7 Signs You Are Attractive (Even If You Don’t Think So!) Do you ever feel like you aren’t attractive? If yes, then you are totally normal! However, it’s time for you to know the truth. ✅
Once you learn the signs you are an attractive man and the signs you are attractive to women, your life will never be the same. This is about more than how to look good or how to attract women.
➡️ These signs help you see why you actually can attract women in a way that makes them want a relationship with you! EVEN if you sometimes feel that’s impossible.
Ready to learn how to know if you’re attractive and the signs you’re attractive? Let’s dive into 7 Signs You Are Attractive (Even If You Don’t Think So!) ❤️
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7 Signs You Are Attractive (Even If You Don’t Think So!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today I have 7 signs you are attractive, even if you don’t think so.
If we’re being honest, pretty much everyone has moments in our lives where we just, frankly, don’t feel attractive. That’s normal and it happens to everyone.
But maybe you’ve had enough failed relationships that you’re starting to wonder if you’re even attractive enough to get the relationship you want? 🤔
Maybe people tell you you’re attractive, but you don’t really feel it. Or something has happened to make you feel like you’re just not as attractive as other people.
This obviously makes you start doubting whether you’ll actually be able to have the relationship you want.
Have you ever been there? Are you maybe there right now?
As I said before, this feeling is normal, but it’s time for you to learn the truth. Because as they say, the truth really does set you free, and you deserve the freedom of confidence.
Here’s the best part: I won’t just be talking about physical attraction. Although yes, that is part of it, and I will be talking about that as well.
But we’re going to go even deeper and talk about some of the qualities that allow you to attract a lasting, loving relationship with the girl of your dreams. ❤️
These are some of the qualities you need for that. And I think you’ll be surprised by the fact that you already have some of them.
So make sure you stay with me till the end of this article and learn all of the signs.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to source to learn how to attract a loving, lasting relationship without mind games or drama. We’re talking a real deal, dream relationship here.
As we get started with our 7 signs you are attractive, even if you don’t think so, I’m going to mention a couple other videos that will also help you with this. ⬇️
Make sure you watch this video with 17 additional signs that you’re attractive and this video on how to win her heart fast.
These are the basics that every man needs to know if you want a loving, lasting relationship.
With that, let’s dive in!
7 Signs You Are Attractive (Even If You Don’t Think So!) #1 – You’re Alive
Sign number one that you are attractive might sound weird, so just follow me, okay? Just go with me on this one.
Sign number one is that you are alive. Yeah, I know that sounds funny. Just hear me out.
I’ve been studying attraction for years. This is obviously what I do as a coach. And the more I study attraction, the more I realize that it’s far more simple than most people think. 💡
Being physically attractive is not cookie-cutter. It’s not like there’s one attractive type, and that’s it. In reality, different variations are attractive to different people.
Here’s the right way to think of it: There are attractive qualities that everyone is looking for. And if you have those qualities, that’s how you can attract that lifelong, happy relationship.
These are basic fundamentals that everyone needs to have. And then in addition to that, different appearances are attractive to different people.
This is true for men as well as women. This is why some men like tall women while others like short women. Some like brunettes, some like redheads, so on and so forth.
God doesn’t make trash. He doesn’t make junk. And He didn’t put someone here just to be ugly.
👉 Even if you don’t see attractive qualities in yourself, there are people out there who think you are attractive.
This is why in my academy, when I’m teaching my clients about self-love, confidence, and increasing your attraction, I teach you how to stay true to who you are.
You never have to change who you are to be attractive. We’re all different, and that’s what makes it so amazing.
For instance, I have a friend who’s attracted to big, barrel-chested men. They make her feel safe. She’s very attracted to them.
I have another friend who men like that intimidate her, and they make her feel less than safe, so she prefers a man who isn’t quite that big. The truth is, there’s someone for everyone. ✅
Here’s something I want you to remember with this: It’s not your fault that sometimes you feel like you have to be a certain type to be attractive.
There are a lot of people who are saying this. Honestly, they’re manipulative, toxic people, but that’s a lecture for another day.
It’s not your fault that people are being so unkind to you about this. The more I study science, the more I see that you are amazing as you.
Remember, you don’t have to believe something just because someone says it. Just because it’s a popular opinion does not make it accurate.
Sign #2 – A Growth Mindset
Our second sign you’re attractive, even if you don’t think so, is that you are willing to learn and grow. This is what we call a growth mindset.
For years, people thought that you could only reach a certain level of learning or a certain IQ, and then it just stopped, and you couldn’t grow new brain cells.
However, we have since proven that wrong. Isn’t that exciting? That’s so cool! 💥
As a matter of fact, we now know that when we learn and study the brain gets heavier, like a muscle. Similar to working out your arms or something else. The brain can, in fact, learn and grow.
Now, some people stay in a very stuck, fixed mindset. And they’re not willing to learn, grow, or improve, often because of a lack of confidence, and they just kind of stay where they are.
Other people say, “I can change. I can improve. I can learn. I can grow. I can become better.” And those people are incredibly attractive.
Those people refuse to settle. While people who are in a fixed mindset, they have to settle on themselves and on their relationship.
But someone willing to have that growth mindset, they’re exciting, interesting, fun, and incredibly attractive because they’re always learning new ways to become even more attractive.
As a matter of fact, if I had to pick just one trait that’s the most attractive trait someone could have, it would be the growth mindset. Because if you have this one trait, everything else falls into place. 🚀
So take a moment and celebrate that! This means if you struggle with confidence, talking to girls, getting past the first date, or if your relationships fail a lot and you don’t know why, whatever your relationship struggle is, you can learn how to change it.
Take Action And Learn How To Be Attractive Right Now
That’s exciting, isn’t it? You don’t have to stay stuck where you are. But the important part is you can only change it if you do something about it.
And that’s why the growth mindset is so important. The willingness to learn and grow and improve.
As a coach, this is one of my favorite things to see in my clients when they apply what they learned in my academy.
I’ve had men come to me who felt really desperate and discouraged like maybe the relationship they want won’t ever happen for them.
And watching them be able to flip it around very quickly is incredibly exciting! It shows the power we have as humans to change our situation and turn our life around. ✅
So if you’re sitting here reading this right now, and you’re not completely happy with your love life, there’s something you can do about it. And you need to take action now so you can turn it around.
That’s why I created Attracting Lasting Love Academy. So you can quickly learn what you need to know to attract the lasting, loving relationship you want.
Everything from confidence, how to talk to women, how to dress, how to skyrocket your physical attraction, and more.
I walk you step-by-step through what you need to know to avoid toxic, mind game relationships, and finally have someone who loves the real you, who sees who you really are and absolutely adores you. ❤️
To learn more about how you can get started today, just watch my free masterclass now.
This is where you will learn more about the strategies I teach and why they’re so crazy effective.
I’ve seen the secrets I teach you in that academy work wonders, and I can’t wait to share them with you, so make sure you check out that masterclass today.
Sign #3 – You’re Encouraging
Our third sign you’re an attractive person, even if you don’t think so, is that you are an encouraging person. You build people up. 💪
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it a million times again, people like people who make them feel good.
And if she feels good when around you because you build her up and encourage her, she’ll want to be around you more and more.
No one wants to be in a relationship where they feel like they’re not good enough or feel criticized or belittled.
However, everyone wants to be in a relationship where they feel good enough, like their dreams matter, like they can do this.
So if you’re someone who encourages people, you are definitely so much more attractive than you realize.
Sign #4 – You’re Kind
Our next sign you’re attractive, even if you don’t think so, is that you’re a kind person.
➡️ A massive study was done where they asked people what the trait they wanted the very most in a partner was.
And the #1 trait that came in above looks, wealth, status, and everything else was kindness.
If you’re being honest with me, is that one of the things you want most in your wife? You want her to be kind, right?
Well, unfortunately, so many people teach that women don’t want a kind partner.
But thankfully, that isn’t true. She totally wants a kind partner!
As humans, we are drawn to kind people, and it’s one of the traits that means the most to us.
If that’s not something you can see right now, if you look around at the women around you and think, “they don’t seem to want kind men,” well, you’re probably attracting toxic women.
You need to instead turn that around and learn how to attract high-value women because high-value women want a kind man all day long. 🔥
A high-value woman will not settle for a man who isn’t kind. So if you’re not attracting those women, I teach you how to do that in Attracting Lasting Love Academy. So make sure you watch that free masterclass.
Sign #5 – You’re Healthy
Our next sign you’re attractive, even if you don’t think so, is if you live a healthy lifestyle. This is something people kind of get confused about a lot.
Sometimes we hear “healthy lifestyle,” and we think “obsessive lifestyle.” We think we have to give up every food we enjoy, spend hours and hours and hours in a gym, and be obsessive. And that’s not true at all.
If you’re someone who focuses on health and balance rather than obsession, you’re certainly an attractive person. And there are a couple of reasons why. 👇
When someone is healthy, that is the highest form of physical attraction. That’s the way God made us. We are attracted to health.
It also shows that this person has self-respect and discipline. It shows that they’ll live longer, which you certainly want your partner to live long, right? So a healthy lifestyle is definitely something that makes you incredibly attractive.
I’m going to say it one more time: This is not about obsessing. If you haven’t yet seen this video, make sure you watch that one. I talk about it more there.
Sign #6 – You Have Confident Habits
Our next sign you are attractive is if you create and focus on confident habits.
Confidence really does come down to our daily habits. And it’s one of my favorite things to teach how to create in my academy.
When you have those confident, simple habits, that’s how you have high, healthy self-esteem and how you create confidence in yourself and maintain it. 💡
Many people don’t know this, but confidence is something you create, and it is something that you either gain more of or lose.
And so if you’re someone who learns what those confident habits are and you maintain them, you are incredibly attractive.
As humans, we are drawn to confident people. Confidence is one of those traits that I like to call Attractive By Default. It’s something everyone is attracted to.
And the best part is, if you don’t yet know how to do that, it’s something you can learn. Remember, confidence is attractive, and it’s honestly something you deserve to have.
Sign #7 – You Have Good Social Skills
Our next sign you’re attractive is if you have good social skills.
And it’s important to note that social skills change as you get older. What worked in high school does not work as an adult.
➡️ Far too many people are still using the same social skills they learned in high school, and they don’t work.
But if you’re willing to learn how to be charismatic, make people feel comfortable with you, handle small talk, etc., you’re an attractive person.
Why? Because it makes people feel comfortable when they’re with you. And we all want to be around someone who makes us feel comfortable.
When you have good social skills, it makes a woman feel safe with you. It helps her feel comfortable with you and have more respect for you. And you have to have respect for someone to love them.
So even though it might sound like a really small thing, it’s incredibly attractive. And if you’re talking about a high-value woman, it’s one of the biggest priorities that she’s looking for in a husband.
7 Signs You Are Attractive (Even If You Don’t Think So!) – Final Thoughts
Now that you understand these signs, I want you to do a couple of things for me:
Number one, be really honest with yourself and what doing good at, pat yourself on the back. Celebrate that! That’s a huge win and you should enjoy that. ✅
The second thing I want you to do is honestly acknowledge the things that you can improve on. Because remember, a growth mindset is one of the most attractive traits you can have.
And any of these things that you’re not a boss at yet, you can learn how.
That’s exciting, right? You don’t have to stay stuck where you are. You can improve and become even more attractive.
I’m here to guide you through that journey, so again, make sure you watch my free masterclass now.
Any man unhappy in his love life, who wants the relationship you’ve always dreamed of, who wants someone to love you for the rest of your life, must know the secrets I teach in my academy.
And trust me, you won’t even know they exist until I share them with you, but they make dating and relationships so incredibly simple, exciting, and fun. So make sure you watch that free masterclass.
Thank you so much for joining me! I want to hear from you in the comments. Should I make more articles like this? If I should, comment “attraction.” 💬
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