17 Things Men Do That Women Love! If you want to know how to make her fall in love with you, you need to know what makes a man attractive and how to attract women.
There are certain things men do that women LOVE. If you know what they are and do them you know how to stand out, how to be her dream man and how to be attractive to women.
These things guys do that women love are the things women find attractive. The things women notice about men and the things men do that make women melt are key to finding and attracting your dream girl.
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17 Things Men Do That Women Love
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 17 things men do that women love. Do you want to attract your crush, or are you looking to find your dream girl?
If you are, you need to know what these things are because this is how you become irresistible to her. This is how you attract a really classy, high-quality woman. ✅
These are the things that make you stand out. And the key to beating the competition is to have what the competition doesn’t have, right? So if you want to attract her instead of being rejected, you are in the right place.
Some of the very best tips are near the end of this article. Honestly, it just gets better as you go along, so if you want to attract women, if you want to be irresistible and stand out, make sure you read to the end.
Before we dive in, if this is your first time reading, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships by learning the skills that instead get you your dream girl. 🔥
The best part is as a certified coach, I do not teach mind games and things that just create toxic relationships.
Now what you are about to hear might surprise you. Something that sets my methods apart is that I never teach you how to have a one night fling.
Instead, I teach you how to have a happy lifelong relationship. The kind of relationship where you’re in love with your best friend, and she’s crazy in love with you too.
Most of the information on the internet only teaches you how to attract toxic women and one-night flings. ❌
So what you hear is going to surprise you. The reason being it does not teach you how to attract toxic women. Instead, it gets you that life-long relationship.
These are the things that classy women are looking for. And these are the things that allow you to be crazy in love for the rest of your life. So with that, let’s get started with 17 things men do that women love.
17 Things Men Do That Women Love – #1: Good Communication
Number one is good communication. If you are a good communicator, you are far more attractive than you realize. This is something that means a lot to women.
👉 Nothing frustrates her more than a guy who doesn’t communicate with her. She feels like she can’t trust him, she feels like she doesn’t matter to him, and that’s not what she’s looking for in a partner, right?
But if instead, he is a good communicator, oh my goodness, now she knows she’s found someone really exceptional. She feels like she matters to you.
And honestly, good communication is one of the basics of a healthy relationship. She feels safe and feels connected to you.
And because this is something a lot of men struggle with, if you’re the one who’s a good communicator, you definitely stand out from the crowd.
#2: Women Love Dream Chasers
Okay, our next thing men do that women love is when you are a dream chaser and reach for your goals. 🚀
I’ve mentioned in the past that boring people are boring. It sounds funny when you say it out loud, but nobody really wants to marry someone boring, right?
Nobody wants to have a relationship with someone boring. So being an interesting person, that’s attractive, that’s super hot, that’s how you stand out. And one way you become interesting is by being a dream chaser.
It kind of lights us on fire when somebody else is on fire about life and about pursuing good things. So it’s one thing to be a dreamer, and that’s good, but when you’re a dream chaser, that’s hot.
#3: Be Playful
The next thing men do that women love is when you are playful. There is something really charming about someone playful and fun and childlike.
Now please do not misunderstand. Being childish, that is not attractive at all. That actually irritates women really bad. 👉 But someone who is childlike, playful, and helps her enjoy being with him is super attractive.
A great example of being playful but not childish is actually the Property Brothers.
I don’t know if you’ve ever seen their show, but they are confident, masculine, and assertive. But they are also playful, and that’s what makes them charming and what makes them attractive.
Do you want to be attractive to women? And do you want to stand out from the crowd? Let yourself be playful. 🎉
#4: Women Love Confident Men
Okay, our next thing men do that women love is when you are confident. There is nothing quite as attractive as confidence. This is why I spend so much time teaching my clients about this in my program.
Confidence makes you feel amazing. Which you deserve, right? That’s something you want, right? But it also makes you remarkably attractive to her.
Now here’s something important you need to know about confidence: How do you become confident? 🤔 Well, there are two parts to this.
The first part is if you’re good at something, you’re confident in it, right? Think of your favorite hobby, something you know you’re really good at, and you really enjoy doing. You’re confident in that area, right?
When you are good at dating and relationships, knowing how to be attractive, and good at social skills, you are confident because you know what you are doing.
In addition to that, confidence also comes from having healthy self-love and healthy self-respect. 👈
So there are several ways you want to approach gaining confidence. Make sure you are competent and creating those healthy habits that help you have that healthy self-love.
#5: Understand How To Create Healthy Relationships
This leads us to our next thing that men do that women love. This is when you understand what a healthy relationship is, and you know how to create one.
At the end of the day, even if people don’t word it that way, everyone is looking for a healthy relationship.
That’s the type of relationship where there’s loyalty, there’s trust, there’s love, there’s flirting. Everything wonderful about a relationship is included in a healthy relationship. ✅
And if she’s a classy woman, that’s all she’s going to want, is a healthy relationship. She will never settle for anything less.
Now here’s the important part so pay close attention because so many men miss this, and it causes you to be rejected and ghosted.
Most people are not taught about what a healthy relationship even looks like. Let alone how to create it. They think they are taught the right way and know what it is, but they actually don’t. 😬
This is why you can try everything and still not get your dream girl. And this is why you can be doing everything right, be super attractive, and not get your dream girl. 💡 It’s not your fault no one taught you the right way.
This happens because you have a misunderstanding about what healthy relationships are and how to create one. So if you want to get your dream girl, you must understand this.
I have a free masterclass where I teach you what you need to know to avoid rejection, ghosting, and heartache.
Seriously, I can’t stress this enough. If you want to set yourself up for success instead of failure, you need to know about this. Make sure to watch my free masterclass.
#6: Be A Real Man
Okay, the next thing that men do that women love is when you are a real man and a masculine man.
If you haven’t yet seen this video (How To Be A Man: What Makes A Man Irresistible To His Dream Girl), I talk about this in more detail there, so be sure to give it a watch.
When you lead out in the relationship, that is one way for you to be very confident in her eyes and very masculine.
👉 One way to do this, for instance, is when you say, “Hey, can I buy you some hot chocolate? Can I buy you a smoothie?” or whatever it is.
When you lead out in the relationship, that means the world to her. I know it sounds simple. “Buying her a smoothie means a lot to her?” Absolutely! It’s not about the money. The money doesn’t matter.
I get a lot of comments saying, “oh, all she wants is money.” No, she doesn’t care about the money. As a matter of fact, if she’s a classy woman, she’s making her own money.
God made women different than men. That makes sense, right? And so to you, it’s just buying her a smoothie. To her, it’s, “wow, I’m safe with him. He’s protective.“
Women need men to take care of them in a different way than men need women to take care of them. 💡
And so she sees you as confident, she sees you as capable, she sees you as masculine when you do simple things like that.
No, it is not about the money. It’s about who you are. And when you lead out in that way, whoa, that sets you apart and makes you attractive.
#7: Show Interest In Her
The next thing is when you show interest in her. Do you want to be remarkably attractive to women? Do you want to stand out from the crowd and make her think about you all the time and give her butterflies?
⚡ Pursue her. Show interest in her. This makes her feel feminine and safe and protected. It helps her see you as reliable, dependable, and capable.
Showing interest is one of the most attractive things you can do.
#8: Approach Her (The Right Way)
Now speaking of showing interest, this leads us right into our next thing men do that women love. And this is when you approach her.
There is nothing more confident and masculine and hot to women than a guy who’s confident enough to approach and approach the right way.
It is so attractive when he has enough self-respect and believes in himself enough to approach. 👉 That is attractive to women.
#9: Women Love Gentlemen
Okay, this one is probably going to surprise you. Another thing men do that women love is when you open the door for her and when you are a gentleman.
I don’t care what anybody says, especially what the feminists say. Gonna get some hate for that one. But guys, if she’s a classy woman, she’s looking for a gentleman.
And if you are a gentleman, that is how you attract ladies. So no, it’s not old-fashioned. As a matter of fact, it’s exceptional to be a gentleman. It is exceptional to open the door for her. ✅
Any classy woman, her heart just melts when a guy shows that kind of respect and that kind of confidence. And the good news is you want a classy woman, right?
If so, right now, comment “classy!” as an amen. And if you have any comments or questions, leave those below as well. I love hearing from you!
#10: Women Love Assertive Men
Okay, next up on things that men do that women love is being assertive.
Nothing is quite as attractive and quite as confident as being an assertive person. 👍 Setting boundaries, knowing your own thoughts and beliefs, and politely standing your ground.
That makes you really masculine, that makes you really confident, and really attractive. She feels safe with you and feels drawn to you.
#11: Be Proactive About Your Physical Appearance
Okay, our next thing is when you are proactive about looking nice.
You want a woman who’s beautiful, right? There’s nothing wrong with that. As a matter of fact, there would be a little something wrong with you if you didn’t.
The same is true for her. She wants an attractive man. All this means is a man who’s proactive about looking his best. 💡
Your hair looks nice, if you have facial hair it’s trimmed, or you have no facial hair, and you smell nice, your shoes are really classy, your outfit is well put together.
She wants a man who looks nice. This is not about perfection. A lot of people think, “oh, now I have to look like a supermodel.” She’s not interested in perfection, but she is interested in the effort.
So if you are proactive about looking nice, oh my goodness, that speaks volumes to her.
She loves that because she likes to see what you look like, and she likes to smell your cologne. 🤭 But also, it shows her that you have self-respect, and that is incredibly attractive.
#12: Women Love Kind Men
Okay, next on our list of things men do that women love is kindness. Have you heard that nice guys always finish last? That is actually a lie, guys. It just is. ❌ Pushovers finish last, okay?
Nice guys get the girl all day long, as long as they have the right skills.
As a matter of fact, I’ve mentioned this before. There was a massive study done where they asked everyone what they wanted most in a partner. And kindness was the number one thing. ✅
She wants somebody she can depend on, somebody sensitive and gentle, she wants someone kind. And not just to her but to everyone. To animals, to children, to the waitress, to everyone.
If you are a kind person, that matters so much to women. That right there helps her fall in love with you.
#13: Be Vulnerable
Okay, the next thing men do that women love is when you are vulnerable.
Now when I say vulnerable, please don’t misinterpret it. I don’t mean needy. Needy is never attractive. 😬
But someone willing to be vulnerable, they’re willing to open up, wow, that’s really attractive.
Because as humans, we’re vulnerable. That’s part of what it means to be human. And so if she sees that it’s okay for you to be vulnerable, it shows her that she can be too. 👈
It helps her feel connected to you because you’re human. You’re not some superhero that’s not relatable. As humans, we are attracted to people who are willing to open up and be vulnerable.
Many people will say, “you have to be dominant and show her how dominant you are,” and that’s actually not true.
If she’s looking for a lifelong partner, she wants someone as human as she is.
#14: Learn And Apply The Right Dating And Relationship Skills
Okay, the next thing men do that women love is when you have skills. I have said this a million times, I will say it a million more times because it will always be true. 💡 Skills are what attract women.
As a matter of fact, if you’ve seen this video (What Makes A Man Attractive: Female Psychology), you know that attraction is actually skill-based. If you haven’t seen that video, it’s a good one.
Some of the most important skills you can learn are social skills. Women are very attracted to men who are competent socially.
As a matter of fact, if he’s not competent socially, she feels awkward. 😬 And it’s hard to be attracted to someone you feel awkward around.
The good news is, is the fact that they are skills means you can learn them. Anyone can learn skills, right?
So at the end of the day, skills are some of the most attractive things you can have. And some of the most critical skills are social skills.
#15: Have A Growth Mindset
Okay, the next thing men do that women love is having a growth mindset.
There’s a big difference between someone who feels like they are stuck where they are and someone who feels like they can progress, they can improve. That kind of person is attractive.
Someone who feels stuck or keeps themselves stuck, “oh, this is just the way I am. This is the way it will always be,” that’s not attractive.
But someone who’s always trying to become better and improve and sees that as possible, that’s attractive. ✅ Women love that. That’s what classy women want.
#16: Women Love Positive Men
Okay, the next thing is having a positive outlook on life. People like people who make them feel good. It’s as simple as that. And someone positive is insanely attractive.
This obviously doesn’t mean that you don’t acknowledge the bad in the world because it’s there, and you can’t lie about those things. That’s not what a positive person does.
A positive person acknowledges the bad but chooses to focus on the good. This makes everyone feel more relaxed around them, and they’re more enjoyable to be with. That is the type of person women love. 👈
Something else I love to teach in my program is that happy people are irresistible. If you want to stand out from the crowd, if you want to be irresistible, have a positive outlook on life.
#17: Be A Clean Person
Okay, the next thing men do that women love is probably going to surprise you. Classy women, real women, high-quality women, she loves it when you are clean.
And what I mean is clean morally. Your language is clean, your thoughts are clean, your hobbies and activities are clean and appropriate.
So many people on the internet are teaching that you need to be obsessed with only sex and focus all your time and energy on how you can be the sexiest person ever, without any focus on her as a person.
Guys, that’s what toxic women want. ❌ And the people teaching you those things are teaching you how to attract only toxic women.
You are looking for a classy, high-quality woman, the kind of woman who wants to love and adore you, right? The sexiest thing you can ever do is only have eyes for her.
The sexiest thing you can ever do is keep yourself morally clean. That’s the kind of man she can rely on, trust, and feel completely safe giving her whole heart to.
I’m gonna say it again: The way to make intimacy amazing and the sexiest thing you can ever do is only have eyes for her. ✅
17 Things Men Do That Women Love – Recap
Okay, let’s sum up the 17 things men do that women love! 🔥
- Good communication. Communicating with women is critical.
- Being a dream chaser. That’s attractive, that’s interesting, that’s someone you want to spend your life with.
- Be playful. Not childish, but childlike. That is remarkably charming and really fun.
- Be confident. Remember that confidence comes from being good at something, knowing what you’re actually doing.
- Know what a healthy relationship is, and how to create one. Most people have not been taught what this is or how to create one.
- Be a real man. Oh my goodness, that lights her heart on fire.
- Show interest in her. Whoa, that helps you stand out from the crowd, makes her feel feminine, makes her feel amazing, and attracted to you.
- Approach her. When a man knows how to approach the right way, he knows how to read those signals, and he approaches, that’s attractive.
- Be a gentleman, open the door for her. It is not old-fashioned. That is classy.
- Be assertive (not dominant). Know how to set appropriate boundaries.
- Make taking care of yourself a priority, when from head to toe, you are proactive about looking your best.
- Kindness. When you are kind, sensitive, and gentle to everyone, that speaks volumes to her. That is what she’s looking for in a partner.
- Be vulnerable. Again, I don’t mean needy. But when you’re willing to be vulnerable, oh my goodness, she is drawn to a man like that.
- Dating and relationship skills. One of the most critical is social skills. This is what makes you attractive when you interact with her instead of awkward.
- Have a growth mindset. Instead of feeling stuck where you are, you believe and see and proactively work towards progression.
- Choose a positive outlook on life. Remember, happy people, are irresistible.
- Be a morally clean person. That is what matters to her the very most.
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