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15 Things Women Secretly Want Men To Do
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 15 things women secretly want men to do but never say. 😏
Would you like to know how to get a girl’s attention and how to get a girl to fall for you? If you do, then you need to know these 15 things.
These are the traits that your dream girl is looking for in a partner. And when you are the one who has these traits, you eliminate the competition.
➡️ Can you imagine how amazing it would feel to eliminate the competition? Make sure you read to the end so that you understand each of these things.
Before we dive into the 15 things if this is your first time watching, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams!
Now, as I said, these are 15 things women secretly want men to do. But why is it a secret? 🤔 Why would she keep these things a secret from you?
If you’ve been following my channel for a while, you know I don’t teach mind games, right? That’s the first thing I want you to know, mind games don’t work.
I’m a certified coach, I teach you real skills that are backed by science. So why would your dream girl keep these things a secret? Well, for one, it’d be a little weird and awkward if she just told you, okay?
But the biggest reason is she wants a sincere man. 💡
If she just tells you what she wants right up front, “Hey, I’m looking for these traits,” there’s an opportunity for someone to not be sincere and pretend to have those traits just to get the girl. She’s trying to avoid that.
However, once she gets to know you better and sees that you do have these traits, and she sees that you’re sincere then, she’s going to want to express her appreciation for that, okay?
So it’s not that she wants to keep these things a secret from you to confuse you. It’s just that she’s trying to protect herself from those who would lie. 👈 Does that make sense?
15 Things Women Secretly Want Men To Do #1 – Be A Gentleman
Okay, let’s get to our first thing women secretly want men to do. And this is to be a gentleman.
Old-fashioned manners like opening the door for her still make her heart beat faster. Why do you think girls still watch Cary Grant movies? There’s a reason for it.
No matter what the toxic women say, classy women still want a man with old-fashioned manners.
✅ When a guy opens the door for her or something like that, oh my goodness, that shows her you are a classy man.
#2 – Listen To Her
Okay, the next thing women secretly want men to do is she wants you to listen.
This is very important to women. Women connect by talking. That’s why you often see women together talking to each other and figuring things out while they talk.
This means if you’re the man who listens to her, wow, that says something about your character, she feels connected to you, she feels like you understand her, she feels like you are trustworthy. ❤️
So if you want to get a girl to like you and want to make her fall in love with you, you must listen to her.
#3 – Conversational Skills
And this leads us to our next thing women secretly want men to do. And that is to be good at conversation. Yes, she definitely wants you to be a good listener, but you can’t just listen the whole time, right?
There needs to be a little bit of back-and-forth conversation going. ➡️ Your dream girl wants to make sure that you’re interesting and fun to talk to. She doesn’t want the conversation to be boring or awkward.
This is why one of the things I teach my clients in my program is the importance and the basics of small talk so you can carry on a fun conversation no matter where you are or what’s going on.
If you haven’t seen this video (What To Say To A Girl) and this video (7 Best Conversation Starters), be sure to give them a watch. They’re going to teach you more about how to be better at conversation.
#4 – Flirt With Her
Okay, our next thing that women secretly want you to do is she wants you to flirt with her. 👉 Flirting is fun, right? It really just makes dating and relationships so much more enjoyable.
Now flirting is something that should continue through the entire relationship. That’s one way you make sure you have butterflies through your entire life together.
If you want flirting to be a part of the whole relationship, it needs to be there at the start.
Your dream girl wants you to flirt with her. It’s more fun, it makes her feel feminine, it makes her feel attractive, it makes her feel more attracted to you. 🔥
#5 – Pursue Her
Next up, she wants you to pursue her. Pursuing a woman makes her feel safe with you, it makes her feel feminine and attractive, and it helps her see you as a confident, masculine man.
Pursuing a woman is the most essential element in getting your dream girl. You just need to make sure you know how to pursue her the right way. 💡
One of the reasons I love teaching how to pursue the right way to my clients in my program is because there are so many people who teach total lies about what it means to pursue.
And these lies, these misleading teachings, cause so many men to be rejected and heartbroken, and it’s just not right. ❌
This is why instead, in my program, I teach you how to pursue the right way so that it’s very natural and simple instead of awkward or creepy.
Honestly, unless you have been through my program, I can almost guarantee you don’t know how to pursue the right way. Simply because no one else is teaching you how to do this.
As a coach, and your friend, it’s my job to help you get results, and my program is where I help you do this. ✅
To learn more about my program, my methods, why they work, and how it works, I’ve put together a free masterclass for you.
When you are ready to just have the secrets you need to find and attract the girl of your dreams, make sure you check it out.
My clients are already seeing incredible results, and I would love it for you to be next!
#6 – Consider Her Needs
Next up on our list of things women secretly want men to do, she wants you to consider her needs. ⬅️
If she’s looking for a lifelong partner, she’s looking for someone who would make a good husband, right? She’s looking for someone who would ultimately make a good father to future children.
And someone who considers her needs is very important. This means paying attention to the little things and noticing what she’s going through and how you can be involved in her life.
Now, she doesn’t just want you to consider her needs. She also wants someone who is considerate of everyone’s needs and is kind and generous to everyone instead of just the girl they’re trying to impress.
#7 – Set Boundaries
Okay, the next thing women secretly want is a man who sets boundaries. Do you want her to feel safe with you and to respect you? You need to set boundaries. 💡
Yes, all healthy relationships have boundaries, even with each other. But she also wants someone who sets boundaries with everyone. She does not want to see you as a pushover or someone who has no backbone.
Something I teach in my program when I’m explaining how to set appropriate boundaries is that when you respect yourself others respect you as well.
Setting appropriate boundaries is what allows you to respect yourself and other people see that. That helps her see you as a confident, masculine man and someone she feels safe with. 🔥
#8 – Always Be Improving
Next up, she wants an imperfect man but who’s always trying to be better. We are all human, right? We all make mistakes, and we’re all less than perfect.
Being around someone who’s trying to appear perfect makes everybody else feel uncomfortable. 😬 Even if it’s not in a romantic situation, we all feel uncomfortable around someone who’s trying too hard to be perfect.
But instead, if you are someone who’s real while also striving to be the best person you can be, she can relax and feel safe when she’s around you.
A real man is a man who’s imperfect but trying. ✅
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#9 – Build And Encourage Her
Okay, our next thing women secretly want is she wants you to build her up and encourage her.
➡️ We all want to be built up and encouraged, right? Even confident people want to be supported and encouraged.
So encourage her and be on her side. That’s one way you can help defend her, and it’s something she definitely wants very most in the man she wants to be with.
#10 – Have A Good Self-Image
Next up is a man with a good self-image. She wants to be around someone who feels good about himself because that kind of person is fun to be around.
She does not want to be around someone who is needy or negative or puts himself down. ❌ That drains her energy.
Instead, she wants to be around someone who feels good about himself. Because then he feels good about life, and it’s okay for her to feel good about herself when she’s around him.
One way I teach my clients to improve their self-image is by setting boundaries as we talked about earlier.
I also teach them how to dress to empower. This means showing off how attractive you are and dressing in a way that increases your confidence.
👉 Some additional ways are understanding how to create that healthy self-love and that healthy self-respect. Also, understanding how to take care of yourself so that you feel like you matter.
Because if you don’t treat yourself like you matter, you won’t feel like you do. Improving your self-image sounds simple, but it packs a powerful punch.
This is why the biggest result my clients see is increased confidence. Like dramatically increased confidence.
Do you want to increase your confidence and be an absolute magnet for your dream girl? To learn more about my program, what I teach, and why it works, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
When you’re ready to stop being alone and finally get your dream girl, make sure you check it out. ✅
#11 – Appropriate And Clean
Okay, our next thing women secretly want men to do is to be a moral man.
Guys, I will never teach you how to attract a toxic woman. All a toxic woman wants is a one-night fling. That’s all she cares about. She doesn’t even care about you.
But a classy woman, the kind of woman who wants to give her heart to a man forever, she wants a moral man. Why? Because he’s trustworthy and masculine. 💡
It is very masculine to be a defender of what’s right. That right there, that’s a knight in shining armor, and that’s what turns you into her superhero.
Be someone who stands up for what’s right and someone who keeps yourself morally clean. That is the kind of man she can trust, and that is the kind of man she wants to give her heart to.
#12 – Be Gentle
Okay, our next thing women secretly want is a gentle and kind man. This is definitely not something society teaches, but it is 100% true. 💯
The very most confident men and the very most masculine men are gentle and kind.
That is the kind of man that she will feel safe with. That is the kind of man she could see herself marrying. A man who is gentle to her and others is the kind of man she can see herself raising children with.
#13 – Treat Her Like A Queen
Okay, our next thing women secretly want men to do is she wants you to treat her like a queen because she wants to treat you like a king. ⬅️
Again, we’re not talking about toxic women at all. But a classy woman, she wants to treat you like a king, okay? She wants to love you like crazy.
When you treat her like a queen, she thinks, “Okay, he’s safe, he’s good, I can trust him, and I get to treat him like a king.“
So make sure that in every aspect you are treating her like a queen because a classy woman in turn will treat you like a king. ✅
If you want to be treated like a queen by your woman, which you should be, that’s how you do it.
#14 – Maturity
Next up, she wants a mature man, not a man who is silly and immature. I have been trying to figure out how to say this nicely, and I really can’t figure out a way to, so I’m just gonna give it to you straight.
A classy woman has zero interest in spending time with someone boring and who talks about just nonsense. ❌ That doesn’t make an interesting partner, a good husband.
A lot of people think that immature silliness is funny. It’s not. Especially not to a mature woman.
It’s not that you can’t be funny, and it’s not that you can’t be playful. You should be funny and playful.
But immature silliness is not funny, and it does not attract her at all. As a matter of fact, it pushes her away.
Make sure you watch this video (How To Attract Women: 7 Behaviors That Make You Irresistible) to learn a little bit more about that and how to become incredibly attractive to women. 🔥
#15 – Be Sincere
Our next thing women secretly want men to do is she wants you to be sincere. This makes sense, right? You want her to be sincere with you. You want her to sincerely care about you and to be real and genuine.
👉 That’s what she wants from you as well. Sincerity is critical to a happy lifelong relationship.
This is again one reason why some of the things we’ve talked about are secrets, so to speak, is because she doesn’t want you to just do these things to get her or to win her heart.
She wants you to be very sincere about who you are. If you are a sincere man, you have one of the very most attractive traits, one of the traits women look for the very most. ✅
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