Attractive Things Guys Do Without Knowing It! What women really want in a man might just surprise you! 😏 Knowing how to attract a woman can feel overwhelming but it’s actually very simple once you understand the things that make women melt.
➡️ There are sexy things guys do without knowing it every day! These signs you’re more attractive than you think are going to shock you. It really is the simple things that answer the age old question “how to make a woman fall in love with you.”
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Attractive Things Guys Do Without Knowing It!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on attractive things guys do without knowing it.
Wouldn’t it be cool if you were doing incredibly attractive things without realizing it? 😏
The truth is, this happens all the time! Women obviously think differently than you do. And there are things that you’re probably not aware of that melt her heart.
So I’m about to pull back the curtain and share some of the most attractive things men do without even knowing it.
The last two secrets I share with you might be the most surprising. And I have a special tip for you at the very end that I get a ton of questions about. So make sure you stay with me to the end so you don’t miss it.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
➡️ I’m your go-to resource to learn how to find, attract, and keep the lasting, loving relationship you want most. And all without mind games or pretending to be someone you’re not.
If you’re sick of exhausting relationships full of drama and confusion, then it’s time for you to learn the real secrets of attraction so you can have the loving relationship you deserve.
Okay, let’s talk about the attractive things that guys do without knowing it! As I share these secrets with you, there are two things I want you to do.
Number one, I want you to celebrate the things you’re already doing. As I share these things with you, there’s a possibility you’ll say, “I totally do that.” I want you to celebrate that. That’s so exciting!
The second thing I want you to do is to pay attention to the things you aren’t doing. Because it’s completely normal for you to not be doing all these attractive things. That’s part of being human. 👍
However, now that you’re aware of them, you can use the information I’m sharing with you to your advantage!
Pay attention to the areas you can improve on. Because at the end of the day, that’s the entire secret to being an attractive, irresistible person, is to learn how you can improve and then act on it.
Two other videos will also help you so much with this. If you missed this video on 11 ways to melt her heart and this video on how to attract a woman deeply, be sure to watch them. They’ll help you a ton.
Attractive Things Guys Do Without Knowing It #1 – Hobbies & Interests
With that, let’s get started with our first attractive thing guys do without knowing it. And this is when you kind of nerd out or get really excited about something. 😀
We all have things that we get really excited about and nerd out about. It could be a hobby, something you’re learning, a project you’re working on, or something at work.
Sometimes we feel that we have to hide those things. That maybe we won’t be attractive if we get excited and nerd out about things.
In reality, it makes you a much more interesting person. The truth is, there’s nothing cuter than a guy who nerds out about something, who’s excited and interested in life.
Something I teach you in my Academy when I’m teaching you how to become irresistible and attractive to a woman is to have things you’re actively involved in. Hobbies, interests, things you’re learning. ✅
People aren’t attracted to boring people. That makes sense, right? You’re not attracted to boring women, and she’s not attracted to a man who’s boring either.
However, when you have interests and things you’re doing, it shows her that you’re a motivated and driven person.
It also boosts your confidence, gives you more things to talk about, and makes you a fun person to be around.
💡 So make sure that you have things you’re learning, you’re interested in, that you’re involved in, and don’t hide it. It’s a very attractive trait.
#2 – Learn Dating And Relationship Skills
Our second attractive thing guys do without knowing it is when you learn dating and relationship skills. And here’s why:
Sometimes people feel like they have to hide that they’re learning about dating and relationships. It’s easy to feel embarrassed and that we don’t want anyone to know.
But in reality, it’s one of the most attractive traits you can have! ⬅️
And it’s certainly something that a high-quality woman is already doing herself, and something she’s looking for in a partner.
The truth is, for both men and women, just being physically attractive is not enough. You also need the person to see that you’ll make a good partner.
And someone who doesn’t have dating and relationship skills, who’s not proactive about that, won’t make a good partner.
Someone willing to learn and improve will always be more attractive than someone who’s not.
It’s kind of like a chef. Who would you rather have serving you dinner? A chef who doesn’t know what they’re doing, who’s guessing what will taste good?
👉 Or a chef who’s learned, who’s always improving, who’s always making their food even better? That’s the chef you want to serve you dinner, right? Someone willing to learn will always be better.
This is also one way you show her that you’re different. That you’re not like everyone else.
Because sadly, most people are somewhat lazy and apathetic about relationships. And just like you’re not attracted to a woman who’s lazy about relationships, she’s not either.
When you’re willing to learn the skills that most people aren’t willing to learn, you can have the relationship most people will never have. ❤️
And again, a high-quality woman is already working to learn those things herself, and she certainly will notice it in you.
So never feel ashamed or embarrassed about learning these things. Celebrate it and be willing to show it! Because that right there is a game-changer for you.
How Do You Learn Dating And Relationship Skills?
Now speaking of dating and relationship skills, I’ve been getting several questions lately asking me about my Academy, what it is, and how it works.
And if you’re new here, maybe you’ve never heard about my Academy before.
Attracting Lasting Love Academy is the only training of its kind that shows you exactly how to go from wondering if you’ll ever have a happy relationship to holding the love of your life every single day. ✅
When you join me there, you’ll learn the 5 critical secrets to attracting the love of your life.
These are the hidden secrets you must know, so you can turn her head, melt her heart, and make her want a loving, lasting relationship with you.
My coaching is done through my online Academy. And it’s the fastest and easiest way to learn these things because it works entirely around your schedule.
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Any single man who wants a good, beautiful, loving woman to come home to every single night must know the secrets you’ll learn there.
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The truth is, you can try and figure it out on your own. You can take the risk of getting it wrong and staying alone forever.
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You owe it to yourself to at least check it out, so you can finally have the lasting success in love that you deserve! 💡
Again, just click here and watch this short free masterclass.
#3 – Be Kind To Others
Our next attractive thing guys do without knowing it is when you say something nice to someone that you have no interest in.
It’s one thing to compliment or be nice to someone that you’re attracted to. It’s another thing entirely to be a nice person who’s just nice to people.
You wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who’s not sincere, right? Of course, you wouldn’t. She doesn’t either.
👉 So when she sees you doing those nice things, holy cow, that’ll melt her heart.
Something else I share with you in my Academy when I’m teaching you how to be her hero is that gentle, good men are attractive men.
And let me just say, women notice those things. Women 100% notice those little things. Because to them, they’re not little things.
Now I’m not talking about toxic women. I’m not talking about drama queens who only care about a thrill or a one-night fling.
I’m talking about women looking for someone to give their hearts to forever.
Someone who wants you to come home to her every night, who wants to wake up next to you every morning. I’m talking about a high-quality woman.
When you’re a gentle, kind man, she feels safe with you. ❤️ And she can only fall in love with someone she feels safe with.
She sees that you’ll be a good lifelong partner and a good father to future children.
So when you show her that you’re a kind, gentle, nice man, that tells her that you’re the kind of man she can give her heart to forever.
#4 – Share Your Thoughts And Feelings
Okay, our next attractive thing guys do without knowing it is when you share how you feel about things. Your thoughts, your opinions, your feelings.
Opening up and letting her see who you are on the inside is exceptionally attractive to women.
Women connect through talking. And when you talk to her, when you communicate with her, when you let her see who you are, holy cow, that is incredibly attractive. 🔥
That’s part of what helps her know that you’re the kind of man she wants to spend her life with because she truly knows who you are.
Being a little bit vulnerable is an incredibly attractive trait. So let her know your thoughts and opinions on things. Let her know what’s important to you.
When a man opens up like this, it shows real confidence and helps build her trust in you.
Now, I need to clarify something real fast. When I say share what you’re feeling, I do not mean to act needy or whiny.
And I certainly don’t mean to tell her that you have feelings for her before it’s the appropriate time to do that.
You should not tell her that you have feelings for her unless you’ve been going out for a while. That will push her away so fast. 😬
However, when instead you open up, share your thoughts, share your opinions, and definitely share your feelings for her when it’s the right time, that’s incredibly attractive.
And if you’re wondering how to share your feelings with her at the appropriate time, how to move with the right pacing, that’s something I teach you in my Academy as well.
So if you’ve ever felt that you shouldn’t share how you feel about things, don’t worry, because it’s actually an extremely attractive trait.
#5 – Smile With Your Eyes
Okay, our next attractive thing guys do without knowing it is when you smile with your eyes.
Do you want to melt her heart? Smile with your eyes. A smile is one of the most attractive things we can do. 😀
This is especially true when a man smiles because there are so many who feel like they can’t smile. When she sees you smile, she thinks, “Oh my goodness, he’s safe.“
It also helps her see that you’d be someone fun to be around. It shows that you’re confident. And when someone smiles at us, we naturally connect with them.
So a smile in general is pretty powerful. However, when you take it up a notch and smile with your eyes, that right there will melt her heart.
Now I get a lot of questions about this. How do you smile with your eyes? And the truth is it can take a little bit of practice. I have a quick trick to share with you.
The other day I was at the grocery store and I was wearing a mask because that’s kind of where we’re at right now, right?
However, it was really interesting because I went to the bakery, asked for some bread, he handed me the bread, I said “Thank you,” and I smiled with my eyes, and he smiled with his eyes right back.
💡 And we both knew each other were smiling, even though we couldn’t see each other’s mouths. So I’m going to tell you how to do this. If you’d like a visual example, be sure to watch the video at the top of this article.
All you need to do is stand in front of the mirror with a mask, or something else to cover up your mouth, such as your hand.
So if you cover your mouth, try smiling with just your eyes. It might take a little bit of practice, but do practice it a little bit. Because once you do it, it becomes second nature.
Having something to block your mouth so you can’t see it, helps you understand “Okay, I’ve got to make my eyes look happier.“
A little bit of practice goes a long way! So start smiling with your eyes if you want to melt her heart. ❤️
Attractive Things Guys Do Without Knowing It – What’s Next?
And there you have it! Now you know some of the most attractive things guys do without knowing it.
You might be wondering, what now? What are your next steps? What do you do next?
You might be wondering why you can be an attractive person and still be alone.
This is a question I get all the time. “Okay, Melannie, if I’m so attractive, why am I still single?” 🤔 Are you wondering that right now, too?
It’s because you have several pieces to the puzzle, but you don’t know how to put them all together yet.
You don’t know how to make it all fall into place. If you did, you’d be able to have the relationship you want.
That’s what I’m here for. And that’s what I help men with every single day.
My methods are proven and super effective, and I’d love to share them with you too!
Make sure you click here and watch my short free masterclass to take your next steps to find, attract, and keep your dream girl. ✅
Thank you so much for joining me, my amazing friend! I want to hear from you in the comments. Which of these attractive things surprised you the most? I’m really curious, so make sure you tell me.
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