The No Contact Rule (3 Powerful Secrets!) ➡️ Does the no contact rule really work? Should you use the no contact rule after a breakup? Is it a good idea to use the no contact rule with your ex after being dumped?
All good questions and this video has your answers. Whether you’re thinking about using the no contact rule to get her back or if you’re wondering what it even is, the secrets you learn in this video will help you finally understand how to use the no contact rule effectively. 💡
Until you understand these secrets you’re going to feel frustrated. It’s time to pull back the curtain and discover the truth! Are you ready? ❤️ Let’s get started!
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The No Contact Rule (3 Powerful Secrets!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on the no contact rule, 3 powerful secrets you must know today. 💡
What is the no contact rule? Does it work? Should you use the no contact rule after a breakup or get her back?
These are all great questions, and in this article, you’ll get the answers. And let me just say, it might surprise you!
➡️ You’re about to discover 3 powerful secrets that will help you whether you’ve thought about using the no contact rule or not.
I also have a bonus tip for you at the end of this article. So make sure you stay with me until the end.
Before we dive in, welcome! My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I’m your go-to resource to learn how to find, attract, and keep the love you want without mind games or drama.
So if you’re looking for a loving, lasting, lifelong relationship, make sure to keep reading. ✅
Many people try to use the no contact rule to retract someone, make them miss them, or get their attention again as they pull away.
Secret #1 – What Is The No Contact Rule?
So let’s start these secrets off by talking briefly about what the no contact rule is.
It’s what it sounds like. No contact of any kind. This means no social media interaction, avoiding seeing them in person, no texting. It means absolutely no contact.
Now some people say 30 days, some people say 60, some people say 90. But basically, it’s having zero contact with a person on purpose.
And this leads us into our first secret, our first powerful secret for the no contact rule.
👉 This secret is that you should only use the no contact rule if you don’t ever want to talk to or see this person again.
The truth is, the no contact rule can be an incredible tool. If you’ve been in a toxic relationship, if there’s someone unkind to you, if you don’t want anything to do with them anymore, whether you’ve dated or not, the no contact rule is perfect. It’s exactly what you should do in that situation.
This is the only effective way to use the no contact rule. Many people try to use it for other things like reattracting, which doesn’t work. We’ll talk about that in a moment.
Why The No Contact Rule Doesn’t Work
The problem is that most people think that the no contact rule is a fix-all. That it’ll make her want you again. That it’s the “Perfect solution to get your ex back.” Many people think that it’ll make you less needy.
But the truth is, it’s just a band-aid. It won’t get to the root of the problem. ❌ You’re not addressing what made you needy in the first place.
This means if you do get back together, that drama cycle will start all over again.
The reason why is because you haven’t gone to the source. You haven’t fixed what made you needy in the first place.
How to not be needy is something I teach in-depth in my Academy. Some of the best strategies I teach my clients are how to build confidence and self-respect.
You only feel needy when you feel desperate or rely on someone else for how feel about yourself.
So building your confidence and self-respect will help you so much with this. 💡
I also teach my clients how to move the relationship at the right pace and not give your heart too soon.
You deserve to protect your heart. Your heart is incredibly valuable. And when you understand how to do those things naturally, you’re not needy, and you won’t carry it into a relationship.
So remember that the no contact rule is not a cure-all. It won’t cure you of neediness. You must get to the root of the problem.
Another big mistake people make with the no contact rule is they try to use it on people they were never in a relationship with.
Maybe they tried to approach her, and it didn’t go well, or they tried to attract her, and it didn’t work. And they think that using the no contact rule on them will work. 😬
That’s not the solution. And this leads us to secret number two.
Secret #2 – Learn How To Attract Her Emotionally Instead
Secret number two for the no contact rule is to focus on attracting her instead of ending contact.
If she’s attracted to you, if she sees you as the person she wants to get to know better and spend her life with, she won’t pull away.
If you’re interested in her, cutting all contact will never make her interested in you.
As a matter of fact, if she thinks you’re playing a mind game with her, it will ruin any chance you have with a high-quality woman.
Many people will try to get a girl’s attention, and if it doesn’t work, they’ll end all contact.
But this doesn’t make her want you more. Instead, it makes her think that you understood she wasn’t interested and moved on.
➡️ So the solution is to learn how to attract a woman in a way that makes her want a lifelong relationship with you. To make her so attracted to you that she wants to spend her life with you.
Usually, the reason women turn a man down is they aren’t attracted to him emotionally.
Even if she’s attracted to you physically, if she’s not attracted to you emotionally, or if something happened that’s made her feel uncomfortable, the attraction is over. She’s done.
So instead, when you learn how to attract her emotionally and physically and make her feel safe with you, that’s your game changer.
That’s the solution you’re looking for, instead of ending contact, which doesn’t work anyway.
That’s your ultimate solution and the fastest way to avoid heartbreak and embarrassment.
If you haven’t heard about my Academy, this is where I walk you step by step through exactly what you need to know to find the love of your life and melt your dream girl’s heart forever. ❤️
You’ll learn how to attract her emotionally, physically, and make her feel safe with you. And how you can create the foundation to build the relationship of your dreams.
If you’re tired of exhausting mind games that only make you feel empty inside, it’s time for you to finally learn how to be successful in love.
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You owe it to yourself to finally have the secrets to a loving, lasting relationship. So make sure you watch that free masterclass today.
Secret #3 – Relationship Drama Is Not Normal
Our next secret about the no contact rule is that you deserve a relationship without drama.
I want you to always remember something. Always remember that you matter, that your feelings matter, and that you deserve respect.
You deserve to feel safe in a relationship and not feel like you have to play silly mind games.
A relationship where you have to “play hard to get” and “end contact” and “pull away” is an exhausting, empty relationship. There’s no closeness in a relationship like that.
The only time the no contact rule will get a woman’s attention and reattract her is when she’s a toxic woman. 😬
High-quality women don’t play mind games because they respect themselves and they respect you. They don’t have time for mind games.
However, what many people don’t understand is that the no contact rule and mind games of this sort can temporarily get the attention of a toxic woman.
Why is that? It’s because the only thing toxic women care about is their ego.
She doesn’t want it on her record that you rejected her. So she comes back, gets your attention again because she’s got to have this list of guys who like her, and then she dumps you.
You don’t want that. ❌ Playing that game will only attract toxic women.
This is why so many people say that the no contact rule to reattract women works. When in reality, it doesn’t work for a high-quality woman.
You want to skip all that drama. You want to learn how to attract her emotionally from the start, so you don’t have to worry about drama. That sounds much less stressful, right?
I want you to imagine something for a moment. Can you imagine looking into your dream girl’s eyes and knowing she’s crazy about you? Looking into her eyes and knowing she knows everything about you and absolutely adores you. That’s what you want, right?
Many people are afraid that this kind of relationship isn’t real because they’ve never experienced it.
👉 Let me tell you, this kind of relationship is real. And when you know how to find it and create it together, you can have it too. This is what I created my Academy to teach you how to do.
Bottom line, please never feel like you have to settle for a relationship with drama because you don’t. You deserve a loving relationship without drama.
Bonus Secret – She Wants You To Be The One
Okay, are you ready for our bonus secret? The bonus secret for the no contact rule is that she wants you to be the one.
Sometimes it can feel like men and women are against each other. That we’re on opposite teams.
In reality, though, we have the same goal. We both want to love and be loved. ❤️
The reason it’s sometimes doesn’t feel this way is because toxic people do a lot of damage.
It can sometimes feel like everybody’s toxic. But in reality, it’s because toxic people cover a lot of ground.
And once you’ve been a victim of a toxic person even once, they’ve conditioned you to be that victim over and over again.
This is why I teach you the skills in my Academy to start repelling toxic women, so you can attract a high-quality woman instead.
Another reason we can feel like it’s “him against her” in relationships is that relationships are incredibly frustrating when you don’t know how to get what you want.
When you don’t see the whole picture, it’s incredibly confusing, right? But when you do see the whole picture, it’s simple and one of the happiest, most enjoyable things in your life. 🥰
So, my wonderful friend, are you tired of feeling like relationships will never work, that you have to bend over backward and settle?
And are you instead ready for crazy awesome, wonderful love? Then it’s time for you to learn the secrets that allow you to have that kind of love.
It’s time to learn the secrets that unlock the door to more happiness than you can possibly imagine. And I’m here to share these secrets with you!
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