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5 Things Men Think Women Care About (But They Don’t!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 5 things men think women care about, but they actually don’t. 💡
If you have ever been hurt, discouraged, or frustrated by relationships, dating, or attracting women, then this will rock your world.
You’ll be shocked and surprised by the secrets I’m about to reveal to you. The secret I share with you at the end may be one of the biggest things most men think women care the most about, but they actually don’t. So make sure you stay with me until the end.
But before we dive in and I reveal these life-changing secrets to you, welcome! My name is Melanie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to attract a loving, lasting relationship with the kind of woman you’ve always wanted to have.
As we get started with this, I have another video that will also help you sort through the lies and instead attract the kind of relationship you want. Make sure you watch this video on what makes women love you if you haven’t yet.
➡️ If you’ve been following me for a while, you know that I never teach you mind games because they don’t work. And I never teach awful strategies that will get you a one-night fling.
Instead, I’m teaching you about a happy lifelong relationship. You know, the kind of relationship where you get to come home to her every night and wake up next to her every morning for the rest of your life. That’s what these strategies will get you.
Are you ready to learn the 5 things men think women care about but actually don’t? Let’s dive in!
5 Things Men Think Women Care About #1 – The Right Type
This first one is something so many men believe, and it’s because society keeps telling you this, but it’s not remotely true.
This thing, this misunderstanding, this misbelief, is that there’s only one kind of attractive man. ❌ Just one. And you have to be that type of man or no one will ever love you, you should just give up.
That is a big fat bunch of nonsense and lies.
The truth is, if anybody ever tells you, “There’s only one type and you have to be that type,” they are far more focused on manipulation than they are on reality.
Here’s how you need to look at it: Certain traits and qualities are attractive to everyone across the board.
It’s things like being a kind person, a sincere person, having a good sense of humor, being confident.
These are qualities and traits that pretty much everyone is going to be attracted to. ✅
And then you have appearances, and different appearances are attractive to different people.
For instance, this is true for men as well. Many men are attracted to tall women. Many men are attracted to short women. Many men prefer redheads. Many men prefer brunettes. Brown eyes, blue eyes, whatever it is, different appearances are attractive to different people.
So many people think, “Well, if I’m not a certain height or body type, or I don’t have a certain type of jawline or hair color, then I’m just not the attractive type, and so I’ll never find love.“
That is a bunch of hogwash, okay? And yes, I said hogwash because that’s what it is. 🤭
So the key here is to focus less on being “the attractive type,” and focus more on having the qualities that are attractive to women.
Because when you have those attractive qualities, that’s how you’re able to find the woman who’s attracted to your appearance. Be it redhead, brunette, whatever it is.
There is no “certain type.” There are certain qualities. Makes sense, right?
This is how, as a coach, I teach the men who join me in my academy to attract the love you deserve without changing who you are.
Attracting women is never about changing who you are. It’s about developing those qualities that make you absolutely irresistible. ❤️
This strategy is the only effective strategy because when you focus on developing those qualities, that’s how you’re finally able to find the woman who likes your appearance and falls in love with you.
#2 – The Bad Boy
All right, the next thing men think women care about that they actually don’t will surprise a lot of people. So hold on to your seat, okay?
Many men think (because a lot of loud people in today’s society are saying this), that all women love the bad boy. And that again is complete and total nonsense.
Unless, of course, you’re talking about toxic women. Because the truth is, toxic women, love the thrill of the chase. They love the drama. They love mind games. And frankly, all they really care about is a one-night fling. They’re not looking for a lifelong relationship. 😬
However, science tells us what actually matters to high-quality women, to high-value women. And those are things like moral integrity, making her feel loved and appreciated, being sensitive and understanding, being respectful to her, and being the kind of person she can respect.
She wants someone she can count on. This is what science tells us about women. And none of those things can she find and have and share with a bad boy.
Now, right now you might be thinking, “That makes sense. But Melannie, I’ve seen it happen. I’ve seen good girls fall for awful, pathetic bad boys who aren’t true to them, who don’t treat them right. If good women aren’t attracted to those types of men, why does that happen?“
That’s a very good question. And here’s your answer: 👇
If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I am very open about the fact that there are toxic women, right? We talk about it all the time because that’s reality.
However, just like there are toxic women, there are toxic men. And just like sometimes toxic women will charm good men, sometimes toxic men will charm good women.
That’s one of the reasons why as a coach, I make it my mission to explain this because so many people don’t know it.
Here’s the honest truth. As women, so often we see really amazing guys get completely conned by toxic women, okay? I saw it over and over and over again growing up and it made me sick.
Some toxic women charm good guys and act so amazing and so flirty and so adorable just until they get the guy, and then they show their real colors. And toxic men do this to good women all over the place.
➡️ So no, good women don’t want the bad boy. But sometimes, the bad boy is incredibly manipulative, and he completely deceives her. That is the sad reality that we live in.
You Must Be Your Dream Girl’s Dream Man
So the key here, the takeaway here, is to learn how to attract high-quality women. Because most high-quality women have learned how to identify bad boys and completely and totally avoid them.
And when you can show her that you’re the kind of man she’s always been wanting, that’s how you melt her heart. That’s how you turn her head. And that’s how you make her want a lifelong relationship with you.
But if you can’t show her that you’re that kind of man, if you don’t know how, then she’s going to keep looking for someone else.
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#3 – The Bodybuilder
The next thing that men think women care about, but they actually don’t is a lot of men think that you have to be a massive bodybuilder for a woman to find you attractive. And that is actually not true.
Now, if you enjoy bodybuilding, if that’s your thing, that’s great! I’m not here to bash on that. And some women find that very attractive. 🔥
However, many men feel that you have to be massively built to be attractive at all. And science actually shows us that that’s not true.
The truth is, most people prefer effort over extreme. This is why when you join me in my academy, I teach you how to put in the right kinds of effort and effort in the right areas.
Attracting the love of your life is so much more simple than most people think. It’s actually people trying too hard that often keep you from the relationship you want.
#4 – Relationship Mind Games
The next thing that men think women care about but actually don’t is mind games.
So many people have been taught that you have to play relationship mind games to be exciting and to keep women interested in you. And that’s a pack of nonsense. ❌
As a matter of fact, if you haven’t yet seen this video on why she loses interest, it will help explain this. Seriously, it’s a good one.
The truth is, things like acting aloof, making her chase you, acting hot and cold, waiting to pursue her to get her attention, all those things are a bunch of mind games. And frankly, they’re childish.
Here’s something most people don’t know, but once you know, this will change everything. Drama is addicting. As a matter of fact, it’s more addicting than some of the very most addictive drugs.
Yes, you heard that right. And the truth is, toxic women are very addicted to drama, and they have no intention of stopping. They love drama. So mind games are always giving them that drama fix, and that’s all they want.
➡️ However, a classy, high-quality woman who wants to love you, who wants a real relationship with trust, respect, vulnerability, and where you feel safe together, she doesn’t want mind games. They’re exhausting and useless.
Can you imagine how exhausting a relationship would be where there’s all that drama? Where, “Oh, wait, she’s my wife, but I have to pull away so that she stays interested in me.” “Oh, my wife just texted me, but I’ve got to wait to text her back because she might lose interest.“
That’s exhausting. Right? Who in the world would want a relationship like that? Nobody, unless they’re addicted to drama.
If a relationship starts with drama, it will end with drama. And that’s something that should be avoided.
Now, this does not mean that relationships can’t and shouldn’t be exciting. They absolutely should. 💡
That’s why I teach how to flirt the right way, how to pursue, etc., because relationships should be really exciting. But only when you’re using strategies that are actually exciting instead of creating drama.
#5 – The Millionaire
Okay, our next thing men think women care about, but they actually don’t is being massively wealthy.
I cannot tell you how many comments I get, “Oh, well, I’m not a millionaire, so a woman will never love me.” That’s not true at all!
Here’s reality: Toxic women will tell you all day long that your value to a woman, or in general, is based on status and how much money you make.
But that’s because to a toxic woman, all you are is a trophy. That’s reality. Toxic people don’t see people as people. 😬 They see people as either adding or taking away from their ego. And they just want people who add to their ego.
By the way, if you haven’t yet seen this video on toxic women, do yourself a favor and watch it.
So yes, toxic women want you to be massively wealthy so that they look amazing. However, for high-quality women, that’s not a deal-breaker.
Now, with that being said, I’m going to be really honest with you. Money is not a bad thing. As a matter of fact, we need it here on earth. It makes life a whole lot easier.
And the truth is, a woman does not want to starve, and she doesn’t want to watch her children or spouse starve. Money is important. It is needed. 👉 Just like you want money, she wants money too.
It does not mean you have to be a multimillionaire or a millionaire in general. It just means that she’s looking for someone she can survive if she’s married to them.
It means that she’s looking to make sure you have ambition and drive and that it’ll be an important part of your relationship. Because relationships are incredibly difficult when you don’t have the money you need.
So yes, she wants to make sure that there will be a reasonable amount of money in the relationship. And in today’s world, she’s probably going to bring a lot of money into the relationship as well.
However, that’s not the most important thing to her. So make sure you’re not using “the money thing” as an excuse because many people do. 💡
“Oh, well, it’s because I don’t have tons of money.” When in reality, it’s that you need to learn the strategies that work. And part of those strategies are showing that you have drive and ambition. Nobody really wants to marry someone who’s lazy and doesn’t put forth enough effort.
5 Things Men Think Women Care About – Final Thoughts
So the big takeaway as we wrap this up, if you only remember one thing from this article, this needs to be it.
The key no matter what your relationship struggle is right now is to learn how to attract a high-quality woman, a high-value woman.
You need to learn how to make her want a relationship with you. It’s as simple as that. ✅
If you’re single and don’t want to be, tired of coming home to an empty house, tired of getting the courage to put yourself out there and then having it not go well, tired of getting your hopes up because maybe this relationship will work and then it doesn’t, these are the secrets you need to know.
And this is exactly what I teach you how to do in Attracting Lasting Love Academy. To learn more about this, to learn how you can be in on these secrets, watch my free masterclass now.
You deserve to finally have the answers upfront. And that is exactly why I created my academy. Do yourself a favor and watch that right now.
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