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How To Know If You Should Ask A Girl Out!
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This is how to know if you should ask a cute girl out in four simple steps. In this video, you’ll discover some of the best ways to avoid rejection or an awkward situation. And we’ll talk a little bit about how to make sure you find the girl of your dreams. The fact is we marry who we date. So if you want to find her, you need to make sure you get this right.
And don’t worry, I’ll walk you through it. So it’s super simple. So make sure you stay with me until the end of this video. So should we just dive in first step for how to know if you should ask a girl out? Let’s do it.
Step #1
Step number one might sound a little obvious at first, but hear me out. Step number one is to ask yourself if you.
Don’t even really want to take her out. And the reason I mentioned this is there can be a lot of pressure, especially in the Christian community to just hurry up and get married or hurry up and end date someone. Especially if you’re getting to that point where your relatives are starting to say, Oh, maybe you’re too picky.
Don’t listen to those people. Really, really don’t. I’m an authority, okay? Don’t listen to them. Unless you want to just be a couch potato and expect her to be like the queen of England or something, they don’t know what they’re talking about. You don’t have unrealistic expectations. In addition to that, it can be really easy when we meet someone cute to just automatically, yes, I want to go out with them.
However, if you just kind of take a little bit of a deep breath and pay a little bit of attention. Make sure you actually do want to go out with her. This can save you a lot of embarrassment later on.
P.S. Before we get to the next one, make sure you subscribe and ring the notification bell. My name is Melanie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and your go to source for authentic strategies that lead to magical, exciting, authentic love.
Step #2
And this leads us to step number two. So the second step to know if you should ask a girl out is try to get to know her a little bit first, if you can. Now, I’m I totally understand that sometimes we’re in a situation where we may never see this person ever again, right? You’re standing in line at the grocery store or something like that.
And you may never get the opportunity to talk to her again, unless you like get her number right now. And that’s totally okay. If you are in that kind of a situation, generally speaking, though, if you can get to know her, even just a little bit. first and talk to her just a little bit first. This greatly increases your success rate and helps you avoid that rejection.
The truth is there are some girls who are totally okay giving a random guy their number. However, there are a lot of girls who are not. Even if they’re attracted to you, even if they really think they probably would enjoy getting to know you better. One of a woman’s primary concerns is making sure she’s safe.
And in today’s world, a girl’s got to be careful. And so the high value women, the women who actually respect themselves and are looking for love instead of flings, those kinds of women are going to be. more careful than other kinds of women. So one way to help her know that she’s safe with you, that you’re not some weirdo, that you’re not looking for a fling is just to take a minute to chat with her a little bit first.
And not only is this going to put her fears to rest, but it’s also going to help, you know, if you actually want to go out with her, sometimes we think somebody’s super hot and then we start talking to him when we go, nevermind. And so rather than having, you know, kind of committing to a date before you get to that point, it’s a good idea to just kind of chat with her.
And even if you are in a situation where maybe you’ll never see this girl again, it’s incredibly helpful to have some of that small talk and interact with her a little bit first. This is something in my academy. I teach my clients how to create that atmosphere where you can. Easily have that conversation with her, even if you’re just standing in line at a restaurant waiting for your food.
And as you do that, it helps both of you and makes the date a whole, whole lot better if you do go on a date.
Have you ever been in that horribly, horribly, horribly, horribly, horribly awkward situation where you pick her up, you get in the car, you start driving and you go, I don’t know what to say, and then you like start sweating as a bad situation to be in and having just a little bit of conversation before this.
We’ll help you know some of the things you have in common and have something to build a conversation off of. So it’s really a win win situation.
Popular Dating Tactics Are Fundamentally Flawed
Okay, so can I go off on a rant for just a minute? Just a tiny, tiny little second. I will keep it a very calm rant. If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I don’t rant.
That’s not what I do. But I’m a little upset, upset lately. As a matter of fact, part of me is, is really tempted to just quit YouTube altogether because there are so many channels right now that are absolute filth that are telling you all kinds of lies about what girls want. And they’re not remotely true.
That’s what toxic girls want. That’s what women who want flings want. It is not what the majority, what good women. And I’m going to be talking about how to make sure that you are looking for in a man and what they want in a relationship. And this really takes me off because those channels have very inappropriate thumbnails and topics.
And because they have this, they get a lot more clicks. And so channels like mine that are just good and decent and wholesome get completely lost in the shuffle. And that’s why there’s a part of me. I’m honest. I’m being completely honest with you. I am almost ready to quit YouTube because I’m sick of the game, the YouTube game.
With that being said. You deserve to know the truth about what women want because if you’re taking in all those lies, even if you just see the little thumbnails, like the little thumbnails themselves are lies. And I understand why as a man you can be completely discouraged and you can feel defeated and you can do what these people are telling you to do and still not have that love.
You can toss around in bed and have no idea why you don’t have a wife there. with you. Is that kind of what you’re feeling right now? That longing for love and having no idea why it’s not working? It’s time for you, my friends, to learn what authentic, loyal women are looking for in a man and a relationship.
And by the way, it’s nowhere near as exhausting and time consuming as what the toxic girls are telling you. Okay? It’s much more simple. This is one of the main reasons why I wanted to become a coach. There are men in my academy who have literally gone from having Very little hope to ever having a relationship to pretty quickly turning it around and marrying the love of their life.
That’s the power of understanding what loyal, authentic women want. So my question for you is, would you like to know that too? Are you done with the lies? Are you done with the fake? Are you done with the toxic and ready for that love that you’ve always wanted to pull her close, look into her sparkling eyes and know that she loves you.
If you haven’t figured it out on your own yet, you’re not going to, because society is not teaching you what you need to know. That’s why I’ve gone to the work for you and made it incredibly easy. That’s what my Academy is all about. And you can join now for $53. This is a limited time option, so make sure you.
Act on it now, but you can join now for $53 to learn more about these strategies, to learn more about what those loyal women want. Go toΒ CoachMelannie.com/MasterclassΒ in this free training. I’ll reveal to you secrets. Most men will never know. And nobody else is telling you. Even though it’s what works.
I will put a link in the pinned comment and a link in the description below. Again, CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. Okay. I just really had to tell you that because it’s really taking me off what other people are doing. Rant over. I can breathe now. Seriously, stop listening to them.
Step #3
Okay, step number three for how to know if you should ask a girl out.
You just, we just talked about taking a minute to kind of get to know her. If you can, step number three is to look for the body language signs of interest. I get questions about this all the time. Is it a mind game? If she is, if she’s making me read her body language of the truth, she’s not making you read her body language.
It’s a tool that you get to use as humans. We don’t, we don’t completely have control over our bodies. And so when we feel something or we’re thinking something, you’re going to see it in our bodies, even if we’re trying really hard, you know, to hide it or to not be super obvious because we’re shy or whatever.
And so if you know what those signs are, yeah, you’ll know, she wants you to ask her out. You’ll know that she’s attracted to you and that, you know. She wants to see you more. Imagine how much more confident you would feel if you already knew she was attracted to you. That makes the approach a million times easier, right?
This takes the fear of rejection and like takes it down to almost nothing because you already know that that attraction is there. I have made Literally probably dozens of videos on this topic at this point. So if you haven’t yet seenΒ this video, it’s a really good one. I’ll put a link in the description below.
It’s a great place to get you started on knowing some of the signs she wants you to ask her out. With that being said, I’m going to share two of those signs with you right now. Sound good? Two of the most common signs a girl wants you to ask her out is. One is that she will mention that she’s single. Now you, you obviously don’t want a girl who like Uber does that, but I’m single.
You know, it’s just awkward. Oh, I’m single. Did I mention I’m single? I don’t have a boyfriend yet. I’m single. You don’t want that, obviously. However, if she, if she wants you to ask her out, she wants you to know that she’s a, she’s single, she’s available. You can do that. And so if she mentions, Oh, I don’t have a boyfriend or, Oh yeah, I’m single right now.
So, or something like that. Yeah. That is a cue. That is, Hey, I’m single. So if you’re single too, you know, we could like, we could do something together. The second most common sign that she wants you to ask her out is if she says something like, Hey, we should do that together sometime. We being the most important word here.
If she’s saying we, it indicates I would enjoy doing that with you. A woman’s feminine energy craves a man’s masculine energy. It’s really attractive. And so her feminine energy, her feminine way of pursuing you is to make it as easy as possible for you to pursue her in a masculine way, which is why if she says something like, Hey, we should do that together, that’s like, Hey, we Take that masculine energy and ask me out, boy, because I will say yes.
Quick question before we get to the next step. Would you like more videos, maybe on approaching and things like that? Or maybe how to talk to girls? If you would, comment approaching or. talking, whatever whichever you would like or both. I’m good with both. Your feedback really helps me. So thank you so much.
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Step #4
Okay. The next step for how to know if you should ask a girl out is at this point, you’ve talked to her a little bit, if you can, this is obviously easier if you. You know, spent, have an opportunity to spend more time with each other. You have also looked for those signs of interest and you have found them.
So the next thing is just pay attention for the signs that she’s a toxic girl. You want to talk about awkward. One of the most awkward things is when you are interested in someone, you start to get to know them a little bit and then you go, Oh no, this is a really bad idea. And things can get awkward very, very fast.
Most people. Most people will skip this step and they’ll just assume, no, no, she’s probably not toxic. She’s too beautiful. Oh no, she’s adorable. And they skip this step and they set themselves up for failure. I can’t tell you how many amazing men get trapped before they even know what’s happened to them.
Because toxic people move very, very fast. They know how to be very charming and very captivating and they move really fast so that you don’t notice who they are until it’s sort of too late. So if you have not yet watchedΒ this video, watch it. You need to know the signs of a toxic girl. That’s going to help.
Protect your hearts and set you up for success. It’s going to help you find someone who’s not toxic, which is ultimately what you want and what you need. And it’s just going to help you prevent any of those awkward situations. The goal here is not to just get any dates, but it is to find the right girl and date the right girl and eventually marry the right girl.
Right. So you want to make sure that you’re just aware of these signs ahead of time.
How To Know If You Should Ask A Girl Out – Recap
Okay. Let’s recap the four steps for you real fast. Number one is to make sure you actually want to go out with this girl. Make sure you’re not doing it just because you feel pressured. This also goes for, if maybe there’s a girl who’s interested in you, but you’re not really that interested in her, no pity dates do not.
She deserves someone who’s attracted to her and interested in her. So don’t date her just because she’s shown interest in you. Make sure you’re actually interested. Number two is to get to know her a little bit first, and that will help, you know, if you want to get to, or if you want to go out with her as well.
This also makes her feel more safe with you. Number three is to look for the signs that she wants you to ask her out. It’s a beautiful thing. And number four is just make sure you’re paying attention for those signs that she’s a toxic girl. You don’t want fake love. You don’t want a toxic relationship.
You want to make sure you’re still available for the right girl. So notice those red flags early on. So next, do you want to know how to fulfill her needs so she falls madly in love with you? As I mentioned earlier, most people are hard to telling you the truth about what a woman’s needs are and what she truly desires from you and what she needs in a relationship.
If you want to end bad dead end relationships, you need to know what her needs are and how to fulfill them in a way that allows you to stay authentically you and attracts the kind of woman who will fulfill your needs. This is what I walk you through in my academy, and I’m going to share three secrets for you in my free masterclass.
So go toΒ CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. There’s a link in the pinned comments and a link in the description below. You really don’t want to gamble with your heart, right? Set yourself up for success and watch it now. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend. Be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell and give me a big thumbs up.
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