17 Juicy Secrets Women Are Scared To Tell You!😅 (How To Impress Women And Melt Her Heart!)
Understanding women can feel impossible. However, a little insight to female psychology will both shock and excite you!
Once you know what women find attractive in a man, what women REALLY want, and how to impress women easily, relationships become easy and ridiculously enjoyable. ❤️
So if you’re tired of feeling confused and frustrated about love, you’re in the right place!
⚡ These shocking secrets will help you understand on a deep level what attracts women as you discover some of the powerful things men do that make women MELT~
Let’s get started with these juicy secrets women are scared to tell you (how to impress women and melt her heart)! 💋
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17 Juicy Secrets Women Are Scared To Tell You!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Let’s talk about 17 juicy secrets women are scared to tell you~ 😏
We’re covering everything from how to impress women and melt their hearts.
Tell me this. Has there ever been something you’ve been afraid to tell a woman?
Maybe it’s something that’s made you feel vulnerable, or you’ve been afraid she’ll reject you, or something like that?
If you’re nodding your head yes right now, you’re not alone. And the truth is women have been there too. It’s part of being human.
Relationships can feel terribly vulnerable. However, I’ve discovered that clearing the air and putting all your cards on the table, so to speak, is the very best approach.
➡️ A little communication goes a long way, so I’m here to pull back the curtain and reveal 17 juicy secrets women are scared to tell you.
These are deep secrets, and along the way, I’ll give you some powerful insight into how to impress women like a pro.
This sounds like something you should know, right? So make sure you stay with me until the end, so you don’t miss any of these powerful secrets.
Before we get to that, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and the creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to source to learn how to find the love of your life, captivate her, melt her heart, and make her fall incredibly in love with you, so you can wake up to her soft touch every morning. ❤️
All right, are you ready for these secrets? Do you want to know how to impress her and melt her heart?
Let’s get started with my first secret~
17 Juicy Secrets Women Are Scared To Tell You #1 – She Thinks About You
Secret number one is that when a woman has feelings for you, she thinks about you a lot, okay?
When you’re crushing on a girl, you think about her a lot, right? And maybe you get a little nervous she doesn’t do the same.
Yeah, when a woman is interested in you, she thinks about you a lot. 💡
#2 – She’s Afraid Of Rejection Too
Secret number two is that she’s terrified of rejection as well. Like, terrified.
The honest reality is the girl of your dreams has been rejected, okay? She has. Women get rejected just like men do.
And so she has this fear that it’s gonna happen again.
That can mess with her head when she’s trying to show interest in you.
Now, a little bonus secret for you.
👉 One of the easiest mistakes that make her feel rejected the fastest is when she shows interest in you, and you don’t respond.
That’s like a slap in her face.
She puts herself out there to show she’s interested in you. And then if you don’t respond, it really crushes her.
This is why in my Academy, I show you both how to know that she’s interested in you and then what to do. So now, attraction can grow and grow and blossom into love.
So remember, when you’re meeting someone new and chatting with that cute gal, she’s as scared of rejection as you are.
#3 – She’s Scared You Won’t Like The Real Her
Secret number three is that she wants you to think she’s beautiful without her feeling fake in how she presents herself.
There’s so much pressure in society for women to do things that make them look beautiful.
And the truth is most of it’s a giant waste of money, 😬 but she feels that pressure because she wants you to think she’s beautiful.
And nothing is quite as calming and reassuring as when a man tells her she looks beautiful without makeup, or if her hair isn’t “perfect,” etc.
She really does want you to love the real authentic her.
And when you tell her she’s beautiful even when she’s not all done up like society tells her she needs to be, holy cow, that right there is the perfect recipe to melt her heart.
#4 – Want To Charm Women? You Must Pursue Them
Secret number four is that she needs you to pursue her.
And yes, I said “needs,” not just “wants.” ⬅️
Pursuing a woman correctly and effectively is one of the single most powerful attraction strategies a man can learn.
Pursuing a woman makes her feel alive and drawn to you and feminine and beautiful.
And it makes her love how she feels when she’s around you.
Many men feel terrified to pursue. And it’s simply because you haven’t been taught the correct way, the most effective way.
And that’s not your fault. It’s not your fault that nobody taught you how to pursue women correctly.
Pursuing the correct way is actually very easy. ✅ It doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It shouldn’t be overwhelming.
Pursing women makes you feel strong, confident, and more masculine. So it really benefits both of you.
This is one of the reasons why I spend so much time teaching you how to pursue correctly in my Academy. It’s something you must learn.
So don’t forget a woman needs you to pursue her.
Just like you have your needs in a relationship, she has needs too. And one of them is for you to pursue.
#5 – She Wants You To Be The Man She’s Been Dreaming About
Secret number five is that she wants you to be the one for her. And she really hopes that you will be.
Sometimes in dating and relationships, we still treat it like boys against girls. Like we’re against each other and have to fight to make it work.
And that’s the perfect recipe for disaster in a relationship. ❌ Happy relationships don’t work that way.
At the end of the day, we all want the same thing.
We all want it to work out. We all want love. We all want to be respected and cared about.
We want our search to be over, right?
So she wants you to be the one, just as much as you do.
The key is to learn how to show her that you’re the man of her dreams, the man she wants to spend her life with.
You must know how to make her fall deeply in love with you.
This is what makes her want to spend her whole life adoring you.
It’s the ultimate secret to a happy relationship and keeping that spark alive forever. ⚡
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17 Juicy Secrets Women Are Scared To Tell You #6 – She Cares What You Think
My next juicy secret about women is that she really cares what you think about her.
Do you ever get nervous and overthink when thinking about a cute girl or talking to her?
Pretty much everyone has been there, including her.
It’s just as easy for her to get anxious, nervous, and start overthinking because she really cares what you think about her.
If you’ve ever felt that it doesn’t matter to women, it does. 💡 She’s just trying to play it cool because she’s trying to embarrass herself as little as possible.
#7 – Women Get Nervous Too
This leads us to my next secret, which is that she gets nervous when she talks to you.
This might make her stumble on her words or say something random that doesn’t make sense. Or maybe even something a little bit stupid.
That’s normal when you’re nervous and can’t think straight because you’re not breathing.
This is why it’s important not to be too hard on either of you. You’re both nervous, and that’s okay.
➡️ It’s also incredibly helpful to brush up on your conversation skills so that conversations can be very relaxed, easy, and exciting for both of you.
#8 – Yes, Women Tell Their Friends Too
My next juicy secret about women is that she tells her friends about you.
Yes, there’s a chance that they might actually be sick of hearing about you, to be perfectly honest. 🤭
This is something women do. We’re already thinking about you, and we wanna talk about you because it makes us happy and excited.
And so, yeah, she’s telling her friends all about you. Your conversations, what you do when she sees you, etc.
If she likes you, her friends know all about you.
#9 – She Checks You Out On Social Media
My next juicy secret about women is that she’s looking at your pictures online, okay? She just is.
Facebook stalking used to be a thing, or everybody teased about Facebook stalking.
The truth is it has expanded far past Facebook at this point. It could be Snapchat, Instagram, or wherever you hang out.
This is one of the first things a girl wants to do when meeting a new cute guy. She wants to find you on social media and look through your pictures.
And she may or may not screenshot or save her favorite ones. Maybe. I’m not promising, but most likely. 😀
#10 – Both Of Your Needs Must Be Met
The next juicy secret about women is that the reason a woman will end a relationship is when her needs are not being met.
One of the biggest questions I hear as a coach is, “What went wrong, Melannie? I thought everything was going great. And then it crumbled, and she broke it off, and I have no idea why.“
This secret is why. So now, let’s get clear on the why.
Assuming she’s not a toxic woman, the reason she’d break it off is that she doesn’t feel her needs are being met in the relationship.
A relationship always needs your needs and her needs to be met. That’s just common sense.
The truth is if her needs aren’t being met, she should break it off. 👉 And you should do the same if you’re ever in a relationship like that.
However, it might feel random to you, but it’s not. It’s simply that her needs aren’t being met, and she decides it’s time to stop this for both your sakes.
This is why as a Christian female coach, I guide you through how women think, what they want, and what they need in a relationship.
Those powerful secrets are part of how you captivate her, melt her heart, and make her want to spend her life with you because she’s crazy in love with you.
That’s what I guide you through in detail in my Academy. And you’ll learn more about this when you watch my free training. So again, click here now and get started.
The beautiful thing is when you understand how to fill her needs and how to attract the right kind of woman for you, both of your needs are met.
That’s what makes a relationship exciting, loving, happy, and the best experience you can have in this life; when both of your needs are being met. ❤️
That’s the kind of relationship everyone longs for. And it’s very possible, you just need to know how to create that.
You’ve got to learn how to attract that kind of woman. And that’s, again, what I guide you through.
#11 – Being Gentle Is The Key To Winning Women’s Hearts
Okay, this secret might surprise a few people.
This secret is that she wants you to be incredibly gentle.
A gentle man quickly becomes a woman’s hero. That’s how you impress a woman and melt her heart.
There are two ways to look at this. 👇
There’s a gentleman, as in someone chivalrous. Woah, that’s super hot. And then there’s a gentle man.
And the truth is they pretty much go hand in hand. If you’re a gentle man, then you’re usually a gentleman as well.
At the end of the day, a tender, feminine, loving, loyal woman is looking for a man who’ll be a good husband and father to their children.
That’s what she’s looking for.
And a gentle, kind, supportive man is the kind of man her heart is safe with.
She wants someone she can laugh and cry with, someone she can create beautiful memories with and look forward to spending every day with. 💡
That kind of man is a gentleman.
#12 – Women Do Not Like Rejecting You
Okay, my next secret is that women actually hate to turn men down.
They hate having to say no to a date or reject you in any way. Like, they absolutely hate it.
Now, of course, there’s always the exception. If she’s a toxic woman, well, toxic women get a thrill out of rejecting you.
But high-class women hate it. It’s one of the hardest things ever.
She doesn’t wanna make you feel bad or want you to think it’s something personal. 😬
She hates confrontation, okay? That’s just a good general rule to understand about women. They hate confrontation. She would rather avoid the whole situation.
This is one reason she’ll be so careful when first getting to know you, especially why she might move a little slower or act a little standoffish at first, is she’s trying to figure out if this will work.
And this is also why when you discover the strategies that help you show her you’re the man of her dreams, you’re light years ahead of your competition.
Because again, she wants you to be that man. She just doesn’t wanna act too soon and then have to reject you. She’d rather avoid that.
#13 – Saving Face Is Better Than Embarrassment
Okay, my next secret has to do with one of the biggest things I hear as a coach. So pay close attention.
Are you with me?
➡️ This secret is that women will often say they’re in a relationship when they’re afraid to turn you down.
Meaning she won’t be in a relationship, but she’ll say she is because she’s afraid to turn you down.
Now I wanna be clear.
Toxic women will be in a relationship and lead you on just so they can have the pleasure of crushing you.
That’s the sad reality. It’s not appropriate, but sadly, that’s what toxic women do. ❌
And by the way, if you have no idea what toxic women are, make sure you watch this video.
But I’m not talking about toxic women right now, okay?
Many women, because they’re afraid of confrontation or something happened when talking to you that scared her and made her feel unsafe, they’ll say they’re in a relationship.
One of the most common scenarios I hear repeatedly is, “Melannie, I saw signs she liked me and started talking to her. It was going super great, and then suddenly she says she’s in a relationship with someone.“
When this happens, it’s almost always a sign that something happened to make her feel unsafe.
And she may not actually be in a relationship, but she’s now scared of you. So she’s just trying to save face and get away from the situation.
That’s not where you want to be. At all.
This is why discovering the strategies that make her feel incredibly safe with you and drawn to you is so life-changing. It’s something you must know. 💥
If this situation happens to you a lot, I can almost guarantee this is your problem.
And thankfully, this is something I teach you more about in my free masterclass, so make sure you watch it now.
#14 – Happy Relationships Are Founded On Loyalty
My next secret is that she needs you to be loyal.
This is, again, a need. And it makes sense, right? If you’re going to be in a relationship with someone, you need to know they’re there for you.
There’s nothing more excruciating than trusting someone and giving your heart to them and believing you matter to them only to find out you don’t.
It’s terrible to offer someone your love or give them your love and have them walk away from it. 💔
You can only have a tender, loving relationship when there’s loyalty and trust.
Far too many people say the bad boy is the only guy who can get women’s attention.
And let me just say, he might get her attention, but he will not get her respect. Unless she’s toxic, and then it’s not about respect for her, okay?
A really good woman, a loyal woman, a tender woman, the kind of woman looking for a lifelong partner, she has no interest in a bad boy, okay?
Frankly, she has too much self-respect for that. And one of the reasons why is bad boys aren’t loyal.
👉 She’s looking for a man who’ll only look at her, whose eyes don’t wander.
She’s looking for a man with inner integrity because that man will be true to her, and he’ll love her forever, which is what she wants because she wants to love you forever.
Moral integrity is what she wants and needs in the relationship.
#15 – Physical Attraction Alone Doesn’t Attract High-Class Women
This leads us to our next juicy secret. And this is that a woman can look at a man, think he is insanely attractive, and not want to get to know him better.
Let me explain.
A woman can think a man is physically attractive, but if she doesn’t see the qualities she’s looking for in a husband, it doesn’t matter. It’s almost as if he’s not attractive anymore.
Far too many people obsess about physical attraction.
➡️ And physical attraction is important. Not to mention really fun. It’s definitely something she wants and needs in a partner.
However, if all she sees is physical attraction, but she doesn’t see the traits she’s looking for in a husband, it doesn’t matter to her.
She can walk away and continue searching for her dream man.
This is why knowing what makes a woman fall in love, which includes physical attraction, but is even more, is so critical.
And this is part of the secrets I share with you in my free masterclass.
I know I’m bringing that up a lot today, but the truth is, it expands on everything I’m sharing with you. So make sure you watch it.
#16 – She’s Human Too
My next juicy secret about women is that she has baggage too.
What do I mean by that?
I mean we’ve all been hurt, right? We all have limiting beliefs. We’ve all got things we feel self-conscious about. We’ve all been rejected before.
And so every person has baggage that we’re carrying around.
So it’s important to remember to be patient with each other in relationships. ✅
Sometimes we feel like we’re the only ones who have any baggage. Nope, every person on planet earth has some.
And so that may come up as you’re developing a relationship with each other. Just be aware that’ll probably happen because everybody has baggage.
Again, this is why being a gentle man really does melt her heart and helps her see you’re the man she wants to be with. Just like you’re looking for a tender, sensitive, gentle woman.
#17 – Know What Her Needs Are And Fulfill Them
This leads us to our next juicy secret, which is that her needs must be met in the relationship.
And I know this is something we touched on in a previous secret, but it’s so important it needs to be talked about again.
Just like you have needs that must be met, she does too. 💡
That’s again why it’s so powerful when you discover what it is she needs and wants in her dream man.
And when you understand how to fulfill those needs, that’s how you can finally be successful in love.
So if you’re sitting there right now thinking, “Why am I never successful with love? Why do my relationships not go where I want them to?” this is something you must master.
And it’s very simple to master. It doesn’t have to be complicated. It shouldn’t be complicated. 🚀
17 Juicy Secrets Women Are Scared To Tell You – Your Next Steps
So with that said, I have a question for you.
Are you sick of wasting your time on relationships that go nowhere?
Are you ready to finally find your tender, beautiful woman that you can come home to every night?
No more coming home to an empty house and getting your hopes up only to have them destroyed.
Instead, you have your beautiful, feminine woman to hold close forever who loves the real you and treats you right.
If that’s you, if you’re nodding your head yes right now, then my Academy is exactly for you.
👉 This is what I guide you through and help you master fast. The best part is I make it so easy and so simple.
The truth is you can keep trying to figure relationships out on your own. But there’s a lot of room for error.
Or you can let me show you how to do it right.
You can keep guessing what’ll work, or let me teach it to you all up front.
But you don’t have to guess anymore. You can learn how to become successful in love and relationships.
You’ll learn about these life-changing strategies and how you can join me in my Academy.
I want you to know that you deserve love.
You deserve a gorgeous, tender, feminine woman.
➡️ And you deserve to get it right the first time instead of getting your hopes up only to have them crushed.
And I’m here to help you do it, so make sure you watch that free masterclass.
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