How To Make Her Want You More! (So She NEVER Pulls Away!) ❤️ If you’ve ever wondered how to get a girl to like you or even how to make her fall in love with you, then today’s video was made for you!
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How To Make Her Want You More!
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article on how to make her want you more, so she never pulls away. ❤️
Have you ever been in a situation where you really cared for a gal, and you thought things were going pretty well?
Maybe she tells you that you’re a wonderful guy, or you have so many traits she’s looking for in a future partner.
You’re on cloud nine, you’re thinking everything’s great, and then all of a sudden, it falls apart, and you have no idea why.
She tells you she’s not ready for a relationship or that you should just be friends or whatever it is. And once again, you’re left alone.
You’re hurt, right? You’re just looking for love. You just want someone to love and someone who loves you.
You want a family. You want a future. And it’s incredibly heartbreaking when you try over and over again and it fails over and over again. ❌
Maybe you feel like you’re running out of time and don’t know how to have a lasting, loving relationship.
Does that sound like you? If yes, you’re in the right place!
You’re about to discover why this keeps happening and how you can turn it around fast, so you can finally hold the girl of your dreams forever. And no more pulling away. It’s time for lasting love.
Now, the tip I share with you at the end might be the most surprising. So make sure you stay with me until the end.
As we dive in, welcome! 👋 My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men. I’m your go-to resource to learn how to find, attract, and keep the love of your life all without mind games or drama.
So if you’re looking for a loving, lasting relationship, you’re in the right place.
With that, let’s talk about how to make her want you more!
Your Dream Relationship Does Exist
The first thing you need to know is that the kind of relationship you’re aching for does exist, and you can have it.
➡️ The kind of relationship where she knows everything about you and loves the real you. She treats you with respect and makes you feel alive.
You’re not asking for too much, and it’s not too late. You can still find, attract, and keep that kind of relationship.
And what I share with you today will help you be able to get that. We’re going to pave the way right here right now.
But before we get to the tips, we need to talk about why this happens.
What makes women pull away? 🤔 Why can you feel like everything’s going great, and then it falls apart?
The biggest thing for you to remember is that men and women are attracted differently.
We kind of all know this, right? Men and women think differently. Everybody knows that. But we forget to keep that in mind when it comes to dating, relationships, and attraction.
Most men assume that women are primarily driven by physical attraction. However, science shows us over and over again that that’s not the most important thing to a woman.
Don’t get me wrong, physical attraction is great, and it’s definitely essential.
As a matter of fact, there’s an entire module in my Academy where I teach you how to skyrocket your physical attraction very fast. 🔥 It’s that important.
However, if that’s the only thing you’re focusing on and putting all your attention into, you’ll be disappointed.
What’s more important to women is emotional attraction, being attracted emotionally. Even if she’s attracted to you physically, but not emotionally, it’s over. And this is what causes a relationship to fall apart.
What so often happens is a woman is attracted to a man physically. She wants to get to know him better and may even have a good time with him.
But that deeper attraction, that emotional attraction, isn’t there. This is what causes her to end the relationship and move on. 💔
And it can be with something as simple as approaching her to get her number. Or even if she’s been dating you for a couple of months or longer.
She’s looking for deeper emotional attraction. And if she can’t find it, she’ll stop wasting your time and hers.
So with that in mind, what’s the solution, right? We need to get to the solution.
And the solution is you must learn how to attract a woman on an emotional level, on that deeper level. That’s the only way you’ll be able to make her want you long-term.
✅ And the good news is, when that emotional attraction is there, that’s what helps her fall in love with you forever. She wants you to be the one. She wants that connection to be there.
So when you have that missing piece, you’ll be shocked by what a difference it makes. That’s how to make her want you more.
Now, emotional attraction is something I teach you in detail how to do in my Academy. And we’ll be going over some of the most important things right now in this article.
So are you ready to dive into these secrets? Let’s get started!
How To Make Her Want You More #1 – Remove Toxic Influences
The first thing you must know about how to make a woman want you more by creating that emotional attraction is that you must remove all toxic people and habits from your life. 💡
If you’ve followed me for a while, you know that we talk about the signs of toxic women and how you need to avoid them, right? Because toxic people tear you down and make you feel terrible.
As a matter of fact, if you haven’t yet seen this video on the signs of a toxic woman, save yourself some heartache and give it a watch.
Just like you need to avoid toxic women, she’s making sure that you don’t have any toxic traits and are not hanging out with any toxic people.
High-quality people spend a lot of time and energy distancing themselves from toxic people because they’re incredibly destructive.
So even if you’re not toxic, but she sees that your friends or family are, she’s done. 😬 Maybe you defend their behavior and don’t set boundaries. Or maybe you even try to justify their bad behavior.
She doesn’t want anything to do with a situation like that. Because the truth is, you wouldn’t either if you were in her shoes, right?
The same is also true with toxic habits. The way I like to explain this in my Academy is there are toxic people, and there are toxic habits.
Now, toxic people are hurtful, harmful people who purposefully hurt others. However, most people aren’t toxic. But everybody does have some toxic habits because we’re human.
There are things that we don’t mean to do that aren’t good. Being short-tempered, impatient, things like that.
➡️ However, the people actively working to improve, trying to better themselves that way, those are the kind of people others want to be in a relationship with.
So it’s important that one, you remove toxic relationships from your life, and two, you notice toxic habits and try to eliminate them. Just like you want her to do as well.
#2 – Learn How To Create A Happy Relationship
The next thing you must know about how to make her want you more, is you need to show your maturity by learning how to create a happy, loving relationship.
Here’s relationship 101: it takes two people trying to make the relationship work to have a good relationship. It always requires both. 👈
If you have one who’s trying and one who’s not, it won’t be a happy relationship. If both are not trying, it also won’t be a happy relationship.
It requires both people trying to create and maintain love and happiness to create an ideal relationship. That makes sense, doesn’t it?
Here’s the key: a high-quality woman is actively learning how to create that relationship. And she wants to develop those habits with you.
If she sees though that you don’t know how to do that as well, then that’s a bad bet, right? That won’t be a balanced relationship at all.
She must see that you’re willing, ready, and prepared to create a beautiful, wonderful relationship. ❤️
Because the truth is, relationships are some of the most powerful things in our life, right? They create the most happiness or the most pain.
And so she wants to make sure, just like you, that everything’s in place for a relationship to work together.
How Do You Create The Right Relationship Habits?
Now here’s the critical part. You must learn these things starting now.
Many men say, “I don’t know any women right now, so I’ll just wait until I meet some, and then I’ll learn these things.” ❌ The problem is it doesn’t work that way.
She’ll notice if you know how to have a good relationship and have the right habits and skills right from the start. So you’ll be light years ahead by learning these things now.
Many men assume that there just aren’t any good women around. When in reality, they’re not showing or creating emotional attraction.
They’re not showing her that they know how to create a healthy, happy relationship. And this causes high-quality women to pass you by immediately.
This makes many men think there just aren’t any good women, when in reality, without knowing it, they’re pushing good women away and attracting toxic women. And that’s not what you want.
➡️ All of that can be completely avoided by just taking the initiative right now to learn the things you need to know.
If you’re serious about a loving, lasting relationship, you must learn these things now.
If you’re wondering how to do this, where to go, and where you find accurate information that’s science-based from a Christian perspective, my Academy was made for you!
If you’ve never heard about my Academy before, this is where you go to learn everything from pursuing to flirting, to online dating, to meeting in person.
I also teach you how to create a connection with her and attract her on the deepest level, so you turn her head, melt her heart, and make her want to love you forever. 🥰
To learn more so you can know how to be successful in love, watch my free masterclass. That’s where you’ll learn what it is, why it works, and how it works.
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That would be amazing, right? Do yourself a favor, save yourself from heartache, and click here now and watch my free masterclass today.
#3 – High Standards
Okay, the next thing you need to know about how to make her want you more might surprise a few people. This is to have high standards.
Let me illustrate this real fast with a story. 👇
My friend went to a restaurant the other day to pick up some takeouts. As she was waiting for her food, there was a table a little across the way.
There were some guys there, and she thought they were cute. And she started thinking, “How can I get these guys to notice me?“
And as she was thinking about this, she suddenly started noticing what they were talking about, and it made her uncomfortable.
There was a little bit crass, a little bit inappropriate conversation, some suggestive things. And you know what happened? The attraction she initially had for them died. 😬
She went from, “How can I get them to notice me?” to “I’m so not interested.“
Here’s what you must remember: a high-quality woman always asks herself, “Will he be a good, loyal husband? Is he going to love me forever? Will he be a good father to our children?“
And if you’re swearing up a storm and talking about suggestive things, and if you’re crass or crude, that’s not funny or appropriate.
That doesn’t make her say, “Ooh, he’d be an awesome father to my children.“
Instead, it makes her feel uncomfortable and that she can’t trust you. ❌ It makes her feel like you’d try to force her to do things she wouldn’t be comfortable with.
And here’s why: what we say is a direct result of what we think. So if you’re saying indecent things, you’re thinking them. And a high-quality woman will always say, “Nope, not interested,” and get away as fast as possible.
Now, the media and worldly influences try and make it sound sexy and attractive, but it’s the opposite of that. High-quality women are not looking for that.
➡️ Instead, what melts a woman’s heart, what’s truly sexy and attractive, what makes her say, “I’ve been looking for this man my entire life,” is a man who has high standards.
She wants a man who has enough confidence and self-respect to keep his thoughts and words clean. That man is a diamond in the rough.
That man is the prince charming every good woman has been dreaming about for as long as she can remember.
If you want a lady, you must be a gentleman. Otherwise, you’ll attract someone who’s not a lady who won’t love you.
So if you want a lady, you must be a gentleman. You must keep your standards and morals high. That’s how you melt her heart and how to make her want you more.
#4 – Build Your Confidence
The next thing you must know about how to make her want you more is to proactively build your confidence. 👍
Confident people are insanely attractive. This is one of the traits I call “attractive by default.” We’re naturally drawn to confident people.
Now, many people think that confidence is something some people are born with and others aren’t.
However, research has shown that we gain confidence. We can learn how to become confident by creating confident habits. That’s pretty cool, isn’t it?
Now, this part’s important, so pay close attention.
Often, people settle for unhappy, unfulfilling relationships because they don’t think they deserve more.
Their confidence literally causes them to settle for a less than ideal relationship.
Where if they had confidence, then they would believe they could have a high-quality woman. So it’s very critical that you create confident habits.
This is one of my favorite things to teach in my Academy. Because once you get that confidence boost, you start realizing that you can attract any kind of woman you want. ✅
Instead of settling for less than ideal relationships, you see yourself as a high-quality man who deserves a high-quality woman.
And when you do that, you’re able to attract her. You stop sabotaging yourself with feelings of self-doubt.
And the truth is, you deserve to feel that freedom and empowerment by being a confident person.
So remember, you must learn how to create confident habits and start applying them because you deserve to.
#5 – Be fun, not foolish
Okay, my next tip for how to make her want you more will definitely surprise some people. This tip is to make sure you’re fun, but not foolish.
There’s a big difference between being playful and fun, and just being painfully silly.
She’s looking for someone incredibly enjoyable to spend the rest of her life with. 😀 She wants to laugh with you. She wants you to be playful, masculine, and even a little bit childlike.
These traits are incredibly endearing. But there’s a big difference between being childlike and being childish.
She doesn’t want to feel like she’s babysitting you. That’s incredibly painful and will make her move on very quickly.
Now, where this problem started was back in school. The person who could do the stupidest thing got the most attention. But the truth is, it was never attractive, it just got attention.
And many people carry that mindset into their adult years, and adult women are definitely not looking for that.
It’s impossible to have a meaningful conversation with someone making light of everything and turning everything into a stupid joke. ❌
She must know that she can count on you, that you’re a mature adult, not a little boy.
She needs to feel a connection, and she can’t if everything’s super silly. Acting stupid to be funny isn’t actually funny. It makes people uncomfortable.
So you must instead focus on being childlike, on being clever, being playful and fun, but not foolish or silly.
How To Make Her Want You More – What’s Next?
Okay, I have one last thing I need you to pay close attention to. I want you to remember that you deserve the relationship you’re longing for.
You deserve someone who loves the real you. You deserve someone you feel safe with, someone you can feel vulnerable around and know she’s got your back.
You deserve someone who gives you butterflies and makes you feel alive every day.
➡️ That kind of relationship is real.
As a coach, I see it all the time. It’s real, and you can have it. And I’m here to support and help you get that kind of relationship. To teach you the things you don’t know that keep you from that relationship.
If you’re watching this right now and are serious about finally having a lasting, loving relationship, the kind that lights your heart on fire and makes you feel alive, my Academy is the place for you.
Just click here and watch my free masterclass now to learn more. You deserve it. So do yourself a favor and learn how to get it.
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