7 First Date Tips For Men (Impress And Attract Her!) If you are looking for the best first date tips for men, then you are in the right place. ✅
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7 First Date Tips For Men (Impress And Attract Her!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 7 first date tips for men (impress and attract her!)
You want the first date to go well, right? That’s pretty important if you want the second and third dates.
These tips will help you understand how to increase her attraction for you and make sure she enjoys her time with you so that she wants to spend more time with you. ✅
The last tip is one of the most important ones that I’ll be sharing with you. Many men skip this, and it’s so critical that you do not skip this.
If this is your first time watching one of my videos, my name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams.
And as a certified coach, I never teach you any mind games or tricks that don’t work.
👉 Let’s talk about the first date. It’s exciting, right? You kind of get butterflies in your stomach, and you’re nervously excited.
What do you want from the first date? You want it to be fun, right? You want her to look really nice. You want her to be attracted to you. And you want it to be fun when you talk to her.
You want the date to be enjoyable, right? You want to feel like she understands you, really connect with her, and you want it to be relaxed but still really increase her attraction for you and your attraction for her.
Does that kind of feel like an ideal first date? That sounds pretty good, right? Well, here’s the important thing. That’s what she wants too. She wants the date to go well.
She wants to enjoy her time, and she wants to be attracted to you and wants you to be attracted to her. 💡
Now the tips I’m going to share with you will help you understand how to make that happen. So with that, let’s get started with our 7 first date tips for men!
7 First Date Tips For Men (Impress And Attract Her!) Tip #1 – Body Language
The first tip is to read her body language. Look for the signals of how she feels about you. When you understand how to read a woman’s body language, it helps you so much.
I teach my clients this to help with the approach, but it goes so much further than just getting her number.
You should be reading her body language signs throughout the entire relationship. So when you’re on that first date, you can tell if she’s enjoying her time with you, attracted to you, and wants another date. 👈
Pay attention to her body language because body language is something none of us can hide.
If you haven’t yet seen this video on signs she’s flirting with you, make sure you watch that one. It’s super helpful.
Tip #2 – Make Sure You Are Confident
Okay, our next tip is to make sure you are confident. You want to be confident before the date, during the date, and after the date.
And the way you do this is you just are a confident person. That is how you set yourself up for success.
If you’ve watched several of my videos, you may have heard me say that confidence comes because of competence. Now let me explain what I mean by that. ⬇️
I want you to think back to your first day at a new job. There’s some anticipation, right? You’re excited, but you don’t exactly know how it’s gonna go.
You want it to go well, but you don’t really know what to plan on, and so you just kind of fake it, right? And you usually fake it for like the first week, and then you start to get used to the routine, and it becomes simple.
But then, after you’ve been working at that job for a year or two, you’re really confident in how this goes, right? You just know what to expect, what to do.
Why is that? Well, it’s because you have become competent at that. You know what to do. The same is true with dating and relationships. 💡
Society just kind of pushes you into the pool, so to speak, and expects you to swim. They just expect you to figure it out. It didn’t use to be this way, but it is this way now.
This means most people have no idea how to approach the right way, how to pursue the right way, how to dress to really look your best, what to say to her, how to flirt with her the right way, etc.
They don’t understand how to do these things simply because nobody taught them. 👉 So they don’t feel confident in it because they’re just kind of guessing. That is what makes them feel awkward.
They saw something on TV, so they try that, but they never really feel confident in it because they don’t know what they’re doing. Does that make sense?
This is why in my program, I teach my clients confidence from two angles. The first is healthy self-love which is really important. You deserve to love yourself, right?
And then, I also teach them what to do in these situations so that they’re very competent. ✅ Because the truth is when you understand how to do it the right way, it’s simple, just like your job.
Yes, there are some challenges as you do new things, but you’re just good at it now, and you can adapt. That is the power of being competent at dating and relationships.
This is why the biggest results my clients see when they go through my program is increased confidence. Because they have healthy self-love and have become competent at relationships. It’s natural and simple.
➡️ To learn more about my program and how you can increase your confidence and learn these skills, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
You’ll learn about the strategies I teach, why they work, and how they work. When you’re ready to skyrocket your confidence and competence, this is the way to do it, so make sure you watch my free masterclass.
Tip #3 – Learn How To Flirt To Attract Her
So next in our list of first date tips for men is flirt to increase her attraction for you. Flirting is one of the most powerful tools if you’re trying to increase attraction and make someone enjoy their time with you.
Flirting is one way that you pursue her. It makes her feel feminine and attractive and drawn to you.
Now here’s the critical part. 👉 Most people make big mistakes when it comes to flirting, and it actually pushes her away instead of attracting her.
They play hard to get, or they banter with each other, or they do the push-pull method, thinking that’s how you flirt. These are all mind games, so they push a classy woman away.
You don’t want that. So let’s talk about what to do instead. Those who have purchased my program get access to my guide How To Flirt With Women Like A Boss.
But because you’re here today, I’m sharing two of those tips with you right now. Pretty exciting, right?
So the first tip is to focus on helping her smile. ✅ When we’re on the first date or with someone attractive, we tend to feel a little self-conscious. Totally normal. Happens to everyone.
But then we start to kind of focus on ourselves, which makes us feel more nervous. Instead, you want to turn the attention away from you and instead focus on helping your dream girl smile.
People like people who make them feel good. And if you can make her feel good, she’ll want to spend more time with you. So focus instead on saying things and doing things that will help her smile.
My second flirting tip for you is do not be too touchy, and do not be touchy too soon. Want to avoid creeping your dream girl out? Do not be too touchy, especially on a first date. 😬 That will creep her out so bad.
I’m not saying that you can’t touch her. As a matter of fact, when you know how to do it appropriately, it’s definitely a great way to flirt. And that’s something else I teach in that guide.
But too many people make the mistake of trying to be super sexy on the first date, and so they’re too touchy all the time, and she’s like, “Stop touching me!“, thinks you’re a weirdo, and she’s done.
Tip #4 – She Will Reject You If She Feels Uncomfortable
Okay, next on our list of first date tips for men is to make sure you take her somewhere she feels comfortable. This one thing literally has the power of her saying yes to a date or saying no to a date. ⬅️
Where you take her, if it makes her feel uncomfortable for any reason, she’s done.
It’s difficult for her to be in a situation where she really wants to go out with you but something about the date just doesn’t make her feel comfortable, especially for a first date, so she has to say no.
💡 Many women, if not most women, won’t feel comfortable explaining that that’s the reason they don’t want to go out with you. So instead, she’ll just turn you down completely.
So make sure you are taking her somewhere that she’s going to feel comfortable.
If you have purchased my program, you have access to my guide on 59 Best Date Ideas, so make sure you reference and utilize that.
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Tip #5 – Learn How To Talk To Women
Okay, next up on our first date tips for men is come prepared with what to say. Have you ever been in that situation where you’re standing there with someone super cute, and you have no idea what to say?
It’s really awkward and painful, right? Instead, you want to come prepared with what to say.
Again, it’s kind of like we talked about with confidence. If you already know what to say, you’re going to feel confident and comfortable, right? ✅
You want to make sure you understand how to use small talk and conversation skills to work for you. This helps a girl feel more comfortable when she’s with you and makes her enjoy her time with you.
Also, it’s the first date, you want to make sure you are really getting to know each other.
If you want to impress her and attract her make sure you understand how to small talk.
➡️ The best part about understanding small talk and good conversation is that it’s never a script. I never teach my clients to follow a script because then you’re not you anymore, right? You’re following a script.
And what happens if she says something that’s not on the script? It’s not authentic and doesn’t work.
Instead, you just want to understand those basic skills so you can rock the conversation as you.
Tip #6 – Dress To Attract Your Dream Girl
Okay, next on our list of first date tips for men is to dress to empower. Have you ever heard “dress for success” or “dress to impress“? What I prefer and what I teach my clients is dress to empower.
The way you dress can make you feel amazing. And it also can make her think you look hot, which is what you want, right? 💡
When we were talking at the beginning about what you want from a date, you want her to look really nice, right? Well, she wants the same thing, so make sure that you dress to empower.
That’s what impresses and attracts her. Make sure you understand the basics of dressing to empower, of dressing nice. You’d be surprised how simple the basics of dressing nice are, but they really pack a punch.
Tip #7 – Follow Up After The Date
Okay, next on our list of first date tips for men is to make sure you follow up after the date. Not doing this is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. 👈
If you enjoyed the date and want another date, you need to let her know by following up. One of the biggest mistakes men make that really mess things up is not following up.
Following up with her is one way you pursue her. Which if you watch my other videos, you know this increases her attraction for you.
It also shows that you’re a good communicator, which she is looking for in a spouse and partner. So make sure that you do that.
If you do not follow up with her, she’s hurt. She’s thinking, “Oh shoot, he didn’t enjoy spending time with me.” She feels a little bit stupid, she doesn’t know what to expect, and she thinks you’re done. ❌
So make sure that you are following up. This is critical if you want to make sure you get another date.
7 First Date Tips For Men (Impress And Attract Her!) – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up our 7 first date tips for men!
- Be sure you are reading her body language signals. That will tell you how the date is going, help you know what to do and what to expect.
- Make sure you are confident. This means having confident habits all the time, not just on the date. And how do you create confidence? You become competent. 💡
- Learn how to flirt with her to increase the attraction. You’d be surprised how powerful flirting is. Not to mention the fact that it’s fun, right?
- Only take her somewhere she feels comfortable. The first date especially needs to be somewhere she feels comfortable. Paying close attention to that is how you get a yes from her instead of a no.
- Come prepared with what to say. If you feel awkward and have no idea what to say, she feels awkward too. And she’s not going to go want to go on another date that feels awkward.
- Make sure you dress to empower. You want her to look nice, and she wants you to look nice. ✅ Understand the basics of attraction and dress in a way that shows off how amazing you are.
- Always follow up. Again, this is a huge mistake that so many men make. Don’t make it. Make sure you follow up if you enjoyed the date.
7 First Date Tips For Men (Impress And Attract Her!) – What’s Next?
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