How to make her think about you obsessively! 😍 (5 secrets EVERY man can use!) THIS, my friend, is how to get a girl to think about you non-stop!
These simple secrets enchant her and make her long to be with you. If you’ve been wondering how to make a girl obsess over you, this video has your keys! Ready to know how to make girls think about you? Let’s dive in~
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How to make her think about you obsessively!
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Let’s talk about how to make her think about you obsessively. I’m sharing five secrets every man can use. What you’re about to discover, my friend is how to make a girl think about you nonstop. These simple secrets en chan her and make her long to be with you. Sound good? You ready to know how to make a girl?
Think about you. Let’s dive in. Oh, and ps, if you’re also wondering why you can really build attraction with a girl and then suddenly have it die and go nowhere, make sure you watch to the end, because I will be answering that question at the end of this video. Sound good? Okay. Let’s get to the first thing you can do to make her think about you obsessively.
Okay, so these are some huge secrets in the girl world, okay? These are things that give girls butterflies, that girls dream about. These are the things that are in Chick flicks and books and stuff that girls read. The reason being it really speaks to girls.
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So the first thing is to let her catch you looking at her and make sure you smile while you do that.
Now you obviously don’t necessarily have to smile all the time. Although there’s nothing wrong with a smile, but let her catch you looking at her. How does something girls dream about okay, of catching that cute guy looking at her and when you smile, it does a couple of different things. One, it’s. It, it, it implies that you like what you see.
It also makes you appear more friendly and open and approachable, and that really is a big deal to women. Women need to feel safe with you. And so rather than, you know, I’m doing the cool guy thing, you can do some of that too, but let her see you smile. A smile also helps us show that we’re confident, which is.
Even more attractive. So in her mind when she sees that really hot guy looking at her and smiling, this is going to play through her head over and over and over again. And yes, she’s gonna wanna tell all her friends until they’re sick of hearing about it. By the way, before we get to the next one, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell.
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Okay. The next thing you can do to make a girl think about you, to make her think about you nonstop is to say something sweet to her. It can be a compliment or even just reassuring her. These are, again, these are some of those secret things that girls dream about, that they talk about, that show up in a lot of the media and stuff that is created or entertainment and stuff that is created for women.
We all crave. Someone who supports us, someone who reassures us, someone who compliments us and helps us feel better about ourselves. Like why, what is it, what’s not to love, right? It can be a really simple compliment, like, wow, you look gorgeous today. Or your smile always makes me smile. Or, oh, you’re so smart.
Or it can be something that reassures her and comforts her, kind of that, Hey, I got your back kind of a situation. As humans, we tend to like people who do this as long as they’re not being needy. Whenever there’s a difference between complimenting and reassuring and being needy while you compliment and reassure, and it, it really tends to push people away when you do that.
And if you want to understand more about how to do that, how to flirt and help her see you as a masculine, attractive man without being needy, this is something I help you master in my academy. To learn more about that, just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. I’ll put a link in the description below and a link in the pin comment.
Okay. The third thing you can do to really just captivate her and make her think about you all the time is to do something nice for her, like opening the door, being a gentleman. Now with this one, I have some good news and some bad news. Let’s start with the bad news. The bad news is if you are trying to attract a toxic drama queen, this may not work.
But hopefully you’re not trying to attract a toxic woman, cuz that’s like, that’s like pure heartache right there. However, the good news is if you are not trying to attract a toxic woman, if you’re instead trying to attack a woman with class, someone who has high value, high morals, high standards.
Someone who is looking for forever love, who wants to treat you ridiculously well because she just adores you. If you’re looking for that kind of a woman, okay, this is really going to speak to her. So before you say Uhuh, girls don’t like it when you’re nice to them. That’s true if you’re talking about toxic women, women.
But if you’re talking about someone who has any kind of class, no, she actually adores it. Again, how many chick fl have the guy opening the door for the girl? It’s because she never gets over that longing for that protective white knight who takes care of her and who’s. Gentle and kind and compassionate.
And if you’re not quite sure what I mean by a toxic woman or what that even looks like, make sure you watch this video. I’ll put a link in the description below and if you’d like to learn a little bit more about being a gentleman and why that’s so attractive to women, make sure you watch this one. I will put a link in the description below for that one as well.
Okay, are you ready for the next way you can make her think about you obsessively this secret is to invite her to do things with you. It can be really easy to just never actually make that move or never actually Take it any further. Even this is even different than like hanging out with a group. You want to invite her to do something with you.
And the reason this works, the reason this like puts you on repeat in her head, really comes down to the masculine and feminine energy. A relationship between a man and a woman really needs that masculine and feminine energy. That’s what truly draws us to each other. That’s what gives us those butterflies.
That’s what helps keep that spark alive forever and helps us really need each other in healthy ways. Whenever you act masculine, it makes her feel so much more feminine and it gives her those butterflies and it makes her feel truly. Amazing with you, especially in a world where a lot of guys maybe aren’t doing that, that she might know.
And so it makes you the exception. It makes you exceptional, it makes you stand out and makes her just long to be in your sheltering presence. This is why pursuing is one of my favorite secret weapons that I share with my clients in my academy because when you show that masculine energy in that way, Holy cow gives her those butterflies and makes her think about you all the time and long to be with you more. That’s what you want. Right?
Okay. My next secret way to make her think about you is to truly listen to her and to let her know that you’re listening to her. As humans, we want to be understood, right? We want to actually matter to people. We want to feel like our feelings and what we say and our thoughts and ideas, we wanna feel like they matter to someone, and that they’re validated.
This is. Definitely true for women. That’s one of the reasons why women are always seen talking to each other, right? And so when she meets a man who actually cares enough about her to listen to her, shut up, that guy right there is a keeper. And it, it’s magical. It really matters to her.
So one of the ways, you know, you might be wondering, okay. So I can listen, but how do I let her know I’m listening to her? So the way you let her know you are listening to her is pay attention to what she’s talking about and then bring it up. It can even be in a completely different conversation. Maybe she was telling you about why she enjoys a certain TV show or why she.
What she loves most about her work or her favorite song or whatever it is. And then if you bring that up later on, it lets her know that you were truly listening to her and actually cared about what she has to say, and that feeling is truly magical. Okay. I have a quick question before we get to the next secret.
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Okay. My next secrets to make her think about you obsessively is to let her know that you are attracted to her. And again, you wanna make sure you’re doing this in a non-needy way. When you’re able to show a girl that you are attracted to her and you’re willing to be vulnerable enough to let her know that, again, in a non-needy way, it absolutely captivates her and it makes her crave being with you more.
This, again, comes down to that massive. Skill energy. When you are willing to be to, to, in a masculine, not needy way, show her you’re attracted to her. Pursue her in that way. It makes her feel protected by you. It makes her feel sheltered by you. She sees you as a strong, capable man that she can count on, and it’s irresistibly attractive.
It just melts her heart and makes her crave being with you more and more. So yes, you are going to play in her mind like crazy, and she can’t wait for the time where her phone lights up with your name or she gets to see you again.
How to make her think about you obsessively – Your Next Steps
So at this point, we have a very important question to answer. Have you ever wondered why sometimes attraction will start and then all of a sudden it just comes of.
Kind of fades instead of grows, and then ultimately the attraction just dies. If you ever wondered why that happens, this is especially frustrating, right? When you are longing for. Forever love. You don’t want dead end relationship after dead end relationship anymore, do you? Instead you just want that close, loving, forever tender relationship.
Does that sound accurate? Here’s why that happens, why the attraction will kind of get started and then it will just fade instead of grow. Attraction has to have something to keep it going. It just. Does and when we don’t know how to keep that attraction going and thriving. It will just die. The good news is once you do know how to keep it thriving and growing and really nurture it, then it blossoms into more happiness than you’ve ever felt before.
So the next question is, what do you do? Do you really nurture that love and keep it growing? Well, as a coach, this is what I teach you in my academy, and I have put together some free training for you. In my free masterclass, you’re going to learn three secrets. Most men will never know about women, and you need to know them asap.
This is like your shortcut. This is, these are, these are your secret weapons. So start there. Go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. I’ll put a link in the description below and a link. In the pins comment and if you do decide you would like to take it a step further and know all my juicy secrets and I have a lot of them, then you would want to join me in my academy.
And that’s something I’ll share with you how you can do in that free training as well. And I may or may not have a surprise for you there, so be sure you check it out. The truth is you deserve that forever. Love. You deserve to make her think about you. And then, Never have that attraction die, but instead have it bloom into her falling completely and deeply in love with you.
So make sure you watch that. Thank you so much for watching this video, my amazing friend. Be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell if you haven’t yet, and give me a big thumbs up. Make sure you share this with a friend. And if you’d like more videos like this, comment thinking to let me know.
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