What To Wear On A First Date! Men, this makes her weak in the knees. What should guys wear on a first date?
➡️ Getting a first date with a beautiful woman is exciting! But if you don’t have the right first date tips, you’re setting yourself up to fail.
Don’t worry though, as a Coach, I’m here to help!
Whether you’re wondering what to wear on a first date casual dress, what to wear on a first date over 40, or some basic first date tips for Christian men, you’re in the right place. 🔥 This video will teach you What To Wear On A First Date!
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What To Wear On A First Date!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about what to wear on a first date. Men, this makes her weak in the knees. 😍
Okay, you have a first date with a beautiful woman. You’re so excited! You can’t wait to pick her up and spend time with her. And you want to impress and attract her.
But it would be really awkward if you show up for this first date, and she looks like a million bucks, but she’s not attracted to you.
That would be terrible! Maybe you’ve even been there before?
If that happens, you’re not going to get the second date, right? It’s humiliating, hurtful, and disappointing. ❌
Here’s the good news! You can prevent this if you’re prepared before the first date.
And one of the most helpful ways to prepare is to make sure you know how to dress on that first date so that you really attract and impress her.
If you want to get a high-quality woman, you’ve got to show her you’re a high-quality man.
👉 In this article, you’ll learn some of the best tips for how to dress on a first date. The last tip is one of the easiest to overlook, but it literally makes or breaks your outfit, so make sure you read to the end.
Before we dive in, if this is your first time here, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I help you find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams without any mind games or pretending to be someone you aren’t. If you want a happy lifelong relationship, make sure you keep reading.
If you haven’t yet seen this video on the 7 best first date tips, make sure you watch that one.
And just in case you don’t have anybody to go on a first date with quite yet, make sure you also watch this video on the only way to find a high-quality woman.
Okay, let’s talk about your first date so you can impress this gorgeous gal!
First, I’ll share a couple of guidelines that set you up for success. Then I’ll share some specific outfit pieces and how to make them work together so you can impress her on your first date. ✅
Dress Your Age
Okay, my first tip for what to wear on a first date is to make sure you dress your age.
Don’t assume you’ve got this covered. Pay close attention, okay?
When you go through my program, I walk you through the basics of fashion and how to dress to skyrocket your attraction and confidence so women are attracted to you faster.
In that program, I also teach you about three fashion traps. And one of those fashion traps is not dressing your age.
Most people kind of figure out their personal style in high school. But then they never grow their personal style up. 😬
They’re still dressing as they did in high school because that’s what the cool people do, right? But this doesn’t work.
A high-quality woman is looking for a high-quality man. And if you look like you’re still a teenager, she’s not interested, she’s not going to see you as masculine.
This can also go the other way. So many men dress far older than they are. And I love you enough to tell you that it makes you look frumpy and unattractive. That’s not what you want.
And yes, I am talking to those of you who are 40 and 50+ as well.
I get so many comments about this. “Melannie, I don’t think these styles are for men in my age range.” They absolutely are.
The problem is the men in your age range are dressing frumpy, so you can’t mimic them. ❌
Instead, you need to dress like a high-quality man who attracts women easily.
So as you’re preparing for this first date, make sure that you are dressing your age.
Dress Appropriately For The Date
Tip number two for what to wear on a first date is to make sure that you dress appropriately for the date, appropriately for the occasion.
It is very disrespectful to overdress or to underdress. And most people lean towards underdressing.
A high-quality woman spends time, energy, and even money, making sure she looks nice to you. ❤️
She does her hair, she has a cute outfit, maybe she even bought a new outfit just to go out with you.
Let’s say you show up for the date, and your clothes are wrinkly, you’re wearing gym shorts, you look like you didn’t put any effort in, you don’t even have a decent haircut.
Wow, that hurts her, and it certainly doesn’t attract her.
But instead, if you’re prepared for the occasion and dressed appropriately for whatever activity you’re doing, that makes a great first impression.
First impressions are critical. If you don’t present yourself as a high-quality man, a high-quality woman won’t give you a second date. She’s not going to waste your time or hers. 💡
What To Wear On A First Date Is Only The First Step
Now speaking of first impressions, as a relationship coach, I’m going to give you a tip to set you up for success.
Knowing how to dress on the first date is excellent and important. It’s something you need to know. But don’t stop there.
If you stop there and think that’s the only preparation you need to take, you’ll fail. There’s so much more to a first date than just how you dress.
Stopping there and assuming that’s all the preparation you need to make is what gets you ghosted and prevents you from getting another date.
Other things matter even more than how you dress. ⬅️
Some of the things I teach and walk you through in my program are how to make her feel comfortable, talk to her so she’s more attracted to you, make conversations fun, and more.
Another critical thing you need to know is where to take her on a date. A girl can turn you down just because of where you ask her to go on a date.
You also have to know how to read her signals, if she’s enjoying the date, and if she would like another date.
Understanding these things and more is what sets you up for success.
This is why the men who go through my program can be confident with women and why they handle these situations so well. 💪
And if you don’t know these things, you’re setting yourself up for embarrassment.
To learn more about my program so you can learn all these things, make sure you watch my free masterclass now.
My masterclass lays it all out for you and introduces you to my program, so you know how to be successful now instead of trying to piece it all together yourself, which leaves tons of room for error.
What To Wear On A First Date #1 – A Casual Dress Shirt
Okay, now that we’ve gone over some guidelines, let’s start talking about some specific pieces of clothing. 👇
Number one, you can’t go wrong with a nice dress shirt. Even if the date is a little more casual, this right here sets you apart from all the other men.
If it’s a little bit cooler, you can put on a jacket with it, which is very attractive.
Or if it’s warmer, then just go with short sleeves. Either way, a dress shirt really sets you apart from the crowd.
Play around with colors and patterns a little bit, have fun with it, don’t make it boring, but definitely, a dress shirt is a fabulous way to go.
Now, every time I make an article on men’s fashion, you ask me for examples.
I’ve put together some links for you in my Amazon store, so you can see what they look like and what I’m talking about. ✅
One word of warning with a dress shirt, make sure you iron it or use a steamer. A steamer is a lifesaver if you hate ironing! I will put a link to a great one for you on my Amazon store as well.
Bottom line, a dress shirt is always a safe bet for a date.
#2 – Avoid Shorts If Possible
Next up, avoid shorts if you can. Seriously, take my word for this. This is part of making sure you are dressing for the occasion.
You can wear khakis, you can wear jeans, you can wear black jeans, all of these look incredibly sharp with that dress shirt.
And yes, this does apply if you are over 50 as well. Remember, if you’re not seeing the other men in your age range wearing it, it’s because they look frumpy, okay?
➡️ If you want to impress a girl, you have to be doing what your competition is not.
Now the exception to avoid shorts is I understand sometimes you live in a hot area. And maybe you’re doing an outdoor activity, and so shorts would be a little bit cooler.
That’s okay, but make sure you wear shorts that look nice. Absolutely no gym shorts. That’s just tacky on a first date, okay? Not going to impress her.
So I will put links to some nice pants and some nice shorts in my Amazon store so you can see examples of those as well.
#3 – Men’s Jewelry
My next tip for what to wear on a first date is to use a little bit of men’s jewelry.
Don’t underestimate the power of jewelry on a man. You need to make sure you do it right, but it can give you that polished look. 💥
So make sure you don’t overdo it, don’t wear too much, but some masculine jewelry looks amazing. And I’ll put some links to some jewelry in that Amazon store for you as well.
Honestly, I think masculine jewelry is one of the most attractive things a man can wear.
#4 – Nice Cologne
Next up on what to wear on a first date is to wear some nice cologne.
Cologne is awesome, okay? It is definitely something that she wants you to wear.
👉 Word of caution, don’t use the cheap stuff because it smells cheap, and it can make her feel sick.
And make sure you do wear cologne but don’t wear too much of it.
If you wear too much of it, it’ll make her desperate for the date to be over, okay? She’ll feel overwhelmed and grossed out.
But if you have that hint of cologne, that right there is really hot.
And I will put some links to some good cologne in my Amazon store for you as well.
#5 – Nice Shoes
Okay, this tip is one so many people overlook, but it literally has the power to make or break your outfit. Wear nice shoes. 💡
If you’ve been through my program, you know this is a pet peeve of mine.
Let’s say you have an awesome outfit. You’ve got your dress shirt, cologne, jewelry, some nice pants, and then you wear running shoes.
You literally look like a teenager. It destroyed the attraction instantly. Do not wear running shoes!
What you want to wear instead are some nice dress shoes or even some nice sneakers. Those are perfect for warmer weather.
Make sure you do wear no-show socks with those, okay? Make me a promise right now.
When a man goes to that little extra effort, and he wears dress shoes or sneakers, whoa, he is hot. He’s high class, and he stands out from the crowd. ✅
If you instead wear those running shoes, no, that’s not good. She’s done.
What To Wear On A First Date – Final Thoughts
Do you see how simple putting together an outfit can be when you just understand the right pieces?
It can be an absolute no-brainer, and you can look amazing all the time, even if you don’t have a first date right now.
It’s exciting to know how to make a good impression just by how you dress, right?
➡️ Remember though, as a coach, I’ve got to warn you. If you stop here, it won’t matter.
If all you focus on is how you dress, it won’t matter. You have to have the full equation.
This is why so many men end up getting friend-zoned and ghosted after the first date.
It’s because women are primarily attracted to a man on an emotional level. Yes, she’s attracted physically as well. But emotional attraction is much more important to a woman.
So if you put all your focus on just attracting her physically, it’s not going to matter. Unless you’re trying to attract a toxic woman, which is never a good idea.
But don’t worry, you don’t have to figure that out on your own. As a coach, I’ve gone to all the work for you so that you don’t have to piece it together and try and figure it out on your own.
This is what I do and why I’ve helped so many men learn what they need to get their dream girl. 🔥
To learn more about my program and how you can get coaching from me, make sure you watch my free masterclass. Seriously, save yourself some heartache and watch that now.
Thank you so much for reading, my amazing friend! Do you have a friend who needs to know what to wear on a first date? If you do, make sure you share this with him.
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Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day!
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