10 Psychological Secrets To Get Her To Like You! 😉 (How To Attract Women FAST) Have you ever crushed on a girl and wondered “does she like me?”
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10 Psychological Secrets To Get Her To Like You!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on 10 psychological secrets to get her to like you. This is how to attract women fast.
Have you ever crushed on a really beautiful gal, and you wanted her to feel the same way about you? 😍
You’re looking for a happy, lifelong relationship. That special someone who loves the real you.
But how do you get that kind of relationship? Have you ever wondered that?
How do you get her to feel the same way about you and like you?
Have you ever been there? Do you know what I’m talking about? It’s frustrating, right? It can make your ideal relationship feel out of reach.
You’re about to learn 10 psychological secrets to get her to like you. And they have the power quite literally to change everything for you.
➡️ These secrets are incredibly effective, and they’re based on science.
That’s the best part. Many people feel like they have to use mind games to attract a partner. When in reality, if you’ve been following me for a while, you know they don’t work.
Mind games don’t work. And in reality, I can’t figure out why anyone would use a mind game.
Because when you know the science-based secrets I’m sharing with you, there’s no reason why you would even consider mind games.
Now, some of the most important secrets I’m sharing with you are at the end of this article.
And the most surprising is the very last one. So make sure you stay with me until the end so you don’t miss out on this crazy awesome secret. 💡
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to resource to learn how to find, attract, and keep the love of your life without mind games or drama. We’re talking about finding your special someone who knows everything about you and absolutely adores you.
Your Mindset Is Key
Now, as we go through this list of psychological secrets to get her to like you, I want you to do two things for me, okay?
First, you’ll notice things that you’re already doing or doing to a certain extent. And I want you to celebrate that! 🎉
You need to pay attention to your wins and enjoy them. That’s the first thing I want you to do, okay?
The second thing is I want you to also pay attention to the things that maybe you’re not doing right now or haven’t quite figured out yet.
I want you to pay attention to those things and honestly recognize how you can improve.
This is one of the best ways to become the most attractive person you can possibly be.
All attractive people have to notice what they can work on and actively work on them.
👉 Just being aware of that and being willing to acknowledge and improve will automatically make you an even more attractive person.
So again, two things. Number one, notice what you’re doing right and celebrate it. Number two, notice where you can improve and make the commitment to yourself and your future relationship to improve.
Have you got that? Are you with me? All right, let’s dive into our 10 psychological secrets to get her to like you!
As we dive in, I have two other videos that will also help you so much with this.
If you haven’t yet seen this video on 11 things men do that make women melt and this video on how to attract women deeply, make sure you check both of those out.
10 Psychological Secrets To Get Her To Like You #1 – Know What To Say
Psychological secret number one is to know what to say before you’re in a situation where you’re trying to approach her or talk to her or before you’re on the date.
A lot of people think, “Well, you know, I’ll just prepare once I meet her.” That’s the worst thing you could do.
That’s the best way to make a really bad impression. 😬 And that’s not what you want.
A little preparation goes a long way. And something that you would totally unintentionally say because you weren’t prepared beforehand can make you miss out on the opportunity of getting to know a gal better.
If something makes her feel awkward, even if it’s unintentional, it’s over because it put her in a vulnerable situation. And even if there was attraction growing there, it’ll end there.
However, when you go into a situation prepared and know what to say and how to say it, not in a memorize-certain-lines kind of way, just understanding how to have a fun, exciting, and flirty conversation, it does two things.
Number one, it makes you feel confident. You’ll feel self-assured. And when you bring that to the situation, you’ll feel like a rockstar and be a rockstar. 🔥
The second thing it will do is make her feel comfortable when she’s with you.
If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve heard me say this a million times. People like people who make them feel good.
And if she feels safe and comfortable with you while also being excited and attracted to you, she feels good when she’s around you. And she’ll want to spend even more time with you.
This is why small talk, how to flirt, and how to carry on a conversation are things I teach you in detail in my Academy. It’s important for you and her.
So the last thing you want to do is wing it and embarrass yourself. Instead, prepare beforehand. 💡
Secret #2 – Positivity
Our second psychological secret to get her to like you is to have a positive attitude.
Have you ever known someone who everybody wants to be their friend? Most of us have. They’re just fun to be around.
And when you’re with them, life feels like a better place. You feel energized, excited, and happier. 😀
Everyone wants to be around someone like that. As a matter of fact, this is one of the traits that I call attractive by default.
When you have “attractive by default” traits, you’re quite literally just attractive. Like, that’s your default setting. You can’t help it you’re just attractive no matter how you look at it.
And a positive attitude is one of the most attractive traits a person can have.
If you’re looking for a happy, lifelong relationship, to be crazy in love your entire life, then this trait is the very best you can learn.
Because she wants to be around someone who makes life easier. Someone who rolls with the punches and laughs at the little things and laughs at themselves. Someone enjoyable to be around.
➡️ So having those little daily habits that help you create a positive attitude, that right there makes you attractive by default.
Secret #3 – Move At The Right Pace
Our next psychological secret to get her to like you is to make sure you move at the right pace in the relationship so that you’re not needy.
Being needy ruins attraction insanely fast. And in addition to that, it doesn’t feel good to be needy. She doesn’t feel good, you don’t feel good, and it’s just not a good situation.
Now, one of the best ways I teach my clients to avoid being needy is to move at the right pace in the relationship.
You don’t want to rush the relationship because that puts too much pressure on both of you.
When I teach you how to avoid being needy in my academy, I say over and over again to not marry her before you marry her. 💡
What in the world does that mean? We tend to emotionally marry someone before we even know who they are.
This is a totally normal thing we do as humans. We see somebody cute, infatuation kicks in, and we decide, “Oh my goodness, they must be the love of my life and the one I’m supposed to marry!“
And then emotionally, we’re married to them. It makes us rush the relationship and put a lot of pressure on the other person because you’re acting like she’s your wife. When in reality, maybe you’ve been on a couple of dates.
And so it causes you to act needy. You’re acting like she’s your wife when she’s not.
So moving at the right pace instead shows confidence, shows self-respect and shows respect for her. ✅
Many people without meaning to act very needy. If you’re the exception, if you’re not needy, you’re just confident while also showing attraction and interest for her, that’s hot!
You don’t have to be needy to show interest. And when you understand that balance, holy moly, you’re so attractive.
She feels safe with you and wants to spend even more time with you. As opposed to if you act needy, that’s exhausting, and she’ll walk away.
Secret #4 – Show Her You’re A Good Partner
Our next psychological secret is to show her that you’ll make a great partner. This is critical.
Many men think that they’re not attractive. They struggle maintaining relationships, or maybe they even struggle to get the first date.
Maybe they get ghosted a lot, or their relationships just seem to crumble before their eyes, and they have no idea why. 🤔
And so they think that maybe they’re just not attractive.
When in reality, almost every time, it’s actually that she just can’t see that you’ll be a good partner.
I’m not saying you won’t make a good partner. But if she can’t see that you’ll make a good partner, then she’ll assume you won’t and move on.
As humans, it’s our responsibility to let the other person know when we’re dating and getting to know them that we’ll make a good partner. Just like it’s her responsibility to let you know that about her.
If you’re someone who maybe doesn’t even struggle to get women’s attention, but you struggle to maintain a relationship, this is your problem. And this is what you need to fix. 💡
Showing her that you’ll make a good partner is critical if you want that lasting, loving relationship. That’s why this is what my entire Academy is about.
It’s Time To Break Past What’s Holding You Back From Your Dream Girl
So I have a question for you:
Do you wish you could stop wasting your time on relationships that go nowhere?
Are you ready to finally have that special, beautiful woman that you get to come home to every night?
No more getting your hopes up only to have them crushed.
➡️ Instead, you have a wonderful, beautiful woman who showers you with kisses and loves the real you.
Is that what you’re looking for? Is that what you’re ready to get?
If that’s you right now, if you’re nodding your head yes, then I created my Academy specifically for you.
That’s where I walk you step-by-step through how to have that kind of relationship. The relationship you want and that you deserve.
The truth is, you can just keep guessing what will work. You can just keep trying things and hoping that eventually something actually works.
Or you can just let me teach it to you.
I’ve put in the years of research. This is what I’m good at. And I can share it all with you so that you don’t have to guess anymore and go through the awkward trial and error period where there’s a lot of room for failure.
You can just know upfront how to be successful in relationships. You don’t have to guess anymore. You can finally know. ✅
So to learn more about this, what I teach, and why it works so that you can get a jumpstart and be ahead of the game and finally have the love you want, watch my free masterclass now.
In this short free training, I’ll explain to you the strategies that help you melt her heart forever and make her want a loving, lasting relationship with you.
So again, watch this short free masterclass, and learn your next steps so that you can finally have the love you want and the love that you deserve!
Secret #5 – Dress To Empower Yourself
Okay, our next psychological secret is to dress to increase your confidence and attraction.
I call this dressing to empower. The way you dress quite literally has the power to increase more confidence in you, to build your confidence. 💪
It also has the power to turn her head and make her feel even more attracted to you.
One reason is because you look amazing. Another reason is because it actually changes how you feel. So it changes how you act when you’re around her.
As a matter of fact, research shows that when we don’t look our best, we are less likely to flirt. We’re less likely to interact with someone we think is cute.
So you must set yourself up for success by dressing to empower.
Secret #6 – Pursue Her Correctly
Our next psychological secret is to pursue her. Nothing is quite as attractive as when a man pursues a woman. ❤️
When this is done correctly, holy moly, it melts her heart, gives her butterflies, and makes her feel safe with you. She sees you as a confident, masculine, strong, protective man.
And that’s one of the reasons why it’s such a big part of what I teach you when you join me in my Academy.
It has so much power to increase your confidence and make her feel even more attracted to you.
And that’s one of the best benefits, by the way, is it does actually increase your confidence. Because you finally know how to pursue her, how to melt her heart.
So many people, when they’re afraid to pursue, it’s simply because they don’t understand the correct way to do it. But don’t let that stop you. That’s something you can learn. 👈
Secret #7 – Remove Toxic People From Your Life
Okay, this psychological secret will surprise many people. This secret is to get rid of the toxic influences in your life.
If you’ve been following me for a while, you know we talk a lot about toxic women and why you should avoid them.
As a matter of fact, if you haven’t yet seen this video, check it out. It’ll help you better understand this.
It’s so critical for you to avoid toxic people. However, high-quality women avoid toxic people in their lives as well.
And if she sees that there are toxic people in your life, she’ll run as fast as she can. 😬 She does not have time for drama. She does not want that in her life.
And so if she sees toxic family members, friends, or people in your life, she’s done.
So just like you want her to eliminate all the toxic relationships from her life, you must make sure you’re doing that in your life as well.
When she sees a man who has enough self-respect to set those boundaries, holy moly, that says you’ll make a good partner, and it’s incredibly attractive to her.
Secret #8 – Flirt With Her Correctly
Okay, our next psychological secret to get her to like you is to flirt with her.
Now, this sounds a little obvious, but you’d be surprised how many people completely overlook the power of flirting.
➡️ Flirting, when done correctly, makes a relationship exciting and fun. And it’s a very natural, simple way to pursue her. And we already talked about the importance of pursuing, right?
When you understand the correct way to flirt with someone, it makes both of you feel more attractive and more attracted to the other person. And that attraction just grows and flourishes very naturally.
Now, something I share with my clients when I teach you how to flirt in my Academy, is that flirting is something you should do throughout your entire relationship.
It’s not just for the initial stages, getting her number, and going out on a date. Flirting is one of the best ways to keep the spark alive forever. ❤️
So it’s best to start right now, to get really good at it. That way it’s automatic throughout your entire relationship.
Secret #9 – Create Confident Habits
Our next psychological secret is to create habits of confidence.
Many people think that confidence just happens or that only some people are born with it.
But in reality, we’ve learned that confidence is something we create. It’s something we can create and build in ourselves.
We either create and maintain it, or we don’t. That’s the difference between a confident person and someone who’s not confident.
This is why learning and maintaining habits of confidence is so crazy effective. 💡 Even people who’ve struggled for years with low self-esteem and confidence can turn it around incredibly quickly.
That’s why the fastest result men see in my Academy is confidence. I mean, who wouldn’t want to be more confident?
And it’s all in your daily habits. If you create confident habits, you create a confident life.
This will make you more attractive in so many ways. It’ll help you feel more confident in your own skin, and you’ll naturally present yourself better.
And let me just say, confident men, are attractive men. All those little details fit into place, and it’s one of the best psychological secrets you can be in on.
Secret #10 – Learn How To Set Your Relationship Goals
Okay, our next psychological secret might shock you because most people don’t even begin to think about it. 👇
This psychological secret is to know what you want in a relationship and learn how to create that kind of relationship.
Nothing is less attractive than someone wishy-washy. Someone who doesn’t know what they want or how to get it. And so they settle for whatever relationship they end up in.
That is a recipe for a miserable, unhappy life and relationship. ❌ No one wants to feel settled on. And if you settle on a bad relationship, you’re not being true to yourself either.
However, when someone knows what they want, and they’re committed and willing to do what it takes to get that kind of relationship, that kind of person is so fun to be in a relationship with.
Because you can work together to create that dream, ideal, amazing, loving, relationship.
Someone driven, committed, and dedicated is incredibly attractive.
This is why the first module of my Academy teaches you how to set your relationship goals and break past any limiting beliefs that are keeping you from reaching your dream girl.
And obviously, the entire Academy teaches you the rest of the steps for how to get that kind of relationship.
It’s so critical that you start with the right mindset so that you’re setting yourself up for success. 🚀
10 Psychological Secrets To Get Her To Like You – Final Thoughts
If you want her to know you’ll be a good partner, you must know what you want and how to create it.
Set those relationship goals, and then have a good plan for how you’ll reach them.
➡️ Now, the natural next question is, how do you know if you have a good plan, right?
Because the last thing you want is to think you have a good plan and then have it not work out and not lead you to the relationship you want. That would be terrible.
As a coach who’s helped thousands of men across the globe, I’ve put that good plan together for you.
You can try to figure it out on your own, or you can let me teach it to you so you have all the answers up front.
Are you ready for the fast track to the love of your life so you can finally get kisses from a beautiful woman?
Watch my short 38-minute free masterclass now, so you know your next steps to get the love of your life. ✅
Why in the world would you wait when you can know your next steps and have a clear path and just 38 minutes? Make sure you watch that today.
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