How To Get A Girlfriend – 5 Crazy Effective Steps! If you are looking for tips on how to get a girlfriend, you are in the right place. 💡 You’ll learn the secret strategy you MUST know if you want to know how to get a good girlfriend.
Getting an average girlfriend is not difficult, but if you want that special someone who makes you weak in the knees and brightens your day, you need to know how to get a girlfriend the right way. ➡️ Otherwise, you’ll have to settle for a relationship that leaves you wanting more.
Whether you are wondering how to get a girlfriend if you are shy, how to get a girlfriend when you are an introvert, or how to get a girlfriend when you’ve never had one, the strategy you are about to learn will help you finally hold that dream girl! ✅
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How To Get A Girlfriend – 5 Crazy Effective Steps!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video is on how to get a girlfriend – 5 crazy effective steps!
If you are tired of being single, tired of feeling lonely, then you are in the right spot.
Now, if you’re reading this article right now, maybe you’ve never had a girlfriend, and you’re just really wanting that special someone who loves you for who you are. ❤️
Or maybe you’ve had girlfriends in the past, but you’re really looking for that special someone that you hope to ultimately spend the rest of your life with.
You don’t want just any girlfriend. You want that special someone that you ultimately want to marry, right?
👉 In this article, you will learn the strategy that no one talks about, but it’s the only way to get your dream girlfriend.
You know that kind of relationship, those couples you see, and you think, “How did they get that kind of relationship?” That’s what you’re going to learn in this article.
The most important thing to remember is at the end of this article, so make sure you stay tuned to the end.
My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men. This is the number one place to learn how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams without mind games or tricks that frankly don’t work.
What Kind Of Girlfriend Do You Want?
Okay, as we get started, you have two scenarios. Tell me which scenario you want. ⬇️
Scenario number one: You have a girlfriend and, you know, she’s pretty attractive, and you care about her, but you just kind of always feel like something’s missing. You want something even more out of a relationship.
You kind of don’t feel like you can be yourself around her. Maybe you don’t really agree on a lot of things. And maybe there’s even some drama, and you get kind of exhausted or nervous because of that drama.
You don’t feel connected to her or feel like she understands you, and you kind of don’t really have as much in common as you would like. Maybe you have a little bit in common but not as much as you want.
❌ Perhaps you even see what might be some toxic signs and maybe you kind of wonder in the back of your head, “Does she even think I’m attractive?“
It’s one thing to think she’s attractive, but you want her to think you’re attractive too, right?
And if you think about spending the rest of your life with this woman, if you think about marrying this woman, you think, “Wow, I don’t really want to come home to her every night.“
You maybe start to wonder if this is as good as relationships get. Is this a normal relationship? Is this how it’s supposed to be? 😬
Have you maybe even been in that kind of relationship? If you have, tell me about it in the comments.
Okay, that’s scenario number one. Now let’s move on to scenario number two: You have a girlfriend, and she’s beautiful. She’s absolutely beautiful.
She takes care of herself, and you know that she thinks you’re attractive as well. She flirts with you. She’s playful. She makes you feel like more of a man. 🔥
She boosts your confidence and makes you feel even more amazing and masculine when you are around her. You laugh together. You make memories together.
When you are not together, you cannot wait to see her again. It’s so much fun to be with her.
Just hearing her voice makes you feel happy all over, and you get butterflies when you are around her, and you feel safe with her. You feel like she loves you for you.
You agree on most things, and what things maybe you don’t agree with there’s not a lot of drama about it. You’re both reasonable, and you work through things. ✅
She understands you, and she doesn’t judge you, and you can picture yourself being married to someone like this. You can imagine coming home to her every night, and she is your safe place.
You can see yourself raising children with this woman. You can see this happy family with adorable children with this woman. You feel safe, you feel loved, and you enjoy life.
How To Get A Girlfriend In 5 Crazy Effective Steps
Now, which scenario would you pick? Scenario number two, right? That’s your dream relationship, right?
👉 Here’s what you need to understand: Scenario number one with the not-so-awesome relationship, that’s the kind of girlfriend just about anyone can teach you how to get.
Information on how to get that kind of girlfriend, just a girlfriend, is everywhere.
But what you’re going to learn in this article is how to get the second kind of scenario, your dream relationship.
That relationship exists, and you can have it. You just can’t get it using the same tactics everybody else is teaching. If those tactics actually worked, everyone would have their dream relationship, right? 💡
I’m going to be walking you through the five steps to getting your dream girl. These steps are an overview of the steps I teach my paid clients in my program, How To Get A Girlfriend.
When you are ready to fast-track it to success, to stop being alone, to stop being single, to stop having average relationships that are unfulfilling and lonely, my program is the place you need to go.
To learn more about how my program is your complete plan to get your dream relationship, watch my free masterclass. ✅ You’ll learn about how you can enroll in that, why it works, and how it works.
The coolest part about this strategy and these steps I’m sharing with you is how easy they are and how fast you can see results. You can see results incredibly quickly. So with that, let’s get started!
How To Get A Girlfriend Step #1 – Figure Out Who Your Dream Girl Is
How to get a girlfriend step number one is to figure out who your dream girl is. Do not skip this step.
Most people will skip this step, and most people don’t even know it exists. But if you skip this step, it messes up all the other steps, okay? So don’t skip this step. ⬅️
What do I mean by figure out who your dream girl is? I don’t mean a particular person at this point.
What I mean at this point is when we think about our dream relationships it’s kind of just a feeling. A feeling of what we want. But we don’t really create clarity on that.
When you don’t have clarity, it’s kind of like somebody blindfolding you, spinning you around in circles a whole bunch of times, and telling you to hit a target.
You don’t know what the target is or where the target is, so you can’t hit it. So it’s very important that you create clarity, that you understand what you even want in a future partner. 👈
Because the truth is you get to decide. You get to choose what traits you are looking for in a partner. And that’s really exciting, isn’t it?
Something most people don’t understand about falling in love is that falling in love has two stages. And the first stage is infatuation.
Now, you can be infatuated with the wrong person all day long. As a matter of fact, most people become infatuated with a lot of people over their lifetime.
However, all infatuation is, is a brain chemical. And so if you think that infatuation is love and you pursue that person, you can end up very miserable. 😬
As a matter of fact, that’s why our divorce rate is so high right now. People think infatuation is love. This is why you need to make sure you have clarity and understand what you’re looking for.
And then, when you feel that infatuation, you can make a smart decision even if you’re feeling all those butterflies.
Now that’s not to say that infatuation is bad. It’s actually very good. You just need to keep it in check. Bottom line, become clear on what you want in your dream girl, the traits you are looking for in a future wife.
Step #2 – Find Out What Your Dream Girl Wants
My second step for how to get a girlfriend is to find out what your dream girl wants. ➡️ I tell my clients the key to getting your dream girl is to be her dream guy.
You start by saying, “What do I want?” You have to figure out what you want first, and then you say, “Okay, that’s what I want. What does she want?“
Because if you are what she wants, well then, of course, she’s going to fall in love with you, right? If you are the obvious choice, then you are who she’s going to choose. 💡
Now I never mean to pretend to be something you’re not. This is never about changing who you are just to get the girl. That’s actually a mind game.
Many people are afraid they have to change who they are when in reality, that’s because they’ve been taught a lot of mind games. And I never teach you relationship mind games.
This isn’t about changing your personality. It’s just about having those attractive qualities and habits that she’s looking for while still keeping your unique personality.
This is one of the benefits of having a female dating and relationship coach. When you understand what women are looking for, especially Christian women, you know how to move forward.
The world and society at large tell you a lot of lies about what women want. And the truth is you’re mostly told what toxic women want. ❌
Where high-quality women, classy women, Christian women, they’re not looking for those traits at all. Creating clarity empowers you to get the girl while staying who you want to be.
At the end of the day, when you know what she’s looking for and you know how to turn those things into habits, you become irresistible to her because you are her dream man.
Step #3 – Turn The Traits She Wants Into Habits
Okay, step number three for how to get a girlfriend is to turn the traits she’s looking for into habits. Again this is how you stay true to who you are while becoming her absolute dream man. 💪
This part of my program is my very favorite part. This is where people see results the fastest and where their confidence really just starts to explode.
If you’ve been taught a lot of mind games this can seem really scary because a lot of people think they have to change who they are.
👉 It’s also about using your body language to increase your confidence and be even more attractive to her. It’s also as simple as living a healthy lifestyle so you feel good and you look good.
Those are the types of traits a woman is looking for in a partner and the kind of traits that make you feel amazing.
When you are ready to skyrocket your confidence and physical attraction like dozens and dozens of men who have already been through my program, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
This really is the place to go if you are tired of being lonely, tired of being single, tired of subpar relationships, and ready to get that dream girl. Watch my free masterclass to learn more. ✅
Step #4 – Learn How To Keep Her
Okay, are you ready for step number four? Step number four for how to get a girlfriend is to understand how to keep her.
Have you ever been ghosted? Have you ever been rejected? Or do you just go through a lot of breakups? Maybe you get into a relationship for a while, and then it just crumbles. ❌
It’s painful, right? It’s this vicious hamster wheel, it hurts, and it damages your self-esteem.
As important as it is to find her and to get her, it’s equally or even more important to keep her. There’s no good in getting your dream girlfriend if you just lose her, right?
This is why I’m careful to teach this step in my program and why I’m sharing it with you here.
👉 Some of the biggest mistakes that cause you to lose her even after you get your dream girl are things like not pursuing her, moving with the wrong pacing such as too fast, aggressive, needy, or even too slow.
Giving her your heart way too soon, marrying her before you marry her, will also cause you to lose her.
If you want to keep your dream girl, you need to make sure you understand how to have the right mindset, how to pursue her, how to move at the right pace, and other good relationship basics.
Step #5 – Learn How To Find Her
Okay, our next step for how to get a girlfriend is to understand how to find her. I’m going to let you in on a secret: Finding your dream girl is a two-step process. 💡
Step number one is to understand how to attract her. Step number two is to find her. Finding her is nowhere near as important as understanding how to attract her.
You could find her all day long, but if you’re not attracting her, it really won’t matter, will it?
If you have not yet seen this video on this topic, you really need to see it. Do yourself a favor and watch that.
Many men think that they just haven’t found the right girl yet when in reality, it’s that they’re not attracting her. ⬅️
Why are they not attracting her? Well, it’s because they skipped all the previous steps. There are five steps to this process for a reason.
If you skip the other steps and go right to finding her, you’re not going to attract her. That’s why these steps are so important. That makes sense, doesn’t it?
If you are struggling to get your dream girl, if you’re struggling to have the relationship that just sets your heart on fire, that is your problem. You need all five of these steps. Do not just skip to finding her.
When you have all the other steps in place, and you understand how to attract her, it is, of course, helpful to know where to look for her. 👉 There is obviously something to that.
This is why one of the resources I share in my program is my guide on Top Places To Meet Christian Women. If you’ve already been through my program, make sure you are utilizing that.
Just remember that as important as it is to know where to look, make sure you follow all the steps so you are irresistible to her.
This Mistake Will Cause Your Relationships To Fail Every Time
Now, here’s probably the most important part of this article. Do I have your attention? Are you with me? 👇
At the time of filming this article, it is march 2021. We’ve just been through a really hard and really lonely 2020, right? We’ve been through some traumatic things. That’s real talk right there.
However, things are getting better. Everywhere you look, restrictions are starting to lift. People are getting out again, and it’s only a matter of time before life is back to normal.
That’s exciting, right? It means you can start getting out there, you can start meeting women, you can find your dream girl. ❤️
But I can tell you right now that some people are going to make some big mistakes, and I do not want it to be you. So again, pay close attention.
There will be three types of people when this is all over, and you will be a part of one of them.
Because everyone’s so lonely and because no one wants to spend their lives alone ever again, people will throw themselves into relationships and start chasing relationships. Men as well as women.
Now some people, group number one, are going to settle for an average type of relationship.
They’ll be infatuated, think it’s love, get married, and wake up in a year and think, “I have nothing in common with this person. They understand me. I don’t enjoy spending time with them.” ❌ They’re going to be crushed.
The second group of people is the same thing. They’re going to find the first person they can who’s charming, makes them feel amazing, they’re infatuated, they’re going to get married.
And in two years, they’re going to wake up and say, “This person is toxic. They abuse me emotionally. What do I do?” 😬 And at that point, they will already be married to them.
Then you have the third group. These people say, “I never want to be alone again. I will learn how to do this right because I want my dream relationship. I want someone I can trust completely, and I know my love is safe with.“
Those people will learn how to do it the right way. They’re going to learn how to have their dream relationship.
Society doesn’t teach us how to have good relationships. They taught your parents, they taught your grandparents, but they don’t teach you.
That’s why the divorce rate is so high right now. Nobody knows what they’re doing. 👈
But those people who will learn how to do it the right way, you know what’s going to happen? They’re going to have their dream relationship.
They’re going to have a crazy happy, crazy-in-love relationship. And their children are going to be raised by two parents who love each other and who love them.
So my question for you is which group will be in? It’s your choice. 🤔
I have given you so much information in this article and set you up for success. But you know what? Most people will read this article, and then they’re going to do nothing about it. That might even be you.
They’ll forget everything they learned and end up in group one or group two with an unhappy relationship and life. This information does nothing unless you apply it, you take it, and you run with it.
As your coach, as your mentor, and honestly as your friend, I don’t want you to settle, okay?
➡️ That is why I do what I do, and that is why I created my program for you. Learn more about my program so you can actually apply each of these steps in-depth.
And so you can get that dream girl who just melts your heart and frankly so you can melt her heart because that’s what she wants too. Watch my free masterclass to learn more.
I’m so excited to help you get your dream girl fast and easy!
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