What Women Want In A Man (Unexpected Secrets!) ❤️ If you’ve ever felt confused and frustrated by relationships and dating, this video is going to be a lifesaver!
➡️ What women think and what makes a man attractive to them is very different from what most men expect. You’re about to discover what women really want and it’s going to help relieve some stress and make you feel amazing.
What girls want in men and a relationship is actually pretty simple and you’re going to get some female psychology 101. ✅ Ready to dive in? Let’s get started then with What Women Want In A Man (Unexpected Secrets!)
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What Women Want In A Man (Unexpected Secrets!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on what women want in a man (unexpected secrets!)
And let me just say, today’s article will be a little different from how I usually do them.
Tell me this: do you ever feel a little self-conscious about some things? Are there things about you that make you feel like you won’t be good enough? 🤔
Maybe you’re afraid that your dream girl won’t think you’re good enough for her?
Are there things about yourself that make you feel like she won’t want you and so you’ll have to settle for less than you want in a relationship?
If you answered yes, then just know you’re pretty normal. You’re like everybody else on planet earth. 😅
And these fears and insecurities can make us terrified to have a relationship, right? It can be very paralyzing. It can also, like I mentioned, make you feel that you have to settle for less.
So in this article, I’m sharing some of the biggest fears about relationships and why you don’t need to be afraid of them anymore.
So get ready to relieve some stress and anxiety as I reveal to you what women want most in a man.
The secret I share at the end is one I get the most comments and questions about. So make sure you stay with me to the end, so that you know why you don’t have to worry about it anymore.
My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
➡️ I’m your go-to resource to learn how to find, attract, and keep the love of your life. We’re talking about your dream relationship. No mind games, no tricks, just real, incredible love.
As we get started with what women want in a man and the unexpected secrets about women, I have two other videos that’ll also help put those fears to rest.
Make sure you watch this video on how to make her want you more and this video on attractive things guys do without knowing it.
Now, are you ready to know what women want in a man? Let’s dive in!
What Women Want In A Man (Unexpected Secrets!) #1 – Losing Hair
So the first fear we’ll talk about that worries many men is when you’re losing your hair. Whether your hairline’s receding or your hair’s just thinning.
I’ll be honest with you. Some of the most attractive men I’ve ever seen have been bald. And I mean completely bald, as in completely shaved their head.
And they’re not just a little attractive. They’re like, holy cow, butterflies in your stomach, weak in your knees. These men are incredibly hot. 🔥 There is more to attraction than whether or not you have hair.
Yes, some women might be bothered by that more than other women. But you don’t have to attract all women, right? You’re looking for your one special someone. And if she’s the gal for you, it won’t bother her.
So if this is something you’re struggling with, I want you to remember something. And actually, this applies to everything else we’re talking about, so pay close attention. Are you with me?
Your attitude, mindset, and how you present yourself are so much more important than how you look. 💡
For instance, the reason bald men can be so attractive is that they rock it. They don’t let it hold them back. They don’t walk around thinking, “nobody will like me because I’m bald.“
Instead, they rock their body language and confidence, how they interact with women and pursue them. And when they do that, it makes them incredibly attractive.
They’re still working on being attractive instead of just giving up because they’re losing hair.
With that being said, I’ve known other men who are losing hair who just gave up instead of continuing to work to be attractive. And anyone who gives up stops being attractive.
👉 I’m sure you’ve noticed that in women. If a woman just gives up, she’s no longer attractive either. Don’t ever let that define you.
Now I do have one suggestion, and this is just a suggestion. I obviously can’t tell you what to do.
Something to seriously consider is it almost always looks better to shave your head completely rather than trying to hide it. And yes, this applies even when you’re a little bit older.
If you’re at a point where it’s noticeable, and you can’t hide it anymore, trying to hide it just emphasizes it.
Instead, if you embrace it and shave it all off, that shows confidence and helps you present yourself confidently rather than trying to hide it and hoping nobody notices.
#2 – Crooked Teeth
Okay, next up for what women want, the next fear that many men have, is when you have crooked teeth, or not perfect teeth.
Please do not let this scare you. Many, if not most, people are a little self-conscious about their teeth in one way or another.
But here’s what you need to remember: your smile is so much more than your teeth. 😀
A smile is a way to connect with someone. It’s a way to show her that you’re confident and friendly.
And when someone smiles at us, there’s a chemical reaction that happens that makes us feel good and feel connected to that person.
So it’s okay if your teeth aren’t perfect. Nobody’s teeth are perfect. But by smiling anyway, you show her that you’re a safe person and someone fun to be around.
A quick story to illustrate this. Some of my favorite people on planet earth are Chip and Joanna Gaines. Chip’s teeth were not perfect when Chip and Joanna met.
➡️ But the interesting part is this impressed Joanna. She thought, “Wow, this guy is confident.“
When Chip decided to get his teeth capped, many people thought Joanna told him to do that, but it was Chip’s decision. That was something he wanted. She loved him a whether or not his teeth were capped.
Now, this does bring us to an interesting point. If it’s something you’re self-conscious about, and you want to fix your teeth for yourself, then do it. There’s nothing wrong with that.
So consider looking into something like that if this really bothers you. There’s no shame in that. 👍
As a matter of fact, usually, the very best teeth had some work done. For instance, I had braces for three years. So let me just say, there’s no shame in getting the work done on your teeth that you want.
What’s Holding You Back From Your Dream Girl?
Now, we obviously have a few other things to cover as well. Some fears to abolish.
However, at this point, you might be thinking, “Wow, this is pretty cool! But if that’s not what’s keeping me from the love I want most, then what is? If this isn’t what’s holding me back, then what is?“
Something I teach you when you join me in my Academy is that the kind of relationship you want most is real and you can have it.
As a Coach, I see this happen all the time. Your dream, your ideal happens every day, and you can have it.
All you need to know is what’s holding you back so you can turn it around and quickly have the love you’ve always wanted and that you deserve. 💡
This is what my Academy is about. And the truth is, always, always remember this: a high-quality woman wants to love you.
The little things that might bother you really don’t matter that much to her. Because she cares about who you are as a person.
And the truth is, everyone thinks we have to be perfect for someone to love us. But the truth is, those little flaws or imperfections we see in ourselves are often part of what makes other people attracted to us.
None of us want to marry someone perfect because we’re not perfect either. So a high-quality, good woman who’s looking for a lifelong relationship, she wants to love you.
➡️ So with that in mind, what’s not working? What’s holding you back? What is stopping you from having your loving, lasting relationship?
I put together a free masterclass for you to teach you 3 secrets that you must know.
You’ll learn what’s holding you back and how to break through it so you can finally have that loving, lasting relationship.
You’ll also learn more about my Academy when you decide you’d like to work with me more there.
This is where I go in-depth, step by step, exactly how to have the loving, lasting relationship that you can have if you just knew how.
To watch this free training, learn what’s holding you back, and how to move forward, just click here and get started now. ✅
You owe it to yourself to learn what’s holding you back so you can stop feeling out of options and finally feel the freedom of holding the love of your life close every single night.
So don’t put this off. Watch that free masterclass now.
#3 – Weight Gain
The next thing you must know about what women want and another big fear many men have is when you gain weight.
No matter how hard we try, sometimes stress hits, or we don’t eat as good as we would like, or whatever it is. And sometimes we gain some weight.
Let me tell you a quick story. 👇
There’s another fixer-upper show I like in addition to Chip and Joanna’s show. And on this show, there’s a member of the team who has a little bit of a potbelly.
Regardless, he’s hands down one of the most attractive men I’ve ever seen. Why is that? How does that work? Well, it’s for several reasons.
One, he does still try to take care of his appearance. And he rocks what he has even while dealing with a little bit of unwanted weight. He’s also a very playful, jolly, and fun person.
Now, does this mean you shouldn’t worry about health whatsoever? No. You should always be working to improve your health.
We want the people we care about to be healthy, obviously. And also, health is naturally the most attractive to people.
So I’m not saying to not worry about your health. I’m saying it’s okay if you’re on a journey because everyone is, including your dream girl. 💡
Weight fluctuates for everyone, even after you’re in a relationship. And that’s okay.
If she’s a high-quality woman, she’ll love you through the ups and downs instead of rejecting you if you have some weight gain. It happens.
So the key is to focus on making a woman fall in love with you. This is why in my Academy, you learn how to attract a woman on the deepest level so that she’s so crazy about you she falls madly in love with you.
❤️ If she’s so smitten by you that she wants to spend her life loving you, a little or a lot of weight gain won’t change that.
#4 – Being Short
Okay, the next thing you need to know about women, another big fear men have, is if you’re short.
Many men worry that if they’re short, they won’t attract a beautiful woman.
Some of the most attractive men I’ve ever seen have been incredibly short. And I don’t mean a little short. I mean really short.
In all honesty, that’ll deter some women because they prefer taller men. However, I’ve known plenty of women who that doesn’t stop them from loving a guy at all.
As a matter of fact, there are many marriages where she married someone shorter than her. And that’s not a deal-breaker for her.
➡️ Again, you’re looking for one woman. You don’t have to attract every woman on planet earth. Anyone who says they’re capable of doing that is delusional. That’s not how it works.
I’m about to say something very important. Pay close attention.
Never, ever lead with something you feel self-conscious about. Always, always, always lead with your strengths. Lead with what you’re rocking.
If a man is short and feels super self-conscious about that, and he becomes defensive and bitter, that’s the real reason women aren’t attracted to him. I’ve seen this happen a million times.
However, if a man is short but he rocks it, and he’s learned how to read body language, be charismatic, pursue correctly, and connect with her emotionally, that man is hot.
So remember not to focus on the things you feel self-conscious about, but instead rock what you’ve got. ✅
This is again something I walk you through in my Academy when you decide to join me after watching my free masterclass.
#5 – Money
The next thing that makes many men nervous is not making as much money as they think they should.
Many men are afraid that if they don’t make a certain amount of money, a woman will stop loving them. Have you maybe wondered that and felt that too? 🤔
There’s a massive misunderstanding about this, so I’ll speak very, very upfront. Are we good with that?
Money is important to live. We need it to thrive, right? It doesn’t matter how many good intentions we have, those intentions don’t make a mortgage payment.
Money is something that you need as much as she does. It makes a relationship much less stressful and helps love grow naturally because you don’t have stress and worries.
She does not want to marry someone who’s okay letting her and her children go without. That does not sound like a happy marriage at all, right?
However, with that being said, there’s a big difference between a man who says, “No, I can make $20,000 a year, and my kids and wife can go without, and I’ll just sit on my couch and watch TV and eat chips.” 😬
There’s a big difference between that man and a man who maybe is struggling to make ends meet. But he’s working so hard and trying to move forward in his career as best he can, even if he’s struggling.
That’s a man she can trust because he’s trying. That’s a man who has drive and ambition. That’s a man who’s always trying to create a better life.
And that kind of man is an attractive man because he has inner strength. 🚀
So there’s a big difference between a man who’s okay being poor and lazy versus a man who’s just trying his best, even if he doesn’t make a massive paycheck.
With this understanding upfront, if a woman just cares about how much money you make, she’s toxic.
Because to a toxic woman, it’s not about you. It’s about her status and how you make her look. She doesn’t actually care about you at all.
👉 And that’s something very important to remember with all the secrets I’ve been sharing with you. If a woman makes you feel small or like you’re less for any of these things, she’s toxic.
Anyone belittling people for things like weight, hair loss, etc., is toxic. Point-blank, there’s no other explanation.
However, when she’s a high-quality woman and really in love with you, those little things just don’t matter to her.
What Women Want In A Man (Unexpected Secrets!) – Next Steps
So what do these secrets tell us? This tells us that the very most important thing you can do is learn how to attract a woman in a way that makes her fall in love with you.
When you understand that, your wildest dreams are reachable. ❤️ This is exactly what you’ll learn when you join me in my Academy.
So if you’re tired of coming home to an empty house and you’re ready to wake up every morning next to the love of your life, it’s time for you to learn these secrets too.
Just click here and watch that free masterclass now, and learn how you can get started today.
It’s time for you to finally be free to have the love you want most. No more loneliness, it’s time for true love!
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