How To Be A Sexy Man (This Makes Women Love You!) If you’ve ever wanted a happy, loving relationship, you need to know how to make her fall in love with you. ❤️
A large part of that is understanding how to be sexy to women. What women really want in a man is very different from what most men think. What women find attractive in men is probably going to surprise you!
➡️ Are you ready to know how to be attractive to women and make her fall in love? Let’s get started with How To Be A Sexy Man (This Makes Women Love You!)
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How To Be A Sexy Man (This Makes Women Love You!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about how to be a sexy man. This makes women love you~
Get ready to be surprised. ➡️ I’m about to share some things with you that no one has ever told you before.
Have you ever wanted to be sexy? That’s totally normal and actually a really healthy normal thing to want. This is one of the reasons why we want a relationship and why we want to get married.
You want an awesome and exciting relationship where you think she’s cute, and she thinks you’re cute too, right?
But let’s be real, sometimes it can feel like a real struggle trying to figure out how to create that attraction, trying to figure out how to be sexy.
In all honesty, most people teach the incorrect way to be sexy. And if you’re struggling to attract or maintain that kind of relationship where you love and support each other, you need to know the correct way. 💡
Good news! In this video, I’m sharing with you how to be sexy the correct way, the way that actually works. Prepare to be surprised because what I’m going to say might shock you.
By the end, you’ll understand what makes a man sexy and what you can start doing today, so stay with me to the end.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to resource to learn how to attract a lasting, loving relationship with a woman who lights your heart on fire and who absolutely adores you. 😍
All right, as we get started with how to be a sexy man, there are two other videos I also want to mention that will help you with this a ton.
The Secret To Being A Sexy Man
Pay close attention because this is the key to being sexy. 👉 You can be the sexiest person in the world and not have a single person who truly loves you.
However, when someone is in love with you, you are the sexiest man in her world.
Here’s the deal: So many people in today’s society obsess about being sexy. They put far too much time and effort into it.
As a matter of fact, I remember several times when I used to go dancing and I would watch people out on the dance floor, and it was like a silly competition for who could be the sexiest.
And you know what? They had no idea they were just embarrassing themselves. They were putting out so much effort to be “super sexy” when in reality, they just looked needy and desperate. 😬
I know that’s harsh, but it’s the truth. In reality, you can create chemical feelings in someone without them actually caring about you at all.
I’m going to say that again. You can create chemical feelings in someone without them actually caring about you at all.
But instead, when someone loves the real you, when someone cares about who you are, they see you as the coolest person in their world.
When she has feelings for you like that, you’re sexy and you stay sexy forever. This is how people have relationships that last a lifetime because they create that real love.
So the solution to being sexy and having someone who actually cares about you is to learn and understand what it takes to make someone fall in love with you. It really is as simple as that. ✅
It’s not about a mind game or pretending to be someone you’re not or saying just the right thing or doing just the right thing.
Instead, it’s about understanding how to create that beautiful relationship we all long for.
This is exactly what I teach my clients in Attracting Lasting Love Academy, exactly how to create that love and attraction.
And by being here and watching this video, I’m going to be sharing with you 3 of those strategies right here, right now.
Again, the key to knowing how to be sexy is to know what it takes to get someone to fall in love with you. ➡️ So we’re going to dive in with those 3 things right here, right now!
How To Be A Sexy Man #1 – You Must Be A Mature Person
So the first thing you need to know about how to be a sexy man and how to make women fall in love with you is to understand that she is looking for maturity in a relationship.
This one thing has the power to make her fall in love with you. But if you don’t have this, this one thing has the power to make her move on and find someone else.
A high-quality woman, the kind of woman you would trust your heart with, who’s absolutely beautiful, who respects you as a man, who makes you feel more like a man, she’s a high-quality woman because she’s mature about relationships.
She’s put in the work to be an attractive, high-quality woman, so she’s definitely looking for a man who puts in the work as well. 💡
Now here’s what you need to understand: Maturity is not something you can just snap your fingers and have. You can’t just say, “Okay, I’m now mature.” It doesn’t work that way.
You need to understand some of the fundamentals of a relationship. For instance, things like how to move at the right pace, and what order to take things to the next level in a relationship.
You need to know how to guard your heart so you’re not coming across as needy. Neediness will ruin a relationship very quickly, so women avoid needy men.
Also, you need to know how to tell if a relationship stands a chance or not. To tell if she’s a good fit for your lifestyle and if you’re a good fit for her lifestyle.
👉 These relationship basics are things most people don’t even think about, let alone learn how to apply.
Showing her that you have maturity with relationships is one of the ways you make her feel safe with you. And if you want her to be attracted to you, you’ve got to make sure she feels safe with you.
When a man shows maturity in a relationship, wow, that’s sexy. That makes her fall in love with you because most men she meets are frankly not willing to go to that much work. They’re just not.
Instead, they show up and think, “Hey, the relationship should just work because I want it to.” And she’s not attracted to that.
So if you want to stand out from the crowd, show her that you’re a good partner, and show her that you’re the man of her dreams, you’ve got to learn how to have that maturity in relationships.
What You Don’t Know About Relationships Is Hurting You
I’ve got kind of a funny analogy for you. It’s kind of like when you very first learn how to count way way way back when you’re a kid.
You’re learning how to count, and you figure out how to count to 100, and you’re like, “Yes! I’m on top of the world!” 💯
And then somebody comes to you, and they say, “Okay, now we’re going to learn addition.” Do you remember that? I remember that. I did not like math.
And then you start to learn it, and you think, “Hey, I’m getting the hang of this.” And then they say, “Okay, now we’re going to talk about division.“
It’s crazy because back when you first learned how to count to 100 you thought you knew everything.
But there were other things you didn’t even know existed, right? The same is true with relationships.
So many people come to me and say, “Melannie, I don’t understand why relationships aren’t working for me.” 🤔
Well, I do. I’m the coach. I know the things that you need to know about that you didn’t even know existed.
The good news is they’re simple. And as a matter of fact, once you learn them, life becomes so much easier, and relationships become exciting instead of full of drama or exhausting.
Because when you don’t know how to make the relationship work, that’s exhausting. When you don’t know why you feel out of options, and you’re losing hope, that’s exhausting.
But when you learn the things that you don’t know that you need to know, that’s when relationships become amazing. 🔥
This is again what I am here to teach you and this is exactly what you will learn in Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
If you are tired of coming home to an empty house, if you are tired of failed relationships and having no idea how to change them, then you need to take action today.
Learn the things you need to know to instead have that special someone who lights your heart on fire and makes you excited to see every day.
To learn more about this, what I teach, how it works, why it works, watch my free masterclass. Do yourself a favor, save yourself some heartache, and click here to watch it today. ✅
#2 – Confidence And Attitude
Okay, are you ready for your next tip for how to be a sexy man? Tip number two is to have a confident mindset and attitude. Confident people are attractive.
Something I teach my clients, and you’ve probably heard me say before, is people like people who make them feel good. It’s as simple as that.
And confident men are sexy. They just are. They make a woman feel safe, she sees you as masculine, and you show her that you have self-respect.
And that right there makes you so attractive. It certainly is one of the main things she looks for in a man. And it’s one of the main things that makes her fall in love with you. ❤️
Something else I teach my clients in my academy is that sexy is an attitude. Being a sexy man has so much more to do with your attitude and mindset than it does with just your physical attraction.
Yes, being physically attractive is important. But to a woman, some things are far more important. Your attitude, confidence, and mindset, that right there makes you hot.
So the more confident you are as a person, the more that confidence extends to all areas of your life. Confident with her and in life in general. 💪
It helps you be a motivated, driven, and ambitious person. And these are all traits that women look for in a partner. It makes you more interesting and attractive.
#3 – Self-care Is Critical
Okay, our next tip for how to be a sexy man is to focus on taking care of yourself.
Physical attraction is not the most important thing to women. Science tells us that. However, it is still really important.
Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t take care of themselves and who doesn’t have respect for themselves.
➡️ As humans, we are naturally attracted to people who take care of themselves. People who focus on things like:
- Body language and how you present yourself
- Making health and fitness a priority
- Personal hygiene
- Having a nice hairstyle
- If you have facial hair, keep it trimmed and looking nice
- Dress attractively and confidently
Those are all things that certainly make her fall in love with you. It even extends to things like setting boundaries, having enough self-respect to make sure other people respect you as well.
Do not underestimate the power of these things. They may seem small, but they are crazy effective.
As a matter of fact, extreme confidence is the very first thing my clients notice as they apply what they learn in my program. It literally has the power to shoot your confidence sky-high. 🚀
That is definitely something she will notice, and it’s a large part of what makes her fall in love with you.
And just like we talked about at the beginning, when she’s in love with you, you are the sexiest man alive. So this isn’t about obsessing about the way you look or spending hours in a gym.
When it comes to physical attraction, she cares more about effort and self-respect than she does about perfection. Because perfection isn’t necessarily what most people think it is.
How To Be A Sexy Man – Final Thoughts
Do you know what the most fascinating part about all this is? At the end of the day, these are fairly simple concepts.
Making sure you’re mature in a relationship, making sure you have a confident positive mindset and attitude, and focusing on taking care of yourself. 👉 Those are pretty simple concepts, right?
Would you like my help to apply these things fast and easy so you can go from feeling frustrated, discouraged, and like a failure in relationships, to holding the love of your life forever?
Are you tired of having no one to come home to, tired of those failed relationships, and tired of feeling out of options? That’s exactly what I am here to help you with!
I have gone through all the trouble of all the research and proving the strategies to take all the guesswork out for you, so you can just fast-track it to success. ✅
Are you serious about finally having a beautiful woman who loves the real you and sees you as the sexiest man alive? It’s time for you to be in on these insider secrets.
To learn more about working with me and start learning today in my academy, just watch my free masterclass.
All of my strategies are taught through that program, the results are incredible, and I would love to share these secrets with you as well. So again, be sure to click here and watch my masterclass now. 💡
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