Toxic Woman Alert! (5 Signs You Didn’t Expect) If you don’t know how to spot toxic woman red flags you must learn them right now! 💡 Far too many good men are tricked into a relationship because they don’t know the signs of a toxic girlfriend.
Once you understand how to know if a woman is toxic you start to see that toxic women are really just adult bullies. The truth is that you deserve so much better! ✅
Whether it’s the signs she’s using you or just learning toxic woman behavior in general, these are life skills you must know so you can avoid them and find the loving, good woman you really want.
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Toxic Woman Alert! (5 Signs You Didn’t Expect)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are titled toxic woman alert! (5 signs you didn’t expect)
Have you ever been in a relationship that just wasn’t fulfilling, or have you maybe looked around and thought, “Is this as good as it gets? Is this as good as relationships ever get?” 🤔
Maybe you’ve known a gal who you couldn’t put your finger on it, but it kind of felt like she didn’t treat you that good. But you didn’t really know why and you started wondering if maybe that was normal.
Maybe you feel anxious when you’re around her. Maybe she’s hot and then she’s cold and kind of just messes with your head.
If that’s you, then you’re in the right place. In today’s article, we’re talking about toxic women and the signs that you owe it to yourself to learn so you can avoid bad and toxic relationships permanently.
Toxic people can be tricky. And the truth is, most people don’t know these signs. But again, you owe it to yourself and to your future relationship to know these signs, so you never get stuck with a toxic woman.
➡️ Far too many amazing men end up in terrible relationships simply because they don’t know these signs. So make sure you stay with me to the end because each sign is very important.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to source to learn how to attract the loving, lasting relationship you’ve always dreamed of.
Even if you’ve been following me for a long time, there’s something about me that maybe you don’t know. I have had a ton of experience with toxic relationships.
Unfortunately, I was raised with an incredibly toxic father. And sadly, you attract what you know. So I had a lot of toxic friends and dated toxic guys. ❌
So toxic relationships are definitely something I’m proactive about sharing because most people don’t know these things. And if you don’t know it, you’re so much more likely to get caught in a toxic relationship.
This is one of the biggest reasons why I became a coach and why I created my academy.
And just in case you’re thinking, “Well, if I’m a Christian, then I’m probably safe from that,” make sure you watch this video. Because the truth is, even Christians aren’t safe from wolves in sheep’s clothing.
What Is A Toxic Woman?
So let’s just start by defining what toxic even means. Maybe you’re right now thinking, “What is a toxic woman?” If you think about it, something toxic is hurtful. Something harmful or even poisonous.
This is very true of toxic people. 💡 Their behavior is controlling and manipulative. They’re harmful and hurtful to the people in their lives. You might even say that they poison you through their manipulation and control.
At the end of the day, toxic people are really just adult bullies. Do you remember those bullies back in school? Well, a lot of people assume, “We grew up, so they must’ve grown up and matured too, right?“
That’s not always the case. There are so many adult bullies. And really all they are is toxic people, people who will harm you.
So how do you identify those people? How do you spot them and avoid them? Because if you’re in a relationship with a toxic person, you can never get to the relationship with that loving, good woman that you want and deserve. 👇
Let’s dive into the 5 signs you did not expect about toxic women.
Toxic Woman Alert! (5 Signs You Didn’t Expect) #1 – The Victim
Toxic woman sign number one is that she’s always acting like she’s a victim. And she’s usually very ‘sweet‘ about this.
Her life is just so hard, and there’s nothing she can do about it, and everyone needs to come to her rescue.
Toxic people are always playing the victim card, how something has happened and there’s nothing they can do about it and everyone else needs to fix it.
Now, one of the biggest things you need to understand about a toxic person is they will always appear very ‘charming‘, very ‘sweet‘, very ‘exciting‘ when you first meet them.
And they do this for a reason. It’s because if they showed their true colors, no one would put up with them. No one would put up with a woman who’s using, manipulating, or controlling them. 😬
It’s important to recognize that she’ll appear very sweet. So pay attention to that. The key is to find a woman who’s actually sweet instead of pretending to be sweet.
If you’ve ever known a woman who acts like there are all these outside things happening to her, and there’s nothing she can do about it, and you need to fix it, that is a key red flag of a toxic woman.
#2 – Using Her Body To Control
Sign number two of a toxic woman. And this one is going to surprise a lot of people. This sign is that she uses her body to manipulate or control you.
So what does this look like? Well, there are a couple of ways you can spot this. One is if she’s rushing the physical side of the relationship, even if it would otherwise be appropriate.
➡️ For instance, if you haven’t known her very long and she’s already cuddling and holding your hand and kissing you and really rushing that side of the relationship, that is a key red flag of a toxic woman.
She’s trying to get those brain chemicals to shoot off in your head so that you’re completely infatuated with her and don’t see her for the manipulative person she actually is.
It’s not that kissing and cuddling are bad. It’s not even that those brain chemicals are bad. It’s just that when you have respect for a relationship, you move at the correct pace.
And a high-value woman is going to want to move at that correct pace. While a toxic woman, she just wants to distract you and keep you so high on those brain chemicals that you don’t see her for what she is.
Another way a toxic woman will use her body to manipulate you is by showing a lot of skin.
I’m not going to say all women who dress immodestly are toxic because that would be false. Often, it simply comes from low self-esteem.
High-value women who have confidence and self-esteem have too much self-respect and respect for their husband or future husband to show that much of themselves.
They don’t need that kind of attention because they have confidence and know their self-worth. ✅
However, a woman with low self-esteem will often be tempted and give in to the temptation to show skin to try and get acceptance.
With that being said, many toxic women will use their bodies just to manipulate you.
When she shows a lot of skin, she knows one of two things is going to happen.
One, you’re going to have those brain chemicals firing off so much that you won’t be able to think straight and see through the manipulation.
Or two, it will embarrass you. Because let’s face it, it’s embarrassing when somebody shows too much of themselves, okay? It’s inappropriate for a reason.
An embarrassed person is easy to control and manipulate. So that is a key red flag of a toxic woman. Someone who is using her body to distract, confuse, embarrass, control, and manipulate.
You Must Learn How To Attract High-Quality Women Instead
Now I need to pause for just a second and tell you that I’m not sharing this with you to scare you. Let’s lighten the mood for a second. 😅
There are so many amazing women out there, okay? So many high-value women want to love you, respect you, be loved by you, and be respected.
The key here is to learn how to identify toxic women and instead attract high-quality women, high-value women.
Especially if you’ve known many toxic people, you’ll start to feel like that’s all there is because that’s all you’re attracting.
So it’s critical that you instead learn how to attract the kind of woman who wants to love you and treat you right forever.
This is exactly why I became a coach. Not to focus on the bad, but to instead help you learn how to attract and create the good.
I put the secrets for how to attract that loving, lasting relationship into my academy. And I would love to share these secrets with you too. 🔥
I’ve had men go through my academy who before had multiple toxic relationships and were finally able to turn it around and have the success they want in love.
So if you’ve been burned from toxic relationships or you’re terrified of ever being in a toxic relationship, you owe it to yourself to learn how to attract the kind of woman who will love you, respect you, light your heart on fire, and be true to you forever.
You owe it to yourself to learn these skills and strategies. So to discover more about my academy and the amazing things you’ll learn when you join me there, watch my free masterclass now.
If you’re serious about having a loving, lifelong relationship, then you need to know the secrets I share there. ✅ Just make sure you watch this free training before it’s gone.
#3 – She Dominates Your Time
Now let’s talk about our next sign of a toxic woman. This sign is that she starts dominating your time and keeps you from other good things in your life.
She’ll keep you from your friends, from your family, from your hobbies, from the things you enjoy doing.
She might say things like, “Well, you’re just not very good at that, and our time together is really important, so we should do this instead.“
Or she might say something like, “I really don’t think they’re good for you, and I don’t think you should see them anymore.“
Or she might even lie and say, “Oh, they’ve been saying things about you, and I don’t think you want to be with them anymore.” Or, “They’re so mean to me. I don’t think you should spend time with them anymore.“
Whatever it is, toxic people in general, but toxic women as well, they want to be the only person in your life… period. ❌ They want to isolate you from the people who might expose them, the people who actually love you.
They also want to completely control and micromanage your life. So they don’t want you to have hobbies and interests and good things you’re doing.
Again, she’ll sound sweet about this, but if you start noticing this sign, then it’s a red flag that she’s a toxic woman.
#4 – She Makes You Feel Small
Our next sign of a toxic woman is that she makes you feel small, even if she does it by appearing to compliment you or say something nice. It’s kind of a backhanded compliment.
An example of this is, “Well, you’re just not very smart. You’re not very good at that. So I’m going to take care of it for you.“
Or another example is, “Well, it’s a good thing you’re cute because you’re not very smart.” Something like that, where it kind of sounds like it’s supposed to be a compliment, but it makes you feel empty inside. 😬
The person you’re in a relationship with should never make you feel small, belittled, or empty inside.
She should be your biggest cheerleader. She should help you see yourself as the amazing man you are.
So even if you can’t explain why, if she just kind of makes you feel belittled and small, it’s a sign that she’s not a good person for your life.
#5 – She’s Hyper-Critical
Okay, our next sign can be hard for many people to spot, so pay close attention. This sign is that she’s hyper-critical.
This can be hard to spot because often, a toxic person will be critical while sounding nice. Something like, “Well, I care about you enough to be the one to let you know.“
Or they’ll say something super hurtful and negative and then say, “I just wished they knew it, and I’m just saying it because I care.“
👉 You may notice that she’s being really critical about other people, but you might not notice how critical she is of you.
But if she’s being critical of other people, then she’s being critical of you, she’s probably just being very subtle about it.
Bottom line, who wants to spend their time with a critical person? No one! That’s just super painful. So if you notice she’s judgmental and critical of you or anyone else, it’s a good sign that she’s not someone you want in your life.
Toxic Woman Alert! (5 Signs You Didn’t Expect) – Final Thoughts
Always remember that it’s not your fault if a toxic person treats you badly. It has nothing to do with you. They will tell you it’s your fault, but it’s never your fault.
You deserve to be out of relationships like that. And to instead have a loving, kind, amazing relationship. ❤️
Remember, if you’ve known many toxic people, it’s completely normal to feel like that’s all there is and to think those types of relationships are normal.
I’ve been there. So I totally understand. But let me tell you, there’s a beautiful, loving woman out there that you deserve to have.
You deserve that kind of love and goodness. The key is to learn how to attract that high-quality woman.
And let me just say, if you’ve ever been in any kind of toxic relationship, you are so much more likely to end up in another one. So you need to be proactive about creating and attracting a healthy relationship.
This is exactly what I’m here to teach you how to do and why I created Attracting Lasting Love Academy. So that you can finally have the lasting, loving relationship that lights your heart on fire. 🔥
So to learn more about this, be sure to watch my free masterclass now.
Thank you so much for joining me! I know this was a bit heavy, but if you have any comments or questions about this, leave them in the comments.
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