11 Weird Things Men Do That Women Find Attractive! 😍 (You won’t believe the last one!) The psychology of attraction may sound like a tough case to crack. However, what attracts women to men in reality will surprise you!
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11 Weird Things Men Do That Women Find Attractive! (Transcript)
11 weird things men do that women find attractive. And let me just say, you are not going to believe the last one.
Men and women are different. We all know that, right? And when we take the time to get to understand each other a little bit better, that’s what makes dating and relationships so much more exciting and interesting and simple.
And the truth is there are a lot of things that you do as a man that are ridiculously attractive to women that you don’t even know about. And that’s one of the benefits of having a female coach, is I am here to tell you these insiders secrets that I really feel like you deserve to know.
So are you ready to be in on these secrets? Make sure you stay with me until the end of the video.
I say let’s just get started. Let’s just dive in with the first weird thing men do that women find very, very attractive. You ready?
11 Weird Things Men Do That Women Find Attractive #1
Number one is when you cry. Now I know what you’re thinking. Just hear me out for just a second.
Have you ever noticed that in, like, chick flicks, things that are geared towards a female audience, that sometimes they will have, like, a scene or something where the man is crying? There’s a reason they do that, and that’s because it just, like, melts her heart and it just makes her go, “aww,” and she like wants to kiss it all better and make it all better.
Here’s the thing. Women are natural nurturers. We just are. That’s just how we work. And just like you wanna take care of her in certain ways, she wants to take care of you in certain ways.
And so when she sees you feeling those strong emotions or feeling a certain way, you know, she wants to make it all better and she thinks it’s adorable.
In addition to that, as humans, when we’re looking for a lifelong relationship, we want someone we can be open with and who can be open with us. We want someone who has a real soul and who feels things deeply just like we do. And so when she sees that in you, it’s really, really attractive.
Now obviously that doesn’t mean you just go around crying all the time. That’s really not healthy and certainly not attractive. But when you get to a point where you know someone well enough, and if something happens and you feel like crying, let it out, boy, because it’s actually really adorable.
Okay, the second weird thing men do that women find attractive is when you’re a little bit shy and nervous.
We all have those moments, right? Where we feel shy and where we feel nervous. And we kind of tend to beat ourselves up about this sometimes. This is something I teach in my Academy. Just embrace it, okay? At some point we’re all going to feel shy, we’re all going to feel nervous, and it’s often just best to embrace it.
And the truth is, when you do that, one, whew it becomes a lot less awkward, a lot less pressure. And two, It’s really cute because she’s feeling shy, she’s feeling nervous, and when she knows you’re feeling that way too, she knows it’s because you’re attracted to her because you like her, and that makes it even more endearing.
So don’t beat yourself up if sometimes you feel shy and nervous. Instead, you may just wanna embrace it because it’s ridiculously cute.
By the way, my name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
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All right, are you ready for the next weird thing that women find very attractive? The third one is when you run your fingers through your hair. Like, if you’re just thinking or whatever reason it is, when you run your fingers through your hair, I can’t really explain why that’s hot, but it’s, it really is. It’s a very, very attractive thing.
Maybe it’s partially cuz it shows off your arm at the same time. I don’t know, just trust me on this. So if you feel the urge to run your fingers through your hair when you’re around her, go for it. It’s not a bad call. I mean, don’t overdo it or it might, you know, look a little obvious and weird, but, definitely, definitely an attractive thing.
And just because I know I’m gonna get questions about this, what if you are bald? What if you don’t have any hair? That’s okay. There are tons, like, yes, you can definitely be attractive and still be bald, so don’t worry about that. That is not a game changer. However, if you do have hair and wanna run your fingers through it, go for it.
Okay, the next weird thing that girls find very attractive is when you have like a crooked smile. Or really anything about you that’s just a little bit different, that stands out.
We all have things about ourselves that we kind of notice and maybe we think makes us really unattractive. If you’ve ever felt that way, welcome to Planet Earth. Everybody feels that way too, okay? So you’re totally normal.
And the truth is often the things we are the most self-conscious about, other people find ridiculously cute and endearing and adorable. It’s what makes you, you.
Something I teach in my Academy is how to just rock what you’ve got. And that’s really the secret to life, is to just celebrate what makes you, you.
So if you have something that is a little unique or a little original or a little different, just celebrate it and embrace it and realize that she could be thinking it is ridiculously attractive without you even knowing it.
Now, with that in mind, you might actually be thinking, “okay, Melannie, so then, if I should just rock what I’ve got and if I should just celebrate who I am, why am I having such a hard time finding the relationship I want?”
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Now, the next weird thing men do that makes, that’s just really cute to women, is when you blush. Have you ever been around a girl when she blushes and it’s just like adorable? Well, that’s kind of how she feels when you blush too.
There’s some lies going around, and honestly, I am really irritated with the people who keep spreading these lies, that, “oh, women only want men who are super cold and who have no emotion and who are always dominant.” And all that’s just nonsense, okay? It’s just complete nonsense.
Toxic women want that because toxic women want a robot who makes them feel good. That’s all I’m going to say. I’m not gonna get on my soapbox right now. But you are being told a lot about how women just want guys who have no feelings and who are robots. It is not true at all.
A woman who is tender, who is feminine, who is loving, who is nerdy just like you, who has weaknesses just like you, who sometimes feel shy and nervous and vulnerable just like you wants a man who does that as well.
That’s the man she wants to be her husband, the man she wants to be the father of her children. So, and by the way, if you have no idea what I’m talking about with toxic women, watch this video. It’s a lifesaver.
Now, when you are vulnerable in a way like where you blush, or like I was saying earlier, when you cry or when you get shy and nervous, that just shows you’re human.
And it shows that you have feelings and that, you know, you’re attracted to her and you think she’s cute, and that just, that’s a really fast recipe to just melt her heart and make her even more attracted to you. So if you feel a little bit of blush going on, you know, it’s not the end of the world.
The next weird thing that women find attractive, this one really does sound weird when you say it out loud, is when you’re a little bit dirty because you’ve been working hard. So, for instance, if you have been doing some yard work and you’re kind of sweaty and dirty, or maybe if you’ve been working on a car or something like that, it’s ridiculously attractive, and I kind of can’t even completely explain why. It’s just like this gut thing.
Part of it is also because it shows that you are a hard worker and you’re capable and you’re dedicated. Just like it’s probably not very interesting or attractive to you when a woman does nothing. Pretty boring and uninteresting, right?
However, if she has some drives, some ambition, some interest, some hobbies, some things she’s good at, that makes her a so much more interesting person to be around, right? Well, the same is true for her.
When she sees that you’re hardworking and masculine and dedicated, it’s very, very attractive to her. So, you know, if you happen to be doing something where you’ve been working hard and she sees you or whatever, you don’t necessarily need to be embarrassed by it. She might be saying, “holy cow, he’s so hot.”
And, I don’t know, maybe I’ll just throw this in as a little pro tip. Let’s say you’ve been working hard, you know, maybe like take a picture and send it to her with some excuse or something. If you haven’t seen this video on texting, I talk a little bit more about that there. But don’t be afraid to use those situations when they come up because it can be very attractive.
And this leads us right into the next weird thing, and that is when you have calloused hands. A woman wants a man who is strong, who is capable, who’s a hard worker.
Again, people who do nothing all day are really boring people. But instead, when she sees that you’re dedicated and a hard good worker, that’s very attractive. That’s certainly going to make you a better husband and father. And so you don’t need to be embarrassed if your hands are callous or something. The truth is, that’s a very, very attractive trait.
Okay, so the next weird thing surprises everyone. The next weird thing that women find very attractive is when you have gray hair. There are a lot of men who start to get really self-conscious when you get some gray hair, whether it’s just like a little bit on the edges or whatever, or if it’s like all gray.
The truth is there are a lot of women who are legitimately attracted to a man with gray hair. So if you’ve been worried that maybe you have to get touchups and get it covered up, you may just wanna embrace it and just celebrate. Again, rock what you’ve got, be who you are, because there are many women who find that very attractive.
And while we’re on this topic, I’m actually going to answer a question I get a lot. I have so many men ask me, “does what you teach work for men who are older as well?” And the truth is an absolute resounding yes.
I purposefully designed it that way, so much so that at least half the men who are in my Academy, there are hundreds of men in my Academy at this point, and at least half of them are over 50, well over 50, and their results have been amazing.
Once you have the right secrets and the right keys, which I lay out for you in a very easy to understand way, you can get results ridiculously fast. So yes, everything I teach works ridiculously well for men who are older as well. That includes clothes, that includes hairstyles. All of these things have been carefully designed to make you the most attractive version of yourself.
So even if some of what I teach, you’re like, “I don’t know about that,” don’t worry. This is what I’m good at. It works.
The next weird thing men do that women find attractive is when you open up to her and when you are vulnerable. We already touched on this a little bit, like with blushing or maybe crying in front of her, being shy and nervous. It also can go deeper than that though where you just open up and you share your thoughts, you share your dreams, you share things about your past or about how you feel.
Opening up to someone like that truly helps us fall in love with the real them. And in a marriage relationship, a lifelong, a forever love situation, you want two people who can open up to each other like that, who can share things.
And when she sees you’re willing to do that, that helps her see your soul. It helps her see who you are as a person. And again, a non-toxic woman, someone who’s tender, who’s loving, who’s authentic, she wants a man who’s tender and loving and authentic as well.
And so she doesn’t want this, you know, caveman who has no emotion. Again, that’s what toxic women want. Someone who’s real and authentic and sincere, she wants you to be as well. So opening up to her like that is ridiculously adorable, very attractive.
Now you probably want to wait to open up too much until you know each other really well, you’re like in a serious relationship. Don’t pour your guts out to somebody you just met. That makes people feel awkward. But instead as that trust builds, absolutely, it’s very attractive to open up to her.
Okay, the next weird thing men do that women find attractive is when you do home stuff like cleaning or cooking or doing the dishes. These things are attractive for so many reasons.
It, again, shows that you’re capable. It also shows that you are a team player, it shows that you are concerned, it shows that you are willing to be supportive and help. And there’s just something really attractive about a guy who knows how to do those things. For instance, maybe cooking her a meal or something.
That doesn’t mean you have to clean everything and cook everything. That would be out of balance. Maybe not the best idea.
However, the fact that you’re willing to and that you’re able to is very, very attractive. Anytime we can be proactive about quality of life, it’s a very attractive thing.
Okay, the next weird thing men do that women find very attractive, this one really is going to surprise a lot of people, is when you like romantic things too. For instance, liking chick flicks. It’s really cute when a guy likes chick flick as well, when you like cliche, romantic moments.
A lot of guys can feel embarrassed about that and feel like maybe that’s super cheesy or maybe that’s not a masculine thing to do. Okay, throw that trash out the window, okay? Romance and those cute moments are really adorable.
Now, that doesn’t mean you have to enjoy chick flicks. However, allowing yourself to embrace liking romantic things and express that to her and celebrate that and share that with her, that’s ridiculously attractive.
That helps keep the spark alive in a relationship forever and helps make the relationship exciting and fun and very, very loving. So never feel like you have to hide that sight of you or like there’s something weird with you. No, that’s a cute, adorable thing that women find very attractive.
11 Weird Things Men Do That Women Find Attractive – Your Next Steps
Speaking of romance, are you wondering how you’re going to find a non-toxic woman, the kind of woman who is going to celebrate these things about you, who’s going to be completely twitter-pated and wants to just adore you forever? Are you wondering how to do that?
The truth is, I’m the perfect person to teach you. To help you master finding the love of your life and making her fall so passionately in love with you that you get to wake up with her by your side forever.
I help men do this 24-7. That is exactly what I designed my Academy to train you how to do. Now, you’ll learn more about that as well as those three secrets I mentioned earlier in my free masterclass. Just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass to watch this free training now. It’s truly the best thing you can do to set yourself up for success in love. Check it out now, and I’ll see you over there.
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