Sneaky Ways Girls Test Your Confidence – How To Pass Her Tests! Have you ever wondered why women test men or how to pass a woman’s tests? 🤔
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Yes, the real reason why girls test guys might not be what you think. Let’s get started with Sneaky Ways Girls Test Your Confidence – How To Pass Her Tests! ✅
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Sneaky Ways Girls Test Your Confidence – How To Pass Her Tests
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about sneaky ways girls test your confidence. This is how to pass her tests the right way. Yes, there’s a right way and a wrong way. You need to know the right way.
Okay, a little bit of real talk. Have you ever heard that women test men, and that’s just the way they are? Or maybe you’ve felt like a gal you knew was testing you.
That’s frustrating, right? It’s hurtful. 😬 It makes you feel like you have to prove you’re good enough, and it leaves the potential relationship feeling empty and like you have to prove your worth to this gal.
Well, you’re about to learn some pretty surprising things about how to pass her tests and why women test men.
But first, if this is your first time here, my name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
This is the number one place for you to learn how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams without mind games and tricks and all that stuff that really doesn’t lead to a happy relationship.
Okay, I’m about to say something that you did not expect when you clicked on this article. 👉 It is not okay for a woman to test you.
There is so much noise online about how to pass a girl’s tests and why women test men and sneaky ways women test men.
But what you need to understand first and foremost is that the fact that a woman is testing you is actually a sign of a toxic woman. Toxic women test men all day long.
A classy woman, a high-quality woman, would never test you. Allow me to explain. ⬇️
A classy woman is going to pay attention. She needs to know if you’re compatible, right? That’s the whole point of dating, is seeing if you are going to work together.
Make sure you watch this video on weird things a girl does when she likes you to learn more about why and how women do this.
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Bottom line, a classy woman will pay attention if you will be a good husband and a good father, but she will never test you. 💡
Number one, she honestly does not have time. She’s out living a good life. She does not have time to play mind games with you.
Number two, a classy woman, a high-quality woman, has far too much respect for you to test you.
And number three, she honestly doesn’t care. She does not care to take the time to test you.
❌ But on the other hand, toxic women love drama, they love mind games, and they love control. They get an actual high out of it.
Something most people don’t know is that drama is as addictive as some of the most addictive drugs. And toxic women love drama.
Anytime one person is testing another, it puts them on a pedestal above the other person. So if she is testing you, she’s saying, “I’m a little bit better than you. See if you can live up to it.” That is toxic.
A classy woman would never do that to you. This is why you cannot create a healthy relationship by playing mind games like testing. ⬅️
When I teach about toxic girlfriends in my program and how to avoid relationships like this, I call them the signs of the siren.
If you are familiar with mythology, you probably know about sirens. They are beautiful female mythical creatures that would sing so sweetly and literally lure sailors to their deaths.
Toxic women are the same way which is why I explain it this way in my program. They make themselves appear attractive and charming and appealing, but they don’t have your best interests in mind.
The good news is once you understand what a toxic woman is and how to avoid women like that, that’s what allows you to leave toxic relationships in your past and instead attract and find a classy high-quality woman. ✅
So right here, right now, we are going to go over some signs that she is testing you. And really, all they are is signs of a toxic woman as well.
Understanding these things will help you start to avoid women like that and help you get the respect that you deserve. Sound good? Let’s dive in!
Sneaky Ways Girls Test Your Confidence #1 – Playing Hard To Get
Okay, the first sneaky way girls test your confidence and sign of a toxic woman is if she plays hard to get.
👉 A lot of people try to play this off as innocent and flirtatious and charming and fun.
But if you look at it at its core, do you want to know what playing hard to get is? It’s withholding affection. It’s withholding support just to get what you want.
Do you really want to date or marry someone like that? That’s not a real relationship. A relationship like that can have no closeness.
Toxic women will act like she doesn’t like you just to get your attention, or they’ll wait a certain amount of time before she can talk to you again, etc.
All of that is nothing more than mind games and a sign that she’s testing you, that she is a toxic woman. 😬
If you have not yet seen this video on the myth of once you stop caring, she starts chasing, do yourself a favor and watch that one right now.
#2 – She Doesn’t Respect Your Time
Okay, our next sneaky way toxic girls test your confidence is if she’s always late and has no respect for your time.
Now she’s always going to have a really legitimate sounding excuse, and she’s going to be charming.
Toxic people are charming. If they weren’t charming no one would play their game, so they are always careful to be charming. But if you pay attention, you see them for what they really are. 💡
She’ll probably have really good excuses, but if you notice she just does not respect your time, she’s late for everything, she is testing you. She’s trying to see how much manipulation she can get away with.
She’s trying to see where your boundaries are. And if you don’t set boundaries, oh my goodness, you’re the perfect guy for a toxic woman to prey on. So pay attention.
If she’s always late for everything, if she doesn’t respect your time, that is a sign of a toxic woman.
#3 – Playing Hot And Cold
Our next sneaky way a girl tests your confidence is if she’s hot and she’s cold. ➡️ This is another trait that media tries to glamorize, but it’s just because they’re trying to convince you that’s as good as it gets.
Toxic women, toxic people, want you to believe that toxic habits are normal and that’s as good as it gets. Because if you believe that’s as good as it gets, then you’ve got to settle for a toxic woman, right?
Guys, a classy woman will never play hot and cold with you. She just won’t.
She has too much respect for herself and for you. 💥 Plus, she’s got way better things to do with her time than play hot and cold with you.
So if you notice that she’s hot and then she’s cold, she’s super nice and really wants to get to know you, and then she doesn’t want anything to do with you, that is playing hot and cold.
A really good analogy for this is fishing. Reel them in, reel them out.
Toxic people will be super nice and make you think that they are the nicest person in the world. And then once you’ve let your guard down, they flip that switch, and then they start being a jerk again.
And if they start feeling you go, “Whoa, what just happened?” then they’re super nice again. It’s this hot and cold game that is exhausting. ❌
Can you imagine a relationship with someone like that? It is completely exhausting, and it doesn’t fill your needs in the relationship.
What To Do If You Attract Toxic Women
So by now, you may be thinking, “Wow, I’ve known some really toxic women.“
Or you may even be thinking, “Whoa, why do I only attract toxic women? Why are these the only kinds of relationships I’ve ever had?” Is that you right now? Are you thinking that? Here’s why that happens. 👇
Most people only teach you the skills that attract toxic women. And if those are the only skills you have, that’s all you can attract.
What you need instead are the skills that allow you to attract classy women. You need to understand the basics of healthy relationships, what they look like, and how you create that.
Again, if you’ve only been taught the skills that attract toxic women, and I can nearly guarantee you have, you have no idea how to create the happy relationship that you deserve.
✅ This is why my program focuses on teaching you the right skills to finding and attracting an amazing gal who will treat you right and love you with her whole heart.
That way, you make your dream relationship simple and automatic, instead of all this wasted time and heartache on bad relationships.
To learn more about how you can get the right skills and your dream relationship with those skills, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
If you are sick and tired of bad relationships, or if you want to make sure you always avoid them in the future, you must know these things, so make sure you give it a watch now. 💡
#4 – She Embarrasses You
Okay, are you ready for our next sneaky way a girl tests your confidence? This sign is that she embarrasses you, especially if she embarrasses you in front of people.
This is a classic way toxic people will test you, test your confidence, test your boundaries, see how much they can get away with.
Embarrassed people are easy to control. I want you to remember that. You back down immediately because you’re humiliated. So they will embarrass you in public. ❌
They will find out what things you are really self-conscious about, and they’ll display it for everyone to see, and they’ll make fun of you, poke fun of you, and make you feel stupid.
So if you’re in a situation where a girl is embarrassing you in private or in public, it’s a very good sign that, yes, she’s testing you, and she is toxic.
#5 – Too Much Skin
Okay, this sign is going to surprise you. I can almost guarantee you’ve never heard this before. This sign is if she shows too much skin.
We live in a world that glorifies how much skin you show and pretends it’s confidence when in reality, that’s a toxic trait. 👉 Toxic women will purposefully show a lot of their bodies to control and manipulate you.
It accomplishes a couple of things. Number one, it distracts you, okay? If she distracts you with her body, you can’t pick up on the manipulation she’s using. She knows if she does that, she can get away with anything.
A second reason toxic women will do this is to embarrass you. Let’s be real, somebody showing that much of themselves when they’re not your spouse is inappropriate.
It will embarrass people whether they know it or not. And again, someone who is embarrassed is easy to control. 😬
Now, a third reason toxic women will do this is they really have nothing else to offer, okay? A toxic person does not have anything to offer in a relationship and so she will use that as the only way to attract you.
So if you notice a woman shows a ton of skin a lot of the time, it’s probably for a reason.
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#6 – She Uses You Financially
Okay, our next sneaky way a girl will test your confidence, and a sign she’s toxic is if she uses you financially.
Does she only want to hang out when she’s hungry? Or does she always ask you for gifts, or ask you to pay for certain things or buy her certain things? 🤔
That is a really good sign that she’s just using you, she’s just testing you, she’s just seeing how much she can get away with.
Now I’m not saying that you shouldn’t ever spend money, and I’m not saying you shouldn’t pay for the date because that actually shows a massive amount of confidence, okay?
So it’s not that you shouldn’t pay for the date. It just means if she’s using you financially all the time, she has no respect for you, and she’s a toxic woman.
This toxic trait is actually where the false belief of “women only want money” comes from. Toxic women only want money. A classy woman would never dream of using you financially. 💡
#7 – She Belittles People
Our next sneaky way a girl will test your confidence if she’s toxic is if she belittles people in front of you.
It may be your family, it may be your friends, it may be people who have similar interests to you.
If she belittles people a lot, it’s a way of keeping you in your place, letting you know not to step out of line because you’ll be stupid like those people.
She may also belittle you directly, albeit in a subtle way. So if she says things like, “You’re not always the smartest, but I love you,” that is her belittling you. ❌ It’s supposed to sound endearing, but it’s toxic.
Don’t Mistake This Sign For Being Toxic
By now, we’ve talked a lot about some of the signs of a toxic woman, and someone you certainly don’t want a relationship with.
But I’m going to share one sign right here right now that is not necessarily a sign that she’s a toxic person. A lot of people think it is a toxic sign, but it’s actually not.
➡️ Many men come to me every day saying, “We started dating, things were going well, and she lost interest, or she just started ghosting me, and I have no idea what happened. I think she might be toxic.“
And I start to talk to them, and I realize, no, in this case, she was not toxic. As a matter of fact, almost every single time, it’s not because she’s toxic.
So what causes this? Why does this happen? It’s like I mentioned earlier. If you’ve only been taught the skills that will attract a toxic woman, that’s not what a classy woman is looking for.
So initially, she’s attracted to you, she wants to get to know you better, and then she sees, “This guy has no idea what a healthy relationship means. He doesn’t know how to create it.” Then she moves on.
And the truth is it’s very simple to create your dream relationship, but if you don’t know how to create it, it doesn’t matter, right? 💡
That’s what causes her to lose interest, to move on and go find someone instead who does have those skills, who understand these things.
This means the solution is simple, right? The solution is to learn the skills that attract a classy woman and start repelling those toxic women.
👉 When you’re ready to make sure you get your dream girl instead of settling for a terrible relationship, the kind of relationship most people say is normal, which in fact is not…
…and if you are sick of the hamster wheel of bad relationships, the solution for you and what you must do is learn the skills that make you attractive to your dream girl.
This is exactly what I teach as a coach. To learn more about how you can do this, watch my free masterclass.
I have helped hundreds of men with this, and I have seen it transform their lives. They’re getting crazy awesome results, and I know you can as well. So make sure you watch my masterclass now. ✅
Sneaky Ways Girls Test Your Confidence – What’s Next?
What I want you to remember from this article is that even if everybody else says it’s normal for women to treat you that way, it is not. That’s a lie toxic people want you to believe.
A classy woman will treat you amazing. You’re going to be her knight in shining armor, you’re going to be her prince charming, and she’s going to love you for you.
The key is to make sure you understand how to find her and how to attract her.
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