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➡️ Knowing how to pursue women can feel terribly tricky. You want to attract her intensely while also building your confidence… but how do you do this?
How do you pursue without looking desperate or needy? Many Christians wonder how to pursue a woman in a Godly way.
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Stop Chasing Women – Do This Instead To Make Her Yours~
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s article is called stop chasing women, do this instead to make her yours~
And let me just say, this will surprise probably 99% of people who see this.
Have you ever been really attracted to a gal? You wanted her to notice you, she gives you butterflies, and she makes you feel amazing when you’re around her. ❤️
Most importantly, you want her to feel the same way when she’s around you.
But if you’ve ever tried to chase a girl, you know it feels really empty, right? It’s not a good feeling.
Again, you want her to feel excited and be more and more attracted to you. But how do you do that?
How do you make her feel the same way around you that you feel around her?
Most people don’t know the answer to this. They don’t know how to do that. And so they freak out or feel a little needy or desperate, and then they start chasing. 😬
This is never a good idea. Never.
In this article, you’ll discover why you should never chase a woman and what to do instead so you can captivate her and ultimately make her yours.
So if that sounds like something you want to know, stay with me until the end and discover all these powerful secrets.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and the creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to source to learn how to find the adorable love of your life and make her fall incredibly in love with you so you can spend the rest of your life with your sweet woman by your side.
The best part is there are no mind games or tricks here (because they don’t work). ➡️ Only real strategies that get you real success in love.
As we get started, be sure to watch this video on juicy secrets about women you won’t see coming. And this video on 13 places women want to be touched.
They may or may not give you butterflies, so make sure you watch them. They’ll help you so much.
So are you ready to discover why you should stop chasing women and what to do instead to make her yours forever? Let’s dive in!
Wait… Chasing Women Is A Faulty Strategy?
Okay, storytime. We’re going to start with a story.
I was talking to a guy a while ago, and he was asking my opinion on something.
And this is such an interesting conversation because it’s actually pretty common.
He was asking me my opinion about some things and said he felt like men should just kind of hold back, play hard to get and make her beg for his attention a little bit.
Maybe you’ve heard this advice too? 🤔
The reason he thought this is he saw how some of his friends interacted with women.
They got no respect from women because they came across as desperate and needy and begging for her attention.
And this man I was talking with, he thought playing hard to get and acting aloof would fix this.
Again, maybe this is something you’ve heard as well?
Here’s what most people don’t know:
When it comes to this approach to relationships, there’s some truth and a massive amount of nonsense.
👉 Because of this, it’s not an effective strategy at all.
You 100% deserve respect. As a matter of fact, you should never settle for a woman who doesn’t show you respect and want to respect you.
However, playing hard to get, pulling back, and acting aloof will never win you respect. It can’t.
Let me ask you a question. Do you respect a woman who plays hard to get? Do you respect a woman who acts aloof and makes you beg for her attention?
Well, she can’t respect a man who does that either.
Okay, so wait. If you can’t play hard to get, do you have to chase her?
Whenever you chase another person, you put them on a pedestal above you. ❌
This is something I talk to you a lot about in my Academy. People don’t like being put on pedestals. Unless, of course, they’re a toxic person.
Whenever somebody puts you on a level above them, it’s impossible to be attracted to them because they’re acting like they’re less than you. And that’s not attractive.
So when someone chases and puts you up on a pedestal, they come across as needy and desperate because that’s kind of how they’re feeling, and it’s not a good feeling. It’s not attractive to us at all.
This means when you chase a woman, you’re causing her to run away from you.
Unless, of course, she’s a toxic woman. 😬 They like it when you chase them because it fuels their ego.
The Hidden Secret That Attracts Faithful Women
Okay, so now we’ve established that chasing women is out. You should never chase a woman. It doesn’t work.
Acting aloof and playing hard to get is also out. That’s not an option either.
So what do you do now?
How do you nurture attraction, create chemistry, make her want to be with you more, and ultimately set the stage so she can fall in love with you?
There’s a solution that makes you irresistible to women. ✅ It makes you feel confident, sexy, and masculine and makes her see you as that.
This solution makes you ridiculously attractive to women. It makes her feel feminine and safe when she’s with you. No more mind games or playing hard to get. Only real love.
So what’s the solution?
This solution is to pursue her.
When a classy, high-quality man pursues a classy, high-quality woman, it lights her heart on fire~ ❤️
It makes her see you as capable and confident, masculine and strong, and it makes her want to be with you more and more and more.
It’s like one of the men in my Academy shared with me after he had completed my Academy.
He said, “If a woman doesn’t see that I’m confident enough to pursue her, then how in the world would she believe I’d be confident enough to protect her?“
And there’s so much truth in that.
➡️ She wants to see, are you confident enough to be masculine and strong, to be the man she really desires to be with?
Not because she’s testing you or playing mind games with you. She’s just paying attention.
So do you want to melt her heart fast?
Do you want to stand out from all the other guys?
Then you must pursue her correctly. 💡
It’s a game changer for her, and it’s a game changer for you. Because when you truly understand how to do this, it makes you a dream man.
So now the question is how do you pursue a woman? And we’re going to hit the highlights of how to do this.
Pursuing Women Correctly Is Different Than You’ve Been Taught
The truth is so many men are absolutely terrified to pursue a woman.
Maybe that’s you right now?
Maybe you’ve tried to pursue women in the past, and it’s gone terribly wrong.
And, quite frankly, there’s too much confusion. How do you do this? How do you pursue a woman?
Maybe you feel like you’ve fallen flat on your face, and it’s your fault.
I want you to do something for me.
I want you to disown that, okay?
Don’t accept those thoughts about yourself.
It’s not you. It’s not that there’s something wrong with you. 👉 Instead, it’s the bad advice you’ve been given.
Because unfortunately, nearly everyone who teaches you how to pursue teaches you the incorrect way, okay?
So it’s not you. Don’t take that on yourself. It’s the bad advice you’ve been given.
So right now we’re quickly going to discover some of the highlights of how to pursue a woman correctly.
Also, as I share this with you, you could have some concerns about how difficult pursuing women might be.
Don’t worry because I help you become a master at this fast in my Academy. ✅
You’ll discover how to turbocharge your confidence, become irresistible to women, and pursue very successfully.
So to learn more about the strategies I teach, why they work, and how you can join me in my Academy today, click here and watch my free masterclass now.
In this completely free training, you’ll discover more about these strategies and how you can join me.
If you’re sick of trying to figure it out on your own and feeling like you fail over and over and over again, and you’re ready to have the answers up front, that’s what I’m here for.
You don’t have to do this alone anymore, my friend. I got you. You deserve to feel the rush of excitement and confidence as you attract that stunning woman. So make sure you watch my free masterclass today.
How To Pursue Women Correctly – The Important First Step
So let’s go over a quick overview of what it looks like to pursue a woman correctly.
If you’ve ever wondered how to pursue a woman correctly, pay close attention.
Here’s the first thing you must know about pursuing: pursuing is making a woman feel safe while showing her that you’re interested in her. 💡
If you’ve seen some of my videos on body language, like this one, you know some of the most common ways women show they’re interested in you.
As a matter of fact, if you’re aware of what to look for, women will definitely show they’re interested in you. It’s kind of hard not to do.
You must also know how to show her that you’re interested in her.
This is the base, or the foundation, of pursuing a woman. It’s literally just showing her that you’re interested.
➡️ However, you must know how to do this in a way that makes her feel safe and comfortable and not threatened or like you just want something from her.
This is one of the very biggest mistakes. This is probably the most common error I see as a coach.
If you ever start to get to know a gal, and suddenly she’s done, and you have no idea why, this is most likely your problem.
One of the biggest reasons an approach will fail is simply this: she doesn’t feel safe.
Women are different than men. That’s no surprise, right? We all know that.
And so something that would not make you feel uncomfortable at all can make her feel freaked out, unsafe, or uncomfortable. Because it makes her think you want something from her or might hurt her.
That’s not what you mean to do, but she doesn’t know that because she doesn’t know you.
👉 So when you pursue a woman, it’s about showing her that you’re interested in her while making her feel safe.
You must make her feel safe. And that’s something I will explain more about in my free masterclass, so make sure you watch it.
Now That She Feels Safe, Lead The Relationship
The second thing you must know about how to pursue a woman is to guide and move the relationship at a good pace.
A woman who’s classy and not needy or confrontational longs for a man to lead out.
The whole idea of the knight and shining armor, the protective man who takes care of her, will never get old, okay?
Even though some very loud and toxic women act like women don’t want it anymore, they’re actually the exception.
➡️ Most women want that strong, protective man. And when she sees you lead and guide the relationship, holy cow, that’s magical.
She wants to see you as capable, protective, and invested in the relationship.
When you lead out in the relationship and move things along at the right pace, it’s nothing short of sexy~
So what does leading the relationship mean?
This means you’re not rushing things in the relationship. You’re not rushing her.
This also means you protect your heart. You’re not giving your heart away too soon.
At the same time, you’re not moving things too slowly. 💡 If a relationship moves too slowly, it falls apart. So it’s critical to move it at the correct pace.
It also means that you know how to show her that you’re mature about relationships.
That right there is incredibly important to a woman looking for lifelong love.
Stop Chasing Women – Recap
All right, let’s recap what you’ve learned so far about why you should never chase a woman and what to do instead.
First off, chasing a woman makes you feel desperate. It makes you feel needy. And it certainly is very off-putting to her.
No one likes that. It’s very, very uncomfortable.
At the same time, if you act aloof, play hard to get, pull back, and make her beg for your attention, you’re now the person playing the mind game. And that can’t win you any kind of respect.
So what do you do instead? 🤔
How do you attract that beautiful woman?
How do you get her to notice you?
How do you cause attraction and excitement to grow?
You pursue her.
When you understand the correct way to pursue a woman, it makes you feel more confident, masculine, and sexy and helps her see you as that.
There are two big things to learn about how to pursue a woman.
Number one is to recognize that pursuing her is simply showing your interest in her in a way that makes her feel safe.
When you truly understand how to do that, oh my goodness, you’ll be astonished at the results! 🔥
The second thing you must understand about pursuing is that it involves guiding the relationship and moving it along at a good pace.
Again, this helps the relationship develop naturally, helps attraction skyrocket, and brings you closer as a couple.
Chasing will never do that for you. And playing hard to get never will as well.
This is why pursuing a woman correctly is the ultimate solution, both for you and her.
Your Next Steps To Find Your Faithful Dream Girl
So at this point, you might feel a bit overwhelmed.
You really don’t wanna mess this up, right?
You don’t wanna put yourself out there only to be crushed.
I totally get that. Don’t worry, I’ve got you!
This is why I lay it all out for you in my Academy. So you have all the answers up front and can quickly master charming women like you’ve never dreamed of.
So let me help you, so you can finally be successful in love. ❤️
You’ll discover the most powerful and effective ways to pursue a woman and make her fall so in love with you that she never leaves your side.
If you’re looking for a forever kind of love, these secrets are your answer.
So again, click here now, watch my free masterclass, and get started today.
Thank you so much for joining me, my amazing friend! I wanna hear from you in the comments.
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