerful.
What body language is, is when someone feels something, we can see it in their bodies. You can tell if somebody’s angry, if they’re happy, if they’re cold, and if they’re hungry.
The best part is, is we don’t really know we’re doing it, right? 👉 This means you can know how she feels about you without her even knowing that you know.
That’s pretty cool, right? If she’s interested in you, you are going to see it in her body language.
Now sometimes, she’s not even necessarily trying to hide it. That is often how she’ll pursue you.
For instance, one of the most common body language signs a woman will send to you is if she makes eye contact with you a lot and smiles. This is especially true if she, you know, catches your eye and looks down.
Basically, she’s saying, “Hey, you should talk to me. Hey, you’re cute.” That is one of the best signals a woman can send that she thinks you’re attractive. ✅ It is her way of pursuing you.
What pursuing looks like from a woman’s perspective is being very inviting and letting you know, “Hey, come talk to me. You should ask me out. I enjoy spending time with you.” She’s going to be very inviting.
If you have not yet seen this video on 7 body language signs of attraction, you need to check it out. That video explains a bit more about specific signs she likes you.
As you study this body language, at first, you might think, “I’ve never seen a woman do that ever.“
But as you start paying attention, you’ll pick it up, and you’ll say, “oh my goodness, she’s showing signs that she likes me!” 👉 That’s pretty cool, isn’t it?
Sign #2 – She’s Invested In Your Conversations
Okay, the next sign she likes you and how she pursues you is when she’s very engaged and very invested whenever she talks to you.
Notice if she gets excited when she talks to you and looks forward to seeing you. Maybe she even looks for you at places where she expects to see you.
If you notice that she’s really invested and asking you questions and trying to get to know you better, that is how she pursues you. 💡
Again, as a woman, she’s pursuing by being very inviting and letting you know she enjoys talking to you, she wants to spend time with you.
And so if you notice that she seems really excited and really encouraging about talking to her and spending time with her, yeah, that’s huge.
Okay, at this point, you might be thinking, “Great, I’m starting to understand how women pursue. But what next?” Have you ever wondered that?
What do you do next? And what do you do if you see she’s interested in you? 🤔 Because you don’t want to mess it up, right?
If you saw this video (9 Things Nice Guys Do Wrong), you know that some very easy mistakes cause the attraction to fail. You don’t want that.
Instead, you want to increase that attraction, right? You want to make attracting her really simple, automatic, and powerful, right?
What you need is a game plan. That is how you make sure that it doesn’t go terribly wrong, but instead, you really attract her.
I teach you about that game plan in my free masterclass. If you want to set yourself up for success, do yourself a favor right now and watch my free masterclass. 👈
Seriously, click that link, and I’ll see you over there. It’s like a party, it’ll be awesome, check it out!
Sign #3 – She Suggests Doing Something Together
Okay, the next sign she likes you and an additional way that she’s going to pursue you is if she suggests that you do things together or if she talks about doing something together with you.
This is one of the boldest signs a woman can send. “Hey, we should do that sometime.“
That is basically her saying, “Dude, ask me out, please! Please, I told you what we could do together. Like please, ask me out, and let’s go do that together.” ✅
So if she suggests that you do things together, that is huge. She’s left the door wide open for you to pursue her. She’s basically said, “Hey, it is safe for you to pursue me.”
That is the best way to explain how a woman pursues, is she makes it as easy as possible for you to pursue her. 💡
Why is she doing that? Because she’s interested in you and she wants to be even more interested in you. And so she wants you to pursue her, which will raise the attraction level even higher.
Is this making sense? I’m curious, is it a surprise to you to learn that women pursue as well? I want to hear from you in the comments if it is.
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Sign #4 – She Flirts With You
Okay, the next sign that she likes you and a big way that women pursue is that she flirts with you. Unless she’s toxic and just wants attention, women don’t flirt unless there’s a reason behind it.
If she is intentionally flirting, it’s because she’s interested, wants your attention, wants you to notice her, and think that she’s attractive. 👈
I’m actually thinking about doing a video on flirting and signs that she’s flirting with you. Is that something you would be interested in? Should I make that video, should I not?
If you think I should, if that’s something you would enjoy, just comment “flirt” in the comments below to let me know.
I love hearing from you guys. It helps me so much as I prepare new material. So if you want that video, be sure to comment “flirt” down below and let me know.
Sign #5 – She Appropriately Tries To Get Your Attention
Okay, another sign that she likes you is when she tries to get your attention. This is another huge way that women pursue.
Some examples of how she might do this are she might brush up against you when she walks past you.
Women can be doing that without even knowing she’s doing it. She’s just thinking about you, so it ends up happening. 🤭
Or she might always stand next to you whenever she can. Even if you’re in a group of friends, she always tries to stand next to you.
Like I mentioned earlier, she may try to catch eye contact with you and then look away. Also, she might laugh a little bit more loudly when you’re around to get your attention.
There are simple things that she can be doing to get your attention because she thinks you’re cute, and she wants you to notice her.
Another example is if she does nice things for you or if she remembers special occasions.
👉 If she’s trying to get your attention, it’s for a reason. It’s not just because she gets a kick out of it.
Signs She Likes You (This Is How Women Pursue Men!) – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up what you have learned so far about signs she likes you (this is how women pursue men!)
The first one is through her body language. If she’s sending signals that she’s interested, even if she doesn’t know it, it’s because she wants you to notice her, wants you to pursue her, and she likes you. ✅
The second thing is if she is engaged and invested and interested when you’re talking and interacting. If she is encouraging, talking, and talking more, that’s huge.
Another sign that she likes you is if she talks about doing things together. She may even suggest that you do things together. That is huge. 👉 That is basically her saying, “ask me out right now.“
Another sign that she likes you is when she flirts with you. If you notice that she flirts with you consistently, that is huge. That is definitely one of the main ways that a girl pursues you.
And another sign that she likes you is when she tries to get your attention. You don’t just try to get somebody’s attention for no good reason.
But if you notice that she’s trying to get your attention, that is a huge sign that she likes you and she’s trying in her own way to pursue you. 💡
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